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× Mogai coining, liom coining, alter role coining, flag redesigns, userboxes ×
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<The Beginning>
Let the man think he's gotten control back for a bit, Val has other plans TwT
Things are starting to heat up! 🙊🙈🙉 (finally 😙)
Couple of things I noticed when drawing this stage in particular: Vox's skin tone is basically the same as his pants (it gets confusing lol) and his tongue changes color when it is out of the screen 😬 I never noticed that before lol
Oh well, hope you enjoy it guys! Sorry for the tardiness. This week I am busy with other things but as soon as the weekend passes it's back to normal upload time 😊
hey, please learn about internalized misogyny. being feminine and/or a girl doesn't excuse you from being misogynistic, even if you didn't mean it.
misogyny is everywhere, it's persistent, and no one is immune to it. not you, not me, not amory! this is true for all forms of bigotry. how to fight bigotry, though, is to call it out when you see it, especially in yourself!
i cant keep following you if youre going to respond THIS poorly to being called out. i think you should reflect and apologize instead of doubling down
Ive been dealing with internalized misogyny my whole life, i stopped being feminine for a period in my life because of it. I do understand i could be nicer, I know i could- However what I am trying to communicate is not misogyny. I would be saying the same thing if this was about any gender, it is not simply because Amory is a woman. I fear this is what people are missing most in my words. Amory's gender has no part in what I am saying. I see feminine genders all the time- There is definitely less, and that is upsetting. But saying its always because of misogyny is not accurate and is throwing words around.
I would also like to point out a reason I react the way I do to things. I have suspected BPD and bipolar. This is not an excuse for reacting aggressively, but it is a reason for my poor reactions.
I encourage anyone to direct message me to civilly discuss something, I am a lot better about recognizing and managing my reactions when not making long posts
This is expanding on a point I made here (link).
But the fact that there being more self indulgently coined men and masc terms is still a symptom of the problem of women not being very welcomed in mogai
Pt: But the fact that there being more self indulgently coined men and masc terms is still a symptom of the problem of women not being very welcomed in mogai :end pt
Think about it. Really think about it.
If most of the self indulgent coins being posted are about being a man, being masc, etc, then that still speaks to a problem of women and those who consider themselves fem in some aspect being missing from a space.
This is not a natural state of a space. Women (and related, women is being used as a short hand here), don't inherently have more """Simple genders""" that can't be coined from. Women don't inherently have a lesser interest in coining. Women don't inherently have a lesser or no interest in mogai.
There are few women in mogai because mogai doesn't explicitly make itself friendly to us.
I'm not holding a knife to a coiner's throat saying they have to start posting genders for women. But I am saying that this still speaks to an issue.
An issue that has to be fixed.
Tags under the cut.
Hey so self indulgent typically means that that's something the coiner relates to
You cant fault someone for being masculine or a man. If their making self indulgent posts that means it was originally made for them. If you feel a lack of feminine genders, make some of your own, thats what this community is about.
I have also seen a lot of feminine genders, and have a lot of feminine genders myself. I fear if you just look, or ask coiners to make a femme version of a gender, or make the femme version your, or anything instead of just complaining.
I have also looked at some of your other rants and I fully agree with you that the mogai community gets weird with the word "female". I think anyone who says female but not male is weird. Yes the community has issues, but you cannot fault the community for your lack of seeing feminine genders.
you do realize this is the exact shit op is saying is an issue right
whenever women in mogai talk about hostility and someone shuts them down, that makes women not want to engage in mogai. which then decreases the amount of self indulgently coined feminine terms.
the fact that when you see a woman point out an issue your first thought is to diminish it to "just complaining" is an issue. its the exact issue op is explaining. you are part of the problem.
Because the hostility isnt coming from the damn genders???? just because i call someone out for a dumb argument doesn't mean im hating on them for being a women. I am transfemmemasc/transboygirl, and afab (not that it matters), I am not hating anyone for existing as a women, but thst in turn means ya can hate trans mascs and men for existing. Please can people stop assuming that criticism is suddenly bigotry??
You being a transfem and a girl doesn't mean you can't be misogynistic. Women wield misogyny against each other often as we are pushed to do for our own benefit. To claw our way higher up the social ladder by pulling our fellow women down.
It isn't an excuse.
It just Makes it more Shameful.
Misogyny - dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women
I never expressed a dislike for women, contempt for women, or prejudice against women. telling someone their wrong isnt bigotry inherently
This is expanding on a point I made here (link).
But the fact that there being more self indulgently coined men and masc terms is still a symptom of the problem of women not being very welcomed in mogai
Pt: But the fact that there being more self indulgently coined men and masc terms is still a symptom of the problem of women not being very welcomed in mogai :end pt
Think about it. Really think about it.
If most of the self indulgent coins being posted are about being a man, being masc, etc, then that still speaks to a problem of women and those who consider themselves fem in some aspect being missing from a space.
This is not a natural state of a space. Women (and related, women is being used as a short hand here), don't inherently have more """Simple genders""" that can't be coined from. Women don't inherently have a lesser interest in coining. Women don't inherently have a lesser or no interest in mogai.
There are few women in mogai because mogai doesn't explicitly make itself friendly to us.
I'm not holding a knife to a coiner's throat saying they have to start posting genders for women. But I am saying that this still speaks to an issue.
An issue that has to be fixed.
Tags under the cut.
Hey so self indulgent typically means that that's something the coiner relates to
You cant fault someone for being masculine or a man. If their making self indulgent posts that means it was originally made for them. If you feel a lack of feminine genders, make some of your own, thats what this community is about.
I have also seen a lot of feminine genders, and have a lot of feminine genders myself. I fear if you just look, or ask coiners to make a femme version of a gender, or make the femme version your, or anything instead of just complaining.
I have also looked at some of your other rants and I fully agree with you that the mogai community gets weird with the word "female". I think anyone who says female but not male is weird. Yes the community has issues, but you cannot fault the community for your lack of seeing feminine genders.
Hello. While I am not the headmate that wrote this post, I am the one who the garden tasked with responding. And I feel the need to start off with this.
You telling Amory her to do "Anything instead of just complaining" is one of the most hurtful things that she has had said to her in a while. You are her community member, someone she was supposed to be able to lock hands with and trust that you would understand her. And you look at her pointing out an issue, and not only wildly misinterpret what is said, but have the Gall to pull the misogynistic tactic and say she is just Complaining. How dare you. I hope you feel ashamed of yourself. I hope when you read this, and realize what you've done, it haunts you. Because how dare you so cruelly lash out at a woman talking about the ways that she feels unwelcome, try to push her deeper into never talking about the issues that plague this "community". How DARE you. You are the reason there are so few women in mogai. And I hope you take that shame to your grave.
Moving on.
You act like we are too ignorant, to unknowing of our own oppression that we don't know what we are saying. We know what self indulgent means. You don't have to explain it to us. And the fact that you felt the need to explain it says to me that you 1. Don't trust women to talk about their own oppression. 2. Don't think women talking about their oppression know what they are talking about. An perfect example of misogyny.
Your next point. If you had taken the time to read the whole post Amory had made, you would have read where she said "I'm not holding a knife to a coiner's throat saying they have to start posting genders for women. But I am saying that this still speaks to an issue." This issue isn't that men are coining genders for themselves. The issues is that mogai has created a space where even though it's meant to be open to everyone, Only Men are coining self indulgent terms. You also turn the wheel of misogyny by saying that this is a problem that Amory, all alone, must fix. That you have no fault. That the community, has no fault in this. And that is Dead. Wrong. It's always on the women to fix their issues isn't it? Always on the minority alone to get rid of their oppression and fix the wrongs done to them.
I also feel the need to point out your use of "Rant". Tell me. Why do you feel the need to pin an angry tone to the posts Amory has made about misogyny in mogai? When Amory wrote most of them in a calm and informative tone. Why do you feel the need to make it sound like a woman is being emotional?
And I will fault the community for the lack of feminine, because the lack is caused by how mogai pushes women out. Women like Amory.
Like how you nearly pushed Amory out of Mogai with your post.
@radiomogai, @womogai, @femboo
I am shocked people throw bigotry words around at this point. No one was hating on someone for being a women. Just because she happens to be a women, and made a post putting guilt on people and we called it out, doesn't mean her being a women is the issue.
First off telling people to "take that shame to the grave" and "i hope it haunts you" are really shitty responses to something you didn't like. By definition, she is complaining and ranting. Sure, that alter could have used better wording I admit, but that doesn't stop the words from being technically correct.
We never said you didn't know what self indulgent was, or you were unaware of your own oppression. We have a habit of over explaining to make sure no one is on a different page. That is our habit and not your fault (duh) and I apologize it came across as "your stupid" which your not.
By making this post, you are, in fact, pressuring people to make more feminine genders. if more feminine people coined genders for themselves, there would be more stuff. I assume most people coin things they relate to most of the time.
we never said Amory had to fix it all on her own, but she could start to help by coining or requesting more feminine genders. Its not an end all be all solution, but it does more then making a post about how its an issue. we never said the community had "no fault", but that this isnt misogyny (unless you have evidence on a creator otherwise duh).
"Rant" has no angry connotations to it. positive and neutral rants are just as normal, important, and real as angry or depressed rants. you chose to put an angry connotation on the word rant. that is not my fault
I fear there are many feminine genders if you look, I have found 7 in one 5 minute scroll. 90% of the genders I find are neutral in nature, and can lean masc or fem depending on the person.
If Amory cant take criticism, maybe she shouldn't be on the Internet in the first place.
-Demon (He/it) & Ian (He/it)
This is expanding on a point I made here (link).
But the fact that there being more self indulgently coined men and masc terms is still a symptom of the problem of women not being very welcomed in mogai
Pt: But the fact that there being more self indulgently coined men and masc terms is still a symptom of the problem of women not being very welcomed in mogai :end pt
Think about it. Really think about it.
If most of the self indulgent coins being posted are about being a man, being masc, etc, then that still speaks to a problem of women and those who consider themselves fem in some aspect being missing from a space.
This is not a natural state of a space. Women (and related, women is being used as a short hand here), don't inherently have more """Simple genders""" that can't be coined from. Women don't inherently have a lesser interest in coining. Women don't inherently have a lesser or no interest in mogai.
There are few women in mogai because mogai doesn't explicitly make itself friendly to us.
I'm not holding a knife to a coiner's throat saying they have to start posting genders for women. But I am saying that this still speaks to an issue.
An issue that has to be fixed.
Tags under the cut.
Hey so self indulgent typically means that that's something the coiner relates to
You cant fault someone for being masculine or a man. If their making self indulgent posts that means it was originally made for them. If you feel a lack of feminine genders, make some of your own, thats what this community is about.
I have also seen a lot of feminine genders, and have a lot of feminine genders myself. I fear if you just look, or ask coiners to make a femme version of a gender, or make the femme version your, or anything instead of just complaining.
I have also looked at some of your other rants and I fully agree with you that the mogai community gets weird with the word "female". I think anyone who says female but not male is weird. Yes the community has issues, but you cannot fault the community for your lack of seeing feminine genders.
you do realize this is the exact shit op is saying is an issue right
whenever women in mogai talk about hostility and someone shuts them down, that makes women not want to engage in mogai. which then decreases the amount of self indulgently coined feminine terms.
the fact that when you see a woman point out an issue your first thought is to diminish it to "just complaining" is an issue. its the exact issue op is explaining. you are part of the problem.
Because the hostility isnt coming from the damn genders???? just because i call someone out for a dumb argument doesn't mean im hating on them for being a women. I am transfemmemasc/transboygirl, and afab (not that it matters), I am not hating anyone for existing as a women, but thst in turn means ya can hate trans mascs and men for existing. Please can people stop assuming that criticism is suddenly bigotry??
This is expanding on a point I made here (link).
But the fact that there being more self indulgently coined men and masc terms is still a symptom of the problem of women not being very welcomed in mogai
Pt: But the fact that there being more self indulgently coined men and masc terms is still a symptom of the problem of women not being very welcomed in mogai :end pt
Think about it. Really think about it.
If most of the self indulgent coins being posted are about being a man, being masc, etc, then that still speaks to a problem of women and those who consider themselves fem in some aspect being missing from a space.
This is not a natural state of a space. Women (and related, women is being used as a short hand here), don't inherently have more """Simple genders""" that can't be coined from. Women don't inherently have a lesser interest in coining. Women don't inherently have a lesser or no interest in mogai.
There are few women in mogai because mogai doesn't explicitly make itself friendly to us.
I'm not holding a knife to a coiner's throat saying they have to start posting genders for women. But I am saying that this still speaks to an issue.
An issue that has to be fixed.
Tags under the cut.
Hey so self indulgent typically means that that's something the coiner relates to
You cant fault someone for being masculine or a man. If their making self indulgent posts that means it was originally made for them. If you feel a lack of feminine genders, make some of your own, thats what this community is about.
I have also seen a lot of feminine genders, and have a lot of feminine genders myself. I fear if you just look, or ask coiners to make a femme version of a gender, or make the femme version your, or anything instead of just complaining.
I have also looked at some of your other rants and I fully agree with you that the mogai community gets weird with the word "female". I think anyone who says female but not male is weird. Yes the community has issues, but you cannot fault the community for your lack of seeing feminine genders.
"This users comfort creator is Tommyinnit"
"This users comfort creator is Tommyinnit"
Shapeshifting userboxes // self indulgent
Free to use with or without credit
"This system wants to be a shapeshifter"
"This system feels like it shapeshifts"
"This alter shapeshifts"
Feel free to ask for different pronouns
[PT; Shapeshifting userboxes // self indulgent ; Free to use with or without credit /end PT]
MASAUSEXUAL
An orientation atteacted to MSAIN genders, exclusively or not
[PT: MASAUSEXUAL ; An orientation atteacted to MSAIN genders, exclusively or not]
Masaucidal not coined by me, credit to @twofacedboyfail
DIRTYSHIRLYGENDER
A gender that is related to dirty (alcoholic) Shirley temples
[PT: DIRTYSHIRLYGENDER ; A gender that is related to dirty (alcoholic) Shirley temples /end PT]
Spencer Reid yumeship
A flag for people who yumeship with Spencer Reid from Criminal minds!
[PT: Spencer Reid yumeship ; A flag for people who yumeship with Spencer Reid from Criminal minds! /end PT]
Stuffies userboxes // self indulgent
[PT: Stuffies userboxes // self indulgent /end PT]
Free to use with or without credit
[PT: Free to use with or without credit /end PT]
"this user is emotionally attached to stuffies"
"This user cannot stand to see its stuffies in "pain""
"This user loves its stuffies'
'This user loves its stuffies even when big"
Feel free to ask for pronouns changes
[PT: Feel free to ask for pronouns changes /end PT]
Non girl userboxes // Self indulgent
Free to use with or without credit
"I may be feminine, please do not refer to me as a woman/girl" (will fix typo later)
"This user may call itself a girl sometimes but YOU cannot call it a girl"
"This user does NOT use they/them do not refer to it as such"
"This user is NOT a girl they are a g r i l l /j" (will fix typo later)
Feel free to request pronoun changes
[PT: Feel free to request pronoun changes /end PT]
PERFECT OCBPD
A term for pwOCD and BPD who feel like they are/must be/want to be perfect because of their OCD and BPD
Term is exclusive to people with both BPD and OCD
[PT: PERFECT OCBPD ; A term for pwOCD and BPD who feel like they are/must be/want to be perfect because of their OCD and BPD ; Term is exclusive to people with both BPD and OCD /end PT]
Sky Fox Transspecies
A flag for transspecies individuals whoms species is a Sky Fox, whatever that means to the user
[PT: Sky Fox Transspecies ; A flag for transspecies individuals whoms species is a Sky Fox, whatever that means to the user /end PT]
