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so are we gonna talk about kiki's delivery service's autistic coding or do i have to type it all out for you hoes?
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Pretty much. If you transition slowly, people call you a trender and they question your validity, but if you do it quickly you're a bad influence onto other people who are transitioning. Yeah, it's all excuses to be transphobic. Go at your own pace, not anyone else's.
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gonna start with the obvious. panic at the disco
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“My sweet nemesis, how glad I am that you returned.”
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a while ago i attended this lecture on autism. guy in the audience said he had many of the symptoms that were presented and asked what should he do to get treatment and possibly a diagnosis. instead of answering his question the psychologist went on a tangent about how "the clinic reigns all powerful over guesswork", and how actually it has become a trend amongst little children on the internet to claim that they are autistic for cool points, and that this hurts real autistic people. no she didn't tell him how to get his symptoms looked into, she just made it very clear that to her, aknowledging your own symptoms is bad and evil and hurts the poor real mentally ill people.
an ex-friend of mine, then a psychology major and by now probably a full psychologist, once lectured me on how horrible and bad it was that i told her "i probably have some sort of neurodivergency", and that if i were her patient she would never give me a diagnosis because "you aren't like this now, but i know that if you get a diagnosis you'll use it as an excuse to start treating people badly. that's just how mentally ill people are."
same ex-friend was extremely disgusted when she found out that fans sometimes make neurodivergency headcanons for characters that have the same symptoms as they do, and that authors sometimes write books with neurodivergent protagonists in stories that don't focus on that (ex: she seemed horrified that percy jackson has adhd?)
multiple psychologists i've seen on facebook agree that they should refuse to treat patients that say "i'm here because i have symptoms of a disorder and wonder if i have it", and that a patient should arrive to a psychologist as a blank slate.
school psychologist asked me how i was feeling about my trauma situation and i told him i thought my friends would leave me. instead of addressing the issue he said that that no i didn't, that i was lying, that i had searched "bpd symptoms" online and now i was faking symptoms because i wanted to have bpd, that he shouldn't have told me he suspected i had a personality disorder because now look what was happening. no, i didn't search bpd symptoms online. yes, my friends left me, it was a completely founded belief and not a symptom, let alone a faked symptom.
so the next time you hear someone saying they're "anti self-diagnosis" i want you to understand what they're saying. what they're saying is:
- i don't want people to be aware of their own symptoms
- i don't think my patients should have access to any information that doesn't come from me
- i don't think neurodivergent people should learn how to cope with their symptoms and live "normal" lives
- i think neurodivergent people should be denied a diagnosis because the moment they get one they will become evil and dangerous
- i don't think people who don't look like a stereotype could possibly be neurodivergent, even if they have all the symptoms, so i think they are faking it for attention and should be denied treatment
@a-sad-snail is absolutely correct
obv this is still a decent point but that does actually happen to people w their physical health fairly often
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this is cardan greenbriar and jude duarte respectively.
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so i haven’t seen anyone talking about this but i wanted to point out that
in my opinion valiant turns around the beauty and the beast story in a way a lot of retellings and the original don’t. in the original story the moral is “it’s what inside that matters” but it kinda falls flat with that because beauty being the reward for not being shallow is...well.
but in valiant ravus specially is not going to change. it shows it *actually* not mattering in a way that’s so much more strong than other retellings
anyways go holly black
the one thing about cardan that makes me incredibly uneasy is when he slut-shamed taryn. oh so her and locke hooking up is all wrong but then he goes to bed every night literally draped in faeries? 🙄 make it make sense
i get where you're coming from, nonnie, but i think it's a bit more convoluted than that.
Cardan is mean to Taryn in TCP, yes. but that's primarily because Taryn is the accomplice to Locke making Nicasia cry. even if her part in it was indirect, to the fae, that's all they'd probably need to hold a grudge against someone forever.
the closest thing Cardan gets to explicitly slut-shaming Taryn (that i can think of, at least) is when he tells Jude "not that I'd be the first to green gown her". but we have to remember that Taryn is knowingly keeping a very big secret from Jude. a secret Cardan knows about, but is sworn to keep. so he can't say anything directly to Jude to warn her. this is his way of "telling her" without telling her.
and since Jude is "involved" with Locke, i think Cardan sees Taryn going along with Locke's games, despite the fact that she could tell Jude if she wanted to, as a deep betrayal of Jude. a betrayal not too unlike the one Nicasia committed against him only a few months prior. it hits a little too close to home.
i've mentioned before that Cardan's feelings for Jude in TCP are present, albeit complicated. so likely, the idea of someone Jude loves wittingly betraying her did not sit well for him. and he dealt with those feelings of discontent the only way he knew how: by lashing out at the person who caused them.
now, i'm not commending Cardan for being mean to Taryn. personally i think he should've focused the brunt of his ire on Locke. but Taryn is an easy target. she's mortal, an identifier that makes sense to scorn in Faerie (because that's the way their society is). and a mortal who is generally pretty submissive at that.
Locke on the other hand is one of the fae, one of the gentry, has a history of deriving pleasure from other people's vexation and misery, and ultimately has a lot more power to make Cardan's life a living hell in return.
it would be a lot of work to get back at Locke for making Nicasia cry. it would be infinitely easier to get back at someone else who had a hand in the matter.
and if there are two things we know TCP Cardan hates most, it's mortals and work.
not to mention, it is very likely that Cardan's maliciousness towards Taryn is something Balekin would've rewarded him for. or at the very least Not Beat Him for. if Cardan had lashed out at Locke instead of Taryn, who knows what Balekin would've done.
also! as sort of an informal addendum, Cardan was.... not a nice dude in TCP? like idk if y'all remember that cos it seems like fandom usually takes big scary characters and flattens them into melodramatic himbos/simps. and i'm not saying that isn't part of Cardan's character, but...... he is also scary as hell.
we all agree that Jude is the scariest thing in Faerie, yes? and she lived there for a decade with loads of faeries. the scariest one for her was Cardan. Jude was terrified of him. that should say something to you about how Not Nice Cardan was at the beginning of the series.
so even if you don't agree with my analysis, and still think that what Cardan did was slut shaming (which you are totally within your right to think)..... i mean. YEAH. he was kind of terrible for a little while there! the title of the book is literally The Cruel Prince, idk what to tell you 🤷♀️
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thinking about when ajj said "youre an irreplaceable human soul with your own understanding of what it means to suffer".................. damn
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