thatgirlwithcurls

[datgirlwithcurls]

Just support her dreams and give her orgasms and tell her she's pretty 🙃

[datgirlwithcurls]

- When the woman in the house is unhappy, the whole house become dark. When the woman in the house is happy, the whole house become so beautiful and bright -

datgirlwithcurls

[datgirlwithcurls]

“It doesn't take a genius to know that the butterflies won't last. That the romantic dates would be less fewer as life gets busy, that time would make each "I love you" sound so ordinary than what they used to be. Still, I hope that you find someone who will never get tired of watching sunsets with you. Someone who would always choose an ordinary day with you than an exciting first date with another.

I hope that you find someone who will never let you drift away farther than an arm's length so that he can always grab your hand and pull you back when tears start to create a river that separates you.

There is no perfect, so I hope that when it's time for you to entrust your heart to someone, it's to a person whose love has no doubts because a heart that's sure can see through your flaws, your imperfections, and love you all the same.”

–Jun Mark Patilan

[datgirlwithcurls]

“Being a positive person does not mean you have to be happy all the time.

It's okay to be sad. It's okay to feel anxious, drained or lost. It's okay to not feel okay. Unpleasant emotions will come up. They are a part of life. And through accepting instead of suppressing those feelings, you get a chance to work through and heal what is hurting you.”

[datgirlwithcurls]

lf you choose a working woman, you have to

accept that she cannot manage the house full

time.

If you choose a housewife who can take care

of and manage the household completely, you

need to accept that she does not make money.

lf you choose a submissive woman, you must

accept that she depends on you.

If you choose to be with a brave woman, you

must accept that she is stubborn and has her

own thoughts.

If you choose a beautiful woman, you have to

accept the expenses as well.

lf you choose to be with a great woman, you

must also accept that she is hard and firm.

No woman is perfect.

A woman has her own "good thing" that defines

who she is and makes her unique. ❤️

Source: keep it real

[datgirlwithcurls]

Green flags in a relationship

• you feel safe to express yourself openly

• disagreements don’t threaten the relationship

• friendships are encouraged

• boundaries around physical touching, intimacy, communication and personal belongings, are respected

• you are respected

• you are appreciated

• you are positioned above all else

• each of you take responsibility for your actions, words and behavior

[datgirlwithcurls]

10 realizations that you have to embrace.

1. As you get older, you choose the people that you accept in your life. You do not want to waste your energy trying to connect with someone, and it will not prosper into a relationship that is worth keeping.

2. You can't stop people from saying things about you. It is not your responsibility to change their minds. You only have to keep on doing what you do best. For as long as you are not hurting anyone, then there is no need to explain yourself.

3. You don't need so many friends in your life. You only need a few but are genuine with you. You cut off people in your life who do not respect you.

4. You are a work in progress, so there is no need for you to be hard on yourself. You have to continue learning and embrace that you will never please everyone.

5. Kindness goes a long way. If you have nothing good to say, it is better to keep your opinions to yourself. Allow people to grow and learn from their past mistakes.

6. Those people who know you better will stay with you no matter what. These are people that you have to keep because they have the purest intentions for you.

7. Maturity is to prioritize your needs over anything. For as long it can serve its purpose, you don't feel the need to buy a new one.

8. Embrace the fact that we outgrew people. Some of them do not stay because they have other priorities. You don't stop them, you let them go.

9. You choose your battles because not everything is worth your time and energy. You would want to protect your peace of mind than engage in drama.

10. You choose your happiness more than anything. You don't let people define your success. You make the most of every day because life is fleeting. You chase your dreams, not people anymore.

Source: Neil Jed Castro

[datgirlwithcurls]

i love talking to you, whether you’re sad, happy, angry, bored - it doesn’t matter.

if you’re sad, i want to be there for you.

if you’re happy, i want to see you smile.

if you’re angry, i want to soothe you.

if you’re bored, i want to keep you company.

you never have to apologize for how you feel. i love you as you are.

[datgirlwithcurls]

I only fall in love with souls. I never fall in love with people. People change. They come and go. But a soul remains forever. I suppose that is why when I love, it is a deep love. An unconditional love. A forever love.

[datgirlwithcurls]

“Intimacy is not who you let touch you. Intimacy is who you text at 3 am about your dreams and fears. Intimacy is giving someone your attention, when ten other people are asking for it. Intimacy is the person always in the back of your mind, no matter how distracted you are.”

[datgirlwithcurls]

A few years ago, I could never have imagined finding someone who made all my past heartbreaks feel worth it. Someone who makes my heart swell up despite all the holes and whose hands fit mine so perfectly and hold mine so tightly.

thatgirlwithcurls

[datgirlwithcurls]

Underrated Romantic Things:

- making up excuses to walk them home or to their car just to spend an extra few minutes in the presence, even if you're going out of your way to do it, to make sure they get home safe

- the Eye Contact that lingers after one of you catches the other staring at them but don't bother to look away, eventually one of you breaking into a shy smile and the other joins

- playing with each other's hands 

- absentmindedly singing to them when they're drifting to sleep in your arms, seeing their faint smile as they head toward a peaceful slumber

- surprise shoulder kisses when you lean against a lover

- reminding them to take care of themselves even if it's unneeded, just to be able to see them smile and nod and promise you that they will, for you

- subconsciously sniffing their shirt when you hug them tightly, and it's kinda weird but ??? you don't even realize you're doing it they just smell so good and you can feel them smile every time you do it so sndkdkd

- waiting all day to tell them any kind of good news that you got because you're most excited for their reaction and encouragement than anyone else's, no matter how hard it is keeping it from others throughout the whole day

- that quiet muttering of "i love you" s in between kisses pressed against your lips never getting old, feeling your stomach doing backflips every time they do it and just feeling so loved in that moment

- gravitating towards each other in any room that you find yourselves in, you don't even notice it until you're right next to them after a few minutes of being several feet from the other, the force of your love too strong to keep you apart for long

#just some lovely thoughts i had but feel free to add your own & your own experiences <3