Little Miss Clueless' Adventures

A blog to document the ups and downs and struggles of a clueless 24-year-old bride-to-be.

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February it is.

Just when I thought we were settled with a one-year window, apparently my fiance is in a rush, wanting to get married in February instead.

I’m really stressing out right now, ‘cause from what it seems, my one-year prep time has been crunched to a mere seven months. Not that I’m complaining, the sooner, the better. After all, I was the one who pitched the February idea a month back. He just willingly considered it then, because it was weird and crazy and unique all at the same time.

I’m really hoping to get through this unscathed.

Xo,

The girl who will be married in February.

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Your wedding is not a contest | @offbeatbride

The dirty flip-side of "my wedding is too weird" is "my wedding isn't weird enough." Both sentiments make me sad because your wedding is not a contest.

“There's nothing to prove here. Having a weird wedding just for the sake of making a statement is just as inauthentic as forcing yourself into a traditional ceremony to keep your parents happy. Your wedding should reflect the reality of you and your partner's life together. If you're using your wedding to prove a point about anything other than your commitment to each other, it's worth taking a step back to reconsider your motivations.”

It has been quite stressful at work lately and adding the wedding planning to my bucket of tasks is quite a challenge. That said, getting to read something like this is a relief. It’s refreshing.

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What date is it?

It’s the 9th of July, local time. My fiance and I have just come to terms, yesterday, that I should begin the whole planning process. I’ve since collected links and ideas through research, but we have never really concluded on anything at all.

I’ve been stressing most of the time for the past three months on the fact that I know completely nothing about weddings, as my username suggests, I am completely clueless.

Then again, today, I vow that I will try my best in winging this. There’s not much choice after all. ;)