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Terfs are dumb and so are lots of other people

[huskofyourself]

Am I the only one who thinks gay culture is going too far?

No, being gay doesn’t affect your driving skills. It doesn’t affect your cooking skills. Being gay doesn’t make you different or better. It means you’re attracted to your own gender. I’m saying this as a bisexual person, so don’t think that I’m being homophobic. It was funny at first with just a few “gay culture” jokes but now you’re just taking everything and labeling it as your “culture”. Labeling everything as gay culture makes homosexuality look trendy and fun, which is what causes cishets to pretend to be LGBT when they’re not. I’m also sick of hearing LGBT people act like they’re better than everyone else. Being LGBT doesn’t make you better. Being LGBT isn’t trendy and cool. Stop. It’s one thing to have pride, it’s another to make being LGBT your entire personality and act like you’re better than everyone else.

[cleaningthecloset]

I mean I get what you mean about how a lot of tumblr gays make their sexuality their entire personality and how that’s a problem, but I don’t think “gay culture” is the problem here. When people say stuff like “oh gay people can’t drive/cook/do math” and “haha gay people sit weird and walk fast,” that isn’t them acting like their sexuality makes them better than straight people. Those kind of things are just jokes, and I promise you that people mostly just talk about this stuff for fun on the internet and don’t actually care about it in real life. There are problems with lgbt people thinking they’re somehow better than cishet people for existing, but these jokes arent part of that problem.

[cleaningthecloset]

Lmao upon going to a liberal arts college for one semester, I’d like to retract my statement that most people only make these jokes on the internet and don’t care about it in real life. My straight friend says she’s practically a lesbian because of the clothes she wears and because she’s really big into crafting. A straight girl on my floor jokes that’s she “appropriating every part of bisexual culture” because she has a bob haircut. Everyone else I’ve met at school is gay, and they 100% make it their entire personalities. Not only that, but they actively try to make being gay my personality even though I have never tried to do so myself. I literally can’t express any of my interest without my friends cracking a joke about how the thing I like is either very gay or ironically straight. Turns out I was just kind of isolated from irl queer communities because all of my friends in my hometown are straight 😅

[sharkattack456]

What I don't and will never understand is how bisexuals have many, many sources as to why pansexuality is harmful, but the only argument pansexuals have is "just let people live! do what makes you comfortable!". Come on man, you're ignoring us when we speak about our issues on purpose. It's really hard to think of you as a bisexual ally when you don't ever fuckin listen to us.

[caroldanversenthusiast]

the way that this is the purest friendship trope

lesbian + pure boy™️ friendships are it

[ace-and-aro-wlw-positivity]

If you dare to call yourself wlw but disregard black and brown wlw by calling us “ugly” or “other”, your vibes are disgusting and you owe every single one of us a million dollars cash

If you dare to call yourself wlw but ignore disabled or neurodivergent wlw in your activism, drop your address so I can come steal your knees

If you dare to call yourself wlw but harass and belittle wlw who are not conventionally female, go back into the bog that you crawled out of

If you dare to call yourself wlw, then you better include all of us, not just the ones that fit society’s Eurocentric, cisgendered, neurotypical/able-bodied perception of the word. Do that, or back the fuck off

[cleaningthecloset]

The heart of this message is great and important!!! But saying that you can’t call yourself a wlw (something that you are born as and can’t control) if you don’t uphold progressive beliefs makes it sound like loving women is a choose and a political stance. If a woman attracted to other woman is not accepting of the whole community then she is a bad person, not not a wlw. Don’t let conservatives use our own words to tell us that our sexual orientations are political stances when they are part of our biology

[i-hate-chick-fil-a]

We stan!!!!

chaotic good

[exploding-plastic-inevitable]

There’s a happy ending to, because the robbery was unsuccessful, the couple ended up getting the money Eden needed from a movie inspired by em! Also John only had to serve part of his sentence. Check out their wedding photos btw they’re beautiful.

[itsanidiom]

reblogging because I’ve seen this post a thousand times and I’ve never seen the happy ending!! 

[eazyvisuals]

[homo-sex-shoe-whale]

Do people ever ask you if youd fuck a trans woman?

Very rarely. Usually TERFs. But I never answer. I don't believe that who I want to fuck is public domain. If I don't want to fuck someone, I simply will not.

Besides, wanting to fuck someone and respecting them are not co-dependent. You don't need to have sexual attraction towards someone to respect them. If I don't want to fuck a woman, whether she is cis or trans, I will respect her regardless. My sexual attraction is irrelevant.

[bbdalena]

I surprise my gf when she comes home from work

[weallgotdreamsthough]

😳 Mood rn

[enbycourse]

There is no asexual spectrum. If you’re asexual you feel no sexual attraction. As in you can’t be asexual if you experience sexual attraction. Because asexual means not sexual. It’s really not that hard to understand.

[inkxmilk]

another one

[petratodd-deactivated20250817]

fyi

Gender reveal parties, and big planned reveals, literally were not a thing ten, fifteen years ago. Don’t let anyone pull that “it’s a tradition!” crap on you, youngsters. They’re LYING. People would either get the ultrasound or not to find out about the genitals, and tell people or not. That was that.

The fuss over “revealing” a baby’s gender in utero stinks of pushback against the shift toward a more nuanced understanding of gender. I mean yeah part of it is social media, and trends catching on, but don’t think for a minute this isn’t part of some regressive attitudes creeping into the mainstream with a cute (blue or pink) bow on it.

[madlori]

Even the woman who helped popularize gender reveal parties is like…slow your roll, fam.

[secretlesbiancommunication]

I love how basically all gays did the same thing where we realize we like someone of the same gender and just go “yeah we’re not gonna think about that. I’ll just deal with that later” like name another community that is so universally filled with procrastinators

[starlightson]

yikes this post up there is a mess. uhm.. I wouldn’t call it ‘procrasting’ more like “trying not to get bullied publicly or misunderstood by family” or maybe even “not get disowned and shamed” or, god forbid, beaten and killed. A lot of gay people didn’t procrastinate, they really had to hide it and deal with it at a time where it was safe for them.

[cleaningthecloset]

Damn you must be fun at parties. Sure a lot of people had to hide their sexuality, but based on the notes I’m guessing that a lot of other people consider what they did procrastinating. This post isn’t about coming out, it’s about realizing you’re gay and coming out to yourself, and a lot of people push back their gay thoughts when they first started happening cause they weren’t ready to think about it yet.

[discyours]

There’s this issue I really want to address of “lesbian” or “butch” being treated like a dirty word in the FTM community, but it’s so commonly accepted that I don’t quite know how. Don’t get me wrong, trans men did not invent lesbophobia. But our association to lesbians makes it come up much, much more often than it does in most groups, even if they harbour an equal amount of lesbophobia. 

It seems to be completely accepted that “looking like a lesbian” is the worst thing imaginable. I’ve lost count of the amount of young trans guys I’ve seen put themselves down by saying they look like butch lesbians. They might say it in a mocking way, a disgusted way, a sad way, but it’s said often and definitely never positively. It feels like there’s this notion that not wanting to look like a lesbian is the logical result of not wanting to look like a woman, and that being critical of it is transphobic towards trans men for not wanting to be women in the first place. But the constant emphasis specifically on looking like a lesbian, it’s hard to ignore that it’s not just about not wanting to look like a woman. 

I have to say that this has always been really uncomfortable when it’s coming from trans men who are not attracted to women. But it’s also incredibly toxic coming from those of us who are. If you’ve spent any amount of time being perceived as the type of person for whom society deems it wrong to be masculine or attracted to women, being trans does not exempt you from internalising those messages. The world isn’t black and white and feeling bad about looking like the wrong type of woman can absolutely add to your dysphoria even if you’d hate to look like a woman at all regardless. 

I do recognise that this is mostly brought up by transphobes, but that shouldn’t prevent it from being talked about when it’s a genuine issue that’s bad for literally everyone involved. Language matters and ours shouldn’t keep affirming lesbophobic biases. 

[cleaningthecloset]

I’m a lesbian who tends to dress more masculine, and I’ve heard trans guys complain about looking like a lesbian a lot. For me at least, this has never bothered me or made me feel like those trans men are being lesbophobic. I always interpreted those remarks as meaning “if I look like a lesbian then I look like a woman, because lesbians are women and I do not want to be perceived as a woman because I am a man,” and not meaning “I don’t want to be perceived like a lesbian because lesbians are bad and gross.”

[sapphiccourse]

cursed image

[lunarbisexuals-deactivated20191]

bad: ‘bisexuals are sex-obsessed maniacs who only care about fucking others and are only after your body. they don’t truly care about others, they just want to fuck you and that’s it.’

somehow not bad: ‘bisexuals only care about gender/sex/bodies whereas pansexuals are able to see past this. only they are able to love someone for who they are inside, and bisexuals only love you for what you look like.’

[transcephalopod]

asexual and aromantic people are real, valid, and good. inclus do not represent all aces and aros. being asexual or aro is fine and doesn't make you automatically homophobic or bad in any way, and there are plenty of aces/aros who aren't tumblr weirdos. they deserve to be heard.

[beachdeath]

reblog or reply with the worst things about this pride month… celebrities coming out via brand partnerships? stonewall patrons yelling at a black trans woman to shut up while she tries to read the names of murdered black trans women in the bar? emma gonzalez having to shorten her speech at the stonewall fiftieth anniversary event because the event had gone over time and the police were threatening to shut it down? the lcbo ad campaign where the pink triangle is represented as liquor in a martini glass? taylor swift? let’s hear it

[cleaningthecloset]

Imagine including a celebrity releasing an lgbt-positive song to promote a petition for the equality act in the same list of bad things in pride month as “Emma Gonzalez having to shorten her speech at the stonewall fiftieth anniversary event because the event had gone overtime and the police were threatening to shut it down”