Casey's Brain

British 22 year old transguy stumbling my way through dysphoria and general life stuffs. I like dogs.

[my-darling-boy]

First reason why Kirby would make a good top surgeon

(Terfs/transmeds do not interact)

[nytragen]

#yes ALL aces

support sex repulsed aces support sex positive aces support sex neutral aces support sex negative aces support sex indifferent aces support sex favorable aces support aces who are ace because they’ve been abused support aces who’ve never been abused in their lives support aces who love chicken nuggets and dinosaurs support aces who don’t fit ace stereotypes support alloromantic aces support aromantic aces support aces who aren’t comfortable with their orientation support aces who couldn’t be more proud of being ace support neurodivergent aces support cold and detached aces support flirty aces support disabled aces support aces who have sex support aces who don’t have sex support trans aces support cis aces support aces who are constantly hated for who they are support aces who are surrounded by loving and accepting people support nonbinary aces support ace people of color support aces who are told they don’t exist support aces who are told that it’s just a phase

SUPPORT ALL ACES

[uncanny-tranny]

I can't wait to grow out my hair when I start T... I want to be a long haired king with heels to match

[fallen-in-love-suggestion]

I want to kiss you during a Pride parade, covered in vibrant colors

[astralmlm]

hey, shoutout to non-passing trans boys/mlm who:

-constantly have to deal with being misgendered

-have long hair!! (either bc theyre in the closet or by choice)

-have big hips/a large chest and feel like they can never pass

-are unable to transition currently (either because of financial or family situations)

-feel like they’ll never be seen as a man

-have high pitched “feminine” voices!

-get told theyre just straight girls

-feel like theyll never be accepted

-are scared theyll never find a boy who loves them

I promise that things will get better for you!! you’re just as much of a boy as any cis dude, and in time you will be able to transition and you will find a boy who loves you!!!

[knightlyhoods-deactivated202404]

listen……. ‘my love’ is literally the strongest and greatest pet name in existence. there is literally nothin better than somone callin you that….. especially when things are soft and quiet and they look at you with utter adoration and whisper “what’s the matter, my love??” or “i hope everything is okay with you, my love” like oh my god?? let me marry you already

[shadowsinger11]

*cries in single*

[traigolaslluvias-deactivated202]

[caseysbrain]

I'm sick of my existence being questioned...

Trans women and women.

Trans men are men.

Fuck you J. K. Rowling!

[uncanny-tranny]

It's not a "preferred name," it's their name.

It's not "preferred pronouns," it's their pronouns.

It's not "who they want to be," it's who they are.

[youneedjesus01]

[lucky-ghost2]

Who needs body or social dysphoria when u have Instagram is showing me ads targeted for girls dysphoria

[bearsfakedthemoonlanding]

was cleaning the notes out of my computer, and found this from 2016.  i was eighteen.  it’s a wonder i didn’t figure all of this out sooner.

one of these days i’ll make a list of all the evidence that kinda foretold this was gonna happen.

[image reads: theres nothing left that makes me a girl, except the fact that I am one.  I guess thats not enough.”]

[uncanny-tranny]

Any other trans person out there who distanced themself from their assigned gender so much before knowing what trans meant to the point where you felt as though your sense of self was being genderless nd you only preformed gender just for the happiness of other people nd you pent up your feelings about yourself because, "oh this is what everybody deals with" until you learned about trans people and that how you felt wasn't "normal" to the average person nd your entire perspective was changed nd you didn't know how to deal with that new fact or was that just me?

[sorin-sunchild]

I don’t know who needs to hear this right now but -  You’re not less* of a man or less* trans if you’re ftm and like ‘feminine’ things or look/act ‘feminine’.  You’re not being toxic or ‘being boring and doing what cis people want’ if you’re ftm and you like ‘masculine’ things, look/act ‘masculine’ and reject things that are typically feminine. (So long as you don’t insist that no men can like feminine things and be men). You’re not less* of a woman or less* trans if you’re mtf and like ‘masculine’ things or look/act ‘masculine’. You’re not 'being boring and just doing what cis people want’ if you’re mtf and you like ‘feminine’ things, look/act ‘feminine’ and reject things that are typically masculine. (Unless you look down on women who do like masculine things). You’re not less* non-binary if you’re amab.  You’re not less* non-binary if you’re afab and present feminine. You’re not less* non-binary if you don’t use they/them pronouns. You’re not less* non-binary if you present female or male instead of neutral.  You’re not less* non-binary if your presentation changes. You’re not ‘being a stereotype and not being true to yourself’ if you do only use they/them pronouns, present neutral only and do not have a ‘sway to feminine or masculine’. Lack of acceptance of the varied ways a trans person can present, act and enjoy life is lack of acceptance of trans people (yes, even if you’re trans yourself) and the problem lies entirely with you, not them. No one has any rights to judge the way another trans person is living, either to judge them for not being ‘trans enough’ due to some arbitrary factor, or by insisting that since they match certain stereotypes they must somehow not be being true to themselves or happy.  * Less - here is a word which means ‘not’ or ‘not as much as someone else, therefore probably not really’ or ‘I think you’re cis or just gnc or faking’. 

[filipinhoe-pancit]

i want trans women to feel safe

[radlissa]

it is an insult to women all over the world and throughout history to suggest they are oppressed because of gender identity. no one rapes someone's gender identity. they rape and oppress based on biological sex. to contest this is ludicrous.

[shampoostuds-deactivated2021020]

as a trans man who was raped so i could “learn how to be a real girl” you might want to check your facts?

[dotsz]

i wanna see trans rep where the characters are happy with themselves and their bodies and go on fun adventures that doesn’t revolve around being marginalized!!!! i wanna see a nonbinary (HUMAN) protagonist that fights dragons!!!! i wanna see a trans person starring in a space sci fi!!!! i want the media to show them being trans casually!!!! i wanna see us as heroes too!!!!

[wrekalavya]

No, there aren’t “rules” to being queer