STAY STRONG & STAY GAY

💜🩷 • Colfer {she/they} • 40s • autistic • 💛💚 ::pfp by maddel_art::

[castiean]

jsyk i do read thru notes on random posts and if your insanity calls to me thru your tags, i will dig thru the rest of your blog

[datura-45]

[banchie]

i've been phasing the phrase 'google it' out of my vocabulary and going back to 'look it up'. fuck you youve lost your generic trademark privileges

[dudethatsmypillowcase]

Sketchbook stuff! Every Rocky I draw looks like a completely different guy.

[innerchildabortionclinic]

interesting kink assortment on the dash

[woman-becomer]

imagine a goat with a hat

STOP-

what hat did you give the goat what is the instinctual hat you gave to this goat

[poneystoney]

REBLOG IF YOU'RE 40 OR OLDER :)

Let people know you're here!!

[kittydealer]

fell asleep mid convo (unmute)

[anarqueeen]

yeah the doctor said they found the source of my guilt and quiet agony deep within my core. Yeah turns out there really is something physically and fundamentally wrong with me that I've been carrying my entire life. No they said they're not gonna remove it. Said its an "elective surgery" so insurance won't cover it. Anyway how are you

[just-a-bit-fruity]

I miss Trent Crimm :(

[literallymechanical]

I'm not clever enough to read a bunch of philosoph yand come up with some sort of theory of how the world should work or anything but so far the principles of:

try to make a world where it's easy for people to be nice to each other

lots of things make that hard but climate change is closer to the top of the list than most people are willing to admit

It's better to be happy than unhappy

seem to be carrying me through my life choices pretty okay! Especially because I am self aware enough to know that two of my secret internal motivations are

everybody in the entire world should know that I'm smart and funny and pretty

I bet I could fix everything if I were God-Imperatrix of Unified Terra and everybody had to do what I said

aaand I'm self aware enough to know that if I don't temper those impulses with something more altruistic I'd end up very unhappy lol

[literallymechanical]

I have many clever mutuals and I'm a bit intimidated by how much you all seem to have thought it through!!! How do people find the time????

[literallymechanical]

I fired my last therapist because he was a little too immediately supportive when I floated the idea of getting myself made secretary of energy.

[kuttithevangu]

The other day a neighbor asked if this toy has a name and I didn’t want to admit that my mother calls it “his carcass”

[surreallyy]

I think Ted Lasso and Trent Crimm, Independent, should kiss

[heedra]

so far one theme of the 30s for me has been realizing that literally every human being on earth who appears completely cool and collected and together with it at first glance has some threshold past which enough known information about them will shatter that mystique completely. i don't even say this negatively or pessimistically it's just been helpful to keep in mind that we're all like that.

[torchickentacos]

I love tumblr tags so much. Like okay here’s the main post and here’s my little secret thoughts and addendums for the besties

[castiel]

the nine circles of hell  ⤷ Backrooms (2026) dir. Kane Parsons

[uptownthots]

already can't pretend to care about the male loneliness epidemic because it isn't real but listening to the way men actually talk about their friends/what they think friendship entails makes me care even less sorry

[uptownthots]

read an AITA earlier today about a guy who would walk his female friend home to her dorm very often UNTIL she rejected his romantic advances*, then when she asks him to walk her home bc she's drunk and feels unsafe he says no. Men in the comments were clamoring to insist he "didn't owe her anything" and that she was a deceptive harpy who wanted to use her #femaleprivilege to get "special treatment"

and idkkkkkkk that could never be me sorry!! wym you don't care about your friends safety and are willing to mildly inconvenience yourself to ensure they are okay? no compassion or care for the people in your life but its an "epidemic" when you don't have friends? lol

[meangirlnurse]

#my favorite thing about every invented problem men have that is dire and world ending #is that it's none of their responsibility to fix it #'if men can't talk about their feelings are you making an effort to do that and check in with your friends?' #'no I'm acting exactly the same but now when I'm called out on being a dick I have an excuse that says it isn't my fault :)' #and now men being bad friends is women's job to fix not theirs lmao

⬆️ i've only ever seen the "male loneliness epidemic" used as a means to scold women. never as an encouragement for men to be better friends to each other