Strangelove

27 yo ABDL guy from Texas. BDSM, diaperlovers, and AB blog. Looking to meet people in the abdl, dd/lg, and related communities. I'm mostly a DL, but there are lots of things I enjoy. Taken by the cutest little one ever. Feel free to DM or ask questions or whatever strikes your fancy. 18+ plz.

[stay-close]

“I just want someone to be truly happy because of me. Someone who is happy to see me, happy to hear me, happy to know me.”

— Unknown

[softly-inthemoonlight]

thinking about being all cute for my dom, making them smile and laugh and spoil them with kisses

I could climb on their lap and cover their face with kisses, making sure my lips cover every inch of their beautiful face, before I repeatedly press sweet kisses to their lips… I could also trail featherlight kisses down their neck until they laugh because it tickles

just to show how much I love them and that they deserve all of it for taking such good care of me!

[cherishedones]

This is all i’ve ever wanted😿

[cherishedones]

That old feeling is back. I cant even get out of bed im in so much emotional and physical pain. I dont know how my partner has been so good at turning off her emotions. It's a completely different person than the one i've known for two years. Has that always been under her surface or does the thought of serious committment just make her turn a switch off? I tell her i love her and she wont even say it back any more. All i've given her is love, undsrstanding, and patience but somehow she has seeked out my negstives and waved them in front of me as to why we are not compatible. I've sworn to work on them and do everyday but it's not good enough. Maybe it is and she's just looking for an excuse. I can't deal with this pain and just want my life back, just three months back things were great and we had a future.... i know no one reads these anymore. I just want to be the priority in someone's life. To feel appreciated

[cherishedones]

I feel empty

My partner is pulling away from me and growing distant. She says i give her too much attention and im smothering. She’s probably right. Our relationship was perfect for the first year and a half. I’d give anything to have that back. I havent changed anything and still write her cute notes when i pack her lunch, still buy her flowers, still tell her goodnight and that i love her every night. I can’t go through another loss like this, the thought of losing her makes me sick physically and mentally. She means the world to me, but she says that’s the problem… she says she shouldnt be my whole world. She want me to fix my past traumas and im fighting like hell to do just that but those are deep wounds that make me hold on tight to her. I know she knows how much she means to me and deep down my fear is that she is afraid to commit. I truly cant take this again, i hope we can work through this and be stronger. But my stupid, broken brain goes to that bad place and immediately expects the worst. I’ve never shared my soul with anyone like i have her. I survived an abusive relationship right before i met her. She treats me better than anyone ever has and i want to believe that i went through that suffering to get here. She is my light at the end of the tunnel, i cant survive the darkness if that light goes out

[c0ffinbunnii]

[cherishedones]

I just want to feel like I’m enough…

[cherishedones]

Sorry i disappeared

Sorry i kinda just dropped off, i got tired of the spam accounts on here. I should at least try and make an effort on here since the kink friends i made on here helped me become the person i was always meant to be. I never would have made an attempt to accept this side of myself were it not for them. One person in particular i owe a lot to and i hope they know who they are. If they see this, im sorry we drifted apart and i’d give anything to have our friendship back. Rambling over

[akindplace]

Rkkaaay on twitter.

[dissoziative]

never not reblogging this.

[cherishedones]

Im still traumatized and apologize for everything and think im not deserving of love

[littledragon1]

Crafts to do with littles

[littledragon1]

Crafts to do with littles

[lg-secretsx-deactivated20240808]

4 Types of Boundaries for D/s Relationships

All healthy relationships involve communication, mutual respect, and boundaries. But conversations about boundaries can look different for D/s couples than for vanilla ones.

1. Sexual Boundaries

This includes the soft & hard limits you want to set for play. Don't forget to also talk about all the things you do want, not just the things you don't!

Soft limits: could consider.

Hard limits: definitely not.

Limits can change over time and there's nothing wrong with that! That's why communication is so important.

2. Emotional Boundaries

Emotional boundaries come into play with anything that can trigger stress or an emotional response, including rules, punishments, and some forms of play.

These boundaries are harder to set in advance than sexual ones.

Pay attention to how you & your partner feel when the power exchange is expressed in different ways, especially during punishments.

3. Independence/Dependence Boundaries

One big difference between D/s and vanilla relationships is how much independence each partner has. But D/s does NOT mean codependent.

As a Dom, what is it okay for your sub to depend on you for? How much independence do you need?

As a sub, how much say do you want your Dom to have in what you do? What parts of your life do you need more agency in?

4. Privacy Boundaries

It's important to set boundaries around whether you want other people to know about the D/s aspects of your relationship. Is it okay to tell anyone, and how much do you want to share?

Also consider your comfort level when it comes to showing casual dominance in public.

There's also your personal privacy - things you want to keep to yourself and not share with your partner - just like in any vanilla relationship.

[godshideouscreation]

[abdlpetmonsterfurfur-deactivate]

If you could reblog so I could find my old tumblr friends.

[reeferfox-deactivated20220116]

Me cause I don't like the way my body looks

[soft-puff]

What is involved in being a daddy?

Putting up with getting 10 million messages

[smolalpacacutie-deactivated2021]

And also putting up with glitter, soft voices, desperate grabby hands, tears, pouts, insane fears, cuddles, more glitter, mood swings, paci talk, stuffies, pretend play, Disney movies, cartoons, tantrums and sore arms cuz no, I’m not ready to get down yet, Daddy.

[onelittlekingdom]

also finding appropriate punishments for trespasses, creating daily tasks, providing rules and structure, creating a safe space for a little to play in, making routine decisions on their behalf, helping your little realize their full potential and initiating strategies to realize your vision of what that is, making sure they eat and drink enough and that it’s mostly healthy food and drink, reminding them to take their medication, encouraging daily exercise, and celebrating every little victory they bring your way. 

[onelittlekingdom]

Our Shared Journal

This was idea that PIp used in a previous dynamic, which worked for her, that she then brought into our dynamic.

1. Pip writes in the journal independently. Often she does it while I’m not watching. If I see her writing in the journal, I don’t talk about it. When she is done writing, she closes the journal and leaves it on my side of the bed. 

2. It then becomes my turn with the journal. I’ll discreetly read what Pip has written, and discreetly respond with my own entry. 

3. The things that are written in the journal, stay in the journal. I don’t start discussions outside of the journal about what we discuss within the journal, or vice versa.

4. We can agree to move a topic outside of the journal together.

This convention has allowed Pip to share a lot of things with me that I might not know about otherwise. It has been especially helpful in expressing some of the trauma that led to her cPTSD. We hope that other couples find this a useful tool within their dynamics.

JD & Pip

[cherishedones]

going to start doing this. Love the idea

[cherishedones]

Come join this abdl server if you dare

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