Formerly Boushi - Jen Walter's personal benchpress, 42y/o, PolyAm, Agender(they/them), Autistic, Aegosexual/Aegoromantic, Bisexual, Hybrid of Color, INFJ-T, Pro-Bodily Autonomy, BLM, ACAB, I stand with Ukraine
I'm Chaos! A 40y/o PoC queer disabled mind in the northern Chicago suburbs who wants to make the world a better place. Please consider helping me out however you're able, I have no income so it all helps <3
I want to make content showing my dive into queerness, mental illness, disability, and more to help others find their place in the world. Especially through story-telling, be it fictional or not. Feel free to send me an ask or DM me :D or ask for my Discord! I also have an 18+ discord server! If you want to be in on the server, click here!
I also have a Bluesky here!
I sometimes reblog or post 18+ things. If you want/do not want to see that, the tag is "ChaoticLibido"
In terms of the type of person I'm sexually attracted to, I'm primarily into more feminine folk. Nonbinary, Trans, Cis, etc. You don't have to be a 'woman' per-say, but femininity is a large part of my attraction to folk. I do like muscles but I also like curves. Really the shape of a body is what I enjoy more than not. And also boobs, I cannot deny that I like nice shapely tits lol
Kinks: Freeuse (the user), Light Degradation (the degrader), Sleep-play, Sensation play (giving), light exhibitionism/voyeurism, apparently doll/robot play it seems lol, fauxcest is something new that I am learning about myself, I'll put more as I remember them
Limits: Body hair I have a hard time with as I hate it on myself and so I don't like it overall, but you don't have to be fully clean shaven either.
Hard Limits: No bodily waste products(shit, piss, snot, etc.), no feet, no racial play, no blood, no knives or sharp objects, (I'll put more as I remember them lol)
For scenarios Being center is the person focused upon, participating being the one performing the actions. Kind of a confusing way to word this.
Also for groupings this does not count Cis-Males, sorry
Zenless Zone Zero spoilers 3.1 - This is meant to fill in a gap in the story
Taken directly from after Sigrid, Remielle, and Belle form a plan together about Dracaene when Belle is about to go to sleep on the make-shift couch in the En-nah gang hideout, Remielle has a different idea
This is just my two cents on what is ultimately a very complicated issue, but I feel like too often we treat representation like it's a quality problem when it would be better approached as a quantity problem. For as many people want to see a serious grounded portrayal of their experiences, there are also those who just want to relax and have a good time. So for instance, if you're writing a trans woman for your story, instead of pouring all of your effort into research - trying to avoid every stereotype while simultaneously making her all things to all trans women - you could instead just add a second trans woman
protip for everyone, but mostly boys in this case:
when you are on a date, and someone has an interest you don't quite get, instead of saying lol lame, try saying hmm i don't quite get that, please explain that to me, and then listen as the other person talks about why that thing is something they are in to.
you might learn something which recontextualizes the matter, and you will definitely learn something more about your date, which is the entire point of dating.
you don't have to be a superfan by the end, but you will have shown you can be chill and take an interest in stuff, which is much more likely to result in a second date instead of being ditched in a coffee line.
