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Not today Justin
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@theartofmadeline
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
NASA
cherry valley forever
Today's Document
Origami Around
trying on a metaphor
PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH
dirt enthusiast
Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
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#extradirty
Mike Driver
KIROKAZE
祝日 / Permanent Vacation
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@chelse309
@eleonora-borotynskaya9lv9y @howlz @its-dualwielding-mouse-now @gayvideogamecharacter @janeynewton @mayazen @lovepugsforlife-blog @projectrepublic @thetrumpimpeachment @beece @its-detrointt-now @livintumbler @bi-gemini @techgirlworld
@eleonora-borotynskaya9lv9y @howlz @its-dualwielding-mouse-now @gayvideogamecharacter @janeynewton @mayazen @lovepugsforlife-blog @projectrepublic @thetrumpimpeachment @beece @its-detrointt-now @livintumbler @bi-gemini @techgirlworld
@eleonora-borotynskaya9lv9y @howlz @its-dualwielding-mouse-now @gayvideogamecharacter @janeynewton @mayazen @lovepugsforlife-blog @projectrepublic @thetrumpimpeachment @beece @its-detrointt-now @livintumbler @bi-gemini @techgirlworld
@eleonora-borotynskaya9lv9y @howlz @its-dualwielding-mouse-now @gayvideogamecharacter @janeynewton @mayazen @lovepugsforlife-blog @projectrepublic @thetrumpimpeachment @beece @its-detrointt-now @livintumbler @bi-gemini @techgirlworld
@eleonora-borotynskaya9lv9y @howlz @its-dualwielding-mouse-now @gayvideogamecharacter @janeynewton @mayazen @lovepugsforlife-blog @projectrepublic @thetrumpimpeachment @beece @its-detrointt-now @livintumbler @bi-gemini @techgirlworld
trans ppl dont owe cis ppl shit! we dont owe u explanations, education, personal information, nothing! stop treating any random trans person u meet as your One-Stop-Shop on all things gender info related when google is literally free!
i’m fUCKING DYING
@beeblader
why saying “trans men are men” as a dismissive statement comparing them to cis men is harmful:
i was first wolf-whistled at 11 years old by a man in a passing car, and was frightened and sick to my stomach. the creeping, sickening dread that comes with realising men are beginning to see you as an object for consumption is terrifying. walking down a dark street with keys between my fingers, being touched suggestively by drunk men at social gatherings, consoling my childhood friend after she was sexually assaulted and trying to help her find the confidence to press charges - these were things i had experienced firsthand through having a “girl’s” childhood and adolescence.
6 months into hormone replacement therapy i continue to experience misogyny firsthand from those who perceive me in my day to day as a masculine woman. i experience homophobia both from those who perceive me (incorrectly) to be a butch lesbian and those who perceive me (correctly) to be a gay man. i experience transphobia from those who can place me as a trans man, who see my high waist and hint of breasts and pubescent stubble and hear a mans voice from my mouth. even when i pass as a man completely i have to be on edge, i cant speak to a cishet man without worrying that he will take issue with however he could interpret my appearance and confront it, potentially violently.
i am a man, but i was brought up as a girl, and that has intimately shaped the way i experience and portray masculinity. denying what i experienced growing up as a “girl” would be essentially denying things that made me into the person i am today. trans men are men, yes, but its a completely different experience of manhood, and equating it to a cishet male experience is not only objectively wrong but also harmful, as it ignores the struggle, isolation & marginalisation that comes with being a trans man
not to push this post but i really do want to foster some kind of understanding here bc theres a lot of assumptions and misconceptions about what its like being a trans guy from other people in the lgbt community and its really important to me to try and reduce that
summer camp island: feeling spacey
“I know it’s super scary but it’s so worth the risk being honest about what you love. Especially, when you really love pancakes- I mean, The King.”
In case you weren’t aware, deaf people swear just as much as the rest of us - they’re just able to do it a little more discreetly. YouTube channel Cut has helped us all join in on the fun by posting a video in which 7 deaf people show how to say all of your favorite curse words in American Sign Language, and it’s so much more fun than just flipping the bird. (Source)
I’m about have bitches so SHOOK.
Hmm. Need this for later.
Kill em with silence
Female pedophiles are just as bad as the male ones and they both deserve the same punishment
And you’re more than welcome to unfollow if you think otherwise 👍
Also, anyone who hears about a male child getting raped by a female and thinks “What a lucky kid” can unfollow me as well. You would never say that about a little girl, why is it suddenly okay when a child who is male is having sex?
4 happy brothers !
Starting over
It’s become more apparent that getting to oregon is going to be a secondary goal. We both are scheduled to start new jobs here in wisconsin, Jay on Sunday, and I’ll find out my start date later this afternoon.
We are sleeping on the living room floor with my aunt in her tiny one bedroom apartment. My mom decided that it’s too much for her to let us stay with her any longer when i got discharged from the county hospital on Tuesday night. She is not stable enough to have us living with her, it’s interfering with her routine and she’s openly told me how much my presence is unwanted.
Since we are both working, we need to be able to get our own space so that we can focus on our transition progress, and maintaining employment.
Jay won’t receive a first paycheck until 8/8, and Mine will very likely be the following Friday, as my start date has yet to be determined.
We are getting back on the right track to becoming stable again. We are humbly seeking assistance with paying for our security deposit and first months rent at our own place. Having our own space again is absolutely critical.
We are incredibly grateful for everyone who has offered their support.
If you are able to help us out, one last time we are confident that things are going to fall into place peacefully and allow us to have our own space again. It would mean the world to us.
PayPal or Google pay email address: [email protected]
https://www.paypal.me/olivergraham9
Venmo: @transitionmatrix
Cash app: $OliverGraham9
Starting over fund:
https://www.plumfund.com/financial-hardship/OliverJayHome
Thank you for your time,
Oliver Graham
how to be less racist
im exhausted from blocking u and sending ur dumbass posts to my friends to talk shit so here’s a tutorial on how not to be a demon. ur welcome white devil
broke: speaking for us
woke: boosting our voices
broke: #im white tag
woke: putting that you’re white in your about page where we can always see it instead of tagging the bi monthly post you rb about racism with this
broke: uwu please let me know if i do something racist
woke: taking responsibility for yourself, monitoring your own actions, being receptive of criticism even if it’s not delivered to you in a nice way
broke: distancing yourself from your whiteness by making white people jokes and talking mad shit abt other white people
woke: understanding that you are not somehow less white than other white people bc you aren’t a cishet able bodied nt man
broke: getting mad when we make jokes abt hating white people
woke: understanding that you don’t get to monitor how we express our anger abt the trauma we’ve experienced at white people’s hands
broke: arguing with us about what is or isn’t racism
woke: understanding that you have never actually experienced racism, staying in your lane, actually listening to us
broke: making racism abt you and your feelings
woke: understanding your experiences with and perspective on racism are dumb and don’t matter, focusing on people of color instead
broke: constantly asking your friends of color to roast people for you
woke: not dragging us into all your messes, handling your own beef, understanding we’re probably tired of ur shit, learning to roast people yourself
broke: reblogging posts abt racism with #let me know if this is ok to rb
woke: not rbing posts if you think rbing it would be overstepping boundaries, contacting op to ask if you can rb their post, developing critical thinking skills
broke: “yeah i dont do this” or “omg i didnt realize that was Bad and i was actively hurting people by doing it” on posts abt racism
woke: reading and comprehending them, reblogging them silently and without commentary, not trying to get brownie points at all times
broke: answering asks from other white demons consoling you after you get called out for racism
woke: blocking those racist bitches, not feeding into the idea that any poc who calls you out is a monster, acknowledging that you fucked up, apologizing, not doing whatever you did again
broke: thanking me for teaching you how to treat poc like people
woke: realizing you should be embarrassed i had to tell you this shit
