Pimgnose

Trangener 🏳️‍⚧️ Woman girl Eggmug Owner

[anxietyproblem]

[our-queer-experience]

you all deserve BETTER

[girlballs]

tutorial on how to look at my tumblr mutuals boobs when

I mean, you could probably just ask nicely to see them?

[virtualgirladvance]

sometimes they just post them

[my-life-is-a-sidequest]

If you get close to them they might even let you touch them

[whisqrs]

why does my boyfriend have to turn everything into a game of saw

[upandoutcomic]

With my birthday soon, thinkin about the passage of time.

Comic artist StupidTwink said it well "it does suck we dont have enough actual old women to call trans elders that we have to resort to using it on women who are not yet middle-aged"

[ayviedoesthings]

Saying this with all the love in my heart, "Trans" is not a magical title that erases all social biases and discriminations you hold in your mind the moment you transition.

You have to actually ACTIVELY unlearn all that shit. You can actually be trans AND hold TERF and racist beliefs, it is in fact very easy.

Read studies and essays, Engage with the works of other minorities, Don't think you're just better by virtue of losing *some* privilege.

[kaylasartwork]

This is something I am still learning to this very day. Growing up in a Christian Conservative Town and family gave me a lot of unfortunate views that I struggle with constantly. Everyday I try to chip away at those views.

[decemberwinter]

[thememedaddy]

[halimaidmf]

[petrofiedpuppy]

finishes too, sometimes.

[tgirl-tamag0tchi]

Smiling aches my face muscles cause I’m not used to smiling for long periods of time… that’s probably not a good sign lol.

[multiverseobserver]

Maybe it's not a good sign about your past, but it sounds like you're smiling more to notice it. And *that* is a good sign.

[tgirl-tamag0tchi]

It is!

I love my new place.

I love my girlfriends.

I love my friends.

I’m excited for my job.

And I’m excited for my TTRPG projects.

Life is… slowly… getting better.

And I don’t feel… like I’m drowning anymore.

[malama-art]

girl ash 4 pride month

[punkitt-is-here]

me when the fucking??? character???? i guess??????

[elierlick]

You wouldn't know it from mainstream media, but cis lesbians are the most supportive group of trans people... even more than trans people ourselves!

Media doesn't present reality: it creates it. The moral panic over trans women in queer spaces is a contrived conflict invented to drive our community apart. But our movements are connected at their core, and we are stronger together.

[autogynophelia]

I went to a trans meetup yesterday where, not only was I made to reveal and say aloud my deadname by a (cis queer) bartender who ID'd me (while knowing I was there for the trans event), but also on three separate occasions different trans men referred to groups of trans women I was in as "guys".

And I had a really good time! I think having only 4 explicitly transphobic or transmisogynistic things happen to me at a social event is just so unusually low that it feels like a relief if anything. If I'm lucky, one day I'll go to an event where nothing bad happens at all, and it will be incredible.

[rejoyous]

[zmpl]

the notion of saving lives at all costs prevents suicidal people from speaking about their experiences in a candid way, knowing they will be decentered (e.g. “your family/friends will be devastated if you die”), subject to moral arguments (e.g. “suicide is a selfish act”), referred to someone else, often someone who has a hefty paywall behind their listening ear (e.g. “are you seeing a therapist about this?”), or incarcerated against their will. because of this, voices of suicidal people are left out from conversations about suicide, even paradoxically in campaigns encouraging suicidal people to reach out for support.

in order to break the stigma around suicidality, we have to break away from the prevention-no-matter-what script and honor suicidal people’s autonomy, allowing them to speak freely about their lived experience even in the face of personal discomfort for nonsuicidal people. in our current society, nonsuicidal people wield power/privilege over suicidal people. if your immediate reaction to hearing about a marginalized person’s pain is to shut them down in some way, you need to evaluate why you are centering your own comfort above another person who is confiding in you.

[tamamita]

Zun is funny, you could draw some his characters with massive tiddies, and he'd be like "wow :)"

[toskarin]

ZUN's wife did exactly this

[firem4ge]

It’s so fucking irritating how testosterone will irrevocably destroy your body. Your voice is damaged forever. You grow hair that takes thousands to correct. That’s not even counting the bone changes that you either can’t correct or need surgery to correct. Your life is just harder because of testosterone forever. You’re not even allowed to complain about it.

[nora-fem]

Yeah and no one mentions how we found out only 2 years ago that testosterone causes pelvic floor dysfunction in 94% of trans men (x) I wish trans health care was healthy and that they actually did proper research on cross-sex HRT but at least it's starting to happen now. Trans and detrans folks alike deserve so much better.

[xenasaur]

oh my gods shut the fuck up about how you were too stupid to make good life decisions and need to make it everyone else's problem, some of us had this literally forced upon us with no recourse

[xenasaur]

"but what about how this affects trans men" on a trans woman's vent post transcends the barrier of detransition apparently

[xenasaur]

by the way the cited source is an online survey of 68 trans men and it determined they fart a lot very good rock-solid scientific rigor there why don't we give nora here a round of applause