Thoughts I've shared elsewhere, but I wanted to organize them in one post and maybe add to it.
-If Eddie comes out in season 8, I think there will be a conversation with Buck before it happens where he tells him that he admires his bravery for living in his truth.
-In response to Tommy saying that he's just trying to keep up with the pace Buck is setting in their relationship. I think it's very Buck to want to experiment. He has a lot of experience with women. A lot more than the average guy because he is a recovered sex addict. In the time he has with Tommy, which Tim has called a mentoring relationship in the past, I can see Buck experimenting with all the things that he liked women doing to him and even adding in things he never quite had the courage to ask for. I point all of this out to say...
-If Buddie goes canon, he is really going to be bringing the skills to the bedroom. The first time they have sex when Buck is in charge, the physical sex will be on fire. (Now I can't get that song out of my head.) I mean, Eddie will be calling in sick to work the next day, and when he does go back to work, he will be staring off into space until Bobby sends him home for the day.
Eddie will get sent home, and Buck will look like the cat who ate the canary.
-Eddie has had considerably less experience with women, but all of the women they've shown him with have made no complaints. In fact, Shannon couldn't keep herself away from him when she first returned so I don't feel like he's lacking. However, I don't think the wide range of experience and varying technique is there. I don't mean that as an insult. He's very good with what he knows, and with that Latino rhythm, he'll be picking up new moves like a dancer. As far as his experience with men goes, we will not know if there is any until canon lets him fully tell his truth. There may be some. There may be none. I don't believe it will be extensive if it is there because Eddie is a monogamous person by nature.
-That said, I think what Eddie is going to bring to the table sexually is going to be something Buck has never had before and once he experiences it, he's never going to want to have sex with anyone else afterward. When Eddie sleeps with Buck for the first time, Eddie will not just be having sex with him. He will truly be making love to him. Every touch, every whisper, every point of contact is going to be an act of pure love. It will be worshiping the body and the soul. (Of course, I don't know what will be written and it's all still "IF," but I'm hopeful because whoever has been writing Buddie -Tim or someone else- has written them in a way that matches the story I've been dying to see for a long time.) I have confidence that however it is written will convey that.
-But really, you have to think about that for a minute. Part of Buck's sex addiction could be attributed to the fact that he was seeking some way to get and experience feelings of love and intimacy. He didn't feel loved or seen in his childhood and it has carried into his adulthood. He will never feel more seen or more loved than he will with Eddie the first time and maybe every time the two of them are together. I'm sure there will be plenty of moments that are all about the physical, but not that first time. I do think with Eddie's issues with control, he will want to be in charge the first time. (Not to be graphic, but allowing someone to penetrate you is the most intimate act of surrender a person can give you. The pleasure of it aside, I imagine that must be difficult for two uber-masculine men. I can even see this being one of the issues that Eddie and Buck will have to face after getting together. They will have to learn that their partnership is really a two-way street.) But I digress, back to their first time. No amount of sexual experimenting will be able to match the emotional and physical high of being made love to as opposed to straight-up sex. I don't believe Buck has ever been touched by someone who sees and loves him as clearly as Eddie does. Although I don't doubt the feelings of the women who have told Buck they loved him, I don't think it matches. I don't think it compares.
In the end, it is a wait-and-see-what-the-writers-do type of game. I hope they come close to matching that particular piece of my reasoning.