Eeeee

Get to be a nerd now that I’m almost thirty and finding myself. Everyone’s my dude.

[depsidase]

[crisishandler]

Another week of ovulating? wtf. Goo be gone. Goo gone.

[depsidase]

[depsidase]

[revyn-sadri]

[depsidase]

[crisishandler]

Was cleaning a house yesterday and as super religious as the vibes were, and semi-ominous, there was a painting of an Amish woman in a field putting potatoes in a bucket but without a face. And it threw me off at first but as I kept walking past it, with cleaning supplies in my hands, I had some weird appreciation and familiarity for it. But I forgot the fucking name!! I judged her a little harshly at first because of my families voices in the back of my head. Idk, I just can’t share these thoughts with anyone close to be without getting made fun of, so, appreciate art the way y’all can 💕

[depsidase]

[duckworks]

Weirdly, everytime I see a reference to the ICE List link being blocked, it never includes the link to the list. Click here.

[depsidase]

thank you for posting the link.

[crisishandler]

Did it hurt? When you realized your codependent mother would always put a man before you?

[crisishandler]

Yuck ppl are so corny it’s uncomfortable

[caffeinatedopossum]

Me when I remember something I said ages ago that was wrong or my values no longer align with

[mclennonyaoi]

also love cyberpunk to death but hate how you can’t be fat like you’re telling me it’s 2077 and i can’t choose to be fat . fuck you

[mclennonyaoi]

had a similar problem with bg3 like its cool i can play as a dragon and all but would love if i could have my body size accurately represented too

[mclennonyaoi]

and if you mention this at all everyone gets really mad i wonder why that is

[mclennonyaoi]

i think what the problem is honestly and truly is that game developers (and honestly lots and lots of people) don’t ever believe that a fat person could be comfortable in being fat , or that anyone could ever want to be fat or play as a fat person, period. and both these games share a similar issue where they don’t really have any fat main characters, and the fat characters they do have are evil and disgusting and constantly dunked on for their weight. it’s “escapism” and in people’s perfect escapist fantasy fat people don’t exist. everyone is beautiful and skinny and perfect. kind of evil if you ask me. escapist fantasy is very reflective of what we subconsciously believe.

[mclennonyaoi]

like lol. really

[mclennonyaoi]

and people love to make the “well if you’re an adventurer/fighter/mercenary/edgerunner you wouldn’t be fat” like oh so now we care about realism in video games . that’s what this is about? in our role playing games?

[vixiemoondew]

that's what fuckin kills me every time. for years the body positive movement had to argue against people saying "animating fat characters is impossible!" and then BG3 has like five of them and they're all some variety of greedy fucked up hedonist who's either an idiot coward or evil or both

and that it's 2026 now and your options for Fat Characters in shows/movies/games/whatever boil down to "this one isn't fatphobic (because no fats exist)" vs "this one has fat characters (the narrative is wildly horrible about them)" is fucking infuriating

[my-dailydreams]

[crisishandler]

You know things are rough out here when even in your sex dreams you can’t slut yourself out like before.

[gravitren]

We all know what erectile dysfunction is but literally no one is ever taught what vaginismus is and it can cause people to feel extremely lost, broken, and cause people to take their own lives. Raise. Awareness.

[pokemonprofessor]

For the uninformed, vaginismus is when the vagina painfully tightens and spasms when faced with pressure, usually from anything trying to insert into the vagina. It’s the reason I can’t wear tampons, and why many people can’t have vaginal sex without severe pain.

There’s not a lot of treatments, and there isn’t a single one that is for vaginismus exclusively - they’re all medications or treatments to treat symptoms, but not the causes. In fact, for a long time doctors waved off vaginismus as a purely psychological disorder in cis women.

Seriously, this is so unaddressed and uncared for in medical circles. Please spread awareness, even if all it’s for is to let those who have it but don’t have a name for it finally be able to understand what’s happening to their bodies.

[certifiedsexed]

Certified Sex Ed Post!

[mystery-ink]

Hi hello! This post is almost 10 years old and there ARE treatments for this. Vaginismus is otherwise known as pelvic hypertonia and it is a MUSCULAR condition that can be caused by many different factors including endometriosis, trauma, chronic UTIs, and connective tissue disorders.

It’s incredibly common! And it can be treated by physiotherapy.

I know this because I’m currently undergoing physio and although it can take months to recover, I’m already seeing improvement. A lot of the pelvic floor exercises are available online, but if you have these symptoms please TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR and see if you can get a physio referral (or investigation for underlying causes like endometriosis).

Also, my additions to posts never get reblogged so a note to my followers: this is SUPER IMPORTANT ISSUE that affects many people and is rarely talked about. Please reblog, and please share this info with as many people as possible.

Pelvic hypertonia/vaginismus is incredibly debilitating and psychologically damaging but it CAN BE TREATED. Spread the word, and you never know who you’ll be throwing a lifeline to.

[cityrun]

me, starting a new game: i’m gonna be evil this time

me, 5 minutes into said game: Being Mean Is Not Nice

[pieklo]

Reblog daily for health and prosperity