Genderfluid Problems
Most people in my life don’t understand my need to have control over how I present myself.
I prefer to be more masculine and/or androgynous, and be treated as such, including using ‘they’ pronouns and typically masculine acknowledgement (i.e. getting called handsome, etc). But I also don’t care too much about others when they use different pronouns because I’m usually fairly confident in my identity.
However, more recently, there has been a constant push from the people around me to grow out my short crop, and it bother me. With a close crop, I can feel more masculine when I look in the mirror, but not exclusively if I have a female day. It weighs heavy in my heart that it would make people more happy if I was a feminine figure, rather than an androgynous being.
