Capricorn moons! They’re soooooooooooo affectionate! People don’t always see the caring and stable side of these people which is so crazy! If you’re crying they’re there. If you’re car breaks down they’re there. If you don’t have the strength to go on they don’t let you wallow in self pity they pick you up so you can try again! They’re ridiculously stable and I know it’s not vocal, I know it’s not the flowers and roses but they show you through there actions that they’d do anything for you! If you’re mad at them they stay by your side and wait for you to be ready-they’re patient and they never judge and that’s so wild to me because as hard as they are on themselves god you’d think they’d have some words for your ass but no they just build in silence!
They can nag and sure they can be huge worry worts but at the end of the day it’s because they want the best for you and because they know how cruel and unloving the world can be so they want you to have a shot-even if it’s a tiny one they want to create that opening for you. They struggle so much with the sappy emotions but the fact that even though they have all these walls and blocks up that they still try to open up and to let them down is what makes me love these people so much! They aren’t perfect but they try and that to me is so so soooooo amazing.
Romantically they’re so shy and I think they really do need some coaxing before they outwardly start showing any intrest but patience is always key here as often the more direct and assertive you are about your feelings the more responsive(albeit timid) they’ll become. They love romance and although they act like they don’t, they really want to have someone they can just kick with and let down there hair after that long day! They’re as sensual and horny as Taurus and just as critical and attentive as Virgo! They have a dominate nature to them and can be more of the leader in romance but they are huge providers and love to care for and nurture their partners
Overall these are wonderful people and although the less evolved ones can be a hardship in itself those who are evolved cap moons are extremly loyal and compassionate souls.
Neptune Through the Houses. 🌊 (To Sink Or to Swim)
Neptune in the 1st house:
Rae sremmurd - what’s in your heart
Rosemary fairweather - chemicals
The intangible persona.
Neptune in the first house natives are often caught between the need to be hidden in plain sight or being the center of everyone’s universe as if they were the sun itself. They’re delicate but also seem to evaporate the moment too many vibrations are experienced at once. These natives can channel the inner feelings of a crowd, a room, of the sky and the earth in all its light and dark shades like mediums. They feed off the unknown and project a reflection of what is given back to them which is often why they are seen as such an elusive character. Neptune in the first house natives have a profound magntetism and often they’re capable of completely morphing and “switching” on their spark, within moments having the entire room all in a trance like state. In many cases these natives can struggle with developing a healthy identity apart from what they absorb from their surroundings. These natives especially in the younger years can devour the energy of others as a means to create a persona for themlsves but this inturn usually forces them to bid the question of “who am I” one way or another. To say things get better for these natives would be a far cry, the raw and heavy energy of Neptune in this house is very powerful and these natives have the power to move a nation to its knees but the take away being that moving these natives to their knees is practically and impossible task. The emotions are felt universally but can be rather cumbersome when it come to what is individually felt by these natives. The endless sea in these natives albeit a wonderful quality is often something they find themselves sinking in.
Neptune in the 2nd house:
Blood cultures - phospholipid
Black marble - frisk
The Conceptual gaze
Neptune in the 2nd house natives are very much so the free spirits when it comes to the more mundane and grounded aspects of life. Money and security are more of a blurry and less fleshed out concept in this case as often they prefer to feel their way through things. As you can imagine “feeling” things out means that often their moody and somewhat evasive mentality can create financial hiccups every now and then. These natives have a very intuitive nature when it comes to money, often finding it to never come up short especially when they need it most. They can often have a very sensual and glossy atmosphere to them, preferring to hide in the clothing they wear rather than outright be flashy. In most cases these natives hide certain if not most aspects of their bodies-not necessarily out of rejection of themselves but merely to impose a symbolic boundary between them and their own surroundings. These natives love touch and can often be the types to use their fingers and limbs as a second nose in a way! Touch is a huge emotional sense of comfort for them. Simplicity is a huge need in their lives and something they strive for. They are the types to thrift and love bargains, you’d rarely catch them spending big as they often love the more vintage and old school Attire. Neptune in the 2nd house natives have a very pronounced earthy look to them and can always look as if they’re a bit sleepy even when they’re not. Glossy eyes and slightly messy hair is their dead give away. That being said boundary issues is often a big theme and they can get themselves caught in dangerous situations due to their lack of discipline in this area.
Neptune in the 3rd house:
Beach house - Black car
Ruby haunt - destroyer
The sleepover
Neptune in the 3rd house natives are very mentally active, often flashing between moments in time like they were some sort of camera. The past can be of great importance but also the source of the most lament for these natives. They often cling to memories and situations, holding people in their lives to the previous selves in an almost ritual like manner. These natives often idealize moments in time which is often what gravitates them to things like cinema, painting and of course photography. Capturing a moment in time and the endless array of feelings and sensations that came with it is a deep felt desire for these natives. More than most these natives love to dissociate and sort of transfer to their alter egos for a little bit just to escape from it all from time to time. Neptune in the 3rd house natives see the world in vibrant and often overwhelming colors, often experiencing the feelings of others as if they were experiencing the same exact situation. Moments of deja vu, and premonitions or even prophet like dreams are common ground and often I call these natives “gods voice” due to the fact that they can often sense or feel things that many can’t as if someone is directly messaging them or speaking to them on a spiritual level. These natives can smell negative energy and malefic energy swiftly and usually are able to discern someone’s character before they even have time to blink. The emotions tend to cloud their rational mind though and at times it can be so overwhelming that some of these natives rely on drug use as a means to drown out the “sound”
Neptune in the 4th house:
The holydrug couple - if I could find you
Yeule - pocky boy
The deep sea diver
For Neptune in the 4th house natives it’s less about the feeling and more about the experience that accompanies it. There can be an addiction to the more extreme level of emotional expression be it negative, positive, destructive, creative, transformative and so on. They value emotional honesty but in the same context could’ve grown up in an environment where emotional manipulation and emotional dishonesty ran rampant. In most cases the family life was deeply loving no matter the circumstances but there might’ve still been subtle unhealthy co-dependent behavior on the part of the parents. These natives can grow up so pure and gentle no matter the type of upbringing-Neptune here ensures that no matter what they come out of it good in faith and heart. Emotional intensity is a big theme for these natives and learning to focus and utilize their deep receptivity in a way that’s productive and positive can take time as often much of the early life will be spent putting their energy and time into people and situations that don’t benefit them. There is a powerful clarity presented here, these natives just seem to be intune with the universe and it’s workings and usually flow with the waves wherever they happen to be guided. There is a heavy sentimentality and often forgiveness of the home life and these natives no matter the 4th house cusp sign adore quiet and breezy home environments! To much clutter and noise can make them feel antsy and restricted. Recreational drug use can be a thing but normally it’s in a healthy amount unless Neptune is afflicted. Usually these natives can grow having a more blurry sexuality and because of this can struggle defining their wants and needs in their romantic unions. The heart makes the choices for these natives and albeit it gets them in trouble sometimes it’s one of there most endearing traits. Animals love these natives and tend to gravitate towards them! Wounded people and animals in general may feel at ease around these natives and in some cases they could pass in the presence of these natives(this isn’t a bad things as usually these natives soothe their souls and lead them to spiritual peace.) these natives can also bring out emotions in others they’d rather not readily experience so often times these natives may feel as though they can see through they veil people put up.
Neptune in the 5th house:
Pale honey - why do I always feel this way
Toro y moi - labyrinth
The bleeding clouds
For Neptune in the 5th house natives romance and the idea and concept of love can have the least grounded backing supporting it, often leaving these natives in a state of passion or confusion. Here we have the 5th house, our art is here, our expression and our playful side is here, this is how we have fun, the casual dates, the nights out with strangers and the guilty hookup, it’s your future babies via adoption or birds and the bees. Neptune is our spirit, our dreams, it’s the vulnerable side of us and the tears behind the tears. These natives can experience love like one long lasting and never ending crush often to frightened to ever act on their desires. Love is a bit tricky here as it’s often that they attract “vulnerable” types who have an elusive but also deeply tender nature to them-which to most people seems easy but it’s normally just the opposite! The natural playfulness of this house is sort of drowned and extinguished by Neptune’s watery presence so to speak. Often these natives are very picky about who and what they allow to keep them emotionally preoccupied which is for good reason as often some of the romance they attract is of the messy and unhealthy variety and many tend to be drawn to the healing and warm nature of these natives, never truly seeking to settle down, rather to leech and leech off the continued kindness of these natives instead. The art and hobbies of these natives can be endless, many love drawing, singing and even dancing so long as it’s a hobby that allows them to express their own inner love and passions in a creative and emotionally fulfilling way. Casual sex isn’t usually a thing here and often these natives will wait a pretty good while before losing their virginity! Usually they need something consistent and long term for sex to even be in the equation! Romantically they are very fun souls! Wanting to connect and vibe through energy. Their children can be rather sentimental souls with a highly functioning and self aware emotional side! The children can be a bit fragile health wise and might be a bit more harder to handle in the adolcent years and the neptunian energy will make those 18-21 years a more dramtic version of “finding yourself” (don’t worry they’ll get through it!) they can draw a lot of karma in their relationships and the learning of self love and self worth can come toe to toe for these natives! Love is not owed, love shouldn’t come with a price, Love is something that’s should be a naturally felt give and take on both ends.
Neptune in the 6th house:
Nearly oratorio - occlude
Prolly knot - perennial
The pale window
Neptune in the 6th house natives can be rather somber souls. The daily life is often a fickle one as they can feel as though their is a lack of organization or even grounding In there daily life. On one end the lack of navigation can feel as if they’re directionless but it can also feel a bit freeing, as if their destination is never really set in stone. A certain poetry exist in these natives as they often have such an incrediblely intoxicating aura as if you could be transferred to another space just by hearing them speak. Wisdom and opendmindedness are big traits here and usually these natives approach life without expectation or intent. Often times these natives can be mistaken as being shady or dubious due to their lack of projected “desire.” In reality these natives are passer by’s and aren’t really the types to have an alterior motives as evey choice and desire is something that happens more in the moment if anything. They are often immensely creative in their lives, finding solutions and even bypassing roadblocks that many would be stumped upon. Animals can serve as spritual guides and transformative life lessons for these individuals and in some ways animals help to ground them in this reality. There is a pronounced day dreamer nature to them which causes them to phase in and out quite a bit. Usually these natives need to have music and rhythmic sounds incorporated into there day to day be it listening to music at work or blasting the radio while they are cooking. It’s very, very hard for these natives to let someone do something on there own or even saying no which can cause them issues as they can be taken advantage of. These natives have very perceptive eyes albeit they usually don’t use them that much aha! But the eyes are often piercing in nature despite the watery disposition.
Neptune in the 7th house:
KWAYE - Little ones
James Isaac - can’t u see
The one everyone wanted
Neptune in the 7th house natives much like their sister Neptune in the 1st are enigmas. Neptune in the first deals with the ego whilst Neptune in the 7th deals with a much more hidden influence in our character, the ID. For Neptune in the 7th house natives there is a certain unavailability that shrouds them, both emotionally and physically. In most cases intimacy is sought after but it’s also something that’s fiercely yet unconsciously avoided. Partnership is dreamt about yet it’s never really seldom pursued in the real world. These natives have a very thin grip on their interactions with others which causes them to either give to much or give to little. They often can bring out the softer and even the more vulnerablely pure side of others which in some ways is what makes them so sought after! People fall for these natives rather quickly which can both alarm and fascinate them. Gender, sexuality, background all seem to fade into a blur in their interactions with others and most cases especially in same sex situations their lovers might’ve never been with the same sex until they met these natives. These natives can bring or dependent and even emotional sensitivity from even the coldest hearts. Despite their propensity for attracting everyone like a moth to a flame these natives can still battle depression and loneliness like the Black Plague. Happiness tends to allude them and mainly this is a self inflicted energy that they can’t seem to shake. Blessed with beautiful hearts they are destined to change a great many lives but in the process they might have to recover from more heart brakes than most as often their romances can be described as intense and powerful but deeply wounding. That being said romantically they often are very sacrificing and give their entirety to those they love but forming boundaries between themselves and others is SOOOOO important. These natives tend to change after sex and can absorb parts of the personality of those they sleep with. Love here is never, ever simple. The biggest feature on these natives is that they have very petite butts and very sad faces with deep set eyes. Because of the intense feelings the provoke in others people can often become evasive or ignore these natives(mainly to ignore the emotions and or vulnerability that they feel around he natives).
Neptune in the 8th house:
Lana Del Rey - disco
Lana Del Rey - Black beauty
The devils favorite angel
Spirituality takes a overwhelming flow in these natives. For Neptune in the 8th housers they can feel as if they are walking through this life in a half dead fashion somewhere along the lines of alive with a dirty twist. The world isn’t in simplistic black and white shades for them rather everything is in a rock and sway, back and forth teetering between past and present. These natives can feel distant mainly due to how deeply and often internal the currents of their own feelings swirl within them. Intimacy is often something that comes with its fair share of risk for these natives as they often look for “life” and the concept of “god” through their sexual encounters and through intimacy itself. To the untrained eye they can seem standoffish or even a bit cut throat but rather what you’re seeing is merely a reflection of your own emotions. The 8th house themes of possession, transformation, anger, sadness, our finances and our darker sides all dance around in the neptunian cloud creating someone with an almost angel in raised in the shadows energy but also someone who is drawn to the chaos in others so he or she can bring them out of the flames. The savior and saved mentality can be an unconscious motivation for many of their interactions as in most cases they’re looking for that loss in control, that ever rising high and breathtaking low that comes with it. Neptune in the 8th can attract very dark lovers, very tantric sex and overwhelming spiritual encounters with poltergeist, with darker entities, or even murders and serial rapist. Neptune here creates open door to malefic energy but also opens a door to the divine which is why these natives can seem like both a blessing and an omen. Heaven and hell themes play out in the character of these natives quite a bit and knowing which side you’ll get is often a flip of the coin. The lesson here is that these natives need to learn to channel their unconscious need for a higher love rather than project it to the wrong people as this much like your 2nd house counterpart could lead you into parts of hell you never imagined. These natives usually have beautiful eyes! The eyes can lack shine especially in the light and often in most cases darker hair and features are indicated! The smile is often subtle never a large grin. Sex for them can be a trancendent experience but due to how powerful the emotions are here sex can also if not with the right person can be deeply traumatizing.
Neptune in the 9th house:
Jessie ware - running
James Isaac - beauty
The ones lost in faith
There is a charm with those with Neptune in the 9th. These natives can fly by life with nothing but optimism often expecting things to pan out the way they should with or without intervention. For these natives the faith in the cosmos and something more is both natural and instinctual. In a way these natives are so deeply intertwined with the spirit that they seemingly sense and absorb knowledge far beyond what they’ve been taught. Religion and faith regardless can still be a huge source of confusion for them! In many cases they can have ideals or ideologies that clash with blind faith into the religion they choose. Many struggle with aligning to religion in completion as in most cases they have their own personal beliefs and thoughts that might view things from a different light than what they’ve even been taught. Similar to the 8th house spiritual capability is through the roof and if time is dedicated these natives can truly become spiritual guides and gurus as it comes naturally! That being said much discipline and guidance is needed before they can lead the rest of the world(avatar reference lmao). They have a immense propensity for reading energy of others and can tell when foul play is going on without words being exchanged. In most cases these natives can be extremely flexible and have an easy time navgiagting through various situations and places. The 9th house deals with our traveling and our university life so in most cases these natives can receive immense growth when out of their home, vacationing or even going to religious temples and retreats! In most cases military or university life is very calming and usually serves to expand the spiritual realm. The eyes are expressive and usually the expressions and faces are round and plump.
Neptune in the 10th house:
James Blake - retrograde
James Blake - modern soul
The blurry civilization
Neptune in the 10th house natives are some of the most warm natured souls on this planet. The need to put others before themselves is present among all Neptune placements in their respective houses but especially when in the 10th. These natives tend to have a rather soft approach to their work place and their public life in general. They can seem rather fragile and even emotional out and about, choosing to be rather private and “quiet” when it comes to what they put out there. Gender fluid and even neutral stances on societal issues is common here as they prefer not to have any one definitive standing either way it goes. To many they have a deceptive and rather diluted personality publically which I blame on Neptune’s rather cloudy disposition in an otherwise face value and saturnaian house. They tend to be very emotionally available but also slightly emotionally unrealiable as they often keep everything at a distance especially publically. Since Neptune is the weak spots in ones life, Neptune in this house can show that the natives have a more rigid and tight grip on how and what sensitivities are expressed. These natives usually need to practice expressing their softer emotions without feeling the need to retreat or step back! A common trait is usually soft and or rather domicile/submissive hair!(hair that seems to lay low and doesn’t really fall back into place once you touch it)
Neptune in the 11th house:
Nearly oratorio - devonport
Nearly oratorio - tin
The faces of many
For Neptune in the 11th house natives there can be a rather anonymous aura to them. The need to stay hidden is very apparent here. Friends are often plentiful yet kept at arms reach as in most cases these natives have a strong need for space in any interaction they experience. They often find themselves immersed in their own pursuits be it work, art, be it cinema or acting the talents are often plentiful here. In most cases these natives are attaching worth to what they choose to create which can often make them come across as blunt and rather unapproachable without meaning to. They don’t like to waste time in meaningless affairs as often their emotional side is highly developed allowing them to pick out who and what is worth expending themselves for. These natives tend to reflect Decisions quite a bit often preferring to understand the motives behind what they do and why they do it as a means to present themselves in the list authentic way they can. Realism and integrity are high moral codes that these natives Adhere to which often makes it harder for them to be around groups and or organizations that lack that. These natives are very picky about who and what they choose to support but can also brake out into tears if they know a movement or group can actually make a difference in someone’s life. Despite the outwardly spacey demeanor these natives are tremendously loving. You can always tell when you’re around one when you see there friends! They’re usually very soft and light towards the native!
Neptune in the 12th house:
Young galaxy - stay for real
Sleeping Jesus - alley dream
The last door
Neptune in the 12th house natives are purely vibrations. Emotions are felt like a heavy wave crashing ashore, whilst the thoughts and feelings of others are channeled and soaked up by these natives like a galaxy sponge. Clairvoyance, premonitions and spiritual direction through dreams and day dreams is common for this placement! These natives can often overwhelm themselves easily with how much they pick up in the world and all around them. Taking naps, or even constant lethargy is usually a manifestation and often times these natives can find that they need to recharge quite a bit as they run the risk of emotional depletion. The emotions are usually highly developed and very intricate almost like and endless series of cables and wires over an long extending tunnel. They often process information and body language in ways entirely different from the rest of us. In most cases these natives don’t usually struggle with boundaries from the outside world, rather the real struggle lies in their own psyche. The psyche is often very vulnerable and in some cases these natives can be so overcharged with energy that their mental and brain functions can zone out or stop as a means to catch up and collect themselves. Plenty of care and rest should be occurant to ensure that the body is in top shape! These natives have a very powerful healing capability once they learn to channel their intense neptunian energy but usually this takes time to truly get the hang of! Dreams are often signs and speak on future events or even connections established in real time.
Aries in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 1st:
You find physique to be beautiful. You adore a nice looking body and tend to gravitate towards people who are more fit or have a masculine look to them in some way. Angular features such as sharp jawlines or well defined foreheads and facial features like a striking hair style or intense brooding eyes can be quite the instinctual turn on for you. You can be a huge critic when it comes to body types and prefer a very lean or very porn star/model sort of body as Aries does rule the sexual impulse in a lesser extent so you’ll likely be in hunger of your perfect sexual ideal. In men this can show a desire for a gorgeous partner man or women but the need for a partner smaller than them will always be apparent for “domination” purposes. For women this is a desire for a more heftier or muscle build partner, one who can take control and run the show.
Taurus in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 2nd:
A sensual and curvy look can be an eye grabber for you. You love a very Roman/Greek all natural look to a person. You yourself tend to go for the more bare look with the off occasion you go for a more stand out look which always looks stunning. These people love a low maintenance look as they are often drawn to the flesh plain and simple. People who have very sensual looking bodies and or who show a lot of skin be it men who are shirtless or who have a very strong desire to wear the bare minimum when it comes to clothing or be it women who have a dress that hugs their more curvy features. They love eroticism and skin so they tend to be drawn to those with a somewhat natural and rugged beauty to them, something as raw and natural as ever. This postion actually shows someone who likes a ruffled or mangled look so long as it is clean. They can be the types to anyalze ones physical features in totality but they adore a well formed ass be it small or large they adore the booty which venus is to blame here! They likely don’t mind smaller ones but can have a strong inclination to praise ones rear.
Gemini in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 3rd:
This postion can show someone who has a night and day infatuation with physical features that can vary like the seasons. They in some cases like dainty and someone what fragile looking people! Many tend to adore the voices and the arms of another! This postion can be captivated by ones voice and normally tend to notice ones mannerisms and hand movements before anything else. Women can be drawn to men or women with strong arms and who have a vocal presence or intelligence to them. Men can be drawn to men or women with a small figure and a youthfulness to their voice. Both have a strong attraction to the way ones body movements are so usually they anyalze ones movements and responses especially when they’re feeling attracted to someone.
Cancer in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 4th:
These people tend to actually be physically drawn to the emotions of others! Both sexes love the breast and or chest area and tend to be instinctually drawn there. They tend to value you femininity and someone who exudes a lot of sensitive and emotive traits is a huge turn on for them. Someone who’s soft or has a moody nature to them can be cute as they tend to be this way themselves. Men here can be obsessed with the womanly or feminine energy and women here can be obsessed with the nurture and protecter archetype in their lovers. A need for softness and tenderness in someone’s behavior is usually what they desire and what usually draws them in on the onset.
Leo in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 5th:
These people tend to be drawn to the complexion of other people! Often the first thing they notice is features on ones skin as well as their hair! These natives can often gravitate towards people with vulmptious hair or hair that is rather bright or dark depending on aspects to their sun. Most can find a good smile or a strong body to be mesmerizing. In most cases someone with masculine features or a strong look to them can be a turn on. Eyes is another big thing here and they tend to find a fierce look in ones eyes to be breathtaking! These natives adore eyes with a different hue to them and might even themselves have eyes with a unique tint or a cat like nature. Many also like warm features or kind sun glazed tones on another! And this is Leo here so these natives can really love complexions that are deep in nature!(this can be of any race so don’t look to deep into it aha! They just tend to adore rich skin types be it dark skin/olive/ruddy and so on)
Virgo in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 6th:
These natives much like Gemini can love a small or petite like figure! But unlike Gemini they don’t swing back and forth between what and how they like there body types. They can be drawn to men or women who have a healthy but fragile frame to them. A sort of lean yet healthy muscle look can be a turn on to them! This is an earth sign so a desire for a more earthy look can be present, so a sort of roughness or lofty body and face can draw them in. In most cases these natives are lovers of abs or a well defined belly as Virgo rules the stomache in a secondary fashion beneath cancer. So a well defined stomache to V-line area can be a biggie. This is also the sign of cleanliness and even to some extent perfection and routine so these natives may also be drawn to someone with a put together energy and who seems like they have their shit together. The same runs true for mannerisms! They value someone with a concise and rather steady body movement.
Libra in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 7th:
These natives can find curvy or even stereotypically beautiful/drop dead gorgeous people attractive. They adore beauty in every shape of the form and are a bit more picky than Taurus when it comes to what “beauty” stands for. In most cases they can be drawn to bone structures or sensual Bodies with an Arian sort of build. These natives can also adore thicc or beefy men or vulumptious/Greek era like women. The desire for a healthy yet fleshy look runs here. They can swing between lean and mean or big and juicy at th drop of the hat and in a sense find either of the two body types to be delicious. They normally even more so than Taurus loveee some thighs and ass. So they’ll likely notice those features before all else and once again much like Taurus here wether someone is packing a small booty or a big one they don’t care so long as they can grab it! And rub it to their hearts content! These natives tend to be drawn to all types of rears but much like Aries they love a sexual looking body.
Scorpio in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 8th:
These natives are often drawn to people with a more hidden look to them! This look can consist of anything ranging from hats/shades/ponchos or even all dark attire! They are usually drawn to people that have something about them that is hard to figure out. People who wear ripped jeans or even subtle yet revealing clothing can be a turn on as it creates a feeling of having a taste yet being teased to the final product. Eye shadow or facial scars can also draw them in as they love stuff that has a bit of a darker or mysterious look to it. In most cases these natives tend to gravitate towards people with darker features or tints to their hair. They usually much like Aries love intense looks to the eyes of people with a blank or detached look about them. Since Scorpio does rule the genitals these natives can be a bit of a curious George when it come to the crotch region! Especially the girls! They both can naturally be drawn to the private areas of other people(with no harm intended of course) but they tend to be the types to be more curious about ones groins than most.
Sagittarius in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 9th:
If Gemini loves the arms you can only imagine their sister Sign is obsessed with the legs of others! One of the first things these natives notice on a person is their thighs and legs and usually find themselves deeply attracted to someone with beautiful legs or well defined legs. These people can be highly attracted to thic thighs and or people who are highly physical in nature. These can include runners/athletes or soccer players and so on! They adore people who have a sort of physical rigor to how they present themlseves and even more so those with a tomboyish or highly attuned nature esq personality. They love people with a sort of combative yet earthy vibe to them which is often shown in how they carry themselves! Via scars, tattoos, or even just ripped clothes that look worn out! Many of these types can go for the rockers or punk kids due to how they like people with a grime sort of aesthetic.
Capricorn in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 10th:
These natives can be drawn to people with a well defined or sort of angular look to their body! This can include a strong bone structure or a portrait like build. Many of these people adore very unique and otherworldly looks such as low hanging eyes or sort of gloomy yet frail looking bodies! Many can find veins or just mortality itself attractive! Older looking people or even people with a more refined or aged wine sort of figure tend to be very enticing to them. Capricorn is Father Time and often these natives find themselves drawn to people who have very serious features such as low smiles and cold eyes or even those with very heavy and weighted mannerisms. In most cases people with ages features like strands of grey and even silver undertones in parts of the hair can be attractive to them. Many tend to like somber and rather drull faces while the latter enjoy more studious and distracted looking people who might have their eyes on a bigger picture so to speak. Many can like big strong men or men with a bit of a chip on their shoulder while others can like women with a coldness to the way the move, a sort of noir gal. Cigarettes or tattoos can be sexy to these people as well.
Aquarius in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 11th:
People with unique features can be hugely sexy to them! This can range from spontaneous hair colors or hazel/blue/grey and so on eye colors. They can adore freckles or things like beauty marks. They tend to really have an open minded attraction to many different bodily figures but more so it can be that they value a sort of newness and electric feel in how others present themselves wether it’s a vintage look or something that’s out of a terminator movie. Leather and jean jackets can be petty sexy to them as well as anything tight or latex. In most cases the women and men can like tall people or people who have a spacey look to them. Anything ranging from body or face piercings or even anything as modest as just having glossy nails! They pretty much like anything and everything so long as it’s got a tinge of that “wtf” factor.(but this also depends on aspects to Uranus and its house)
Pisces in the 2nd house or 2nd house lord in the 12th:
Can be really attacted to soft and rather plushy features In others. Although Pisces rules over the feet these natives are usually more drawn to the emotional side of a person! For them it’s about energy so it’s a bit harder to explain how they look for physical attraction since it’s not something that’s really “palpable” in a sense! They adore sensitive types or people with a receptive nature to them. In a sense these natives value those with a rather soft and even warm expression to themselves. Now that being said these natives tend to like people who seem lost or have a private nature to themselves! Outcast or people who seem in need of love or being fixed! Unlike their sister sign they crave someone who can be a bad boy/girl or someone who isn’t necessarily “good” someone who is damaged or has a wall up can be rather attractive to them because in most cases they’ve also been through their fair share of let downs. So in a sense people with a more emotionally intense or problamtic Aura can be sexy to them. It’s not all bad though! These natives can also adore people with a caring and gentle voice/body/mind and soul as Pisces is the final sign which embodies all the signs as one! They can be drawn to anything the other signs in the 2nd house are but! The only difference is that it’s more spiritual than it is physical.
Aries in the 8th house or 1st house lord in the 8th(mars in the 8th)
You often need and desire a certain level of bluntness and honesty when you commit to someone. Once your 2nd house is out of the picture it can be a hard pill for your lover to swallow both literally and figuratively as you often have a strong need for sexual expression and to an extent physical intimacy. You likely can be rather driven by your desires ignoring the wants and needs of your partner only because once you commit-you throw yourself wholeheartedly into the union often acting out your truest self In the process. For you sex is no longer just “sex” it becomes your voice, your hearts lifeline, it becomes your gateway to attaining a sort of unity. Your agression and intensity is often what your lover will see and albeit it might cause them to shy away at first they’ll likely adore how fierce and loyal you truly are once a true commitment is made. Once commitment is established you can be a bit aggressive sexually and even a little bit intense! You come on very strong and can demand the dominant role.
Taurus in the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 2nd(also venus in the 8th)
You often desire a certain level of predictability and stability once a commitment is made! It can be agitating for you to loose footing once you’ve committed to someone so you can secretly awaken your more possessive and needy side once you settle down for real with someone! It’s likely that you need much physical compensation and tend to place touch and smell, sound and emotion every and any of the sense that are roused or experiences between you or your lover takes on a life of its own to you. You’ll often be a an emotional hoarder and can be very sentimental to a degree to parts of your lovers personality! This can often cause a gap whenever your lover “changes” so to speak and can easily make you uneasy or “fix” what has changed. Your lack of adaptability might shy away your partner but they’ll likely adore your calming and dedicated nature despite its rigid nature. Once commitment is established you take on a very sensual/touchy feely approach to sex! You want to transverse across every inch of their body and tend to have very weighted and gravity to how you fuck them.
Gemini in the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 3rd(or mercury in the 8th)
You often desire a certain level of unpredictability and instability once a commitment is made. To some degree you’re unstable and that can trasverse as non-committal in the house of “commitment” which may cause the surrounding environment to wane and fluctuate in an unhleathy manner. The real issue here is that you secretly have a complex about the perfect romance and often times the more mundane and predictable sides of being committed secretly bore you. You want excitement of not really knowing whether or not your lover will be there the next day which often can be sad due to the fact that their are often two faces present here! The one that wants excitement and the one that actually wants to be committed to someone. The odd thing here is that often for these natives once the committed twin wins over they often can place a high value on communication and open emotional expression despite their logical approach to settling down. All this taken into account once they kill off the fickle twin they don’t just commit to their lovers…they submit to them fully. Your lover could shy away during this phase though as they’ll feel like it’s either they keep up or get out..but once they survive that part they’ll adore the committed and often completely sympathetic backing. Once commitment is established you can frolick like a child in a field across your lovers body! You become experimental but also a bit of a bi-polar off and on type-you’ll often intiate sex in multiple ways.
Cancer in the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 4th house(or moon in the 8th)
You often desire a complete emotional and physical offering from your lover once committed. These people often can immerse themselves in such a powerful way emotionally that it can almost be difficult to breathe in their rather intense emotional pool. For them it’s all or nothing once they’ve committed to you and they need to have an honest and authentic emotional exchange of feelings on a consistent basis in their relations otherwise they’ll easily grow antsy and anxious towards the union. In a sense their moodiness and defensive nature of the unknown in the relationship in itself can shy a partner away as no one wants to put up with days of constantly reassuring their lover of feelings. That being said their lovers will likely adore how passionate and ardent their feelings indeed are and also how deeply feeling they are for them regardless. These natives place a high value on intimacy which means that once committed they’ll likely strive for a safe haven and security whilst nurturing not only the union but their lovers wholeheartedly! You’re more than a possession or even more than just a lover to them, you become a home. Once commitment is established you are very emotional sexually! You can have a strong desire to “empregnate” and might even have a desire to assert dominion over them via cumming inside of them or on them in some way similarly to a wolf. A tendency to be moody sexually will show itself and you tend to be more sexually active with your partner the more emotionally intune the two of you are and less the more their is a lack of emotional grounding.
Leo in the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 5th(or sun in the 8th)
You often desire a certain level of passion and amor once you commit. To you real commitment exist when to people feel a powerful, irresistible tug to one another. For you it must be grand and emmaculate otherwise what was the point of settling down. You put so much of your soul and energy into the commitment that your lover my shy away due to how heavy the demand you place on them to reciprocate your intensity is! That being said they’ll often adore how real your love is, how intoxicating and irresistible it is to have all eyes on them the way you do. You believe in totality and give the person you Settle down with the stars and the sky often sacrificing all that you are just for them which to most people is so beautiful that they almost don’t believe it to be true. Once commitment is established sex will likely be EXTREMELY passionate! A need to praise or be praised will be occrant and you’ll often have a strong appetite to fuck your lover all over the house if you could. This often indicates a strong sexual nature comes out once committed and likely someone who needs and has to devour their partner sexually at every moment in order to feel “secure” much like lions women with this postion can go into “heat” where they just have to have it! Men can go into “prowls” where they need and have to get off specifically by having sex with their lover. To put it simply they Love fucking their significant lover both for love and also for territory.
Virgo in the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 6th(of Chiron in the 8th)
You often desire the picture perfect marriage concept once you commit with someone. To you commitment has to be a wonderfully knit construction, effortlessly falling in place the right way every time without fail. The thing is love is never a perfect run all the way through and your lover can often shy away at the thought of having to adhere to your ideal of perfection. They’ll likely still adore your attentive and deeply servicing nature towards them and the commitment itself. You value give and take and don’t have much of an issue sacrificing for your lover and infact you enjoy doing so as to see the smile on their face! Albeit you can be a stickler for having things your way, once committed you don’t mind loosing your grip on having everything the right way if it can even for just a moment can make your lover happy. Much physical touch is often desired in your committed phase and you likely need a constant physical expression to feel as though you are healthy emotionally as well as your partner. Once committed sex is often an everyday thing as they need to express their desire daily otherwise they can feel a bit uneasy about the inner workings of the union! They become very attentive and hardworking when it comes to your body and will make sure to hit every point after years of research.
Libra in the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 7th(or venus in the 8th)
You often desire complete love and intimacy once committed! For you commitment is all about the romance, the love and devotion to one another spiritually and physically. It can be hard for you to be separated from your lover once committed as they often cloud your thoughts and often become your obsession. Your intense infatuation with your lover even after being committed might shy them away due to the looming co-dependence. That being said they adore the loving and soft nature you exhibit! They can’t live without your love and often are a sucker for your romantic and thoughtful gestures of love and pleasure. You love having sex once committed, if you could fuck your lover every moment of the day you would! This placement indicates someone who truly adore their lover once committed in every sense of the word they are you heart and soul and this is why you rarely if ever settle down easy. Once committed sex takes on a very romantic energy to it! They need and want to fuck their lovers and can be rather demanding even if they present a “passive” air. In reality once they settle down they get easily aroused by their partners love and body and can easily feel the desire to express this by getting down and dirty! To put it mildly if they pick you they likely knew from the jump they wanted you not just with your clothes on but also with them off. “The booty will be mine” so to speak.
Scorpio in the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 8th(or Pluto/Lilith in the 8th)
You often desire death in your commitment to b blunt. You want every moment to feel heavy, to feel overwhelming, authtic to the bone. As a rule you never get attached until you know it’s the one, you’ve always weeded out the weak and we’re a serial dater-looking for the right match. These natives view commitment as something intense, a holy cleanse. To them giving our heart and soul to someone is one thing but giving them that private aspect, that what is hidden is earned not “given.” Years after they commit they’ll still seem like a mystery and they never ever dive in all at once only in pieces and fragments. These natives can often shy away their lovers with their extremes but they’ll likely adore the intense yet prolific passion that exist in every moment. They are intensely possessive and protective once committed not wanting anyone or anything to share in the love they have for you! For them it’s all or nothing, life or death as every cell rushes. Sex for them once a commitment is made is all about meeting god and the devil in the same setting.
Sagittarius in the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 8th(or Jupiter in the 8th)
You often desire to feel limitless once committed. Your lover often becomes your spiritual vice-a means to contact god or the higher. In a sense for these natives commitment is commitment to a physical body but to something more, maybe a feeling or maybe something palpable. They can struggle in the initial commitment stage at settling down often being flighty and all over the place mainly out of a fear of opening up in a real and genuine way. They need and crave spiritual intimacy once committed and can often shy away their lovers with how ungrounded their needs for commitment can be. One day they’re on the other day they’re off in space. That being said they’ll adore how open you are, how ardent you are about the love between you two and how far you’re willing to go to keep you two together no matter what. A certain resilience exist in these natives when it comes to commitment and they’ll likely fight skeleton and ash to ensure the love and spark stays no matter what. Sex once committed is bountiful and very playful! They need to have sex with their lover constantly and will likely meet a lover who wants the same.
Capricorn in the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 10th(or Saturn in the 8th)
You often desire a more cold type of atmosphere once commitment is made! A certain level of agony and seriousness solidifies the union. In most cases a heavy action is what laid the foundations for the commitment in the first place-be it that your lover got pregnant, be it that your lover is in the military or be it that you yourself had your own prior engagements, something usually sets the foundation for what intensifies the obligations in this commitment. You take it very personally and often feel as though their joy, their sadness, their burdens, their sins, their pain is all your responsibility and your lack to fix or better any chaos in your commitment is a reflection of failure to you. Your lover may shy away from how heavy you make the relationships itself but they’ll adore how much you carry on your back for them to smile! You put so much into them and only them and do all you can to ensure that the union is solid! Even if some of your attempts are rather somber in nature they all come from a deep place of love. Sex once committed is very sensuous and attentive albeit low in frequency.
Aquarius in the 8th or 8th house lord in the 11th(or Uranus in the 8th)
You often desire an incredible amount of clarity once in commitment. You want to feel as though you two are not only friends but lovers who could show the best and ugliest sides of themselves without fear. In a sense you’re idea of love is a love without judgement and a love without any mask. You constantly push your lover to reveal, to open up and to be free which can cause them to shy away as often your open nature can seem rather threatening at first! You’re so truthful and straightforward with your love and your darkest desires that your lover feels both overwhelmed and a tad nervous at how Intune with your intensity You are. That being said they often adore that honesty in you! How hardheaded and readable you are! You put so much faith in your lover and often support anything and everything they do, lathering them with love and compassion even when you don’t understand. Their is an admirable and childlike spark to who you become once you’ve found the one as for you commitment is something exciting and joyous! You aspire to make your lovers everyday electric and passionate even though you occasionally lack the emotional understanding of yourself you still manage to endlessly express them all in a cute mangled little mess that’s as honest in nature as it comes. Once committed you can have an off an on desire for sex but not necessarily like you aren’t attracted to your lover! Mainly just that some days you want physical expression of love and others you want mental and more detached expressions of it through verbal flirting or even cuddling.
Pisces In the 8th house or 8th house lord in the 12th(or Neptune in the 8th)
You often desire a healing and loving atmosphere once you commit. For you love is about uniting ones souls together, ones hopes, ones dreams, ones fears, weakness, the good, the bad, the hate, and the love. They accept much of the flaws of their lover and may even see those flaws as beautiful little additions to something that’s already so mesmerizing in their eyes. They often express their desire for love through intensified needs of physical intimacy. They need closeness and need to completely embody their lover in order to feel safe and secure. Their lover may shy away from the intense desire for intimacy as it can almost seem a bit suffocating. That being said they’ll adore the caring and often intuitive side of you, and how gentle and even sacrificing you can be without provocation. For you commitment is a way to heal and be healed and often you make it your mission to protect your lover from any pain, from any suffering no matter the cost all you want is to ease any hurt in their heart. For you the quiet moments and the simplicity gets you and often is what you put so much of yourself into! You need and want them to feel safe in your presence and do everything in your power to ensure that you give them all of yourself even when their is nothing left to give you find a way. Once commitment is established sex is very transcendent! It’s a powerful experience and often can leave you drained! You may refrain from to many sexual interactions with your lover during times of emotional disagreements and may have an insatiable appetite for it when you guys are constantly expressing feelings or on emotional good terms.
PS: read with common sense; the rest of your chart matters.
Can be quite egocentric, self-orientated, and feel within themselves that they’re somewhat special.
In a relationship, they can never fully commit themselves to someone, always keeping a part of their inner self isolated from the relationship.
They can, however, seem fully committed through displays of intense passion and involvement which keep the relationship going.
When they instinctively feel they’ve become too involved and that their independence is threatened, they pull back. They can’t stand the concept of becoming one with the lover.
Because they feel they’re special, they need to be treated by other people. When they make their lovers feel unique, they’re secretly wishing this will be reciprocated in the same intensity.
They’re attracted to those with a strong sense of self, who radiate a strong passionate nature, who are as deeply self-motivated as them, and who have a sense of purpose in life.
As a result, their relationships often have a strong sense of adventure, and a continuing feeling of moving forward in life together.
They instinctively reject routines or too much comfort, since they feel it only results in boredom or stagnation.
Since they attract people who are just as egocentric as themselves, who can make them feel they’re the most unique person they’ve ever been with, but who can withdraw as well because of their own fear of losing themselves in the relationship—all of this causes the Aries lose their confidence, and feel deeply insecure.
The unhealthy ones can become extremely aggressive, confrontational, and abusive, projecting an intensity of anger that’s disproportionate to the actual problems.
The thing is that Aries Venus operates instinctually and is usually unaware they create an environment where everyone is forced to serve them in some way.
Therefore, the people they attract are essentially mirrors to how they feel inside, and as long as they’re unaware of their inner inclinations, their relationships will keep failing.
They have a raw magnetism because of the Mars-ruled nature of Venus, making them strong, passionate, and selfish sexually. This isn’t a conscious energy, and people often find themselves attracted to them not really knowing why.
Not that they’re not aware of their sexual energy, only they don’t know what their basic sexual nature/vibe is. That’s why they experiment sexually so often, since they long to discover what is the it factor about them.
Since they attract people with an equally strong sexual nature, they often use sex as a trading coin in an unhealthy relationship and often keeping it together.
This Venus sign is quite a paradox since Venus longs for a partnership, while Aries is desperate for independence. Therefore, long relationships are a struggle, for they can use people solely to satisfy their desire to not be alone (while others can use them the same way).
They need to learn how to embrace the individual needs of their friends and lovers selflessly so others can do the same for them. When they do this, their fear of losing their individuality in a relationship will disappear.
By learning to give, instead of taking and unconsciously forcing others to serve them at all times, they’ll finally be given to in equally selfless ways, without ulterior motives to keep the relationship floating.
leo venus is more nurturing. like a lioness, they are protective and really dote on their loved ones. they aren’t entirely selfless with the attention they give; they hope for love and praise in return. they have big hearts and want to be loved the way they love
they are more dependent. leo venus tends to seek validation and soothing from others, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. they are sensitive and self-conscious, and are easy to offend. they can easily become codependent in relationships, because they forget their own strength and feel they need to lean on someone else for support, when in reality, they are fire signs, and have a strong spirit
they tend to be more artistic. less brash, they have more patience to stop and admire the arts. they have less creative energy and are more prone to creativity-block, but appreciate the aesthetic of life. you see this love of everything beautiful and moving in every part of them; their style, airs and favourites, their playlists and even the scribbles on their shopping lists
mars
leo mars is more stubborn. with mars, we can really see the fixed side of leo clear as day; they know what they want (even when they don’t), and they stick by it. loyal to a fault, leo never finds it easy to change their stance, and this is something that comes out differently with both placements. while leo venus tends towards codependency, leo mars can be stubbornly independent and struggle to compromise or admit they’re in the wrong - even when they know it themselves
they are more romantic. that same stubbornness has the added benefit of making them decisive and self-assured. when it comes to romance, they aren’t afraid to take the reins, to ask for what they want, and to shower their lover in affection and praise. they are active partners, and don’t give up on love easily
they are more creative. while they may not have the same artistic touch that leo venus has, mars in leo is a very creative placement. drawing on their massive reserves of energy and determination, they become masters at their chosen art form - as long as they enjoy it. passionate, with a lot to say and more to prove, this placement really is a powerhouse of creativity
both
both placements are proud and encouraging. they really do brighten up the room, with their sunny disposition and cheerleading personalities. they love to lift others up as much as they love to be lifted up, and you’ll never feel unappreciated with a leo for a friend. they celebrate their loved ones, almost idealise them at times, and the warmth they give off is almost addictive
they both love to love, and need to feel adored. their loved ones are their pride and joy, but they need to feel they are just as loved. they can easily become jealous and feel left out or alone, and just want to feel included and treasured, the way they treasure their people
they both fire up easily. neither are really interested in holding grudges, being jealous, or getting called hot-headed, but they can’t help it; they are personally affected by almost everything that touches them, in some way. they have very large emotions that can get the best of them quickly if they aren’t careful, and are easily hurt by slights. the good news is, they appreciate the positives in life just as much
both placements need creative outlets. as I mentioned above, both placements are creative and artistic in their own ways, and with their large emotions and egos, leos need somewhere to put everything down. their chosen art form is often an extension of themselves, and clicks with their personality beautifully. they put a lot of themselves into their creations, and can be incredibly attached to them
Remarkable Traits: Rational. Patient and willing to wait if necessary to reach their goals. Able to follow plans diligently. Disciplined. Interested in anything constructive. Forthright. Focused.
Dark Side: Closed-off and doesn't trust easily. Self-critical, pessimistic, insecure. Might be too lucid. Doesn't know how to deal with feelings. Sarcastic.
People with their Moon in Capricorn need to feel useful and productive. They are often cold, hard and calculating and some may even view them as uptight. Capricorn Moons prefer to be practical and organized and they’re always capable and efficient even when their emotions are boiling on the inside. They make realistic goals for themselves in life and are not risk takers. They want security so they safely plan everything they do. Capricorn Moons are aware of all their faults and weaknesses and tend to be really hard on themselves, they avoid this part of their personality and try covering it up with their dark humor. They’re one of the most funniest of the Moon signs and are known for their wit. Those with this Moon are emotionally solid and others usually sense this. They’re extremely sensitive deep down but come across as unresponsive. They just don’t feel comfortable letting their feelings hang out for everyone to see. When they feel emotions, they will not express them so easily and will try and restrain them. Capricorn Moons learn to swallow their tears early in life and keep moving. They don’t like to show their weak side and want to be seen as strong and powerful as possible. Capricorn Moons fend for themselves at a young age and believe that to be great and achieve in life is doing hard work and remaining strong on the outside- leaving feelings on the side. It is rare that they feel content with themselves but they are very tough.
Capricorn Moons feel as if they have a big sense of duty and take responsibility for most things even from a young age. In their minds they feel quite burdened to be responsible for everything. They might give more than they get and it takes a lot for them to realise that others are not giving back to them. Moon in Capricorns have a desire to feel respected and worthwhile in the eyes of others. No accomplishment is ever the end and they want to be at the top of the tallest mountain. They’re often very intelligent and have a skill to take anything and make it practical and this is how they succeed. They are tenacious, steadfast, responsible and determined and this placement is usually no nonsense. Capricorn Moons are always looking to organise things and put a structure on things in their life. They will often ask themselves “am I fulfilling my duty?” “Is my life organized?” or “am I achieving something worthwhile?” Sometimes Capricorn Moon feels as if they can’t get rid of the duty they have. Above all, they want very much want to be perfect and to be strong and to do everything right. Whatever their life situation is, Capricorn natives are highly resilient.
For a Capricorn Moon, building a romantic relationship is serious business and shouldn’t be rushed. In relationships, people with this Moon doesn’t fall in love easily either. Capricorn Moons will keep people at a distance until they trust them. They need a logical reason to be with someone romantically and a logical reason to be a friend of someone altogether. They might not warm upto a person until they’ve proven them worthy of their time. They’re serious about their feelings and they have a hard time finding someone they can truly trust but once they do they’ll prove to be loyal. When Capricorn Moons have a genuine chance at love, they don’t let that person go. They understand that when they get something, it wasn’t the easiest thing to get in the beginning so they keep it or won’t go for it at all. Sometimes Capricorn Moon is unable to see what their partner wants or needs in a relationship. They also also find it difficult to relate to those who have different values and opinions to them and don’t see eye to eye. These people move slowly in relationships because they believe everything worth it requires hard work and patience and they need the same support and patience from others. They have the ability to constantly test people, pushing and pulling to make themselves sure the person is the right match for them. It’s all or nothing for a Capricorn Moon. If they think any relationship isn’t going to be long term, they won’t even bother with it.
Those with this Moon don’t like to be bombarded with heavy emotions but they do have a sensitive side. Inside they are secretly romantics but will rarely ever show this side of them until you’ve earned their trust fully. Capricorn Moons have a hard time discussing their own problems and often avoid it. They will need more emotional support than anyone and aren’t the types you want to go for emotional support. They would love to feel comfortable enough to honestly express their emotions but they fear being seen as weak or incompetent. Capricorn Moons are challenged, pushed down and criticized in life often but they always overcome the turbulences and become greater and stronger. They do have a problem with holding anger and resentment deep inside and this can cause depression within themselves because they don’t deal with their feelings. They say wherever Saturn is in your chart, is where your life will shine the brightest.
ASTRO BASICS #1: HARD MOON SIGNS AND HARD CHILDHOODS
tw: mentions of abuse
this post is focused on the common negative manifestations of the harder moon signs to help understand them better.
the moon represents your mother, childhood and occasionally older sisters or grandmothers. the moon is fallen in scorpio and in detriment in capricorn. these are factually the worst moon signs and are associated with a difficult upbringing. other difficult moon signs are: aries, gemini and libra. notable mentions: sagittarius, pisces. moon signs are both perception and reality.
COMMON CHILDHOOD MANIFESTATIONS
moon in scorpio (fall)
theme: emotional suffering
being an only child, outright abusive mother, the mother is being abused, the mother is unable to cope with a loss (and is therefore not able to nurture the child without interference of her own pain), the native is sent to boarding school/overseas homestay, an older sibling (sister) is unwell (and the mother is forced to focus on her and not the native), the native becomes overly sensitive to guilt tripping, the child witnesses the mother often emotionally manipulate others or knows she keeps many secrets.
moon in capricorn (detriment)
theme: restriction
being the eldest child, extreme strictness that allows no freedom, the mother forces the native to maintain a certain weight, the native is forced to overwork in some way (exercise, study, chores), the mother is invasive of the child’s privacy, since the mother is tense and unapproachable it means emotions are frowned upon - the vibe of, ‘stop crying or i’ll give you something to cry about’, the child witnesses the mother being strict on herself and the other parent often.
moon in aries
theme: forced independence
only or eldest child, the mother is absent or the native is left on their own often, the mother is always working, the native doesn’t see their mother and lives with a grandparent or another relative, the native had to do things on their own very young (walk to school, make dinner or school lunch, clean etc.), a strict household which causes the native to make their own decisions secretly, the native often feels they aren’t rewarded unless they really fight for it, the native often witnesses the mother treat others very aggressively, the child works to earn money from a young age, the native is sent to boarding school/overseas homestay. (think of matilda from matilda)
moon in gemini
theme: emotional neglect
having a young mother or alternatively being the youngest child, emotionally distracted mother, the mother is more of a friend than parent (this can also manifest as having a sister who is a lot older), the mother has lots of friends and is really social at the expense of the child, the native has a lot siblings or family that get more attention, the mother is lax but distant and forgetful so the native is left to their own devices, the native often gets confusing and conflicting messages from the mother causing a confusing and conflicted image of the mother. (think kevin from home alone).
moon in libra
theme: repression
image and family honour is considered extremely important, ‘putting on a good show’ is considered extremely important, the native is expected to adhere to certain beauty standards and maintain a certain weight, there is an overemphasis on manners at the expense of the native’s emotions, the mother is aggressive but aggression back is heavily punished (the native gets used to the mother taking things personally in general), the native is taught that finding a partner is important or grows up watching the mother focus on this a lot, the native often witnesses the mother backstabbing or gossiping about others.
moon in sagittarius and pisces is also somewhat often associated with difficult childhoods and can have some common negative manifestations, though these moon signs would not overall be considered negative.
for moon in sagittarius, since the mother is often associated with still being concerned with her own freedom, she can be a woman that is focused more on travelling, socialising or dating than on the child which creates distance that can be hard to heal. sometimes it’s associated with the mother being closer to another sibling which encourages the native to search for ‘greener grass’ elsewhere (both of these examples often result in the native moving far away from home or wishing to). for moon in pisces, this is considered a chaotic energy in which the (emotional) turbulence of the mother often upsets the native’s day to day living circumstances which can be taken highly personally by the native.
!! everything is based purely on my experiences with signs, written with no other purpose than to share my observations and be unserious.
Aries moon. Will ask you a question and leave midway through u answering it just cuz little men in their head pushed a new button on the emotions console, inside out style. If they feel some type of way be sure everyone in the room will also feel it. Great at destroying social harmony, gotta love that about them.
Taurus moon. Brick wall banging against which you risk irrevocably damaging ur head. Usually deal with stress or any negative emotions by falling asleep. Insanely bad at moving on from anything.
Gemini moon. Find an outlet for your thoughts and ideas and it better not be that one poor friend that is too nice to stop your rambling. Anxiety ride from the moment they wake up till the moment they fall asleep if they actually manage to. Never have a firm stance on anything.
Cancer moon. If they feel sad they can suck the life out of the air. Feel a lot and usually stop at that. Somehow kinda bad at reflecting. Some of them could really benefit from rationalizing their emotions. Like to reminisce a lot.
Leo moon. Every day is a Miss Universe contest. Don't understand the concept of putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. Live life like they’re being filmed for a biopic about them. Get offended easily. Having too many ego deaths on a daily basis bless them.
Virgo moon. Invented anxiety and hating things. Genuinely think they are smarter than everybody but like to ignore the fact that they’ve been stuck in the loop of the same problems for a couple of years. VEry unstable self-esteem.
Libra moon. Appear very carefree to the point of care actually not existing in their world I think. Like cute things and cute feelings. Dislike ugly things and ugly feelings. Shine best when surrounded by people and are needed by someone.
Scorpio moon. If mood swings were a moon placement it’d be this one. Cutting ur hair at 3 am moon. Everything is profound and deeply personal. Identity crisis during a bus ride home. Being nonchalant is a hoax.
Sagittarius moon. 3 minute emotional life cycle. Consider feeling down a random virus they caught somewhere and not a genuine state of being. Cure themself to the natural optimistic disposition by blowing up to someone’s face and proceeding to go with their day unbothered.
Capricorn moon. Incapable of giving approval or being positive about anything. See three steps forward except only for the situations going wrong. Hence dissociate when they’re supposed to feel happy. The soul leaves their body when entrapped by loud people.
Aquarius moon. Have ideas about feelings. When exposed to simple emotional stimuli fall into a theoretical spiral. Like to look for the signs and parallels. Without a social circle are like fish without water.
Pisces moon. Kid lost in the mall vibe. Dreamed a more exciting life and are living it. Need alone time to survive but also kinda hate it?? Always care, would lose at the speed of light in the idgaf war. Do art please.
It’ll be very easy for them to express themselves with the other, both their identity and the feelings they have for the other. It’s very likely that they became interested in each other quite quickly, a feeling of curiosity and attraction that was increasing more and more. They are very expressive with each other and always try to be clear with their feelings and their intentions. You’re dynamic with each other, you love to provoke and get each other's attention, there is a playful and very passionate quality in the relationship. Soon they will stop seeing each other as a single individual and the two will become one, an unstoppable team that is madly desired. Teasing, intense and playful flirting and adrenaline-pumping sensations when they are close. Adventure, fun memories, fiery love and ego boost.
🤎Venus in Taurus🤎
There’s a lot of sensuality, compatibility and comfort between you. They love the idea of sharing many moments together, of giving gifts for each other and of feeling close to each other's bodies. A stable, loyal love and in which the two will always try to be there for each other no matter what. Romanticism, wonderful dinners on common days, quiet dates but full of love and desire. They’ll seek to satisfy any desire that the other can have, they’ll feel a lot of pleasure with the other and they'll feel loved and valued. Your self-esteem will constantly rise, because for the other you are incredibly attractive. Love for them is an investment of time, money, understanding and above all, love. They’re very focused and committed to the relationship and to each other. Gentle touches that make your heart beat faster.
🤎Venus in Gemini🤎
They love being able to communicate about anything, there is a fun quality in their relationship, they both learn many things that become meaningful, they learn to love/make the other feel comfortable. Long conversations in which they know each other, interesting conversations in which they get lost. You lose track of time when you are with each other. They love how the other thinks, how they express themselves and the duality of their person. Compliments, long talks, little adventures, adorable photos and messages before going to sleep. They both feel comfortable sharing with the other about their day and talking openly about anything. They will joke a lot together and always worry about each other having a good time. Spontaneous outings and new experiences that constantly stimulate them.
🤎Venus in Cancer🤎
They’ll evoke in the other a sensation of comfort, of being able to be yourself in the arms of the other, they will love the sensation of home that they will feel. An intense but tender love, constancy, and a feeling that the other person understands your emotions perfectly. They will protect each other and will always seek to make each other comfortable through love, physical contact and stable support. Hugs, heart to heart talks, delicacy in the treatment they give each other, spending a lot of time at each other's house and talking about memories of the past, from the precious ones to the ones they hide under lock and key. They feel familiar with the other, they can be vulnerable with the other without being judged. They constantly seek to see each other even if it is only for a few minutes and to feel close.
🤎Venus in Leo🤎
This couple will scream with looks and smiles how much they love each other's company. They may get the feeling that life was never as fun as it was when they got together. They will constantly show their love, in a direct way but without losing the splendid and romantic touch, they will make the love they feel something evident to the other and never question the love they have for them. A fun romance, dates that still feel as exciting as the first time, dual kisses as they are both passionate and sweet, a feeling of fireworks when they see each other. They will watch the backs of the other, protect each other from whatever and whoever. When they are with each other, they will feel like children again. Hugs and spontaneous displays of affection but given at the right time.
🤎Venus in Virgo🤎
Looking into each other's eyes will cause that nervousness that brings with it the emotion of having the person you love the most in front of you. It is probable that at the beginning they have been somewhat reserved with what they felt for the other, but that their nerves gave them away. This couple supports each other like no other, makes sure of the other's well-being and always tries to talk things through, from when a problem arises to ways to make each other feel more comfortable and loved. They will keep many things about their relationship private, as it is very precious to both of them, but even if this is the case, always pamper and baby their partner. Forehead kisses, gentle touches, unbreakable relationship, practical conversations and a relationship full of love and growth.
🤎Venus in Libra🤎
The dynamics of this couple is something truly beautiful, because both give and receive equally, they always treat the other with kindness, special attention and a sweet and romantic attitude. Soft caresses, beautiful phrases that remain engraved in their minds, cute nicknames and eyes intoxicated with love. Even if they are independent people they can become slightly clingy, soon they will stop thinking of themselves as individuals and will see each other more as a couple. Both will become more adaptable to the other, their tastes and needs, and can change when they are together, becoming more attentive, more cheesy and even more charming. This couple is very similar and compatible, likewise, both can be a very aesthetically pleasing couple. They will express their love in a constant but balanced way.
🤎Venus in Scorpio🤎
They will feel inexplicably attracted to each other, they will feel that they cannot take their eyes off the other and that the more they know each other, the more they desire each other. They will open up with each other as they have never done with anyone, and reaching that degree of emotional intimacy will be the main sign that they have already fallen in love. They will feel that the relationship is fated, that it was destiny to meet, and soon they will begin to spend more time together. They will always make the other feel comfortable enough to trust, open up and feel any emotion, they will love each other at all times, through thick and thin. They feel that they can only think of the other, because the love they feel is consuming them from the beginning. Looks that merge, passion and romance well mixed, and emotional intensity.
🤎Venus in Sagittarius🤎
There is an interesting duality in this couple's way of loving, as they alternate between spontaneous, warm and playful displays to slightly more serious displays. Both teach the other many things through love, companionship and warmth, they will be teachers of the other, introducing themselves to aspects and facets of love that were unknown to them. Travel together, long laughs, interesting conversations and a feeling of having found the ideal partner. They will make each other laugh when the other is sad or does not feel well, a hug, a kiss or interlacing their fingers will trigger an honest, sweet and somewhat nervous smile. Spending time together will be your first choice on a day off. Their love makes them more optimistic and gives them faith that there are good things in life.
🤎Venus in Capricorn🤎
This couple shows their love through more practical gestures, they are the type to buy each other's favorite food, give each other things they need, but most importantly, being there for each other no matter what. They love to see the other grow, see how they achieve what they want so much and they will always celebrate their partner's achievements as their own. This couple feels a mutual admiration and they are more than proud to say that the other is their partner. They keep many things about their relationship private, as the relationship is something precious to them. They are warm physically, they love to cuddle when they are alone lying down, watching a movie or sharing an intimate moment. They love to show that they are there for each other, both physically and emotionally, they love that the other feels them close.
🤎Venus in Aquarius🤎
This couple is truly amazed by each other, they are delighted to have met without filters a person who from the beginning caused them a lot of curiosity. They show interest by observing and asking what allows them to decipher the beautiful mystery that they have before them. Loving feels easy when they are with the other, they feel that they can be uninhibited with the amount of love they give, because they feel understood and accepted for who they really are. Being a fixed sign, this Venus composite indicates a long-lasting and fascinating relationship on many levels. Communication, understanding, acceptance, comfort and freedom are things that this romance brings with it. A friendship with romantic tension, this relationship begins with friendship that deep down always felt like something that could escalate to more.
🤎Venus in Pisces🤎
A love worthy of a fantasy, they understand each other with their glances and it seems that intuitively they have the perfect formula to make the other feel like the most loved and luckiest person in the world. Letters, mutual support, romance novels and details that make you feel like a spoiled child. They love to make each other feel like they have nothing to worry about, and make sure they have a good and memorable time together. They both fantasize about weddings, buying a house together, and generally a long-term life with each other. Venus is excellently positioned here, as she is exalted, which makes this couple very often have very romantic, cheesy interactions and they can be much more expressive and affectionate with each other than they ever were with anyone.
🖤Venus in 1st house🖤
The love in this relationship is something that is visible to everyone, this is a classic placement of instant attraction, and even better, of congeniality and a lot of romantic compatibility. Both are very expressive with the other, compliments will be commonplace and they will enjoy spending time together. They will enjoy a relationship full of love that can help them feel better about themselves, see life with better eyes and bring out their most charismatic side. There will be a lot of flirting and they will never hide their true feelings and intentions from each other, they will be passionate, intense and very dynamic. They will love every part of their partner's body and every side of their personality. They will be equally chasers in the relationship and love to make the other person nervous. They will love to know more and more about their partner, they will feel comfortable being open with their feelings. They will love their partner's body, character and personality equally. They may have a similar dressing style or they may enjoy wearing matching clothes.
🖤Venus in 2nd house🖤
A lasting love that is constantly growing. The couple relates in harmony in all areas, both as friends, as a couple, as lovers and can even work very well together in a business. They love to hug and feel close to each other, they are thoughtful with each other and gift giving is a better way of showing love. This couple is motivated to work for what they want, but also to relax and take a break when necessary. Both feel that they can explore different pleasures with their partner and have similar definitions of satisfaction. They want to have more and more of their partner emotionally, they are very concerned about feeling that closeness and trust. They’ll spend a lot of time together, and it is likely that they will decide to explore each other's hobbies and tastes in order to understand them better and spend more time together. Significant gifts will be given and will always boost the self-esteem of their couple, as they will make each part of their bodies feel as something sublime, desirable and perfect. Their love will be constant, loyal and lasting. May have similar and compatible values.
🖤Venus in 3rd house🖤
They will love to communicate with each other on many different topics, and they feel that it will be very easy for them to talk about their feelings, be more expressive and verbalize the love they feel for the other. Flirting, compliments, and sensual, adorable and flattering comments that will make the other person blush. They can write letters to each other, make handmade gifts for each other or never forget good morning messages. They will send random love messages to the other, photos and videos sending kisses to the other and romantic gestures in general. They would like to know the other's way of loving to love them that way, they will enjoy hearing how the other talks about what they like. They will talk both with their partner and with others about everything they like about them, how attractive they are and how good they feel with them. Words of affirmation are a huge love language for this couple. You may love to take photos together and have your partner or a photo with your partner as your wallpaper. You'll love the feeling of being able to talk about things that both feel are important.
🖤Venus in 4th house🖤
They may feel somewhat nervous when it comes to expressing their feelings for the other, but when they know that it is mutual, it will become a war of beautiful words, details, hugs, kisses and many gestures. They would love to be together and do many activities that they individually considered special with each other. They will love to know that it is special to the other, their favorite things and to give them these things, they will do their best to know what makes the other feel comfortable and they will try to make the other feel safe and loved by them. Physical contact will be crucial, both in private and in public. They will cook for each other and they will love to have each other in their houses. They will feel very comfortable from the beginning of the relationship, they will feel safe with each other and they will support each other unconditionally. Protective and very open and expressive with their emotions, even with the deepest from the beginning of the relationship. They can have a good relationship with each other's family or loved ones.
🖤Venus in 5th house🖤
Romanticism at its best, this couple from the beginning felt strongly attracted to the other, from a wonder for the other's body and beauty, to the charm they felt when they knew the other's way of loving and their personality. Both will bring out the most loving and warm side of the other, they will show off their partner with pride and they will love that others know all the love they feel for the other. Their love is evident and it is likely that even when they first met, people suspected that they would end up together or that they were at least compatible. Words of affirmation is one of the love languages of this couple. They will love to do fun, spontaneous and romantic activities with each other, dating will be unique and fun. They will feel comfortable showing their true self to each other and each time they get to know each other more they will feel more fascinated. Teasing, flirting, passionate, pleasurable and playful sex, this relationship will make you feel great in every way. They will bring out the funniest side in each other, and love the fact that they can spend all day laughing and having a good time with each other.
🖤Venus in 6th house🖤
This couple will feel a deep desire to support their partner unconditionally, acts of service is the main love language of this couple, in second position would be quality time. This couple will always seek to continue improving the quality of the relationship, they will take the time to know what makes the other feel comfortable, what makes them feel good and they will have these kinds of details more constantly, they will be subtle details like remembering their favorite drink, or leaving supportive notes for the other. They will seek to include the other in their routines, and in their life in general, they will do activities together that they used to do on their own and they will love spending time with each other, however short it may be. They will encourage each other to take better care of their bodies and they can do these kinds of activities together [go to the gym, play sports, do skincare routines together]. There will be something in the other's way of loving that will make you feel accepted and in a better mood even if the day was stressful or overwhelming in some way. They will love to take care of each other when they are sick or when the other is not feeling well, taking care of each other will give comfort to both of them.
🖤Venus in 7th house🖤
Even if you are not the romantic type, the other will win your heart and make each other do loving gestures that you may not have had before. Being in this relationship makes them see things with better eyes, they feel that they finally found a very similar partner and someone who puts as much love as you do in the relationship. You genuinely love the other and their presence is the only thing you need to feel good, the other brings a warm feeling to you, and the passage of time only convinces you that you have made a great decision loving the other with all your heart. Quality time is their way of showing love, because they intensely value the presence of the other in their lives and all the sweet and tender love they give each other. They take each other into account when it comes to making important decisions and they always ask for each other's advice, because their opinion is crucial for them. They will always support each other when the other decides to embark on a new path or project and they are the true definition of being together through thick and thin. This will be the most pleasant, moving, romantic and memorable relationship that the two of you will have.
🖤Venus in 8th house🖤
Both will feel that the love they have for the other is overflowing, intense and something they have never experienced with another person before. They will evoke intense and lasting feelings in each other and they will love every part of their partner, their mind, their body, but above all their soul. The sex of this couple will be constant and both will focus on making the other feel a lot of pleasure, because the pleasure of the other will be their own pleasure. The sex will be intense, but sweet at the same time, they will seek to cause different types of pleasure to the other and love every corner of their beloved's body. Sweetness and passion, they will make love in unique ways and each one will be so memorable that they just want to have the other close again. They will want to know each other in depth, put aside superficialities and fall in love with the true essence of the other. The difficulties that the other may have will not be an impediment for love to arise between the two. They will feel that this union is strong, something unique and incomparable to anything they have had in the past.
🖤Venus in 9th house🖤
They will love to motivate each other and openly appreciate each other's points of view, they are fascinated by each other's minds and they will spread the passion for hobbies, things and even for life. They can see life more positively and more optimistically when they are together. Both will teach the other things that they did not know, they will generate a joyful, philosophical and deep vision of love when they are together. They will feel delighted to find someone who shares their same vision of love, they will have similar values and interests. You can take many trips together and experience new things with each other. They will express love in a fun, passionate and very direct way, they will like to do things to make the other smile and maintaining the happiness of both as a couple can be the main goal for both. They will look for the other to see the good side of life, relax them if there is a lot of work and take things more calmly. It is a very pleasant position for Venus, both will do many things to make the other feel happy, satisfied and comfortable with the relationship. Through love important and positive lessons will be given.
🖤Venus in 10th house🖤
The love of this couple is something that other people easily notice. These people will speak highly of their partner with other people, even without realizing they can sweeten each other's image. Their love will not have that magical and fantasy touch, it will be more of a serious, stable and supportive love in which the two of them will most likely see themselves together in the long term. They will seek to make things easier for each other, work together in many areas and have a healthy romance, based on commitment and honesty. They will love to show off to each other and will always be open with how proud and fascinated they are with their partner's achievements, goals and attitude. They won’t be bothered by PDA and in fact will be very open with others from the start about their feelings for each other. They will love planning dates, outings and activities to do together. Time together will be sacred and no matter how busy they are, they will make time to see each other and catch up. One way to show love that they’ll have will be keeping promises that they made.
🖤Venus in 11th house🖤
Love that rejuvenates, that makes you feel relieved and makes you have a cleaner and more beautiful vision of love. They will love each other in a unique, fun and healthy way, they will love each other's personality, their oddities and gestures that although common for themselves, will be charming for you. People may see their way of showing love as something remarkable and unique, but really what others think will not matter much to them. Ego boosts, long and pleasant talks, deep understanding and the feeling that your partner loves every part of your personality, no matter how eccentric you consider it. They’ll include each other in their plans, and will see the other by their side in the future. They will love when the other tells them about their dreams, aspirations and plans for the future, in fact they may be similar to yours. This relationship will make them feel renewed, it can enhance the creativity of the other and they will motivate their partner to be themselves. They’ll love to share many things with each other, from the most special to the most trivial. Sharing will be the main love language.
🖤Venus in 12th house🖤
A classic slowburn placement, both parties have likely felt shy in the other's presence early in their connection, and may sense that their feelings run deep and sincere. They could feel that the other was out of their league or that things were not going to happen. Once this relationship progresses, they become very emotional with each other, expressing their feelings for each other in great detail. They will enjoy doing quiet activities that allow them to cuddle, talk about the most personal issues and be affectionate in private. They will feel an attraction that at first they will not be able to express, something that pushes them to each other with force and speeds up their hearts every time they look at each other. They will seek to know the other and love every part of it, even if one party is ashamed of these sides of their personality, the other will simply adore each of them. They will not judge each other and they will love each other devoutly. They'll explore sides of love they thought they'd never know, and may feel as if they were dreaming.
Hey babe, hope you're having a lovely break! When you can, could you please talk a bit about venus in the 10th house? thanks ❤️❤️
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Venus in the 10th house
These natives tend to give incredible first impressions, they have a knack for enchanting others easily [especially if it's a mutable sign]. People see them as polite, friendly, sweet and incredibly attractive. Many who see them notice their beauty or the way they dress for the first time. They tend to have positive relationships in their work area, especially with bosses or authority figures, making their relationship with them relatively warm. With this placement the native can become very loved by other people, but not much by themselves. As for work, they can dedicate themselves to something related to art, the economy, human resources or even public relations, since they have a lot of potential to form connections. They are very demanding people with themselves, for them it is important to progress in life and it bothers them to feel that they are lazy. They are not people who accept any compliment, because they will always prefer those who have sustenance. Instead of giving them a compliment on their body, compliment their progress, their work, their skills. This placement favors relationships with male figures, however although they may attract a lot of female support, this may be mostly external to their family. There are usually problems with the mother at some point and a tendency to attract rivalry from women.
Their beauty is rather classy, they like to look and feel good in what they wear and they can have a really fashionable style. They prefer elegance-comfort, the natural that is not so ostentatious. They are people who look older when they are young and look younger when they are older. Its beauty is amplified over time. Like the gods of Olympus, they seem to be untouchable in some way, but they know how to steal looks [so much that they don't realize it sometimes]. It might seem that in love they have very high expectations and are apparently difficult to achieve for most people, but the reality is that some of them know exactly what they want in love. Many of them may not prioritize their love life and prefer to look for ways in which to progress on their own, they focus on their professional life and/or personal progress so much that they can sometimes feel that they abandon their romantic life. However, these natives can be very detailed and committed once they find someone they love. These natives can be hard to get at first, may tease you and even deny that they feel something at first, but if the person is really something that intrigues and motivates them, they will accept it little by little. They like people capable of work, someone a bit bossy but who keeps their noble heart, someone who teaches them and seems to have a lot under control.
I would define this placement in love as layer after layer. They seem approachable and kind, but the reality is that it is difficult to move them, or "fall in love", so in love they can be a little distant at first, but once they have a relationship they are the opposite, they are sweet and affectionate people. They yearn for a relationship of constant improvement, something that doesn't stagnate, something cute and serious at the same time. They need to admire their partner and for them to be independent. Their love give you security, they are that kind of person you see in the long term, they are not to have flings, they do not want to waste time with stupid things, they want certainty, commitment and reliability, this of course without losing touch spontaneous. They tend to prefer more rational and organized couples. They are more likely to date people older than them or be attracted to those with more maturity, someone who knows where they want to go and how to get there.
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Moon in the 4th house
Something really curious happens with them, they are kind and captivate others easily, but they are not as open with their emotions as others would believe. There are many things that they keep in the most beautiful depths that not everyone can know, because they protect them carefully and with caution. Getting to know them is like slowly entering a paradise that embraces you and envelops you with its warmth and welcoming vibes. They are sensitive deep down people, regardless of the sign on the cusp of their rising, they just know who to show that side with, at the end of the day they are your reflection, and they show you only what you show them, they are the clear representation of I treat you how you treat me. Finding comfort for them is difficult, but it is something that they actively seek, seeking a feeling of sweetness and attention for themselves, and at the same time, seeking to provide this to those they love. The Moon, by feeling comfortable in this house (because it's its domicile), endows the native with a strong and powerful heart that is capable of providing love and comfort to others. They may have the ability to advise others, ease their sorrows, and understand them like no one else.
Looking directly into those eyes takes you on a radiant and peaceful journey towards your soul, as this placement is characterized by having very expressive eyes (especially if it's in a fire / water sign or if it's aspecting Neptune or Venus). Eyes that seem to read and decipher each corner of your soul. Many people can become attached to them or become attached to them very quickly, as you don't meet people like them every day. They give a sense of nostalgia to others, and many, no matter how time goes by, can remember them with a smile on their face. It is likely that these natives are very similar to their mother / female figures in their lives (either in personality or physical) or that they are very close to a specific woman in their family (may vary if Moon it’s making hard aspects with Saturn, Pluto or if it’s afflicted). Family can be an important matter, whether it's the family you were born with or the family you raised. It usually indicates a pleasant childhood, but if afflicted, the person will dream and wish very much to have a more positive family life in the future. Their roots and experiences from the past continue with them as if they were living them at the moment. They have a great memory to remember the small details of those whom they treasure with their hearts, however, this also applies to remembering the pains of the past. Many of them think about the past, wanting to change the way things were, what they did, what they didn't, what they allowed, among other things.
They are very empathetic and sensitive to the feelings of others. Even if they don't know the other person very well, they have a knack for understanding what the other person is going through. They never minimize the pain of others or compare it to their own, they just observe it and if they can, they try to help the person. They have a great intuition to feel the emotional state of others and in general, if they are good people or not. When a negative mood invades them, they may have the tendency to either eat a lot or sleep a lot. They can have very pronounced mood swings, it is necessary that they surround themselves with good and balanced people, since there is a tendency to "absorb" the vibes of the environment in which they are. Prone to stress and melancholy. Many of them tend to be loved and appreciated by children, who feel protected, comfortable and happy with their presence. These natives are very connected to their inner child, perhaps more than other people, and that is not why they are childish or immature, quite the contrary, they allow themselves to do things that make their inner child and their hearts dance. It can be difficult for them if they have Moon in Capricorn, Scorpio or making hard aspects with Saturn, Uranus or Pluto, if this is the case, mending the relationship with their inner child, healing past wounds and being kinder to themselves can bring them much happiness and peace.
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Sun in the 11th house
These natives are endowed with great intelligence and charisma, a charisma that often goes unnoticed by themselves. This placement of the Sun indicates that they can become known, popular or loved by others (enhanced if Jupiter or Venus are making a conjunction/trine to Sun). For them it is very important that no one feels left out, judged or ignored, they are great at making people feel happy and they have a gift, a natural brilliance to unite the people around them regardless of their differences. A unique ability to motivate other people and make them feel better about themselves, they have a good understanding of how people work. They can be great leaders, fair and with a great reputation. People can see them as nice and special people because of some ability or way of thinking, and they can become highly admired by others. People, especially your friends, can put you on a kind of pedestal. Friendship is very important to them, and they focus and take the time to be great friends. Lighthearted personality and easy to approach, they hate drama and can be very rational when solving a problem. They stand out for being altruistic, and they know how to cooperate very well with others. Despite their rational personality, these people are dreamers, they dream big. These people are happier not necessarily when they are surrounded by many people, rather when they feel that those they interact with are taken into account, validated and motivated. For them it is essential that both they and those they love give the same amount of energy, devotion and joy in the relationship.
They often feel lonely or cut off from other people. A feeling of being invisible, of not fitting in or being on their own most of the time, others feel they connect very well with them and can be themselves freely, but natives hardly feel like they click with anyone. They may experience a lot of loneliness at some point in their life and may have psyched themselves up to get used to it. Some of them have a tendency to overthink their value as a person and what awaits them in the future, they may present some kind of anxiety. The relationship with the father will depend on the aspects that other planets make with the Sun, since in this house it can indicate a father with whom there is a kind of distance or with whom there are differences. In the best of cases, the native can see not only in his father, but in some authority figures, friends and people who encourage them to follow and achieve their goals. If Sun is making lots of hard aspects or if it's afflicted, it may indicate that the native has trouble understanding and/or getting along with the father and authority figures. This placement also suggests that the natives are afraid of failing or feel that they could not achieve their goals, no matter how small (this since 11th house shows aspirations and plans). Many people don't realize that those with this placement can be very demanding of themselves, and if they feel they are failing, their self-esteem will take a hit.
They are a blessing for their friends, many of their friends or people who belong to the same group as them are motivated and happy with their presence. They fill those who love with that glow of hope in life, it seems that they bring back the joy of existing, they are a ray of sunshine for those who have the pleasure of connecting with them. Despite appearing very sociable or even popular in the eyes of others, they are very selective people with the people around them. These people can attract friends with a lot of prestige, fame or they can even have success and joy through a friendship. They are people focused on fulfilling what they propose, on finding happiness in living life, but that is not why they forget others. They avoid locking themselves in their bubble and if they can lend a hand, they will. If the Sun is afflicted, some bad experience with "friends" may cause a deep wound in their ego and self-esteem. This placement endows the native with a self-sufficient personality, someone who does not need another person to feel complete, and can inspire others to have this same mindset. They are people who like to do things their own way, do not like to have things or behaviors imposed on them, enjoy the authentic and can spot fake people from a distance. At a professional level, these natives can become very successful and earn a lot of money after starting their career.
~Aries Moon
1. Protective/Loyal
2. Authentic/Heart on sleeve
3. Attempts to learn from past mistakes
Emotional Recklessness
Allows people who have hurt/angered them to live rent-free in their inner life
Seeks justice for past betrayals in present relationships
~Taurus Moon
1. Pure intentions
2. Generous with internal and external resources
3. Relieves stress by being alone
Emotionally stoic/unresponsive
Attachment-Detachment relating style
Hedonistic behaviour as a form of emotional avoidance
~Gemini Moon
1. Always there to let you talk about it
2. Humour as a form of resilience
3. Does not dwell on negative interactions/disagreements
Purposely evasive in revealing true feelings
Troubles with anxiety
Loses sight of the bigger picture/emotional tunnel vision
~Cancer Moon
1. In touch with the inner life/responsive to the feeling state
2. Emotionally in tune with Feminine intuition
3. High emotional resilience
Lack of interpersonal boundaries
Sense of losing control
Gastric sicknesses caused by emotional distress
~Leo Moon
1. Emotional warmth and responsiveness
2. Willingness to be vulnerable/ask for help
3. Unrestrained compassion
Difficulty sitting with discomforting emotions for any amount of time
High emotional demands
Theatrics
~Virgo Moon
1. Natural 'pause to respond and not react' type
2. Finds solutions to problems at the worst of signs
3. Respectful of interpersonal boundaries
Usually emotionally unsettled by something
Conversion to gastric sickness
Tells nobody what they are going through
~Libra Moon
1. Honours the unseen struggle in others
2. Reads emotions like a book
3. Does not judge natural emotions of the human condition
Poor interpersonal boundaries
Over reliance on a certain person
Relationships as avoidance for dealing with past issues
~Scorpio Moon
1. Understands the depths of the human condition
2. People feel safe revealing traumas/secrets
3. Past pains become reborn psychic gifts
Refusal to let others in - emotional islander
Unrelenting sense of being wrong done-by
Emotional compulsions
~Sagittarius Moon
1. Genuinely interested in the experiences of others
2. Finder of the silver lining
3. Emotionally idyllic; 'the best is yet to come'
Flight or flight from anything that hurts inside
Emotional distress = hostility/frustration
Low distress tolerance
~ Capricorn Moon
1. Inner strength to confront past issues alone
2. A safe place for others
3. Wants to take care of someone
Overly internalised - shuts people out
Excess analysing of emotions/responses
Work/activity as a form of emotional avoidance
~ Aquarius Moon
1. Compassionate fascination
2. Ability to view the scenario with a clear emotional head
3. Does the inner work to respond better in the future
Intellectualises emotions to a state of numbness
Rejects advice of others
Withdraws and blames the world
~ Pisces Moon
1. Provides a safe and soothing refuge
2. Emotional telepath, experiences feelings belonging to others
3. High emotional IQ
Aries: even more so than an Aries moon you’re truly a blunt and foreword person. You hate people who can’t go after what they want and have a tendency to lack a sympathetic approach. You’re deeply sensual but also have a lively and restless disposition about you. When lovers or friends spend a night or marry you for that matter they’ll see your more impulsive and high energy self—which may greatly differ from your natal moon or sun. You’re way more aggressive and DOM then most people see you as! And can express emotions in a more fiery and in our face format! In a way you’re hard headed and like to get your way but that’s just the way you are haha! Your lovers may be surprised by how sexual and raw you are. YOU NEED EXCITEMENT AND GET BORED SO EASY. if you’re sitting down in place something isn’t right.
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🥊N.E.R.D ESP
🥊N.E.R.D Rollinem 7’s
🥊Beyoncé Yonce
🥊Beyoncé Blow
Taurus: even more so than a Taurus moon you’re mr or mrs lavish. Even if that’s not your current circumstance something in you craves the finer things in life. You’re a lot more relaxed and calm than people may think and secretly have a thing for aphrodisiacs. The decor and atmosphere mean a whole lot to you and you are quite the stubborn bastard when it comes to getting your way ♥️. Your friends and lovers may see how beautiful you truly are once they meet you at home(not to say you’re not already beautiful!!) you tend to visualize and think ahead quite a bit! Clothes are therapy for you and you tend to have huge closest full of them. Your lovers will be surprised by how sensual and possessive you really are aha! Don’t let them catch you liking someone’s picture on any social media that’s how you die.
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🍾Kendrick Lamar Tammy’s song( her evils)
🍾partynextdoor East liberty
🍾Delilah Go
🍾Delilah insecure
Gemini: even more so than a Gemini moon you’re SCATTERED AF. Some days you’re zoom zoom, while other days you’re the mad rampant indie junkie. You love being stimulated and often have a hard time staying focused on just one thing. You’re pretty enticed by life itself and have no issue keeping yourself entertained. Media outlets and bing watching Series you already know you’re not going to finish is a thing here. When friends or lovers marry you or stay a night they’ll see how aloof and emotionally charged you can be—they’ll meet a chameleon.
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🍵Madonna 4 minutes
🍵justin Timberlake rock your body
🍵Britney Spears gimme more
🍵Christina Aguilera dirrty ft redman
Cancer: even more so than a cancer moon you’re very sentimental! You’re always reminiscing and romanticizing the past. You hold on to things and can at times be a bit of a hoarder. There is a tendency for you to be very hug oriented and soft and plushy deep down! You care a lot about how your actions affect the emotional well being of others no matter if your natal moon is in a more rigid moon like cap or a more cooler sun like aqua. You have a naturally warm and youthful energy. You tend to bump to oldies and classic music. When your friends visit or when you get married they’ll often notice how homey it feels when they walk in, they’ll see how deep and how you wear your heart on your sleeve in reality. Lovers will be shocked by how sensitive and protective you really are
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🍊Robert miles children
🍊underworld born slippy
🍊king krule la Lune
🍊Nick Murphy forget about me
Leo: even more than a Leo Moon you’re quite the vivacious and proud mrs and mr. Your energy is so powerful and you have a very tenacious mouth on you. Like a cat you tend to prowl and may set your dominance or specific things or areas of your home. You love to shine and be noticed even if you’re just sitting on a couch Lool. You tend to sit or lay on specific areas in repetition. You can be quite dramatic and have a very overwhelming force of emotions that most people may never know until they spend a night or marry you. You love attention no matter what and who ever you marry is going to have to give you a lot of it but you’re the same way and tend to shower immense levels of affection and time on someone you love. You’re the type to have a more masculine and broadcasted personality deep down. OH AND MY ARE YOU A CONFIDENT LITTLE SUNFLOWER. A lot of sexual energy is inside of you btw so you know 🙄. Lovers will be surprised by how cocky and forward you are but damn they’ll be intoxicated by your energy.
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🌤Nelly furtado maneater
🌤Beyoncé partition
🌤Beyoncé why don’t you love me
🌤Kanye west fade
Virgo: even more than a Virgo moon you’re quite the reserved soul! No matter how many first house placements you have—no matter how fiery your chart, their is always that hidden energy of you that is just seemingly hidden from the world as if you’re wearing a cloak. You don’t tell much about yourself and tend to be perfectly fine with running the show from behind the curtain. You love clean things—vintage things—things with a beautiful broken down aspect to them, something that just needs a little love and care. You’re soooo sweet and naturally attracted to the earth and it to you. Animals love you—including bugs gurl so look either bug spray or make some friends with em cause they’ll follow you. Dogs, cats, birds anything you name it you love em and they see you as a very feminine and mothering energy no matter your gender. You are extremely humble and hate boisterous people. You tend to be on the more quite and nanny ish side of things when people come over and when you’re married you’re very servicing to your lover—theirs a very virgin and innocent energy about you and I’ve noticed with most people with this placement sex happens later in life and usually with someone who’ll take care of you as you’re very picky. Lovers will be surprised by how calm and grounded you are—the quiet nature about you.
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🕯Drake cameras/Good ones go
🕯Drake over my dead body
🕯Agnes obel familiar
🕯soap & skin Me and the devil
Libra: even more than a libra moon you are mr and mrs glamour to the core of your bones. Their is a charming and naturally magnetic energy to you. To the hair flips—to the rolling of your cuffs. Something about you is so boy or girl next door. You have a childish and avoidant nature to your real personality and tend to hate things that are a bit to messy or unkempt. You love a good aesthetic and a good fairy tail. You day dream like fuck and at times even more than Pisces here 😂. Romance movies are your thing but you also love fashion!! You tend to follow makeup and or clothing vlogs or youtubers and can have a very trusting and sweet nature about you. You tend to look for love in everything and it finds you in the same way. When you’re friends come by or when you’re married people will see the beauty in you and they’ll adore their moments with you like it’s a movie—you feel like cinema and when you’re home you’re the star. Lovers will see how romantic you are and may be shocked at how charming and smooth you can really be.
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☎️Drake pistols.
☎️kali uchis tyrant ft Jorja Smith.
☎️kali uchis nuestro planeta ft reykon
☎️Jorja Smith x preditah on my mind
Scorpio: even more than a Scorpio moon you’re a pretty edgy yet adorable teddy bear. You have a streak for malicious behavior from time to time and can have your fair share of bad coping mechanism but you also have a outstanding backbone and pull through much more mental and emotional strain than most people could even take. Your sexy and very sexually capable, it comes very naturally to you. You also have these weird and strange little things that you do in private that people usually don’t even see if they spend time with you aha. You’re secretive and love privacy and tend to need to pull away and recharge from time to time. You crave intensity and often find yourself unconsciously drawn to situations that exude it. You love darker colors and can have a more darker lit room than most people. OH MY GOD THE BLINDS ARE ALWAYS CLOSED. When friends come to visit or you’re married they’ll notice you’re way more intense and observant than they’d previously seen—and even that you may have a slightly controlling energy about you over your surroundings but they’ll see what a sweetheart you are and how tightly you hold those dearly to you. VERY PROTECTIVE. Lovers will well basically they’ll sit on your face that’s all I have to say.
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🎆Kendrick Lamar no make up(her vice)
🎆Kendrick Lamar kush & Corinthians
🎆Schoolboy q hell of a night
🎆Drake 9
Sagittarius: even more than a Sagittarius moon you’re a party—you move fast and can have a brooding but deeply unbothered attitude towards life and people. You love to live life for what it is not what other make it out to be. You love the rugged and more animalistic side of life. Can be quite the force of nature and have a need to do things the way you want to. You struggle with forced intimacy and tend to crave the weird and wonky in life over the traditional and thoughtful side of things. You wear a huge smile on your face in reality and no matter how serious you present yourself you have a crazy excitingly upbeat personality about yourself that is unmatched. Friends and lovers who stay with you will meet the more contagious side of you—they’ll feel intimidated but also extremely uplifted in your presence like you’re some sort of charismatic progressive world leader—or a dj at a rave. Emotions come and go so I’m a sense you’re their one moment and gone the next sometimes. Lovers will be chasing after you across the house with a broom stick and a rope.
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🏔Oliver Cheatham get down it’s Saturday night
🏔daft punk lose yourself to Dance
🏔Estelle American boy
🏔stardust music sounds better with you.
Capricorn: even more than a Capricorn moon you can be a bit gloomy. Their is a serious nature to you—like old whine and a noir film. You are a lot more wise than people think. A significant mental age gap exist between you and most people in your life which causes you to cast people aside before giving them a chance at the first sight of immaturity no matter your other planets. You like peace and quiet—serenity and objectivity and Anyone or anything that serves as a blockage to that is well kicked to the curve. Their is a sensual and tangible depth to you sometimes it’s so heavy that people feel like they’re in the presence of royalty or even in the presence of authority. Friends or lovers who live with you may feel like they need to live up to your standards—like they’re not good enough but they’ll love the challenge you give them to do better and be better-and man are you stable no matter what you go through you’re the biggest rock for your own self. Lovers will be cautious around you for sure!!
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🎥Gorillaz kids with guns
🎥Gorillaz Dirty Harry
🎥Cigarettes after sex Apocalypse
🎥cigarettes after sex K
Aquarius: even more than an Aquarius moon you’re like live-wire. Like an intricate set of electrical wires you dance from chord to chord and never seem to miss a beat. You hate to much of a mush pile when it comes to other people’s emotions or even yours for that matter. You have sudden burst of insight but also sudden burst of energy as well as sudden burst of lethargy from out of nowhere. No matter if your moon is in a water sign theirs a side of you that’s always objectively gazing and analyzing the intent and field your emotions are coming from. You tend to isolate yourself mainly because you’re so unique from other people—in how you function and in how you live your life. You need change and hate the same old same ol. Even in love you’ll crave a bit of chaos from time to time and may even create it because you can. You love understanding people but can struggle with knowing who you really are past the interactions. Because Saturn also rules Aquarius you do have bouts of seriousness and can be very judgmental from time to time and when people stay with you or upon marriage they’ll see just how sporadic and changeable you really are! They’ll meet your revolutionary nature and your amiable nature to please the masses. Lovers will adapt to your weirdness and even be excited by your strangeness!
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📡ABC the look of love, Pt 1
📡supermode tell me why
📡tiesto Las Vegas(radio edit)
📡Florence + the machine sweet nothing ft Calvin Harris
Pisces: even more so than a Pisces moon you’re hard to see. Theirs a confusing aura about you that can make others distrusting or perplexed by you! Much like Virgo due to them being opposite signs but still the same modality their is a tendency for others to feel this energy even when you’re out of your home. You are deeply introspective and have an almost spiritual guide that leads you through life. You can be very submissive in some cases but also it’s hard for anyone to really ever come at you with bad intent since you are very observant of the intent of others—having an easier time than most seeing bad energy comping from continents away. You are superstitious and tend to actually be heavily connected to religion in a personal way. You’re forgiving and have a hard time holding on to negative feelings but because of this it may take you longer than most people to realize when toxic people gotta go. Intimacy is a big deal to you so deep down you distance yourself from people before they get to close as to protect yourself. You do daydream a lot and loveeeee movies! Anything that allows you to dissociate and figuratively disappear as well as metaphorically cease to exist. Make no mistake you’re extremely emotionally capable and are very willful in nature—you’re just also kinda a cute little prince and princess. When your friends stay with you or even when you’re married people will see the sweetness in your character and see how sacrificial you truly are deep down. OH not saying for all people with this placement but I’ve seen drug use being a manifestation and depending on how Neptune is aspected this is either something that runs in the family and can also be done as a coping mechanism! So you may smoke with your s/o or friends when they come by! Hence the propensity to “dissociate” lovers will in some cases either abuse you(underdeveloped) or they’ll stand with you through it all forever.
