finding it more and more difficult to keep a baseline level of respect for people who think "lived with parents after 18" and "can't drive" are legit insults/ acceptable jokes to make about anyone
When my mom started to go blind, she kept driving well past the point of safety because of the idea that āpeople who canāt drive are pathetic.ā And her brother canāt drive! Heās mentally disabled! But to her, he had a reason and she didnāt. Many times after she had to stop driving she told me that losing the ability to drive was one of the hardest parts of going blindāand she didnāt even like driving. It was just the ābeing pathetic and helplessā part that bothered her. And my mom was a lot of things, and some werenāt very nice, but letās all ask: did a lady in her 50s, stricken with a mystery illness that took her sight, deserve to feel even worse about herself because ānot being able to drive is patheticā?
This ājokeā harms people. Full stop.
ALL OF THIS.
Add āis unable to live aloneā and āis unable to travel aloneā to this list too.












