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Kenzie | she/him | 18+ | goth dog | horror fanatic | artist & writer | multi-fandom blog | faggotmox's bf

[si3art]

🦇•°Alucard°•🦇

[yellydany]

Swamp pals Feraligatr and fletchling in the swamp!🌺🐊🌾

[charl0ttan]

in the 2000s everything was happening on the dance floor. they signed the magna carta out there

[mugichachachas]

₍^. .^₎⟆ rinpalooza

[caesarsaladinn]

every morning i wake up and make the worst possible time management decisions anyone has ever made

[kotyawtf]

Tough day

[tlirsgender]

As a principled feminist I'm often tempted to say shit like "are men capable of higher thought" but then I have to remember not to perpetuate gender essentialism and change it to "why do men choose not to think about anything"

[klimtsonian]

it’s so confusing sometimes to be a girl ❤️‍🔥

[ieafy]

dusk

[mintywhisker]

between the lions 📚🦁

my piece for the our turn to thank you! fan zine

[forestgreenandgray]

Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

[natnormalatall]

roald dahl was antisemitic and misogynistic. george orwell was openly homophobic. edgar allan poe married his 13 year old cousin. dr seuss cheated on his wife (and was racist as well as antisemitic!). hp lovecraft was racist as fuck. anyways they’re fucking dead it’s not like you’re enabling their behaviors in the afterlife or something. then again I think they bleed into the books so uh keep an eye out for that

the difference between these old white guys and jk rowling is that the former group is all dead. jk rowling is alive and using your money to oppress trans people

[junglejim4322]

90% of age gaps don’t matter when you’re a grown adult as long as you don’t have a repeated pattern of dating people barely legal. I would date someone 30 years older than me if I liked them who gaf

[junglejim4322]

This entire conversation is somehow 90% people infantilizing themselves and 10% actually people talking about the issue of men who never grow out of dating 18/19 year olds. No it is not a big deal when a 25 year old dates a 35 year old please get a grip

[junglejim4322]

Honestly if you’re in your mid twenties infantilizing yourself on this level maybe you shouldn’t be dating anyone

[pemprika]

an angel's devotion

riso 3 colors, black, light lime, and fluorescent pink

[featherfangart]

The foolish little girl, the witch, the mother, the goddess

Finally my own tarot card for my dearest witch of the wilds! Hoping to make this one golden later!

[mightbebobbie]

space babysitter

[mollyjames]

It's really important when you're at work to go out there and really give it your 60%. Maybe 35%.