[cocoa-lata]

rammy / cocoa (coco-ah)

she/they | white + metizo latine | 23

strawpage | rentry | commissions (soon...)

don’t follow this blog if your under 16 please !!

[3000s]

Yes, your dentist can absolutely tell if you masturbated at home before your appointment. And in fact, a shower and change of clothes does little to hide this. The best step forward is to apologize to your dentist for masturbating.

[3000s]

- mockup of results from my new search engine called "Google OCD"

[lmaonade]

august mutual aid request

i really wanted to avoid doing this but the gofundme for my car is being put on hold as i’m seriously going to be behind on other living expenses this upcoming month. i got very sick and missed work multiple days as well as have had quite a lot of unexpected expenses come up included another increase on our phone bill and nipsco being absurdly expensive. i already put off seeing a doctor because i cant afford it. i need to ask for help getting through august.

if you dont me i am trans and disabled and work very limited hours at a labor job and my family is struggling with a primary income source walking out on us, making me even more responsible for things that i cannot pay for.

commissions will be opened again mid august after my current batch but for now i just need to set a goal and ask for help.

please share. please send even a small amount if possible. i’m working on everything i can to chip away at various debts but interest accrues it feels endless.

GOAL - $0 / $1600

paypal

venmo

[lmaonade]

$17 / $1600

THANK YOU!!!

[lmaonade]

i know everyone is sick of me posting like this, i think about it every waking moment. im sorry to ask for help so much, but please share. im drowning at all times and i dont know why nothing i can do is ever enough. shares mean everything i want to try to be positive about it but asking for help is so demeaning.

please just consider reblogging thank you

[lmaonade]

$395 / $1600

thank you everyone so much for the help so far ahhhhhh

[screenshotsofdespair]

[forestgreenandgray]

Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

[just-spacetrash]

in my little pony universe youd go to a job interview and theyd be like so how does your cutiemark reflect your dedication to this position. And every time youd have to spew some bullshit about how your cutiemark of two tennis rackets actually means youre a team player and good at multitasking and view the market like a playing field. or whatever. and you wouldnt even get the job

[fvckw4d]

Thanks to Equestria v Sugar Sprinkle, cutie mark interview questions are considered hiring discrimination, so if anypony asks you any cutiemark related questions or even alludes to any questions about your cutiemark such as "In your own words, describe your life purpose" you can and should refuse to answer. Know your rights, ponies.

[qillermeme]

[beadyeyes]

The is a picture of Nimrod Burke

[cocoa-lata]

Ok i rage quit my job lol

[catmask]

by the way. it never is too late to decide you want to be happy. the woman who helped me get hormones didnt start hers until she was 70, and i met her at 73, beautiful and smiling - and told me that the last three years of her life had been her favorite. your favorites might be ahead of you too. why not hang around and find out?

[torstherapy]

[cocoa-lata]

just had an awful shift, can't wait for tomorrow to happen again!!

[free-my-mindd]

Can I get a eta on “this too shall pass”.

[evilbisexualsonline]

ok....$40 may have been a bit of an underestimation.....

[evilbisexualsonline]

asking again (sorry all i did was get food and use uber) for just $30 for the next two days 😔

$cutegoth1999, inbox for other links.

thank u 🖤

[evilbisexualsonline]

i dont have a ride home tonight....pls help

[outofcontextgarf]

[coolerdracula]

[throo]

Wh-what do you mean it’s from a birthday cake

[throo]

We could have been eating him

[nem23]

[magesnmiceys]

Donate to Help Two Trans Women Start Fresh in Seattle, organized by Forrest Jenkins

Hi there!! I'm Forrest, a 26-year-old trans woman trying to escape Florida… Forrest Jenkins needs your support for Help Two Trans Women Star

hi chat!! i'm forrest, and i'm trying to

get the fuck out of florida with my wife

i'm trans and i wanna get somewhere safer with as little stress as humanly possible. anything at all helps! it would mean the world to me if you shared this around. please and thank you!!

[magesnmiceys]

update: 420/3000!!! holy fuck thank you guys so much already