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were--ralph

Are You A Furry [Sitewide Edition]

YES 100% proud and out

Yes but its a secret only the closest know about

Yes but NO ONE knows besides me

I wasn't but I'm getting closer every day

No but i vibe with them

No but im indifferent to them

No and I dont like furries

It's complicated

I'm Not Sure

[Monster Fucker ONLY option]

Voting ended onFeb 1, 2025

The annual big poll, please RB so I can reach as many people as possible

tothepointofinsanity

She broke into my house and just sat where-ever :/ Need suggestions as to how I can placate and remove her.

tothepointofinsanity

Thank you to everyone who gave recommendations. Despite all our coordinated efforts, she ate all my food and established a corner of her own paradise in my home. I do not think she will be leaving anytime soon.

waybackwanderer

souptoys50mb.mp4 Feb 2007 Archived Media File 📀 🔊

genderkoolaid

in order to not succumb to sex negative conservatism you have to accept that people will get off to things that are upsetting to you. and you cannot assume anything about what they have or have not experienced, what they do or do not believe, and how they act based solely on what gets them off. even if it's extremely confusing and disturbing to you. there are people who have only ever had heterosexual vanilla sex in missionary with the lights off, who actively contribute to more real world harm than your average fetish artist. kink is not a reliable source of information on someone's moral standing. it just feels good to think that way.

genderkoolaid

also "real world harm" is not evidenced by "it makes me really uncomfortable" or "well what if through a highly specific chain of potential events being horny causes THIS–" there needs to be actual people who are being hurt by an action directly.

queen-thick-dick

I love seeing posts like this on here, but I think it's one that people reblog alot to show support for the idea without really grappling with it.

There is some real, legitimate, Uncomfortable Weird Shit that turns people on, and some of it, *is* going to set off all your gut reaction alarm bells. You're going to be so so sure that there is some harmful angle to it and you're going to be fucking wrong.

If you agree with the ideas above, the best way you can prepare yourself for whatever kink you don't know about that will one day squick you is to interrogate why you think Wrong actions are Wrong. In most cases when you examine a scary kink or fetish closely, you'll realize that it isn't actually causing any harm to anyone, and while you can judge as you like, you won't be any better than the people practicing that kink. Furthermore, you need to be able to do this to take an effective stand when something is actually wrong. For example, if you're walking around knowing that Pedophilia is wrong, but you can only think as far as "it's bad because I know to hate pedos" then you're going to be basically worthless at protecting children from sex crimes because your disgust prevents you from learning that there even is an issue, and your fear of the topic makes you totally unable to teach children proper safety practices. It makes you attack two random trans girls because one asked to be called "Mom" in the bedroom, while actual serious harm happens to children all around you without you even noticing because you think Ageplay porn is what actual pedophilia looks like.

Your fear of people practicing the wrong kind of sex is blinding you to real harm and you're causing real harm of your own by trying to go on a stupid crusade anyway. Basically all you will ever be able to check about someone's morality based on their sex life is: 1) Are they only sexually interacting with adults, 2) Do they seek consent before physically interacting.

"But that's only two things someone can do wrong sexually that I should ever care about!"

Yeah, almost like everything else is beyond your ability to judge and not your business anyway.

movelociraptor

httyd credits are underappreciated, every time i watch this movie i am so in love with them

anyway httyd appreciation post

tanadrin

So one of the things that can apparently contribute to kidney issues in cats is if they eat too much dry food and don't drink enough water; cats are adapted to get a lot of their water from their food since they're originally desert animals, and might not get enough water if they don't eat wet food. Unfortunately, Dozy won't eat wet food no matter what; she categorically refuses to touch the stuff. So a few months ago, we were looking for ways to get Dozy more fluids, and my wife noticed at the pet store a cat drink--basically meat broth with some floaty bits in--that was low-protein and meant for cats with kidney issues. So we figured, worth a try, right?

Great news: she loved it. Super tasty apparently. Great success. Along with the kidney-sensitive treats we found, it was a nice way to supplement her diet. Unforseen long-term consequence though: she loved it so much she began demanding it throughout the day. Like, would come up to us and meow, and meow, and meow, and not stop, until we got up, went to the kitchen, and got her some cat drink.

And by doing so on demand, we have unfortunately created a monster: no matter what we are doing at home, Dozy knows that if she sits next to you and meows, 1) you know what she wants, and 2) you know that she will not stop until you get it for her now. And when you do get it, she gets extremely excited. She will bum rush the kitchen door as you enter. She will run around your feet as you open the can. She will let out the creakiest, crunchiest, most nails-on-the-chalkboard meow you've ever heard if she thinks you're not going fast enough.

I do not begrudge her this. It is gratifying to care for a creature whose most ardent desires are so simple that it is this easy to fulfill them. But I am a little sad, because I know in my heart that I have never loved any comestible as much as she loves this cat drink. She has a pleasure of a purity and intensity that I will never know.