What do People see in You that You don’t See in Yourself
Pile 1: I see that people think you’re very confrontational & stand-up for yourself that you can come across as intimidating sometimes. You’re not afraid to let things go that don’t serve you, even if they are close relationships or friendships & things that seem like they matter most to other people. Some people think that they can be the exception to your behaviour & think you won’t check them, but you do, & they can be shocked by that. Another thing can be that you already went through so much in life, especially at a younger age & during childhood, so being this bold & assertive can be new & admirable to some people. You might also be someone who puts themselves together physically, some might see you as “boujee” because you take care of your physical appearance, & that can also make them feel like your looks can be threatening or seem like you have expensive taste, but you don’t let it get to you, because you are just there to make yourself happy. You can even get a lot of stares or compliments as well. You carry yourself with bravery & grace, even if people can think of it as arrogance, you see it as a valuable strength, & that leaves people with no choice but to respect you.
Pile 2: They might see you as a “dreamer” or someone who always has their head in the clouds. Some might call you delusional, & you might respond back with “well, delulu is the solulu.”. You might be very stubborn in getting what you want, to the point of it being risky. They see you as goal-oriented & determined in getting what you want, like putting all your eggs in one basket, even if it may cause disruptions in your life or it may not end up working out, but you don’t care, you’re just happy you tried. You can also be someone who seems more “juvenile” than you are, look-wise or personality-wise, & even have a certain softness to you like your features, your qualities, or your voice. This may cause for some people to underestimate you, since you are very youthful & especially if you look like it, you have a spark to you that is very innocent & out-going, but at the end of the day, you work hard in getting what you want & your dreams can work out at the end. You might be a genuine manifester, & this can make people misunderstand you or speak evil in your goals, but you don’t listen, because at the end of the day, you stand up for yourself & what you want in life, even if people would tell you “that’s not realistic.”, since you are care-free.
Pile 3: Some can definitely see you as someone who wears their heart on their sleeve & doesn’t care about what people might think of their vulnerability. You chase after you want without care & do yourself justice. When others are not there to help, you are there to do it yourself, but that doesn’t mean you’re harsh or mean, you just work hard for what you think you deserve. You can also have a kind or “sunshine” personality where you make people feel invited or accepted into any place. When you meet someone like you or who seems more vulnerable than you are, you make sure to make them feel welcomed or heard into whatever space you two are in, which can make them see you as comforting sometimes. You can also be visibly different from your peers & even alike to the ones who gravitate towards you, for example if you’re alternative, some may appreciate your style despite your differences & the others can make note of that being a sign you would get along & relate to. Another thing can be that you work hard for what you have or people notice that you are very strong on your own, you can be very independent but still work well with others. You can stand-up on your own & make your voice feel heard, & even help others who are more vulnerable or alike to you. This can make people respect you & make people see you as reliable or even relatable.
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