Fuck off and Leave me alone

She/Her. If you come to like me, that's your problem to deal with.

[damagedinfluence]

Making a goddamn About Me post cuz my wife has one and I'm jealous.

Hi, I'm DamagedInfluence, this blog is for whatever I damn well want it to be. I am not after a following, Idk why I have followers but I won't cater to them so don't expect me to cater to you.

I am pretty friendly if you actually talk to me, but since this is Tumblr and I know y'all are some sick fucks, I have my Asks closed and DMs are for mutuals.

I am Lemmy's friend, if you know Lemmy you also know our situation, make her life bad and I'll kill you.

Spouse is @omegasamus-blog

DNI. That's fucking it, Don't motherfucking Interact with me.

[pluraldstar]

There’s this new rumor being passed around that is seriously pissing me off that trans women are getting people’s blogs deleted for criticizing them. Are you kidding me? Years of transfem blogs being unfairly targeted, the CEO cyberstalked a woman to other sites, admitted to transmisogynistic moderation, and the transfems you’re harassing are responsible for your deleted blogs?

Fuck you.

[koiwypher]

wypple armoured with spike armour :3

[damagedinfluence]

That's the most dangerous twink I've ever met

[ferncloud]

night chase

[depsidase]

[deadmaidclub]

shoutout to the woman in the waiting room at the doctors office who cured my dysphoria by telling me shes so glad young men like me are growing their hair out again and how i look straight out of the 90s and then complained to me about her horrible cat. i think she was an angel

[deadmaidclub]

kill that demon because maybe someday a lovely and chatty middle aged woman with a cat who rummages thru her fridge will tell you that you look like a rocker dude from the 90s and life will be awesome

[depsidase]

[alizalayne]

porcelain doll

[alizalayne]

too scary

[damagedinfluence]

I like her, my mom says I'm scary too with wide open eyes.

[depsidase]

[depsidase]

[dzuniper]

It was weird for me to sit in a room full of dykes and watch them listen respectfully while FTMs talked about wanting to cut off their tits. But when the handful of MTFs who had come to the workshop dared to speak out, the hostility toward them was palpable. FTMs take male hormones so they can look as masculine as possible. They wear penile prosthesis in their pants and crossdress. Most of them would have surgery to give themselves penises if they could afford it and the surgery could create a fully functional male sex organ. Why do these folks qualify as "leatherdykes" when MTFs don't? MTFs take female hormones, love their tits, often undergo painful surgery to create female genitals, and live full-time as females and as dykes. It made absolutely no sense to me that FTMS were welcome at power surge when MTFs were not.

Patrick Califia, "Who is my sister?" in Venus Infers vol.1 no.1. 1993

[damagedinfluence]

It's simple: none of the cis people in the room saw the trans people as trans.

It's just that the FtM people were benefitting from the situation by coincidence, but if they had noticed they weren't seen as men but just crossdressing women? They'd feel just as disrespected.

You can see this a lot in power structures, in terms of oppression without gender, but with class war and race war you see that even the most white anti-racists often fall for a racist treating them well while showing hostility to black anti-racists, non-racists and racists in the room.

People love to feel appreciated, they wanna have attention and so "The enemy of my friend who treats me well is also my friend" becomes the norm.

[magicalboyasher]

I offer my sincerest condolences, and a chocolate bar 🍫

[creekfiend]

people talk about how we need to bring back "don't feed the trolls" rhetoric for modern internet ragebait and I agree but also I think the most useful thing from the Old Internet that I miss is LURKING

be a lurker. just read things and think about them without feeling the need to weigh in or call out or disseminate everything you encounter. it's so nice and so freeing and it's a good way to learn things.

I have frequently regretted getting involved in shit that didn't involve me online but you know what I've never regretted doing? Lurking. literally lurk moar

[saywhat-politics]

BREAKING: 21-year-old protester, Kaden Rummler, was shot point-blank in the face by ICE. he just spoke about how he’s blind for life and almost died:

“I will be blind for life. I have fractures in my skull that they can't fix. They pulled a piece of plastic the size of a nickel out of my eye. I had shards of metal, glass, and plastic behind my eye and in my skull. They said it was a miracle I survived.”

What the hell is wrong with these people?

GoFundMe for Kaden Rummler, the young trans man blinded by ICE agents this week.

Fundraiser for K R by Sarah Gallimore : Help ICE Protestor After being shot by Feds

[depsidase]

[gaytanic-panic]

[dotanadots]

at this point im just doodling any nonsense that comes to mind