screaming at the ones we love

like we forgot who we can trust. clarke. 27. black. nb. she/he. osdd-1b system.

[armandgender]

writing is so fun

[armandgender]

writing is impossible why does anyone do this

[rosey-thorns]

White people's idea of racism is like, someone saying "I hate black people!" and that's it, and then when you point out someone is racist they'll be like "oh but she's never said that she hates black people" and then you look at her work and the only black characters are aggressive and rude or servile or some other obvious stereotype

[dumdogs]

i want to interact with people more but what if they kill me

[confines]

communication

[three-semicolons]

“Must have been a sadist”, Jason says.

<Checks notes>

Yeah. Uh huh. Yup. Right on the money there. Immaculate.

The detective training is paying off, so it seems.

[vitariesocks]

just received the best text message I’ve ever had. from my mom

[vitariesocks]

2 pics. no caption

[tavina-writes]

People have real issues understanding why the absence of romance and sexual desire is such a big deal. "No one bothers you over your sexual orientation! You're basically a straight person!" No wrong. The older you get the more your life is considered a failure for failing to find a life partner and get your 2.5 kids in.

Like people make fun of middle aged women for not getting married or being divorced or "always the bridesmaid never the bride" and all like "oh she's desperate! No one wants her! Old maid!' but they become straight up hostile and upset when you tell them you never want to date.

Being unpartnered after your mid twenties is just like "oh what's wrong with you" and "don't worry you'll find your guy" "aren't you afraid of being alone" "who will take care of you" "you're running out of time to have kids" and no matter what you are or aren't people straight up don't understand that you don't want them.

[bobcatdump]

People tend to forget that queer is a word that means weird, and if you step out of heteronormativity you're weird in the eyes of the heteonormative society, wether you want different relationships or no relationships at all.

The core wound of this demographic is being rejected and being relentlessly asked to stop your bullshit relative to romance and sex, and to get back in the ranks. The aroace definitely qualify.

And since being rejected is obviously a veeeeery common trauma in the queer community, and people tend to reenact unhealed patterns, it's not rare to see queer people rejecting other queer people with shit like biphobia, being picky with who "qualify" as trans, dismissing aroaces etc...

Let's put rejection somewhere on a dusty shelf for a while and see how it feels. I'm sure it's freeing.

[meanbuddhist]

*turns my attention inwards* mmmmm. no *turns my attention back outwards* oh god

[dctrfate]

albeit the claim that wally would or even is capable of "mastering" barry isn't particularly accurate because his uncle is both his literal and metaphorical god so in the way of all religious idols there can't be true ownership BUT there is possession in the sense that barry is wally's because the former created the latter and there's a wilful responsibility there that both parties adhere to and remind each other of. wally has and will continue to prevent barry from dying and furthermore has followed him into his assisted suicide attempts for the sole purpose of keeping their relationship alive and also is his literal legacy and nephew. so like #myfuckedupmentorsidekick dynamic because wally 100% would not think any farther on these claims to barry beyond the fact that his own experience as the flash allows him to make decisions better or in place of barry and he does, obviously, have some kind of authority over barry as someone who he is both very close to and shares familial ties with, and meanwhile barry has 100% had idle thoughts going well if there's any one person in the world who'd knows me fully and utterly it's wally and that kind of makes me want to die (positively) (guiltily) so obviously i'll do whatever he wants and be whoever he needs me to be and that includes being an authority figure and making the hard choices sometimes but also i don't want to undermine him by making people think that i think he's mine just because we're so close. i'm not his mentor anymore he's the flash!!! titans 2016 annual #1 'your boy' like um sorry no he's not mine he's his own man 😇😇😇 cut to wally who's like that's right i AM barry's!!! his legacy!!!!!!!!! call me barry's i don't mind!!!

[draizetrain]

i think when u clean your house it should stay clean forever. what do u mean i have to do it again

[slitherpunk]

the more girls you add to a story the more yuri situations you're able to produce.... something to consider

[hollanderthoughts]

It’s literally like…… help!! lol. help me!!!! haha.

[kosmogrl]

we got august this week

[joeyclaire]

you are not an endearingly rude and unfriendly cartoon character you need to be nice to people

[capacity2]

I just can’t believe some of u are soooo young u didn’t experience the early 2000s at all like even briefly . U were born and ur mother door dashed you home from the hospital

[starlit-syncopation]

actually i was in the NICU for a couple weeks after being pieced together by surgeons but whatever lmao

[capacity2]

That’s because she used klarna. To pay through 4 easy installments with no interest

[s4mm4n]

God I miss the days when you could show up to a stranger’s farm and he’d say “What’s your name, boy?” and you’d take off your hat and hold it to your chest to better let him see your face and reply “Why I ain’t got none, sir, on account of my mammy passed on before she could give me one” and he’d tell you he’s real damn sorry to hear that and ask what he can do you for and you’d tell him that you can’t read nor even write neither but you’re mighty good with horses and can mend them fallen fence posts what you saw on your way in and won’t ask for nothing much more than a hot meal and a warm barn to sleep in and he’d keep his wife and daughters inside but send his boy who ain’t got married yet even though his mama tells him he needs a woman out with a lantern and some stew at night and the two of you’d get to talkin and he’d throw you his flask to take a swig from and watch you drinkin from it while he leant against the door frame and when he finally got called back on up to the house again he’d take a sip from it too real slow-like like it weren’t the whiskey what he were tryna savour

[argumate]

you see you don’t get posts like this on twitter

[lastweekseyeliner]

every day at least once while on a walk i think to myself “it weren’t the whiskey what he were tryna savour” and sometimes if i am alone i say it out loud

[dogpuppy]