Am very much notice misogyny, Kipper wants to speak about that.
It was raised with a lot of womanly expectations, and some man ones too. Kip is Intersex.
Kipper's experiences with Misogyny also overlap with Ableism and Intersexism notably. Being told to cross my legs while sitting even if I felt uncomfortable doing so, Kipper being told to close her mouth while eating even if it made it hard to breathe for him, being told am too sensitive or I should shut up, or that I should wear itchy dresses… All this because everyone wanted me to be "proper soft lady"
Other things was definitely the late Autism diagnosis, was diagnosed at around 12 or 13, and even then they got it wrong, am not Level 1, Kipper is Level 2, therapist told this to it after it expressed frustration with being perceived as that I could do more than I actually can.
All life been compared to my offline friend, who is cis man who was diagnosed early with Autism. And that Kipper should be more like him, or that "look at how well behaved he is!"
Am notice how MOGAI spaces don't like speaking about issues, "coining into the void" as said before by another being. Beings need to speak up, more about experiences, bigotry, hatred they've experienced or used to be part of. There's no shame. We've all made mistakes. It is normal to make mistakes.
Am wanted to post more about this because of convo had with few beings and felt confident enough to make this sideblog. Where I can unmask an Kipper can talk about more serious topics.
It barely sees any terms for Transfems or Women in general in MOGAI. And Kipper disagrees, I disagree a lot, with that Transfem terms or versions of certain terms should be exclusive. Very much so, but can't put into adequate words.
It is like Woman is this unique thing, unlike Man. That Man is default, open to everyone. This mentality is why thought was Transmasc for long time. Especially with erasure of Masculine Women.
Kipper cant think of more to add at the moment, but wanted to leave a token.
@womogai (thought would appreciate)