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oshun67

Older Black gay men in long term relationships are rarely covered or seen by main stream media.

snoozy-red-panda

Here's the article, very well worth the read

hooved

me, my mom, and my sister have been living in hotels for the past 2+ months after getting kicked out by my mom's abusive ex i'm a trans man, my mom is a senior, and all three of us are disabled and mentally ill. we also have a small dog and a senior cat with us we had to put most of our belongings in storage and we're currently 4 hours away from where we used to live. my mom will be starting a job soon, but she won't be making enough for us to get an apartment yet we could really use some help paying for hotels and storage. we have no other options right now

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canipleasehavefood

dingbatblr

wild beasts

(don't like if you're not going to reblog)

sitronsangthoughts

I've seen a fair amount of fat liberation activists explain that they have always been fat, they're not about to stop, and that's natural and beautiful and fine. That's an incredibly important message.

What I've seen less - and what I want to remind people of - is this: if you've become fat, that's also natural and beautiful and fine.

When you're a fat person who has been thin in the past, that comes with its own brand of shaming. People take your history of thinness as proof that you don't have to be fat. You often fear the look of disappointed surprise in the eyes of someone you haven't met since you were thin. People try to determine "what happened". They don't see your fat body as just you, but as a sort of symptom that isn't part of you.

Becoming fat is not a tragedy, it's not a sign of failure, it's not a bad or shameful thing. The thin you is not the Real you. You are always real and always worthy of freedom, respect and peace. You are allowed to be fat no matter how or when you became fat.

hellyeahscarleteen

Self-managed abortion (SMA) with pills is very medically safe and effective throughout early pregnancy, but there is a significant risk of criminalization in many U.S. states. While it is impossible to fully eliminate the risk of criminalization when having or planning to have an abortion at home, t

kickerofelves

Leave no online footprint of searches or purchases. Digital Defense Fund’s abortion privacy guide is your go-to resource for this. Using private browsers, two-factor authentication, encrypted messaging, strong passwords, etc. is critical. Google searches have been presented as evidence in an SMA trial before. Do not leave a digital trail.

Use the medications properly to prevent interactions with healthcare providers. The pills are very effective, but they have to be used right. Carefully follow the instructions provided on the How to Use Abortion Pill website. Note that misoprostol tablets should always be taken by dissolving them under the tongue. Do NOT insert misoprostol vaginally if you are self-managing an abortion. While this is medically safe, it can leave incriminating pill remnants that can be detected in the vagina during a pelvic exam if you end up needing to seek medical care.

If it’s not an emergency but you need expert health advice, use a free calling service like Google Voice to call or text the Miscarriage + Abortion Hotline at 1-833-246-2632. Medical complications are very uncommon with abortion pills, but they’re not impossible. The M+A Hotline is safe to use and is staffed by trustworthy clinicians who volunteer their time to help those who choose SMA. Do not use your own phone number to call as this will create a record that is visible to your cell service provider.

Don’t disclose any information about SMA to emergency room staff if you do need to seek medical care. This is how most people who are arrested for SMA are reported. Healthcare providers are almost always who calls the police in cases of SMA criminalization. Contrary to popular belief, HIPAA does not protect your private health information from being shared with police if you are suspected of doing something that could be considered a crime. If you believe you need to seek urgent medical care, do not hesitate to go. Say “I think I’m having a miscarriage” and provide your symptoms. Do not mention any use of or purchase of abortion pills. There is no widely available test to detect misoprostol in your bloodstream. If you do not disclose it, there is no way for a medical provider to tell the difference between a medication abortion and a spontaneous miscarriage.

Do not talk to the cops. Period. Do. Not. Talk. To. The. Cops. If you are questioned by police you should state, “I am exercising my right to remain silent, and I wish to speak with an attorney.” Do not speak again or nod in response to a question. Contact the Repro Legal Helpline as soon as possible for expert legal advice: 1-844-868-2812. Do not agree to questioning or speak to any law enforcement official without a lawyer present.

creekfiend

I am literally begging people who focus only on the death rates to think about disabled people for like, ONE SECOND

mccoyshypo

they got WHAT at the bakery now

emcinerate

xenobotanist

"I've been waiting for you."

maxofs2d

me when i go to the bakery but i didn’t speak clearly enough for the staff to understand what i was trying to order

trekheritageposts

star trek heritage post (June 21st, 2019)

hopeful-bat

Julian Bashir underperformed and was chemically changed by his parents at the age of 6. Do you hear me???? Are you fucking listening ?????!?? I’m holding him so close to my heart I am placing him inside my rib cage and I am keeping him so warm and safe in there. Julian Julian Julian Annoying and Compassionate to a FAULT. He missed a question on his starfleet medical exam so that he would come in second. He didn’t think he had any right to be prioritized for his brightness. ARE YOU FUCKING LISTENING? He was engineered to succeed and he is Succeeding and it’s all a lie. He wasn’t even given a CHANCE. His parents Forced him into Starfleet Medical and he counts himself blessed every day that Medicine could be something he came to love and admire. He is a brown queer man. He is a genius. His every achievement feels bittersweet because of the horrible thing his parents did to him. He ran as FAR away from them as possible the moment he could, his whimsical smile at “frontier medicine”, the smile of a man who has been dreaming about the other side of the galaxy from the moment he realized what they’d done to him. And he is alive and has accepted his condition and allows himself to feel pride in himself. Allows himself to love recklessly. Can anyone fucking hear me?

annabelle--cane

asexual activism is PART of sex positivity. education about asexuality is part of sex education. speaking openly about sex, defying repressive sexual norms, and encouraging people to be comfortable with and enjoy their "unconventional" sexual lives all needs to include the messaging that not wanting sex is fine and that saying "no" every time is not only acceptable but good if that's what you really want. asexuality is not the opponent of sex positivity, it's another arm of it.

crustyclarinet

i’m not into star wars but the person that plays rey has the same name as two characters that will never be in smash bros

crustyclarinet

i’m gonna go back in time and kick my own ass

Thank you Linux

this goes hard as fuck

card-ass-ian

isn't that just elden ring?

garaks-padded-bra

an unsettling compilation

garaks-padded-bra

what the hell

dickchef

garaks-padded-bra

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

girlblocker

ideally jk rowling will be next

avalance

every reblog is -1hp for the terf

renthony

There is an absolutely infuriating trend of city queers assuming that no queer person could possibly want to stay and live and establish a home in a rural community, and none of us could possibly have a vested interest in staying and improving the communities we already live in. They act like all of us dream of moving to Portland or Seattle or the Bay Area or some other gentrified-to-fuck, capitalist-nightmare-with-a-shitty-rainbow-facade city, and to hell with our icky redneck homes.

I'm tired of the kind of people who come on tumblr to reblog endless stuff about how much they want to live a cottagecore life, while also being aggressively classist toward poor, rural, working-class queer folks who genuinely love their homes and communities and are making the best of dangerous situations.

renthony

I'm so sorry my two-paragraph-long vent post about my personal frustrations failed to apply to every single other queer person on the entire planet.

vaspider

And also like... that conversation is not US-centric, at all. The "city gay vs rural gay" conflict is not US-specific, and pretending like it is? That's just weird.

card-ass-ian

hey uh queer from germany here and yes i concur this is also a thing over here