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The light in the dark.

Ok I want to say something controversial

But you are responsible for your own safe spaces. You can block tags, block words, block people.

“But i thought fandom was supposed to be a safe space” —yeah you have to curate it.

Unfortunately one persons’s safe space may be another persons’ trigger. That’s ok. Simply block them, block the tag, block the word etc. They can do the same for you.

Maybe I’m just out of touch, but I’ve been around since the days of “don’t like, don’t read” and that’s a good philosophy. If it squicks you, scroll past. If it causes you anxiety or upset, block! Plenty of people are responsive if you ask them to tag an upsetting trigger. And if they’re dicks about it, block em.

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Since different people have different needs, one person’s safe space will be another’s Trauma Central.

I don’t know who said it first, but “I need to be able to express my anger without shame” and “I need to be away from yelling and loud noises” are both valid needs people can have for a safe space that really aren’t compatible with each other.

So are “I need to process my trauma” and “I need to not meet any trauma.”

Or “I want a safe space to tell/read the stories that speak to me” and “those stories are distressing to me.”

Insisting that your needs are the only needs anyone should have is not a safe space, it’s its own act of violence.

You don’t get to make others homeless to make the universe your personal safe space.

quietborderline

Read this bit again:

“Insisting that your needs are the only needs anyone should have is … its own act of violence.”

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Cosmos ✨ Moon

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Unicorns across the world

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By Daniel Angele

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Mentalhealthceo on instagram

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[ID: An infographic on Red Flags from Medical Professionals.

1. ‘Medical Professional Red Flags’ with an image of a doctor with an angry expression

The rest are all text:

2. They label you as a hypochondriac (someone who has health anxiety) when you express your fears and invalidated your concerns

3. They don’t tell you the side effects of prescribed medication/brush them off

4. They insist that their diagnosis is right when you have evidence otherwise

5. They become defensive when you ask for a second opinion

6. They rush you through the medical process and don’t spend enough time to understand your condition

7. They don’t listen to you or your suggestions

8. They spend more time berating you and your choices than actually helping you

9. They talk more about themselves than to you

10. Many, people do not trust medical professionals because of these reasons, but the fact is that there are plenty of ethical doctors and nurses out there who do want to help you that these people give a bad name to.

Please feel free to swap doctors if they display any of these red flags until you meet a good one!

/End ID]

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By Ceosanna on Flickr

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And the call isn’t out there at all, it’s inside me… I know the way. I am Moana! Moana (2016)

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Their relationship in a nutshell.

Not SamFro!

Taking out the metaphorical trash and cutting out the toxic people in my life is super therapeutic. Feels like I can finally breathe again and I don't have to walk on eggshells anymore. Might dump this blog too, it's super old and full of junk and bad memories at this point. There's really only one close friend of mine that even still uses tumblr anyway. Eh. Guess we'll see how I feel in the coming days.

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The Burrow (Weasley’s house) in Harry Potter

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Tiina Törmänen

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“There’s something beautiful about keeping certain aspects of your life hidden. Maybe people and clouds are beautiful because you can’t see everything.”

— Kamenashi Kazuya