Casuallyghosting

Mylo He/Him 21 Housemaxxing in these trying times

[hypotenussy]

fool me once shame on you fool me twice you have been locked into my bad ending

[poketfriend-blog]

Beldaruit has a habit of taking in apprentices who have been victims of abuse or other traumatic experiences. He's been shown to be really fond of children and maybe he feels a personal responsibility to help them as a Wise in Teachings.

What's funny is that Qifrey seems to be taking after his master in that regard. The habit of taking in students who are view by others as a difficult cases and helping them. Just as Beldaruit had helped him all those years ago.

[not-that-cosmic-horror]

My headcanon is that Olruggio off handedly made the comparison or mention something about it and Qifrey stared at him for a second before putting his head in his hands and mumble “oh no… I’ve become Beldaruit…” in the same way that someone realizes that they are way more like their parents than they previously thought

[nanshii]

The sky's kindest, most radiant Star ✨

[scramratz]

If I were a cat I’d let you pet my tummy and I wouldn’t bite you well maybe a little but not very hard

[jfkisonthemoon]

witch hat atelier is great because in the first few chapters it looks like its really just going to be a cute magical girl story about hope and friendship but then you keep reading and its about how fascist societies fabricate a social structure to divide how power and information is disseminated and what life is like as a disabled person in that society. and then its also still about hope and friendship, but if hope and friendship could kill you.

[stygiovictoria]

This scene is the best descriptor of their relationship with no words I think

[square-opossums]

its healthy for your paragraphs to vary in size, good for the ecodiversity of your doc

[casuallyghosting]

High-key in love with Lost in Limbo guys you should go play the demo perhaps-

I like to do mini animations so I hope the compression doesn't get it too badly lmao @ravenstargames

[omtai]

the shit you do to make a dying phone work when you dont wanna buy a new phone is amazing. my phone no longer charges unless i plug and unplug the charger exactly ten times & then flip the charger around then it works. I dont want to say i have to fuck the port a little bit first but i have to fuck the port a little bit first

[velcrooooo]

reminder that coming up with some fake little dudes and creating intricate storylines in your head is a completely free and fun way to pass the time and the government can't stop you

[testosterone-tuesday]

The crazy part about being a trans man is that you live for a time as a woman/girl being constantly talked over and never taken seriously. Then you transition and people talk over you even more and take you even less seriously, including by cis women who were your allies before you came out.

And when you get one moment where you express your voice, you try to impress your existence upon the world, tell your perspective and experience and refuse to be minimized- people will for real treat you like you're just here to bulldoze over the conversation, like men (derogatory) always do, and that you need to accept for once it's your turn to sit down.

Like. You're kidding right?

I am granted no status upon transition, no soapbox, no audience, I am in fact belittled and diminished and erased- and you're telling me I'm motherfucking used to speaking over others? Dude I don't even get to lead the conversations about me, when there even are any.

People are literally so out of touch with reality. They seriously think manhood is some magical category with universal privileges and behaviors and social position. Gender in society isn't coming from magic otherworldly plane like that, and gender dynamics between men and women are not static constructs that just mystically transfer cis experiences over to trans ones without variable or nuance.

Literally engaging with trans men's realities at all would dispel this myth- but that implies listening to us in the first place.

But some people will first jump to calling trans men whiny entitled boys when we don't match up to their boiled down approximations of us based entirely off of cis men, and whatever ideas and attitudes they think are bestowed upon us automatically by the fairy godparent of trans inclusive gender essentialism. From like. The moment we come out, or figure ourselves out as trans, or have like boy brains from birth or whatever.

And they really think they're trans affirming for this. For telling us to shut up if we advocate for ourselves or mention existing at all. #manmoment amiright

Listen to us, even if it makes you uncomfortable. You owe it to us to listen, because no one else is. We can't and shouldn't shut up, because if we do there is no one left to speak for us. Maybe if you were listening, you'd realize we don't have a voice.

[scramratz]

I don’t like how I’m kinda expected to rewrite the first 20 years of my life just because I’m trans. I was the eldest daughter in a black household. I can’t go back and edit my history to say I was the eldest son, cuz that doesn’t accurately convey the certain standards I was held to. I was the only girl in my engineering class. I can’t leave out the “girl” part. It recontextualizes the entire situation. I don’t think either of those facts invalidates my current gender and I don’t think trans people should be expected to rewrite their own history in fear of that

[casuallyghosting]

I've never felt like I was a boy really. I was raised a girl and grew up as a girl, it just isn't who I ended up being. Whenever I talk about myself as a kid I tend to use words like girl because that's what I was- but ppl don't like that pff.

Like idk I was a girl and now I'm a man and that makes perfect sense to me, the idea of being a woman is just wrong and not me at all. But so many of my expierences as a kid are linked to gender, I don't get why I'd have to try and act like I've always been perceived and treated in a certain way when I haven't 😣

[all-pacas]

for my next post: i do think cameron and chase are more alike than they're given credit for. they're quite different in other ways, for sure, but they're far from opposites.

both value honesty and directness. cameron is more extreme about it, but chase is strangely one of the characters least likely to lie, and is frustrated by lies and obfuscation (at least directed at him, but he's notoriously bad at lying directly to patients as well).

they're both rather protective people, if manifested in different ways: chase with children and against bad/abusive parents, but also with his friends; cameron with anyone and everyone.

they both share a pragmatic "if it's for the patient's own good" streak, although chase will also apply it to himself and can be quite self-serving. they're likewise two of the more cautious members of the team, especially in contrast to house and foreman: they don't like to take reckless/unnecessary risks, even if again, chase's comes with a dash of "i am watching my own back."

they're both massive gossips with similar, slightly perverted, senses of humor. they both want to be liked, and are prone to idealization and a certain romanticism: cameron and her white knighting, chase and his inability to not forgive and try again with house and his father; both with how quickly they fall in love and idealize their crushes.

both have watched a loved one die, and felt responsible, and been that loved one's main caretaker/support. both have complicated feelings about it.

really i think the main difference is that cameron is more externally focused and chase more introverted. not in terms of shyness/outgoingness, but: cameron spends all her energy on others, fighting and invested. chase tends to be more internal, preferring to mind his own business and stay out of trouble. although chase can be pretty thin-skinned and short tempered, he avoids fights and conflict or tries to brush them off, where cameron will engage with anyone and everyone. chase can be standoffish and surprisingly withdrawn: he's socially adept and can be charming, but doesn't go out of his way to make friends, where cameron is outgoing to the point of nosiness.

and they have several big differences, too. they're not anything close to identical. chase is athletic and impulsive and sarcastic; cameron is sincere to a fault, uptight, and ambitious. cameron has strong morals and ethics and is uncompromising; chase does have morals but will compromise anything at any time.

but they are alike. and it makes sense that they have always gotten along, from the very start of the show. their core natures are similar. not identical, but much more than i think they're given credit for.

[seven-winged-liar]

hearing a beloved friend say the words 'can i be mean for a sec' is like watching an angel descend from the heavens and kiss you on the forehead

[frenchfriedgiraffe]

drew more camchase who’d have seen that coming

[meerschweinchen-archive]

your twenties are Also about discovering that you’re not a bad person in all the ways you believed you were but you’re a bad person in completely new and exciting ways

[all-pacas]

some headcanon of chase being sick and cameron taking care of him?. i'm a firm believer that chase doesn't get sick but when he does he looks like a sick victorian kid, lmao.

chase haaaaates being taken care of. i don't think he's completely ridiculous about it, he's not going to throw a hissy fit if cameron makes him tea or something, but he very much believes that he can Handle It Himself, Thank You. love is a finite resource and he is not wasting her supply on the flu

so he tries to avoid her/blow her off when he's under the weather. does it politely, thanks for your concern but i'm fine, i'll sleep it off, very s8 chase of him, right? and on the one hand: he's a grown ass adult, he really is perfectly capable of taking care of a stomach bug without supervision.

except then something serious does happen. he eats a strawberry. he catches something from a patient. he gets stabbed. and chase is still going to go it alone, he's perfectly fine, you should never, ever, ever burden your loved ones with your needs.

but it's also a case of immovable object vs unstoppable force, right? chase spends so much time being cameron's emotional support object and comforter that i think she's probably itching to return the favor, to prove she can be there for him, too. she likes being that person! she likes being supportive and taking care of people!

i imagine the most ridiculous cold war. chase insisting he's fine and has it covered, cameron showing up with progressively more elaborate care packages. she's going on australian snacks dot com and buying everything there. she's cooking. she's cuddling him mostly to keep him still and in bed. it's kind of performative, right? not that cameron doesn't care, but she also wants to make sure he knows she cares and is capable of supporting him for a change, so she's overdoing it.

of course cameron wins, because not-so-deep-down whenever she does anything, gives him any sign of affection, chase is all owo about it lol. she has him in one of those cat burritos to keep him in bed with the grim determination of cameron on a rampage, and he's just sitting there like omg... she like likes me..........