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[sumikatt]

if you do not actively desire sex but still have sex that may be self-harm. i’ve done this. it sucks and in the long run will fuck you up when or if you actually desire sex.

[sumikatt]

having sex for the sole purpose of “pleasing a partner” is sex that may traumatize you. sex should be enjoyable and it shouldn’t place any burdens on you and if you don’t want sex then don’t force yourself to have sex

[nemfrog]

Almond tree. Ausländische Kulturpflanzen in farbigen Wandtafeln. 1877.

[kitchenalia]

ah yes, the Teenage Girl Phase that we all go through. the one where we agonize over our weird feelings for girls & read horror & feel half-dead, far too able to relate to murdered girls in media & daydream about being non-corporeal & dabble in witchcraft & sink into depression & try to scrub ourselves raw every time a boy touches us & feel directionless because what we want doesn’t line up with what we’re supposed to want…

or is that version not sexy and cute enough for men to want to fantasize and write about

[mary]

[lovecoreheartcore]

source

[arealgsywoman-blog]

“‘Tell me what happens the first time you see a woman naked.’ ‘The first time you see a woman naked will not be like you imagined. There will be no love, no trust, no intimacy. You won’t even be in the same room as her. You won’t get to smile as she undresses you and you undress her. You won’t get to calm her nerves with nerves of your own. You won’t get to kiss her, feeling her lips and the edge of her tongue. You won’t get to brush your fingers over the lace of her bra or count her ribs or feel her heartbeat. The first time you see a woman naked you will be sitting in front of a computer screen watching someone play at intimacy and perform at sex. She will contort her body to please everyone in the room but her. You will watch this woman who is not a woman, pixelated and filtered and customized. She will come ready-made, like an order at a restaurant. The man on the screen will be bigger than you, rougher than you. He will teach you how to talk to her. He will teach you where to put your hands and he will teach you what you’re supposed to like. He will teach you to take what is yours. You must unlearn this. You must unlearn this twisted sense of love. You must unlearn the definition of pleasure and intimacy you are being taught. Kill this idea of love, this idea of entitlement, this way of scarring one another.’”

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Typewriter Daily (via creatingaquietmind)

Holy shit

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Woah

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technically we’re ALL, always LARPing, because the Self is only a construct,

[2rsquared]

I want a new character

[theprettyboysclub]

Then make one.

[just-yet]

[golfgalaxy]

psych majors be like hold up… 👁👁 im readin ur mind

[video-kojima]

[emerald-imperial]

please look at my cat’s feet

[everythingfox]

The song to end all wars

[swarnpert]

youtube to mp3 converters have done more for this country than the military ever will

[everythingfox]

BIG obstacle

[theres-something-complicated]

brianaking_ on ig

[falastinniya]

you’ve gotta start romanticizing your life. you gotta start believing that your morning commute is cute and fun, that every cup of coffee is the best you’ve ever had, that even the smallest and most mundane things are exciting and new. you have to, because that’s when you start truly living. that’s when you look forward to every day. 

[feministism]

[pokememoan]

when you come home and your mom starts complaining immediately

[jehovahhthickness]

Every time I visit my mom and she tries to argue with me, I ask her “Do you want me to go back home right now because ima take the first flight out?!!” And that’s when she shuts the fuck up.