[cigaretteduck]

i dont give a damn if ur transgender being obsessed with anime titties is lame as fuckkk

[female-uncle]

I know a lot of yall have moral OCD from being autistic and growing up on Tumblr so I just wanna remind you that just because you're a radfem doesn't mean you have to ascribe to some screed of rules. This isn't an ideology or cult the same way genderism is, and I think it is very pertinent for all of us, especially detransitioners, to focus time and energy on dismantling this framework lest we burn ourselves out and just repeat the same toxic cycles on ourselves and eachother.

You don't have to suddenly become vegan and celibate and 4B and all this stuff if that's not something you already were. Live your life girl, be happy. Read and talk to other women, feed your mind and your soul. Don't hold yourself to impossible standards; anyone who is serious about being an activist is in it for the long haul, not just short bursts. Above all things, find peace in yourself, there's no way to help other people if you can't do that. Much love xo

[female-uncle]

And heres the other thing; we do not all agree on everything and that's healthy as fuck! I intentionally follow women who I think would very much disagree with some of the things I believe. We are fostering a community of learning, literacy, and good-faith conversation here on radblr dot tunglr dot gov.

And one last thing- NEVER forget that the internet was an invention of the US military. Your opps are in the walls lol like..algorithms incentivise us entering into cult-like mentality because it prevents human beings from attaining class consciousness and striking/rebelling. So as much as it is an amazing technology, take a look at the ground yr feet are on and remember that you're above all else a damn human being and you deserve to be treated like one. When we foster environments that allow for questioning and dissidence, we make it safe for learning. It becomes safe to be wrong. Think about how liberating that is? We are blessed actually to have this little corner of the web so let's make it into a garden ❤️

[quinntheestallion]

PEAK thread- people who peaked recently within the last two years- can you share your experience and what sent you over the edge. I’m curious

[cigaretteduck]

Tumblr "transfeminists" and the isuggestforcefem situation peaked me (kinda long, so I put it under a cut)

I grew up in a pretty liberal area and a number of my high school friends identified as MtF, so whenever I encountered trans-critical rhetoric I used to think "that's not true, [friend] is a trans woman and she's not like that", essentially "not all men" with a pride flag sticker slapped on top in retrospect. As I got older, my online and irl social circles became more and more MtF-dominated since I enjoyed a lot of the hobbies and interests they did and earnestly saw them as "fellow women". After "transfeminism" started to rise to prominence on Tumblr in 2023 or so, I slowly got frog-boiled into agreeing with it because the alternative was losing most of my friends and being socially isolated. As they gradually became more open about their degeneracy, I was conditioned to just accept it while slowly becoming more discontent with how I was perceived and treated in their circles. After a year or two of this I started slowly distancing myself from them, deactivating my old blog and limiting my interactions. The ISFF drama was the last straw for me, and it made me realize just how horribly I was allowing these people to treat me, and just how male-patterned it all was. I truly hope everyone with "TME" in bio gets the hell out of there like I did, "transfeminist" TiMs are some of the most misogynistic people I've ever had the displeasure of knowing.

[uvb76fan]

Dump Your Puppygirl

Weaponized incompetence wears a collar.

[the-white-pharaoh-deactivated20]

Trans are like wow youre emotionally unstable and extremely angry all the time? I think you would feel better if you injected a foreign hormone that makes you more unstable and angry

[letterful]

[sexhavergenocide]

[segamascott]

[tragbarerpanzrabwehrkomplexfagot]

[hometoursandotherstuff]

 Z from the 1998 animated film Antz.

[taxidermyrose]

hello hypergafoids

[witchrealms]

(x)

[periodicult]

Arthur Elgort for Vogue Patterns magazine, May/June 1982. Pattern by Calvin Klein.

[idabjoerk]

via pinterest

[cigaretteduck]

it's deeply embarrassing to self-identify as a "femcel" i feel (especially since the term is largely used by pickmes and larpers) but i feel like it's the closest "archetype" to whatever i've got going on

[ointmented]

Getting high on his own supply... Not cool

[cigaretteduck]

i have a lot of interests that are pretty male/mtf-dominated (won't go into detail for the sake of my anonymity) but when i was in tra spaces i almost felt like i "shouldn't" exist, like i was "stealing transfem valor" or something for being a bio female who happened to like the things they did. it really is just gender stereotypes 2.0 over there