[cupidete]

i have a basic dni criteria set in place, and just generally, dont be weird and youll be fine. im disordered and have trouble interacting with others, but im trying. i use slurs that i can reclaim, and curse every now and then. im still in school, so expect me to be offline often. i do not take requests, as they overwhelm me. if i do take any, they will be from moots and will be made slowly regardless. im chronically online. i can be occasionally ignorant and stupid—please personally dm me or send something in my inbox and call me out if i do something dumb. i have a typing quirk, but you will never seen it used on any account but my spam. interactions from @portrayme.

[sedenvy]

parasocialism in the mogaiblr community is VERY real. i think we all like to ignore it or pretend it isn't parasocial because it feels nice to have fans and be loved by a community. i get it.

however, it causes problems when your fans believe YOU and them are closer than you guys actually are. and it causes even MORE issues outside of just, faux relationships.

and i am, a little bit, blaming the creators because i have witnessed them more than once indulge and encourage said behavior. do i believe it's malicious all the time? no. i don't. but if you have a big, big community, you need to know when to set boundaries and when to stop certain comments from being made that encourage parasocialism.

it makes smaller creators feel less important, it causes fights within the community, criticism aimed at certain creators are shut down or attacked because of these fake relationships between viewer and creator, younger creators are faced with intense praise and expectations that it can affect their outside mogaiblr life, etc.

and there's issues with creators being so ANTI parasocial, that they often (unknowingly, i'm sure) step on their fans because their behavior COULD be seen as "too friendly" or parasocial when that isn't the case.

and no, i'm not going to give examples or point fingers. truthfully, this community is not a safe one. i don't feel comfortable giving examples or anything of that nature because some people here act like i just called for the beheading of creators.

maybe one day i'll feel brave enough to do so, but for the time being, it's just not an option. and if you feel like this was targeted towards YOU, then maybe you need to reevaluate and figure out why you might feel this way.

[cupidete]

im a small creator so i have yet to experience the weirds of the internet, but ive seen plenty of creators, even through my small profile searches of creators i follow, be harassed, spoken to weirdly, and have entitled anons that think of themselves as the only important people ever seemingly.

its frankly a little crazy just how people decide to treat others so oddly.

looking at some creators account show simply how the liomoqai coining ‘fanbase’ treats the creators of this communtiy.

[cupidete]

hewwoo !! can I be on the taglist ?

of course! my next coining post will have you tagged.

[cupidete]

weirdocy.

an indeacy (link) where you need to be perceived as a weirdo. being seen otherwise may cause discomfort or dysphoria.

taglist: @radiomogai, @goregender, @accessibilitea. ask to be tagged.

[wraithjoran]

welcome to wraithjoran. ⠀⠀⠀₍　🍓　₎

this is a tumblr layout making/editing/stimboard blog run by @paiwmon. this blog’s layout can be found here. i do not consider myself part of editblr.

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[cupidete]

retheme already ….

[cupidete]

sometimessongic.

a [x]songic (link) term for when ones gender is connected to sometimes by alex_g_offline.

taglist: @radiomogai, @goregender, @accessibilitea. ask to be added.

[cupidete]

daddyissuessongic.

a [x]songic (link) term for when ones gender is related to daddy issues by the neighbourhood.

taglist: @radiomogai, @goregender, @accessibilitea. ask to be added.

[paiwmon-deactivated20260121]

how .. do u post so often ….. im lowkey in awe

do you mean like flags or just in general

[cupidete]

in general, but also mainly flags tbh …. the flags u make r rlly pretty and just seem like they would take much longer than how long it seems to take u 😭😭

[paiwmon-deactivated20260121]

this is all flags :3 i have my queue set to post 3 times a day and anytime i notice its getting low (or any time i have ideas) i go on a coining spree

[cupidete]

HOLY SHIT? thats like fascinating lowkey. maybe its just cause im a new coiner but like 😭😭

[paiwmon-deactivated20260121]

how .. do u post so often ….. im lowkey in awe

do you mean like flags or just in general

[cupidete]

in general, but also mainly flags tbh …. the flags u make r rlly pretty and just seem like they would take much longer than how long it seems to take u 😭😭

[comqueer]

ur layout is so. pretty . the colors r very ncie . burps on u

AWWTHANK U!!!!!URE SO KIND. MAKES YOU EXPLODE

[cupidete]

AAAAAADONT EP LOXE ME 💔💔💔💔💔 e xplodws u next 🥹

[cupidete]

angerprone.

an [x]prone (link) term where someone is anger prone, or more likely to be angry. made with people who are neurodivergent in mind, but not exclusive.

taglist: @radiomogai, @goregender. ask to be added.

[cupidete]

i have a basic dni criteria set in place, and just generally, dont be weird and youll be fine. im disordered and have trouble interacting with others, but im trying. i use slurs that i can reclaim, and curse every now and then. im still in school, so expect me to be offline often. i do not take requests, as they overwhelm me. if i do take any, they will be from moots and will be made slowly regardless. im chronically online. i can be occasionally ignorant and stupid—please personally dm me or send something in my inbox and call me out if i do something dumb. i have a subtle typing quirk, but you will never seen it used on any account but my spam. interactions from @portrayme.