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Why one woman didn't want to be anyone's girlfriend
excerpt:
It makes me feel special and cherished when someone makes an effort to win my heart, surprising me with flowers or jewelry or picking up the bill on a date — not because I can’t afford to pay for myself, but because he enjoys treating me.
I realized early on that this is how I wanted to date. I wanted to be courted. I wanted someone who would make an effort. I wanted a man who was willing to commit and offer me a ring — without taking years to decide if I was the one for him.
So that’s what I set out to get when I first met my husband, Chris.
After eight weeks of dating, Chris wanted me to be his girlfriend. It was very clear that we liked each other, that there was attraction and compatibility, and for him, exclusivity was the natural next step. But I thought his offer was weak.
With me as his girlfriend, he would get full access to me. He would sleep in my bed, lean on me for emotional support, show me off to his friends and enjoy my company at family gatherings. That would all be very nice, but it wouldn’t give me any assurance about the future, which was what I needed to feel safe. The offer I wanted included a proposal and being told I would forever be his one and only.
In his defense, you might ask, ‘How could he know so soon? He needs time to get to know you.’ That’s exactly my point. Why should I shut down all my options while someone “tests drives” me? I know many women don’t mind that risk — and often want the trial period with a potential partner themselves — I hold no judgment against them. But that path wasn’t for me. My past experience had taught me that once in the girlfriend zone, I started to hope the relationship would lead to marriage. And every time it didn’t, I got my heart broken.
So when Chris asked me to be his girlfriend, I refused. I told him I really liked him, but I didn’t want to be exclusive. I would continue dating him while also spending time with other men. And if things started to get serious with someone else, I would let him know — but I made sure he understood I didn’t plan on being any man’s girlfriend, so he didn’t think my refusal was just about him. My philosophy: May the best man win.
Brilliant
I love this idk why ppl are butthurt about this if you dont want to be married then this doesnt apply but honestly men are alot better when u do this
Chris and Anna Smith, who are poised to open the first safe house in the United States for sex trafficked boys, didn’t set out to be trailblazers. They founded their Christian ministry, Restore One, in 2012, hoping to open a facility for girls in ...
First Home in the U.S. specifically for sex-trafficked boys is set to open in late 2016. Of course neighbors pulled a stink and tried to get the house shut down before it even opened.
The founders are still trying to take donations to help cover maintenance costs. You can find more information about this ministry and donate here.
OOOOH THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR MANY REASONS
Excellent
I CANNOT believe how much resistance they’re facing.
People are worried about their property values when these young boys have literally been sold as sex slaves and raped and abused in who knows how many other ways. They just need a safe place to heal and protection while they testify against their abusers so we can put the actual criminals in prison.
And people are worried about them “taking their medicine” like we’re trying to cure them of something. These are trafficking victims. But apparently people are more worried about these boys than they are about making sure the people who abused them go to prison.
Oh man, as soon as I get a little extra money I’ll be donating to this fine cause because this is just fucking great. I hate all the shit they’re getting for it, but shit or no shit I want to support these people.
This is very important
I love that every few months this post gets another surge of notes, and now is good a time as any to give an update.
In late Fall last year, the area of North Carolina where this house is set to be opened experienced a lot of very bad flooding. This has set them back. They wanted to be open by now, but they have finished restoring the house and are now working on furnishing it so they can open soon.
The link above is broken, so here is an updated one. You can see they now have a registry for Target and Walmart open. If you want to donate by buying items they need to furnish it, you can do so this way.
You can also make a donation or become a monthly partner here.
I’ve been up since 4am and just got home from Beverly Hills.
I started talking to this guy a week or so ago. I never told him I’m a SB or looking for a SD or used the words “spoiling” or anything I typically do - even when I go the spoiled girlfriend route. So we made plans and he flew me out to see him Friday. I picked me up and had a beautiful rose waiting for me as well as the dress I told him I wanted for our date. Off to a good start!
We get to the hotel and he realized he forgot his clothes! So we had to go shopping to get him a new outfit for dinner and he was bummed ‘cuz he’s a very precise and organized person and he felt embarrassed, it was cute. He had to get the pants tailored and he was worried because we had 2 hours to make our reservation and they first said the tailor would take about a week, then they couldn’t even get him on the line, but luckily he got it done in 30 minutes!
We got ready together and ate at Mastros. Didn’t take any photos (apart from some of him and I together) ‘cuz so many people were taking photos of their food and I didn’t want to do that ‘cuz he was laughing about it/at them. We ate to win and it was fantastic. Got back to the hotel, took a bath and talked about our ghost experiences. All a good night!
He left his Ray-Bans and told me to grab them to give to him when I see him again. We haven’t decided if he’s gonna come out to see me yet or if he’s gonna fly me out again. I told him I have to focus on work to make rent so I’ll be busy and he suggested he pay it so yay!
Also, he broke a glass of champagne and it spilled on my phone so he’s paying for the repairs.
Ok so this post is extremely long and I put it all together for my blogs Feeling sad page but as I don’t have a huge amount of followers I realize so many people are not seeing this information so I’m posting it here too!
alternatives without harming yourself:
holding/squeezing ice.
splashing your face with water.
getting a rubber band and snapping it against your skin (this could hurt, though it’s better than other ways that people usually choose to self-harm).
take a hot shower or bath.
eat something sour. it will take your mind of the urge. (lemon, sour lollies)
massage where you want to self-harm.
get a red pen or red paint and draw/paint over where you usually self-harm.
remind yourself as to why you shouldn’t do it. (scars, harms organs, leave memories etc…)
describe what you are feeling. (is the urge/pain in your chest, fists, legs, arms, head).
killing yourself will not help. it is not a solution.
you have your whole life ahead of you. you have so many more years that you can accomplish things in. for example;
having a family.
getting married.
to watch the sun rise.
to watch the sun set.
to save someone else’s life.
finish school.
get your dream job.
to laugh.
to smile.
to go camping.
travel to new places.
to wake up every morning to the person you love.
friends.
family.
to keep that promise you made.
to accomplish a goal.
to meet your idol.
to listen to new music.
theme parks.
video games.
chocolate.
to be able to look back and say “i made it”.
what you’re going through is temporary.
in case you need to hear this:
you are loved.
you are wanted.
you are needed.
you are beautiful.
you are handsome.
you are important.
you are not alone.
you are okay.
you are strong.
you are worth it.
you are smart.
you are not a failure.
you are useful.
you are going to be okay.
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Misogyny. Meanwhile, where’s OUR app to tell us how many women they’ve slept with, how many kids they got and don’t take care of, or how many women they’ve left sexually frustrated?
Please and thank you
Or how many women they’ve assaulted, slandered, lead on for sex.
men LOVE to talk shit about women who are sexually active, while feeling like GODS for sleeping with as many women as possible
if you think a woman is spoiled after being touched, maybe you should take a look at your own damn hands
Maybe if they had an app like this, they’d be able to actually find the damn clit
MAYBE IF THEY HAD AN APP LIKE THIS THEYD BE ABLE TO ACTUALLY FIND THE DAMN CLIT I CANT BREATHE
They’re not gonna release a 4 hour movie fam
Anyways I will sit down for a 4 hour movie
would totally sit down for a 4 hour movie
Please let them release the 4 Hour movie Black people will go to a two-part movie Trust
I will sit my ass in that theater the full four hours with my three warm to go plates of soul food don’t play!
Titanic was 3 hrs and 15 mins. I can def sit 45 mins more for this movie 😭😭😭
4 hours?!?! Idgaf if there’s an intermission or not I’m sitting and watching the whole thing
y'all on heads, i can’t sit for 4 hours lls i get restless.
Okay? Have a short intermission where we can replace the burners on the macaroni and cheese, collards and shit and continue with the next two hours what’s the problem?
That was, the ugliest laugh…
so glad a dude said this instead of a female
Exactly it should work both ways otherwise it’s just hypercritical
EXACTLYYY bitch if u can have two girls Ima have a whole other man too
Men can’t handle polygamy when it’s two men and a woman they get too possessive and ruin shit
Yeah right so I can get that once in a life time, limited edition double L get the fuck outta here
got an interview tomorrow
I just got hired, reblog this to manifest the job u want into reality
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