i do really just want to enter the beautiful cold sadist zone where all there is is analyzing a body to figure out how to pluck its nerves to make it hurt best
yes, through physical pain, but i also want to calculate my words. i want to figure out how to make someone feel utterly helpless just through my tongue. can i make you believe, for a moment, that it's not fun anymore? that i hate, hate, hate you?
degradation is so impersonal a lot of the time. but i remember. old conversations. a map of your insecurities. the things you hold so dear. none of it matters. i never cared about any of it. why the fuck would you think i did? i must've been the first person to pretend to give a shit because look at how shocked you are. it's almost like something like you can feel something. so naive. you know i only pretended to like you so i could get you in this room, then lock the door. i'm going to have fun with you.
So here's the thing about "praise kink"s; everyone has one*
Everybody enjoys having their positive traits noticed, everyone likes it when they do good and someone notices. That came free with being a social animal.
So if you want to "break" a dom you start with praise
Start small; things you appreciate about them, things they do well, just a kind word or two
Develop that into more consistent and direct praise but stick with things they're already doing don't try to get them to do anything yet
Eventually (exact time will depend on the dom in question, if they have a stronger support network it'll tale longer, but most doms are starved of praise because of the idea that they don't need it) they will come to you with something they have done which they see as praise worthy. This is a pivotal moment, you gotta make them feel so so good so that they do it again, and again and again
Once you've turned yourself into the thing that they go to to feel good you're ready for the next step
Ask them nicely if they would please do something for you, something small and fairly simple, something that they're good at. When they do praise them for it in a very thankful way. And then do it again, slowly increase how much you're asking of them. And then at a moment you know they'll say yes, change the wording from "can you please do this" to "do this for me please". The former is a request, the latter is an order. When they do change your praise just slightly from being thankful to praising them for obedience. You need to be very subtle here, there's a gap between what the subconscious mind interprets and the conscious mind understands and you need to sot in that gap.
You have given them an order, they have obeyed, and you've praised them for it. They are functionally "broken", now you just need to slowly expand the things they'll do for you and make the praise of their obedience more overt.
*yes there are exceptions, one in a million people is brain weird in a way that makes being complimented a neutral or negative experience, this might be because of some small neurological anomaly or because of past trauma. But even those people you can probably find a way to praise them that they'll accept, positive reinforcement is a powerful thing
it’s incredible how easy it can be to train someone who desperately wants to be trained. all the effort that can be involved in conditioning and training becomes so, so much easier when the other person wants it so, so bad.
like honey, you came to me begging for me to leash you, are you really so surprised that i clicker trained you in a week? just relax and enjoy it~
sadist doms masochistic subs blah blah blah have you ever seen a sadist sub get off on digging their nails into their masochistic doms back, dragging them and watching their dom fucking shake, and their dom moans into their ear and slowly grinds their dick into their subs clenching, dripping cunt and saying “fuck baby you’re so good to me, such a good boy. fuck you just got so tight around me, feels so good,” and panting when their subs teeth latch onto their neck and shuddering out “ffffuck” and gripping their subs hips and slamming deeper into them while the sub is getting closer and closer to cumming, and it’s not because of the cock in their cunt and the thumb on their dick
intoxication fetish so normalized and awesome but when i want him drooling and barely conscious on it from a head injury instead of alcohol im a sick pervert..,, SOCIETY
I've started just clicking my fingers at my boyfriend and giving him one word commands when i want him to do something. easiest way to get a dumb dog to listen btw, his eyes just glaze over and he immediately gets so obedient and submissive for me. it's so cute and so fucking hot.
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