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✨ Yo, I'm Alisha! ✨ 26 - Bi - She/They - Canadian

[coulsonlives]

✨ I'm Alisha (she/they, 26), I'm a bi disaster and welcome to my space on the web! ✨🐌

I'm a friendly potato if you're friendly too, so make yourself comfy. Ship and let ship, kink tomato... We have critical thinking skills and don't do moral panics here. I personally don't ship "taboo" dynamics, but it's fine if you do.

No specific theme. I post funny things, art I like, cute animals, and stuff about censorship.

I appreciate everyone who follows me even if I don't follow back.

I block assholes who hurt or target other people. This includes making threats and death wishes, guilt-tripping people, harassing people, and insulting people you don't like by calling them the r-slur, inbred, or other things. Disabilities and mental illness aren't synonymous with being a bad person. I don't care who the person is. Telling people to die with no chance to better themselves is also Bad. We do reparative, restorative justice in this house!

I don't wanna see people being shitty to others based on their innate race, gender, orientation etc. This includes cishet and white people. Your labels don't give you a free pass to be a jerk.

Some of my popular posts: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8

You can like or reblog my posts, no pressure! I won't guilt trip you into doing one or the other, I get that posts don't always match the themes of blogs, and that posting isn't activism.

I have good media literacy and I'm against censorship. Censorship is not something "only chronically online people care about". Censorship movements have happened for decades eg DND, pokemon, book bans. Just because fandom has labels for where you stand on censorship, it doesn't mean people don't understand why it's bad. They do. Censorship affects everyone, even if you don't talk about it online (which is ok).

I don't have a DNI. They're a naive control fantasy that assumes everyone is who they say they are and will respect your wishes. Vague DNIs like "basic criteria" are even worse, because nobody's definition is the same. I chose not to make my blog password protected, and I can live with what that means.

One last thing:

Obviously I can't control what people do, but I instantly block anyone who claims they have DID. My former friend did the whole thing, I've been there, done that. There's maybe a handful of people who actually have the disorder, and I won't enable anyone else. It's obvious when you're faking, or convincing yourself you have DID, when the symptoms don't line up with the most basic ways the disorder works. Get off tiktok and twitter, you were given bad info by someone equally mistaken. You gotta figure out the real source of your concerns, and it's basically guaranteed to not be DID, even if you have trauma. I'm sorry your needs aren't being met, but you can't fix it like this, you convinced yourself you have something you don't, this is literally what's happening with you. And it's delaying the diagnosis you actually need. Professionals aren't always right, believe me I know lmao, but please. Learn how to think critically, instead of relying on tiktoks and parasocial groups that just confirm your biases over and over again. Get out of those echo chambers, it's seriously unhealthy. Do it for yourself!

Anyways, that's all the tough love for today.

Peace!

[coulsonlives]

You know I kinda feel bad for my aro ace mutuals.

I just learned one them hasn't seen Project Hail Mary because fans are being so mean and aggressive about headcanoning Grace as asexual that they've totally lost interest.

Another one of my mutuals, who is ace, saw the movie and was like, "there's nothing here for me, is the 'grace ace' thing just a play on words and a running joke". I had to explain to them that no, people are just seeing things that aren't there and running off with it, and now they're bullying people for not sharing the same collective hallucination as them (and ofc all the "ace rep" fanart people are making of Grace doesn't help, because it apparently just makes ace people wonder even more if they "missed" something).

[itsame-a-mio]

Happy Pride Month to everyone who gets this joke, laughed at it, or isn’t a homophobic or transphobic etc asshole.

Happy Pride Everyone.

Stay Gay.

[coulsonlives]

People do know fluoresensitives is an acephobe right.

Edit: found a reddit post about it

[evilcyclopsxmen]

“modern au” “highschool au” human/non-powered au"

Why don’t you just watch glee then.

[evilcyclopsxmen]

I use this to torture my victims:

[luciencation-deactivated2026032]

they throw regular rats at eachother

[tzikeh]

HEY!

Back up your computer!

Go get the external drive you bought specifically for this purpose and then left in a drawer somewhere and RUN A FULL BACKUP.

There are lots of posts that make the rounds reminding us to sit up straight, stretch, drink water, refocus our eyes, take our meds, etc. But while this may not be about your health, it's still super-important.

Back up your whole-ass computer. If you can afford a second backup drive, buy one so that you have one SSD and one HDD, and back up to both of them (you can back up just the current important stuff to the SSD and let the HDD do the heavy-duty lifting).

Do not rely on 'the cloud' or the internet to keep jack shit.

AND BACK UP YOUR GMAIL AS WELL HOLY SHIT. The last thing you want is a catastrophic issue where literally every single thing you have in gmail is gone. It's happened. It happened to a friend of mine and basically her entire life was in there and now it's all gone. 20 years of it.

Reblog to save a life.

[coulsonlives]

If you treat straight people like shit simply for existing, get rightfully criticized for it, then go "but queer people have had it worse, quit complaining", like your shitty actions as an individual, towards individuals, that you have complete control over, are somehow off the hook because queer people in general are systematically oppressed, you're a shitty person.

I said what I did.

[fellshish]

a lot of writing is sort of watching the film in your head like oh sorry can’t write the chapter yet i have to repeat hallucinate the dialogue first

[the-blind-assassin-12]

If you’re ever wondering why it’s taking so long for an update it’s because I’m on take 47 of scene 12 and the characters keep saying “wait can I get one more? I wanna try something different” and then they do the exact same thing they did for the first 47 takes.

[coulsonlives]

Not with that attitude you can't

[megustamemes]

Sofa sitting positions

[stiinken]

rotund beast

[fairrytype]

ash and misty stargazing

[lacnunga]

Personal gold stars

[diaryofandnwoman]

[chasoc]

Cats? Mark Ruffalo? Painterly visuals? I am loving this.

[escuerzoresucitado]

[coulsonlives]

If you freeze-dry watermelon, is it just called melon

[coulsonlives]

Okay I'm still thinking about Backrooms. It kinda fell apart towards the end, but it was pretty good. And I keep thinking about how realistic the therapy scenes were? The movie totally avoided over-dramatizing them and making the therapist too cartoony, or making her say things a therapist wouldn't say. I think that's deserving of commendation :)