Patchouli

When humans die they become able to use magic. That is the same as giving up humanity.

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Hello. You may refer to me as Ms or Mr. I do not have a name in my system nor do I feel like gaining one. I am a trans id tip blog, I do anything that I feel like I know a certain amount of stuff about.

Please click this for a link to my additional intro.

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i know you did transgreek but perhaps transgreek stucf but specfically ancient greek and transhelpol!!! please :D

Small question.. is this supposed to be done in all one post or ..? And is there a certain god in mind ?? I dont want to do ancient greek tips as I forgot about it a lot ... but I dont mind helpol as one of our alters worships Ares ... but the request is a bit vague so I wanted to just get further details about this .

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Tips for trans chronically ill?

Anything appreciated, thank you

Trans Chronically Ill tips

　1. Symptoms

　　while you yourself may not be medically recongized as chronically ill, you can still show symptoms for it! Such as being constantly tired or out of breath easily, always having to lay down or sit, and pretending that you feel pain consistently in one place or around your whole body. From what I've seen, especially if in pain constantly ( coming from a cis chronically ill person ) you're more prone to anger.

　2. Research

　　there are things that are considered chronically ill that people have and don't even know about, so research! See if you fit any of the diagnostics. Chronic illnesses are usually diagnosed due to it being around for a year or longer, requires ongoing medical attention, or limits the things you can do. Remember, you don't have to try and get a diagnosis especially if you can't due to whatever reason! That's common especially for people with chronic illnesses..

　3. Just believe in it

　　I know I say this often.. but it's a good tip! Just tell people you're chronically ill, say your chronically ill, tell people your cis chronically ill if you want! Whatever! Get stuff that helps with your illness too if you can! Or make characters that represent yourself with those items that help your chronic illnesses!

This is really short so I do apologize.. I dont know what else to write ,, haha !...

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transera peak of the romantic period? 1800-1850 (is that too broad? idk?)

ty in advance!!!! ^_^

We may be able to do if you send another ask with a specific culture or region in mind. But for now,, this is simply out of my lane.

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We finally have wifi again. So expect posts soon.. please be patient.

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could I get advice on transSon&Dad? me and my bf wanna change our dynamic from bfs to dad&son but are struggling

Trans dad & son tips

　1 . Vocabulary

　I think it'd be good to call your partner ( or the one who is the father in this situation ) dad ,, daddy ,, or anything of that sort . Prn could also address the son in a somewhat fatherly tone ? As in kiddo ,, champ ,, etc . Encouragement is incredibly recommended as a good way of being a parent is by showing you love them via being there and being emotionally reliable for your child along with the fact praise is good for a child's development... ( this was all written terribly wonky ,, why ?? )

　　2 . physical actions

　things such as shoulder pats,, back pats,, head pats,, side hugs,, high-fives,, fist bumps,, and more are things I've seen most fathers do with their child. So do that if you know each other irl !!

　　3 . Be a good example

　Sons usually look up to their fathers when in need of stuff or to understand what to do,, so just be the best you can be for your child!! If this one makes sense

　　4 . found family / blood related family

　You can tell others you meet you are either blood related or see eachother as family!! Ask others if they can see you guys as real family and try talking to them about each other a way a father or son would speak about the other!

　　5 . parental controls

　I do this with my partner so I'm adding this!! Maybe get parental controls apps or stuff like life360,, just anything parents would make their kids have on their phone. Only do this if you trust the other,, as stuff like this is a bit risky and should only be done if you trust the other extremely.

this had been done long ago. But it was deleted. So I held it off for a while...

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transdeaf tips plsssss :)!!!

Trans deaf tips

it'll be really hard to all of a sudden force everyone to provide for your needs,, so this is all thought of realistically,, apologies!!

　1 . Hearing

　Ask people to repeat stuff for you,, perhaps louder or get closer to them in order to hear better. Take a while to reply as if you're trying to process what they're saying. Sometimes ask them to write what they said in order to read it.

　　2 . Sign Language

　Learn sign language or ways to communicate without talking. Try to see if you can communicate either via hand signals,, sign language,, writing it down,, or anything else.

　　3 . Ways of becoming deaf

　This is a bit bad to recommend lol. But if you want to go deaf,, you can listen to really loud music,, or just music in general for a long time. Though I do not recommend.. so take this with a grain of salt!!

　　4 . Hearing aids

　See if you can work money up for hearing aids. If you can't afford any or can not buy it without suspicion due to your guardians you may use earbuds that resemble hearing aids or draw yourself wearing them or make sonas with hearing aids on it.

　　5 . ??

　I don't know how to write the title for this one lol. But deaf people are more sensitive due to one of their senses being loss. Certain deaf people can also hear noise sometimes but it's extremely muffled. Some may also hear low frequencies. Being deaf is somewhat a spectrum and symptoms may vary! Try and see if you can strengthen your body senses ( touch,, smell,, eyesight. )

　　6 . Lying

　Tell people when you meet them ( not verbally if preferred ) that you're deaf !! Or tell people online that you're deaf!! Lying is okay sometimes!

really sad so i made this to distract myself. sorry that its short.

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Can I get some transgreek tips to help @/permalxvergirl? ^^ (please tag her if you accept !!! :D)

Trans Greek tips

@permalxvergirl

　1 . Greek Etiquette

　Greeting others through handshakes is preferred ,, both in informal and formal occasions . Try to bring someone a gift no matter how cheap or small it is if going inside someones house . This website is better at explaining all etiquette then me .

　　2. Language

　Learn Greek ,, try to learn the language . That's all I can really say .

　　3. VPN

　Get a VPN and set it to Greece . Tell others you either live in or you were born in Greece . You could tell others your family originated from Greece as well .

　　4. Expressiveness

　Be expressive . Look up Greek expressions and figure out what you like the most .

　　5. History

　Learn a lot about Greece and it's history . Study it and try to see what you're most patriotic about . You can either be super patriotic or not at all patriotic . Its your decision .

I don't know stuff about greek people .

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May I request transcreature tips? Creature as in any general feral animal / monster / amalgamation thing.

I apologize . I have zero idea on what to write for this .

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hello! May I please have some transDelusional tips? I wish to delusionally identify as Scraps from dandy’s world

Trans delusional tips

( Somewhat specifically character wise )

　1 . Believing

　I personally say pretend you're NOT being trans delusional !! Like for example you may say your trans delusional but in your head affirm yourself . Tell yourself that you are said thing you are delusional about ,, and that people who think you aren't 'delusional' or that said thing are silly !!

　　2. Affirm affirm affirm !!

　Affirm yourself !! Use subliminals !! Write your affirmations !!! You can write over and over stuff like " I am *insert thing* " or " everyone sees me as *thing once again* " but don't say it in future tense !! ( If you want you can ,, but results are better in present tense !! )

　　3. Tell others !!

　if you can ,, have a group of people that can affirm you ,, let them tell you how you ARE that thing ( because you totally are !! ) let them call you by stuff that affirms that you are that thing and other things that fit your preference !!

　　4. Persona !!

　You can draw yourself as said thing you believe you are ,, even drawing small doodles on papers of yourself and such go a longg way !!

　　5. Confidence

　Just have confidence !! Enough confidence and you can trick your subconscious into believing you are geniunely delusional over this stuff !! Try to push away any negative thoughts that make you believe you're not !!

Took this more in a delusional viewpoint as others typically don't want to believe they're delusional . . . Apologies !! Tips still apply .

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wahhhh!!!!!! i love your layout (i recently started hyperfixing on touhou, though my favorite characters are reimu, marisa, flandre, and reisen)!!!

That's really cool,, my favorites are Mima,, Patchouli,, Yuyuko,, and Suwako . I like you,, you pick good characters.

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Henllooo!! Everynyan :3 !! I hope you're doing well!!

Can I have transage older to younger? Specifically either kid or preteen (think of like 3-6 or 8-12) age range?

Trans 3-5 tips

　　1 . Food and drinks

　Try to drink something that usually 3-5 drinks, which is usually things such as apple juice, milk, water, and just juice in general. Try eating softer food, when age regressed I like having soup because as a kid I remember my big brother would feed me somewhat cold soup. If you can, ask other people to help you feed yourself or something. Even just having them there while you eat is okay.

　　2. Talk to yourself.

　A lot of the toddlers I've been around do this a lot. Just encouraging yourself and telling yourself stuff like " I'm so cool " and the sorts is good. Speaking of talking, don't baby babble but do try to keep your vocabulary small.

　　3. Comfortably

　A lot of toddlers like things such as warm blankets, toys, plushies, and the sorts. Try to have stuff for an aesthetic you like. I recommend having oversized hoodies and wearing colorful clothing. A lot of parents enjoy dressing their child up in overly colorful clothes or just anything that looks 'cute' and silly. If you feel too embarrassed or just can't, then that's fine. Just put a bit more color into your outfit whether it's just socks, shoes, underwear, anything.

　　4. Coloring!!

　I do not know if this is a regular thing for all children but I got into art at 4. I recommend getting into it, if you want to be more.. artsy ? If not just skip this. But it's fun for children to play with crayons and coloring books. You should try to buy stickers, crayons, a coloring book, or anything you can color on.

　　5. Mindset

　At 3-5 children are usually still not all that smart, but they're not incredibly dumb. A lot of 3-5 year olds aren't extremely naive ( though sometimes some might be. ) but it's good to try and be creative and playful. It's also good to try and like... Figure out who you are at this age. So. Yeah. Sorry if this is explained poorly.

　　6. Routines!

　3-5 year olds hate when new things happen or if scary stuff that they didn't expect happen, so try to have a schedule. When ruined either make a big fuss over it or just get really upset, whether private or in public. I don't recommend throwing tantrums in public, as it's not something people really consent to. But if you live at home with someone who allows you to do this stuff or just by yourself, you could basically throw a tantrum. Just try not to get hurt.

　　7. Dependence

　At this age kids want to be as independent as possible, but they still need help with a lot of stuff. Try to be as independent as you possibly can but then when you need help don't be afraid to ask for help!

　　8. Movement

　Fidget around and stuff. Be clingy with others and try to be more energetic. Whether by rocking back and forth, running around and skipping, talking a bunch about your favorite interests or anything else. Don't thumb suck, you can gain an overjet from that.

This is a bit sucky and I couldn't tell what you meant ( as English isn't my first language ) but I did read 3-5 and I got happy at the idea of writing this. You may send another request in detail for the 8-... I forgot the number as I'm writing this in my notes. Ja. Bye.

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can we have trans american tips ?????????? thhhhyxxx

Trans American tips

ㅤㅤ𝟙 .ㅤBe good at small talk . ㅤA lot of americans are good at small talking ,, Patchouli recommends things such as " how are you ? " " good ,, how about you ? " and the oridinary . Never vent if someone says how are you ,, it's basically like another hi / hello . People don't genuinely want to know how you truly feel .

ㅤㅤ𝟚 .ㅤBe accustomed to loudness . ㅤAmerica is loud ,, I presume . So try your best to get used to noise . Whether that's by becoming good at drowning the sounds out or by just getting used to it .

ㅤㅤ𝟛 .ㅤGet good at bargaining . ㅤA lot of stuff in America is expensive . Sometimes even if it's stuff off of sites like the Facebook marketplace . So a lot of Americans are probably used to bargaining . Get good at bringing prices down for you ,, or even by letting people who consent like ... ask people who consent to work on your skills of getting cheap or free items .

ㅤㅤ𝟜 .ㅤStart tipping . ㅤTips others . At restaurants especially . Unless in your place it's seen as insulting ,, always leave a tip . You can watch videos on how to properly calculate your tips .

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I am a simple minded thing. I am a cis communist and cis patchouli. I love touhou, knowledge, nursing, and praise. There's not much to me. My favorite color is gray, dark gray. I am nullrace.