[noorshirazie]

“no one deals with loss in the same way. the method of dealing with it may be as unexpected as the loss itself.”

— Noor Shirazie

[contradicted-me]

how to deal with panic attacks? any answers?

[contradicted-me]

May your heart never feel heavy!

[contradicted-me]

Do we live misery to the extent we go to it every time?

[contradicted-me]

It comes a time in life when you realize that not everything you wish for will happen and that you have just to let go. 

[words-of-emotion]

“One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it’s guilt, anger, love, loss or betrayal. Change is never easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go.”

—

Mareez Reyes

(via words-of-emotion)

[shareaquote]

Before I fall in love again 1. I want us to be friends. Which means, I want to be able to eat my favourite cheese crust pizza with you, while having cheese all over my face and even in my hair, without feeling embarrassed or concerned about it. I want to be comfortable with you, I want to be okay about being messy, irritating, embarrassing, disgusting, petty while with you. Because I will be petty when I see my ex best friend post a happy picture and I will be messy during my finals and I will be embarrassing when I meet your parents for I suck at meeting parents. I want to be okay with being the way I am and the only way to be okay is to know that you’re okay with me being things other than beautiful, graceful and composed at all times. 2. I want to be able to have long and passionate conversations with you not just about existential things but also about what went wrong in the ending of that book and how kids are affected by media and how tomato basil combination always works. I want to have conversations where we may not always have the same views but our fundamental values always fall in place. I want to talk to you about the beauty of the stars but I also want to talk to you about the disgusting mentality behind certain societal norms. 3. I want to see how consistent your actions are with your words. I don’t want to fall for love letters or poems, for sweet Instagram captions or long birthday texts, I want to fall in love with you showing up on time and keeping your promises. 4. I want to take it slow. I want our story to work out in years, not months. I want to respect time and space this time. 5. I want to make sure I am not seeking love from you for the lack of love I have for myself. I want to make sure you aren’t a void I am filling in, you are not an alternative to the things I can’t give myself. I want to make sure you are not doing the same. 6. I want to work out with my insecurities and fears from the past. I don’t want to project them on you, I don’t want to subject you to the doubts, suspicion and anger I carry from the people I have known in the past. 7. Before I fall in love again, I want to make a mattress with you. Of understanding and respect and trust. So when we fall, it doesn’t hurt.

creatingnikki  (via wordsnquotes)

[kushandwizdom]

When you start doubting yourself, remember how far you’ve come. Remember everything you’ve faced, the battles you’ve won & all the fears you’ve overcome

[thelovejournals]

if they wanted you, wouldn’t they have chosen you?

Warsan Shire (via wordsnquotes)

[turktaculairr]

حب

Be in love with someone, who sees their sincere prayers answered, in the form of human every time they look at you.

[thelovejournals]

How many people can you claim truly care about you? I mean, not just the people in your life who are fun to hang out with, not just the people who you love and trust. But people who feel good when you are happy and successful, feel bad when you are hurt or going through a hard time, people who would walk away from their lives for a little while to help you with yours?

Lisa Unger, Beautiful Lies (via wordsnquotes)

[thelovejournals]

Some people will never fit into your life, no matter how much you want them to.

Unknown  (via wordsnquotes)

[themotivationjournals]

Let someone love you just the way you are – as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you think you are. To believe that you must hide all the parts of you that are broken, out of fear that someone else is incapable of loving what is less than perfect, is to believe that sunlight is incapable of entering a broken window and illuminating a dark room.

Mark Hac (via wordsnquotes)

[niqabisinparis]

Motivation is overrated. No amount of motivation would’ve gotten me through hours of my accounting textbook. No “vision” is enough to keep me awake til the crack of dawn on an essay that I don’t even know if the professor will check. Discipline is what determines how far you go. On those days when your cute little list of #goals and vision of yourself 5 years from now aren’t enough, discipline will pull you out of bed and get you to work. I wish I knew this in high school because I thought I couldn’t work without motivation. I wasted so much time trying to find purpose before I realized that working now, albeit blindly, will ensure that I could chase any purpose I discover in the future. Sure, motivation is crucial, but it’s not consistent. It’s not reliable. You can only rely on yourself and your grit. 

[busymarina]

THIS THIS THIS THIS

[ssehuns-deactivated20250424]

YES YES I SAY THIS ALL THE TIME

[adabalshware3]

[sandyminn]

hating on somebody for having/ achieving something you want might just block your damn blessings so be careful hoe

[thelovejournals]

Someone once said that the moment you stop to think about whether you love someone, you’ve already stopped loving that person forever.

Carlos Ruiz Zafón, The Shadow of the Wind  (via thelovejournals)