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[amusementforme]

[jjyband-deactivated20160414]

tfw u say smthn gay by mistake around The Hets and the kill bill alarm goes off in your head and you look like taxidermy fox until they brush off the suspicion and go back to talking about straight people things

[thesylverlining]

that is… that is such a specific description… but it is somehow so ACCURATE?

[millenniumfae]

Click here to support Help Me Pay For My Medical Transition

Starting this fall, my college-provided insurance doesn't apply to me anymore, because I am a part-time senior finishing up my Bachelor of Fine Arts degree instead of the usual full-time. Thanks to that, I found myself with an ill-timed bill of $1,309.14 total from a single early September visit...

Starting this fall, my college-provided insurance doesn’t apply to me anymore, because I am a part-time senior finishing up my Bachelor of Fine Arts degree instead of the usual full-time. 

Thanks to that, I found myself with two ill-timed bills of $1,309.14 total from a single early September visit to the doctor - it includes the required blood tests and hormone replacement therapy medication. 

There’s no chance of me applying for school insurance at this point, and I’m not eligible for list insurances that I can front the expenses now. My family and I have very little funds of our own. This sudden bill can put a serious dent in our near futures, especially in my chances of finishing my last year of education. I certainly don’t have the money to pay for it now, and I won’t by the time it’s due.

I ask for your help in clearing this bill. If I pay it off, I wouldn’t have to worry about my next hormone replacement therapy prescription for many months, which will give me time to find an insurance policy and secure a better future for me.

[fuckyeahasexual]

Yes, the link is about me! I ask for help from all of you, even a simple reblog can do a world of good for me!

- Fae

[fuckyeahasexual]

I cannot fully express how much Fae has done for the queer community and aces specifically. If you have anything to spare this month it would mean so much to me as well. - Rose 

[marauders4evr]

It occurs to me that there are people who weren’t on this website in 2012 and therefore never saw the magical gif that you can actually hear:

It’s been over five years and that still impresses the hell out of me.

[stltzfs-deactivated20200309]

Oh my word

You can hear it

[the-real-ted-cruz]

WHAT IS THIS WITCHCRAFT

[artsappho-blog]

Autumn Asks

Hot Chocolate: What is your favorite dessert?

Knee Socks: If you were starring in a movie, who would you want as your co star?

Bonfires: What’s your favorite TV show?

Apple Picking: What’s something you’ve done that you’re really proud of?

Cinnamon: What makes you laugh the most?

Oktoberfest: Have you thought about going on exchange? Where would you want to go?

Pumpkin Spice: Do you have a favorite coffee place? Why is it your favorite?

Hay Rides: What fictional world would you want to live in?

Cozy Sweaters: Is there anything you wish would come back into fashion?

Halloween: If you went to Hogwarts, what house would you be in?

Rainy Afternoons: What is the last book you read for fun?

Scary Movies: Would you rather be a character in a thriller or a rom com?

Yellow Leaves: What color best corresponds with your personality?

Caramel Apples: What is your favorite class you’re in right now? Why?

S’mores: What are you most excited for about this year?

Carving Pumpkins: Do you have any unusual talents?

Beanies: What is your most prized possession?

Thanksgiving: Would you rather speak all languages or be able to talk to animals?

Cider: What would you title your autobiography?

Frost: Are you a morning person or a night person?

[cloudragon]

I hate how physically exhausting having anxiety is like I just want to get over it stop making me feel like I’m going to puke

[deejay]

[1uppiplup]

Hey!!! just want everyone to know that this guy is a racist, homophobic mess!!!

[retired3625ww-deactivated202305]

???????!

[theoriginalpompeii]

Yikes.

[mens-rights-activia]

Any white man in a red cap these days immediately activates my fight or fight response

[labors]

just got L.A.I.D

Launched Into A Depressive spiral

[uryyybel-deactivated20190320]

L.I.A.D.

[uryyybel-deactivated20190320]

[clarkegriffins]

Anxiety level: Steve Harrington

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Overcome Emotional Numbness

Emotional numbness is where we experience mild to severe feelings of detachment – so it’s hard for us to access normal feelings any more. This includes both negative and positive emotions as you can’t decide to shut just one feeling off. Common causes of emotional numbness include different stresses or traumas … from receiving bad news … to being in an accident … to recovering from the death of someone close … to a relationship breakup … to feeling deeply humiliated or ashamed. So how do you overcome emotional numbness and live with emotional integrity again?

1. The first thing to do is to choose to respect and allow all emotions – no matter what they are. Also, try and grasp the fact that suppressing your emotions will likely lead to heartache and problems later on (as they’ll possibly resurface at inappropriate times.)

2. Try and understand that feelings and actions are two very different, and unrelated, things.  That is, you can still feel angry without becoming violent – so don’t assume your feelings will affect your actions, too.

3. Try to figure out the message behind intense emotions. Are you angry because you’ve been hurt, used or abused? Are you sad because deep down you feel that you’ll never find true love - as you can’t believe that anyone will love you for yourself?

4. Take that risk – and find the courage to ask someone for help. If you’re honest with yourself, you’ll know that there are those who genuinely love you like – like a true and caring friend. The important thing is not to try and isolate yourself, and to make the extra effort to prioritise self-care. You need other people to help you work through this.

5. Seek professional help if the symptoms persist. There are excellent counsellors and therapists out there who have the training and skills to help you to get free – so you can live a more fulfilling and normal, healthy life.

6. Be patient within yourself. It’s likely to take time – as you will need to learn to trust, and take some barriers down, so you can be yourself again (and that is often hard to do when you’ve experience hurt and pain).  

[cloudragon]

I came out for the first time almost 1000 days ago what the fuck

[cloudragon]

No idea why this website has been making me so anxious like I’m not even doing anything

[cloudragon]

Half asleep me described depression as trying to cover a green-grey cloud with a curtain and I don’t understand what I meant

[popculturebrain]

Adam Ellis is either a genius horror storyteller or in grave, grave danger.

[chaos-and-cookies]

This man works at buzzfeed as a comic book artist he doesn’t deserve this lol

[laurdlannister-kingslayer]

Awww hell naw lmao

[shitdickfuckmothafucka]

😰

[despazito]

lmao how can you post so much about (rightfully) hating animal abuse while fsr you're totally okay with some kid killing a whale just because it's part of his tradition?

get back to me when you can afford to buy your groceries in the arctic circle

[cazad0ra]

That boy is STILL getting death threats from a bunch of self-righteous white men who won’t get off their high horses for feeding his village, anon.

[unpretty]

Tumblr: *rolls out “best stuff first”*

My blog:

[unpretty]

on the one hand this is a joke post because lol i have never made a good post in my life, but also, if i hadn’t made the connection between this update and my sudden nosedive in activity, i would have been really fucking discouraged about all the shit i’ve been working on lately. i guarantee there are people on tumblr right now who haven’t made that connection, and who are trying to figure out why suddenly no one likes anything they’ve made. and that fucking sucks.

[jasper-appreciation]

Reminder to go into your settings and turn off ‘Best Stuff First’ because my activity’s tanked a couple days ago for no reason so this stuff IS happening.

You WILL miss content with that setting on.

[sergle]

i ain’t joking when i say that my activity looks JUST like this too and i wasn’t sure why

[characterdevelopmentforwriters]

I’m sure you all have seen posts like this before, but you will be missing out on a lot of content if you have this feature activated.

[transformativeworks]

Fyi, folks, this account has been hit pretty hard by this change. Engagement is currently at about 30% of normal, which means that there are a lot of people missing out on informative posts like this one about original works on AO3.

In order to change this setting on mobile (it’s unclear if it’s available on desktop at the moment), view your blog by tapping the little silhouette in the bottom right of your screen, then tap the settings gear in the top right of your screen. From there, select Global Settings (iOS) or General Settings (Android), then Dashboard Preferences, and toggle the switch for “Best Stuff First.”

Thanks to everybody who follows this account, everybody who reblogs and/or likes the posts here, and everybody who joins in with events like Fandom First Friday! You’re all awesome!

[reapersun]

Hey guys, normally I don’t reblog on this account, but I wanted to help make more people aware of this. It’s probably going to harm every single person you follow, so please consider turning it off. I’ve noticed a drop from normal as well and although I try to not let note counts bother me, I have to admit it’s pretty discouraging.