I'm no longer new here

18+ TMA transfem. Maybe I'll actually put stuff here eventually

[sailatina3]

Genuinely I hope shens "fans" dont keep her in the closet by violently rejecting the possibility she may want to be a girl.

[calamity-corner]

you can tell trans women are women because we're not allowed to be sexual but also everything we do has sexuality imposed upon it

[calamity-corner]

you can tell trans women are women because we're not allowed to be angry

[calamity-corner]

you can tell trans women are women because everyone else thinks they know our bodies, our minds, our experiences, our lives, better than we do

[calamity-corner]

you can tell trans women are women because governments keep trying to legislate away our bodily autonomy

[chaosrevivedx3]

gem i found on twitter

[captain-price-returns]

Theyve mobilized faster against this than anything in the past 10 years and to me that pretty much says it all and justifies what so many have said about them.

[delicate-viscera]

i feel like a lot of ppl have forgotten that it’s actually really embarrassing to be some chud online calling a feminist a hysterical bitch for talking about her experiences as someone who is multiply oppressed. and to make it about you and your suffering, to deny your own privilege in the structures that oppress her? like that should embarrass you, especially if you try to call yourself a feminist in the same breath. (to be clear i am talking about transandrodorks and their proclivities to be reactionary scumbags but laud it as if it is anything other than egregious transmisogynistic erasure, in addition to the other disgusting and myopic worldviews they peddle.)

[catboybiologist]

Cis ppl will be like "transitioning is far less effective than my solution of dismantling gender norms" and then not dismantle gender norms

[junejasprose-addict]

It used to be feminism 101 that using male terms by default is bad, but then trans women wanted a piece of that pie and suddenly everyone becomes philosophers and etymologists discussing the nuances of language instead of just listening to women

[juniper776]

if you tell a trans woman she is "enforcing passing culture" by wanting to pass and expressing it i honestly hope nothing good happens in your life ever after that

[foxxxighost]

Crazy that once I'm passing and starting to feel good about myself, fake allies are trying to tell me that being bricked tf out is actually the best.

[kayla-denker]

This is why I'll never shut up about the part of Whipping Girl where Serano says we gotta stop calling it "passing." It pretty directly accuses us of 'hiding' or 'fooling people into thinking we're women.' We aren't "passing as women," we are women, we're being correctly gendered as women. When people deride us for "passing", they're blatantly saying that they don't think we're women. Afterall, nobody says cis women "pass as women" when they're correctly gendered as women.

[the-quasar-hero]

You can make a movie with where the only white character is a man named Ray Cism whose one line of his 16 seconds of screen time is “I seriously hate women and minorities.” and you’ll find fifty bajillion reader x Ray Cism fanfics and renaissance style drawings of him with a halo of golden light

[petulantpony]

not to keep shenposting but when i read “i’m in therapy for gender stuff” my stomach dropped a little. everyone i’ve ever known to go to therapy for gender stuff sat in a chair while somebody tried to convince them to be the most palatable thing they could force. it happened to me and so many ppl i love and i’m probably getting a little parasocial but i just hope she gets out of that.

[dogpuppy]

[nineteenyearoldmeblog]

im fucking crying

[the-mushroom-kitty]

shit really sucks right now. We all hate the transmascvoiceproject and all the dogs and dorks that follow and defend him we really really do hate them all.

but now, more than ever, it is imperative that we love our sisters, love them harder then ever before. send them love.

[maidslime]

also like the whole "do you ever leave your house" insult thrown at trans women, as if there isn't a systematic bigotry that'd make trans women stay in the house. like. you gotta remember what all these lines mean in context of society.

[imthelearner]

this youtuber i like came out as a trans women and changed their pronouns to she/her, then got viciously attacked for weeks and ended up taking the trans flag out of their bio and changing their pronouns to they/them. it makes me so fucking sad

[neovagi]

This is why "binary trans woman privilege" is bullshit, by the way.

[frostops]

flowery calling ralsei princess is on par with the non-men line in man country in the sense of what else do you think that could possibly mean?

[youmegravity]

Constantly accusing trans women of grooming is particularly heinous because you can use any genuine attempt to help and support others as 'evidence'

[youmegravity]

Sharing resources is grooming. Supporting each other is grooming. Warning others of transmisogynists is grooming. Making friends is grooming. Wanting a better future is grooming. Openly existing as a trans woman is grooming

[estrogenesis-vaporeongelion]

"trying to draw other people close to you in any way is nefarious and suspicious, because you are nefarious and suspicious"

[tamamoland-of-destinys-demise]

convincing someone to stop obsessing over and harassing you is grooming, we all remember that one right? where they started preordering being groomed into not harassing trans women?

[maidslime]

back on my old trans-mom blog, I was accused of grooming on a near daily basis simply for my efforts of telling 16 year old trans kids to not kill themselves. I was accused of grooming for helping adults older than me step by step how to get hrt through their local doctors offices or planned parenthood. I was accused of grooming for helping an adult trans woman escape an abusive relationship. I was called a pedophile for being friends with someone who was also in her 20s.

[mostlyghostly66]

Baba is fridge magnet