Eli’s agere comfort

reposting agere affirmations, comfort, & advice! 100% sfw

[comfort-agere]

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Hello little ones!

This is my side blog (main is @elilovesstars) where I reblog affirmations, comfort, advice, imagines, and more for the sfw agere community!

Here are some tags you can search to help you navigate my page:

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#agere advice

#agere affirmations

#agere comfort

#agere guide

#agere hurt comfort

#agere imagines (more here: @els-agere-imagines)

#agere resources

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#agere tips

tip: you can also search for certain topics on my blog to find specific posts! topics include: agere journal ideas, bath time, bedtime, big emotions, calming down, hygiene, morning routines, nightmare comfort, periods, play ideas, regression aid, resources, self care, sleep aid, etc!

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[whitewidowthunderbolt]

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Sometimes our memories aren’t nice, huh? It feels scary and sad, doesn’t it baby? It’s okay. Let’s remember/do a few things.

Take a few deep breaths if you can. In through your nose, filling your chest and tummy like a balloon. Then slowly let it out. Do that a couple times.

Get or do something that makes you feel safe. Get a blanket or a stuffie if you need. Rest against a corner if that makes you feel safe. Rocking yourself with your deep breaths may help some. Do whatever you need to do to safely soothe yourself.

Have some water. Sip at it slowly, when our brains get scary sometimes it makes us feel icky. Water will help, just take it gently.

More deep breaths and water until you feel better. It’s okay if it takes a while to calm down. That’s normal. You are safe.

If you are hurt, take care of yourself the best you can. (Yes, you deserve to be taken care of. You have permission to love yourself.)

After you are taken care of, you might be very tired. Big emotions mean big energy loss. Get yourself into bed and snuggled up. If you can’t sleep, at least rest and lay down. Try to close your eyes.

You are loved. You are wanted. And you are more than the scary things that happened to you. Just keep breathing <3

🤍🌙🤍🌙 🤍🌙🤍🌙 🤍🌙🤍

[cassidysbestfriend]

[strawpuppy]

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ how i regress

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ a small list of things i do to make

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ myself feel smaller and more comfortable!!

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎dni: nsfw, kink, pedo/map, proship, anti-agere

1.) Clean your space if needed

i know this task may seem tedious at times but i find that if i’m in a dirty, cluttered area (cluttered with things other than agere stuff hehe), then i focus on the mess around me the whole time

2.) Get in clothes that make you feel small

i only have one onesie to wear when i want to regress, so when it’s dirty i’ll put on some clothes that are way too big for me instead. baggy shirts that hang off you and pants that flop when you walk :0 bonus points if you have cute slippers/socks

3.) Put on a kids’ show or comfort show

even if i don’t plan on watching it, i’ll always put on my favorite show as background noise. something that i know will make me small and/or remind me of my childhood. try to think of shows you watched as a child or would watch as a child

4.) Keep a stuffie close

i always try to keep my favorite stuffie within arm’s length for quick cuddling. as a child i was big on stuffed animals and i still am! having something soft and plush to pet and squeeze as much as i like makes things much lighter. if you don’t have a stuffie, maybe try a comfort item

5.) Use a paci or teether

i find that using an adult pacifier when i want to regress will help push me into the headspace faster. i have a teeth grinding problem so chewing on something also helps with that. i try not to use a paci while i sleep though because it hurts the roof of my mouth. if you don’t have a paci or teether, maybe look into chewelry

6.) Occupy your brain

my brain tends to obsess over if i’m regressed or not and i’ll always ask myself “do i actually feel small?” but by doing simple things like coloring or doodling or building legos (or even playing an easy game like minecraft or roblox), i can focus on being present in the moment

thanks for reading :p <3 feel free to leave me any questions in my inbox or dms. disclaimer: i am aware that everyone regresses differently, this is just for those who may have a hard time regressing and need a place to start. regressing can be difficult for some and that’s okay! it doesn’t make you any less of an age regressor.

[cryslittlelibrey]

Play time for little ones!

╔═ . ☾ . ══════════════════ Hello little ones! feeling playful but aren't sure what to do? That's ok, sometimes playing sounds a lot easier than it feels, so i put together a little list of super fun, super easy things to do!

🖍﹒Stuffie passports: Line up whatever toys or stuffies you have and make them tiny passports with paper and pencils! you can even laminate them with tape if you want!

🧸﹒Sensory play: Try filling a bowl with water, add bubbles if you want, and find some watersafe things around the house! things like cotton balls, toys, paper shapes and sponges, see which ones float, which ones sink, or fill the sponge up with water an squeeze it out over the bowl, it can be a really nice texture!

🖍﹒Build a fort: it doesn't have to be fancy, just a few blankets, a few pillows and all your stuffed friends, bring a show you like and some snacks!

🧸﹒Simple crafts: make something silly like a sock puppet or if you can, get a blank bird house or fairy door to decorate, you can find them in most craft stores!

🖍﹒Old game consoles: playing on old consoles like game boys, DS's or old ipad games can be a great way to spend time while your regressed, especially for the little ones who have a hard time staying focused

🧸﹒Scavenger hunts: write a list of things you can find around your house- paper, pencils, stuffies ect, and go on a scavenger hunt to find them! count as many blue things you can see or collect every paper clip you can find!

🖍﹒Doodling: fill a page with doodles, whatever you think looks nice like a sky of stars, a field of flowers or all your favorite characters on one piece of paper!

🧸﹒Draw your own story: make a little comic of you and your stuffies on an adventure, where would you go? what would you do? who would you meet?

🖍﹒Make believe (if you can): if you feel up to it, try playing a game of make believe! it can be something simple like playing house with a few toys or setting up a little tea party on a blanket, what do you talk about? maybe one toy has a story they're itching to tell, or maybe another toy wants to hear about the show you just finished watching!

🧸﹒Remember that there is no "right way" to play. whatever feels fun to you, whatever makes you feel ok, do it. your way of playing is just as real as everyone else's.

Have fun my darling stars, and sweet dreams! ╚═════════════ . 🫧 . ═════

[babygirl-socute]

It’s okay to have big feelings.

It’s okay to ask for help.

It’s okay to take things one small step at a time.

You don’t have to do everything alone.

You are not too much.

You deserve comfort, care, and love.

You are loved.

[kiddoscorner]

For regressors who struggle with Independance/Hyperindependance…

And for anyone else who these apply to…

You are worthy of being taken care of

You are not broken;You are not a lost cause

You are still capable of love and gentle affection;Intimacy is not impossible

You can be scared, You are allowed to have things be new for you

Things can take time and be a process;And people can love you along the way

You don’t have to have everything figured out immediately

Its okay for your little/middle/baby space to be emotional and/or hard

Your struggles do not make you undeserving of patience, time, and care

Its okay to cry when you are met with caregiving-like attention

You are a good kid, And deserve to be treated as such

Its okay to cry about the childhood you wish you had

No matter how much older you try to act, you still deserve space to be little

Its okay if you don’t know how to react to caregiving

Its okay if you really wish you had a caregiver

Its okay if you aren’t comfortable having a caregiver

Trying your best is enough; you deserve support

Its okay if you have a hard time regressing; you still deserve to be a kid

Its okay if you regress alot; you still deserve to be a kid

Its okay if you can only regress with the assistance of another person

Its okay if you can only regress within the comfort of yourself

Its okay if you want to share your regression time with others but don’t know how/cant yet

Its okay if your caregiver is fictional because letting in others in such a vulnerable state is hard

Its okay to project on fictional characters; because you don’t know how to be little and also yourself

There is time to be the kid you deserve to have time to be

Its okay to be upset over what you didn’t get in your childhood; that you deserved/deserve

Its okay to feel like you had alot in your childhood, but still have these struggles; that you deserve patience with

Its okay to be nostalgic over some things from your childhood;but recognize you should’ve got more

You can reclaim childhood experiences you were deprived/excluded from

Time will not run out for you to be allowed to be treated with such kindness and compassion

You are deserving of parental-like affection no matter how old you are or how long-ago your childhood was

Its okay to be upset if you were supported materialistically but not emotionally

Its okay to be upset if you were supported emotionally but struggled financially

You deserve a sense of parental/older comfort and safety; and to feel protected

Its okay to have parents; but not feel taken care of

Its okay to not have parents; and still long for that experience

Its okay to not know what being taken care of feels like

you deserve rest from fending for yourself for so long

Its okay to just age dream/fantasize about/find comfort in looking at child-like things

Its okay to only be able to involuntarily regress and its okay to only be able to voluntarily regress

Its okay not to know how you like to be treated in regards to your regression

Its okay to know exactly how you wish you were treated; but lack it

Its okay to be unsure about your regression, but find comfort in these things

Its okay even if you grew up too fast, its still in the picture to enjoy child-like things

Letting others in does not diminish your struggles

Healing does not mean it never hurt; nor that the comfort isn’t deserved

You do not need to earn the “right” to safety

Letting down your guard/Letting in others does not make you selfish or weak

Asking for help is okay, doing everything alone isn’t the only option

Its okay to have the tendency to take care of others, you are still deserving of being treated like a kid

Its okay to enjoy caring for others, but not wanting it to define your regression

You can still be a just as good of a kid even if you have responsibilities

Its okay to be a flip, your regression is still important and valid

You are still deserving of parental guidance even if you are used to doing “big” things

Its okay if you feel like you don’t “need” support, but just want it; you are deserving either way

Its okay to feel like you can do it alone, but would benefit from having someone help you

Its okay to not always know how to ask to be treated in these ways

You are not a bad kid if you have an overwhelming sense of responsibility over yourself

Its okay to have a hard time putting yourself in another persons hands

Its okay to feel nervous/anxious/uncomfortable with vulnerability; its hard

Its okay to feel like your not doing the whole “kid-thing” right, stuff like this takes time; you are enough as you are.

if they resonate with you, you deserve to hear it as well Gif credz: 🌈/🖍️/🐱

[mysticballoonbouquet]

♡ ways to feel a little less sad if you’re struggling ♡

(made with sfw age regressors in mind but some can help anyone imo)

• change into fresh clothing before sleeping (don’t want your outside clothes in your cozy sheets!)

• take time to enjoy yourself. you are allowed to do things you want to do even if they aren’t viewed as classically “productive”

• on that note, feel free to do things without worrying about others sometimes. it’s okay and good to have you time

• take time to cuddle and love your plushies/dolls. they love you so much. no matter what.

• a rule i follow is no paci unless ive brushed my teeth. it helps me :)

• set up a “safe space” even if that safe space is just your bed. keep it as clean as you can (easier said than done at times)

• scented candles and incense. ‘nuff said

• keep comfort objects nearby. coloring books, plushies, an essa, dolls. whatever brings you a sense of peace and calm

• soft!!! blankies!!!! and pillows!!!! i found some really nice ones at Daiso :3

• put on your favorite show. it doesn’t have to be a show necessarily fitting your regressed age; as long as you genuinely gain enjoyment from it, have at it and enjoy!

• if you can’t burn candles try an air freshener you like

• open the curtains. the windows too, if you can

• wipe off your face with a face wipe if you don’t have the energy to wash with soap and water

• swish with mouthwash if you struggle with brushing your teeth

♡ you are loved ♡

[elilovesstars]

El’s Agere Resources

Hello little ones on my phone! Here are some online resources to help you in your regression, I will try to keep this list and its links updated. Enjoy and feel free to share more suggestions in the comments!

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📺 Cartoons 📺

⭐️ PBS Kids (shows and games!)

⭐️ Nickelodeon (shows and games!)

⭐️ Nick Jr. (shows and games!)

⭐️ The Cartoon Archive (youtube)

⭐️ Bluey Youtube (lots of full episodes!)

📚 Storytime (youtube) 📚

⭐️ Books with Bink and Dayn

⭐️ Vooks Storybooks

⭐️ Awnie’s House

🎵 Music/Audios 🎵

⭐️ Agere audios (my youtube playlist)

⭐️ Agere music (my youtube playlist)

⭐️ Agere music (my spotify playlist)

⭐️ Sleepy agere music (my spotify playlist)

👾 Games 👾

⭐️ Papa’s Games (cooking games)

⭐️ Starfall (learning games and crafts)

⭐️ Starsue (dress up games)

⭐️ Webkins (digital pet game)

⭐️ Roblox game recs (tumblr post)

🎨 Arts and Crafts (picrew) 🎨

⭐️ My little pony maker

⭐️ Agere backpack maker

⭐️ Puppy maker

💕 More Tumblr Resources 💕

⭐️ Online agere guide (by @snooffkin)

[snooffkin]

🌼🧸 ways to be your own caregiver ☁️☀️

things i've been trying lately:

🧃 keeping juice boxes or easy snacks in my room

💧 filling up my water bottle before bed so morning me doesn't have to

🛏️ making my bed into a cozy nest instead of waiting until i "earn" it

🧸 sleeping with a plushie tucked under one arm

🧦 changing into clean pajamas or fresh socks, even if i don't have the energy to shower

👕 keeping my favorite hoodie somewhere easy to grab

🍓 using the cute bowl, plate, or mug because why not

🍽️ accepting that frozen meals, instant noodles, cereal, or toast are still real meals

🍌 buying snacks that need little or no prep

🍬 picking up one small treat at the grocery store just because it makes me smile

📋 making myself a tiny checklist: ☐ eat something ☐ drink water ☐ take meds ☐ go to the bathroom ☐ stretch ☐ cuddle plushie

💊 keeping my meds next to something i use every day

📺 putting on a comfort show just to make the room feel less quiet

🎧 choosing a comfort playlist instead of doomscrolling

📖 reading one chapter of a comfort book before bed

🫧 taking a quick "reset shower" instead of feeling like it has to be an everything shower

🕯️ turning on a lamp instead of sitting in the dark

🧺 warming up a blanket in the dryer

🪥 brushing my teeth while watching youtube if it makes it easier

🚪letting myself leave an overwhelming situation without feeling guilty

🖍️ keeping a little comfort bag with fidgets, stickers, headphones, coloring pages, or a small plush

🧺 making a "bad day basket" before i actually need it

🤒 keeping a simple sick-day kit stocked, even when i'm feeling okay

🗂️ making a comfort drawer with fuzzy socks, lotion, tissues, lip balm, stim toys, chargers, and snacks

📱 keeping an extra phone charger where i spend the most time

🍲 freezing leftovers in single portions for future me

🍽️ using paper plates on hard days if it means i actually eat

🌸 making my room smell nice with a candle, diffuser, or linen spray

🛏️ putting fresh sheets on my bed after a rough week

💌 hiding little notes for future me to find

⏰ setting reminders that ask "have you had lunch?" instead of yelling at me

🐾 asking myself: "what would make future me's day a little easier?" and doing just one of those things.

being your own caregiver isn't about replacing anybody.

it's just learning to notice when you need care and reminding yourself that you're allowed to have it 🤍

[michelangleo]

What helps me as an age regressor who has nightmares:

I set my stuffies up all around me, so they can guard me while I sleep (stuffies are the best protectors)

I use multiple nightlights, so there's no dark corners

I'm a cold sleeper so I sleep with multiple blankets, and when I'm completely covered up no one can get me

If you're a hot sleeper, I wake up in cold sweat sometimes, I'll sleep with just my feet covered, and it still makes me feel safer

I recommend bed tents, you can put fairy lights inside and be completely protected without having to use blankets

I make a nest to sleep in

Sometimes when the nightmares are really bad I'll sep up alarms during the night, works best if you're a light sleeper (which I am not)

Regressing before bed helps me, but often it's hard when I'm already scared to go to sleep

Watch your favorite show, or little show to help you regress and fall asleep (I leave on cartoons sometimes all night)

Pick a new stuffie every night to sleep with, or have a dedicated stuffie you sleep with every night, and imagine them as your protector in your dreams, at the very least it helps me fall asleep not scared

I use a comfort item, this could also be a stuffie, but I use a paci

For sometimes padded regressors, make sure you go potty before bed, don't learn the hard way like I did

Your favorite, non-caffeinated drink, warm milk, or in my case I drink chocolate milk (If I was a caregiver I would say no sugary drinks either, but I am an regressor with no caregiver so I will drink apple juice before bed if I want to lol)

Listen to white noise, or in my case I listen to piano music

Feel free to add please

[lunarsyskids]

We were diagnosed with nightmare disorder years ago and are still learning how to live with it. Some stuff that works for us:

-long video essays or documentaries playing while you sleep. Something where the speaker doesn’t change tone very often, there’s no loud sudden noises, and the subject matter isn’t scary. One time we fell asleep to a dinosaur documentary and had nightmares about dinosaurs :( learn from our mistake

-read before bed. It tires out your brain a lot more. Specifically a physical book bc the light from screens keeps you awake

-exercise before bed! A couple hours before you go to sleep, do jumping jacks or jog in place, something to get out the built up adrenaline from the day

-make sure if you have nightlights that they aren’t casting any scary shadows that will frighten you when you wake up

-have a glass of water nearby in case you wake up from a nightmare and you were crying and/or sweating. Gotta replace the fluids you lost, if you don’t you might get a headache and it’ll be even harder to recover

Hope this helps!!

[starlitori]

this is definitely something that is commonly believed by those in the field well versed in therapeutic treatment , but wanted to add one more voice , the voice of my therapist who i've been working with for years and years who also has over 40+ years of experience as a therapist and social worker

healing your inner child , nuturing them , cherishing them ... these can be the most healing things one can do , especially for those dealing with trauma

therapeutic play is one of her specialies , and she said that if being more gentle and soft helps you take care of yourself when the world is too much , that is so incredibly powerful and important

holding a comfort object , playing with toys or plush friends , watching simpler shows , doing arts and crafts , using more child centered objects to complete daily tasks and adls , these are all things to embrace , especially if it helps you get through your days and take care of yourself when it feels to overwhelm to do so otherwise

if your mind becomes smaller or remains smaller in order to help process big emotions and feelings in an unguarded way that is more safe for yourself and others , that is also something to be encouraged ( even if it doesnt feel good or feels confusing or scary in the moment , any form of harm reduction is to be encouraged )

you deserve gentle care and protection and a safe space to heal

if your mind becomes smaller in order to help you do so ( intentially or involuntarily ) that is not and never will be wrong

many in the world may not understand , some people may say cruel things or make harmful claims about regression and coping

but there are trusted professionals who see us , understand us , and encourage such healing

for those who may struggle with shame around age regression and related conditions , i hope this is one view to help challenge such thinking 🤍

[sunnimals]

Activities for newborn and small infant regressors (because all the activities posts are for older kiddos who can do more!)

Tummy time with toys! Even just touching/looking at your toys is fine :]

Swaddle yourself up real nice and tight in a blankie and maybe nap?? Or try and inch around like an inch worm that sounds really fun actually

Discover your limbs 🤯

Lay down on the floor or in bed and watch a low-sensory show or even stim videos

If you don't have a mobile, maybe watching your ceiling fan would be similar?!

Maybe if you need hand covers you could make some of your own! Like crochet or even sewing! You could also just put socks on your hands which is fun to do regardless

Maybe setting up a little activity mat beforehand! I've seen so many fun activities for babies that even I wanna try out, like slime in a zip lock bag that you could move around!

Perhaps try your hand at sitting... maybe even crawling......... but don't work too hard at it!! Babies need lots of rest you know!

Play "what is that thing?" Try and examine things more objectively, as opposed to what they are/what they do. How is it shaped? Is it similar to anything else? What color is it? Does it move or make noise? Etc. Maybe try and come up with other things it could do too! Or your own name for it?

Again tummy time is great and even I do it as a toddler/kid regressor. Focus on the texture! Are you laying on a rug? A carpet? Tile? Your blanket? What color is the surface, what texture is it? Does it smell like anything?

You could also play "name the color"! Look around at things and name the colors they are! This could be played two ways: coming up with new names for colors, or being as specific with the names as you can! Like "turquoise " as opposed to "green"! It makes you wrack your brain for color names just like you would be if you were learning them for the first time! Could also be played with animals or objects!

[quinnysnursery]

quinny's regression-safe youtube channels ! 𓂃⋆.˚

youtube channel recs for littles ones !! [dividers by @d-oie]

story book readers //

reading rocket 📚🚀 ~ fallon is an amazing woman who reads children's books [both classics and new stuff !]. she has an amazing narration voice that instantly captivates you into any story she reads !

vooks 🎥📖 ~ with this channels adorable animations, calming music and narration (with subtitles available !) - this channel is easily one of my favorites !!

storytime at awnie's house 📕🏠 ~ awnie is possibly the cutest lady i've ever seen !! she encapsulates a warm yet silly "mom" vibe and is incredible at doing voices for whatever book she's reading !!

toy channels //

relaxing unboxing sounds 🧸🎁 ~ a voiceless channel where the creator simply opens up blind boxes/bags !! it's so fun guessing who they're gonna pull !!

bin's toy bin 🪀🎁 ~ a husband and wife who reviews toys !! they specialize in my little pony toys !!

disney themed youtubers //

4k wdw 🏰 ~ they upload walkthroughs of the disney parks and videos of the disney parades !! super cool for littles who love the disneyworld/land parks, or are wishing to visit !!

document disney 🐭 ~ they upload walkthroughs and povs of disneyland rides !! super cool for littles who love the disneyworld/land parks, or are wishing to visit !!

misc //

mittens & pants 🐱🐶 ~ a kitten and puppy who are best friends and travel around their make believe town !! honestly my favorite channel listed !! PUH-LEASE check them out !!

disclaimer : it is to my knowledge that none of these channels are run by bad people, or contain swearing. if this is wrong i deeply apologize- though i researched to the best of my extent.

[m00nbunny1]

⭐🌈 Age Regression Support! 🌈⭐

Hi everyone!

I wanted to give some things if you've been having trouble finding agere stuff! Enjoy everyone :)

🌟 YouTubers 💫

Moon Candy / Pinksugarhartt

lia ଘ(੭*ˊᵕˋ)੭* ̀ˋ / angellimbed

tt's dollhouse / bwallerina

ItsSageʕ·ᴥ·ʔ / ItzMe_Sage

elfipup / elfipup

bunnie! 🩷🐇 / vexedbabie

pwincess smol bean / pwincesssmolbean

Chubibunbuns / Chubibunbuns

Minty (* ^ ω ^) / Mintyssocks

punziebell / punziebell

Babie Dani ♡/ BabieDani

Sugarplum's Agere / sugarplumsagere7141

AspenSprout/ aspensprout5212

🎼 Playlists 🎶

age regression / little space playlist! - uncreative

⋆˚࿔ 𝐋𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐒𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞 / 𝐀𝐠𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐏𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ - ♡ bugz safe space ♡

♠︎ 「 Agere Music Box Playlist V1 」 ♠︎ - funtomnoms

Silly Kiddo! - An Agere Playtime Playlist - Mikey_LittleSpace

Age regression / little space playlist - Kiki

🍼💤 Gamer baby! ☆⋆｡𖦹°‧★ littlespace music box playlist 💤🍼 - Tommy

agere playlist! - happy background music - Tommy

Relax Little One - An Agere Sleep Playlist (Music Box + Rain) - Mikey_LittleSpace

🍭 Ideas🌷

Draw!

Read!

Play video games!

Watch some shows!

If you have chalk, draw on the sidewalk!

Do a puzzle!

Play with plushies if you have them!

Write about your day!

Make some crafts! It can be bracelets, pottery, or whatever you can find around the house!

Take a walk if you feel adventurous!

🍀 Health 🐸

Make sure to eat plenty of food, you need to be healthy and strong to take on the day.

Drink plenty of liquids as well! It might be fun playing, but staying hydrated is just as important.

If you have any medication that's been prescribed to you, don't forget to take it as well. Don't forget to take care of yourself, and make sure that you have your medicine!

Exhausted? Don't feel afraid to take a nap! If you ever get sleepy, just know that you'll be able to play and have fun in the morning... Make sure to rest up and stay strong :)

Be sure to stay clean as well, and scrub good! Make sure that you wash properly and do a good job. I know it may seem daunting, but it's well worth it.

❤ Support and Love 💌

Know that without a doubt, I support you, and want you to have a great day / night! You are valid and are such a brave kid, even if you don't think of yourself as brave, I do. Stay your amazing self, and just know that I'm cheering you on every step of the way! :D

(Dividers made by @kodaswrld )

[mamabearsden]

Post-meltdown comfort

It’s okay sweetie, it’s okay. It happens. You’re not in trouble. I know it’s really hard to control yourself when there’s so much going on and you have such big feelings. Mamas here to help.

Would you like some space? Some hugs and cuddles? I can just sit with you if you’d like.

You’re not a bad kiddo. You’re still my sweet little one. Not everything is pretty, it’s okay to have big feelings. Nobody’s judging you.

Are you hurt? Do you have any booboos mama needs to patch up or kiss better? Come here, let’s get you all fixed up.

Mess? Don’t worry about that right now, that’s not important. What’s important is making sure you’re safe and okay. We’ll clean you up when you’re ready, and we can clean up around us when we’re feeling better. No, you’re not gross.

It’s okay bubba. I know it’s really hard. There’s nothing wrong with you, you couldn’t help it. What can we do better next time?

No matter what happens, I’m here for you, little one 🤎

[kaidee-koo]

To any littles or critters who struggle with eating:

You are loved, you are cared for and you absolutely deserve to eat

Im so proud of you love bug. I know some days are hard, the guilty ache in your belly sometimes just wont leave you alone.

Come snuggle up little one, we can watch your favorite show. I’ll make your most safest most favorite snack, and we can just relax.

I’ll eat too to show you its safe, offer you little sips from your bottle or sippy cup and adjust your blanket to make sure you feel as snug as a bug.

Theres no pressure to eat baby, just know you’re safe and Im here.

Every part of you is perfect, from the tip of your little nose to the bottom of your little feet/paws. Every curve and every scar makes you, YOU.

and YOU are one of a kind. I love you 🤍

𐔌 ﹒ ⋆ ꩜ ⋆ 𓂃 ₊ ⊹

This post is mainly to my lovely partner

And to any other littles/critters struggling, know you’re not alone, and that so many people love you.