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eczema is such a catch 22 and thats honestly the worst part. like half the recommendations for relief are "try and relieve stress in ur life :) stress is a major trigger :)" like yes motherfucker i know but its kinda hard to chill when im in so much pain. heres a fun fact for u: pain causes stress. stress causes eczema. eczema causes pain. do u see my problem. do u understand
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Hey umm so in light of NEVER having scene or read about a character with eczema (or skin problems at all for that matter) I'm going to go over how to write and draw eczema without being rude and making people self conscious about it.
Some general stuff:
This shit is PAINFUL! Like EXTREMELY PAINFUL sometimes
It may look red and swollen
It may look very dry and flaky
On darker skinned people it's not always going to look bright red. It's going to be patches of darker skin with more red undertones
It may look very rough skin and slab covered.
It can cause immense fatigue
It can make mobility hard
It may look bad but feel like nothing
It may look fine but feel painful
We can't stop itching. It's literally painful to not itch. It makes my thrash around if I can't itch
I have spent night being exhausted but unable to sleep bc of eczema and how painful it is
A flare up is caused by literally anything and often times we don't know the cause
It's usually on the back of the knees or the insides of the arms but can appear anywhere. Other popular spots invlude the neck, face, hands, and wrists
It causes hyper pigmentation but it's mostly notice in the summer or after summer since you're tan and the patch goes away, leaving untanned skin and the place where the patch was drained of a bit of color anyways
Nearly everyone who's had it has it on the inside of their arms and has had it there forever. I have hyper pigmentation there however it's in a patchy way. A lot of people have paler inside arms but mine isn't a smooth transition of color.
Hyper pigmentation does happen and it's not always permeant. It can just last until the summer tan is gone or it can take literal months to even years to fade which is what's happening to my arms at the moment
It will come in patches at random places at random times though usually stays forever on places like the inside of arms and legs
If it's on the inside of one arm then it's going to show up on the inside of the other arm. Same goes for the back of the knees however there might be one side that's typically worse then the other. It can switch back and forth but unless you're on medication one side will be noticslly worse then the other though both will not be looking good
It can stay one place for a few years and go away but then show up in a new place and stay there for years.
Medication and shots are a thing that we use
Steroid creams and prescription lotion are also things we use
No one is using scented bath and body works lotion. Scented stuff irritates it and makes it burn. Take your Bath and Body Works and leave.
I'm not just going to pick up any lotion or cream at the store either. I'm doing careful research on what will work best, finding what works best for me, and sticking with it
A lot of things will make it burn such as lotions, perfumes, and even water
A lot of people wear jackets and hoddies to cover it up
I also wear a special hoodie for flare ups bc the material feels nicest and I don't want to ruin my other clothes with all the lotions and stuff
Certain materials are itchy and irritating. (Looking at you wool I hate your guts) while others are soothing and comfortable (cotton and silk and bamboo fabric are life savors)
Random and obscure allergies that cause it to flare up
When a patch clears up and goes from rough to soft I will continue to touch it bc I'm excited and I forgot what it feels like to have my skin like that. I once had it on my eyelids and cheeks and once it cleared up I cried and wouldn't stop touching my face bc it didn't hurt to make facial expressions and it felt so nice to have my skin back
Speaking of which it can and will show up on your eyelids and make them swell up
It can get into your brows and you'll lose hair in your brows bc of it
I don't know one person with eczema who hasn't felt self conscious about it or try to hide it even if it's nothing to be ashamed for
Doctors will take one look at people with eczema (especially those who aren't skinny white boys) and pass it off as a rash. Dermatologists do this and actually allergists have been more helpful with clearing up my skin in my personal experience
You will get super greasy hair from all the lotion. If it's on the neck or face your hair will catch in the lotion and make it greasy. It doesn't help that it can be painful to shower and stuff with eczema
Baths >>>> showers. Especially since there's a lot of stuff people will soak in to help. Salt baths and bleach baths are a thing to help kill bacteria and things like putting in mint leaves and that sort of stuff help cool and soothe it
Ironically most of the lotions I've been given I ended up being allergic to. This is something some other people I know experienced. Lavender is supposed to help but it just makes things worse for a lot of people I know ironically believe it or not
Also it's an AUTO IMMUNE DISEASE! It's going to weaken the immune system and make it easier to get sick. The real kicker is when you get sick you get more prone to infections and your skin will get infected and it's a downward and very painful spiral
Writing:
Have your character have a flare up. Have their skin go from fine to red and itchy and dry and maybe a little bloody
Scabs. We've got them. I have scars from scratching at scabs from eczema bc they're itchy. Your character most likely will too and probably did so as a child as well bc it's a scab vs a kid
Have them go to bed early bc theyre tired
It makes sense for them to go to doctors appointments specifically for their eczema and to have it done often. Look into things like having your characters go to get shots often or doing light therapy
Have them feel under the weather bc of it. Make them take a benadryl and clock out in a blanket with a material they like
Silk pillowcases are great for skin. So are bamboo materials. I know a lot of people who've invested in these including myself to make sleeping and drying off more comfortable. Chances are your character and their family have invested in them too and a lot of household materials will be like that or they will have their own special towels and bed sheets that need to be washed separately from everyone else and need to be washed at the right time so your character has towels and bed sheets
Give them allergies. They're probably allergic to something that causes it and usually it's some chemical like fragrance jn perfume or over processed foods too. A lot cleaning supplies make me flare up and dust is a big one too. Lavender and chamomile are ones which is very ironic based on how people tell us to use those to help
Coconut oil and stuff like she's butter. I guarantee you that your character has or will use it at some point to help with eczema. They're honestly life savers
Have them keep a jacket and some prescribed lotion with them. At night have them put on a bunch of different lotions and skin care stuff and probably even gloves or socks over their hands to help lock in moisture. However they will also probably rub these things against their skin to scratch
Write a character with clear looking skin but hyper pigmentation and taking shots to keep a flare up at bay. Dupixent is a shot a lot of people are using and it works wonders
Gloves when sleeping. Put on lotion and then gloves and have them go to bed and then be frustrated when they can't swipe on their phone.
It's okay to have them feel gross about it just don't make it happen often. After I put on all my lotions I feel super greasy and gross because of it
Have other characters hype them up despite their eczema. It's not a bad thing. It doesn't make us ugly. Stop acting like non perfect skin is a terrible thing. When I'm down or upset about it my friends will hype me up about it
However while I can go out without hiding my eczema and still feel good about it that doesn't mean that myself or any character you're writing with it won't wish that their skin wasn't clear. More so bc it hurts and is uncomfortable then anything.
Clothes made from cotton and silk and that stuff are good for every day clothes but also fancy stuff if need be
Speaking of clothes do not put them in a wool sweater that shit sucks and so do a lot of mixed fibers. There's special clothes that are made without seams or with special materials for people who have textural issues and I have gotten stuff from those places. Always keep a few long sleeves in my closet for my worst days and have a long sleeve from my favorite brand in nearly every color and pattern. Your character will probably do the same the second they find a piece of clothing that feels good on their skin. However eventually all the lotions will make the insides knit and the clothing will be stained darker if you use them for flare ups after putting in lotion
My mom has come home and dropped a pile of new shirts on my bed because they were from the brand that makes clothes that are safe for my skin and she got them in every color or style. Your character will have parents that will do the same. I don't know if it's a universal eczema experience but if your character has parents who are really concerned about it and arw very involved and caring then it makes sense for something like that to happen
Designated flare up shirts are a thing. I will put it on and wear it to bed or to school or anywhere
Give them a designated flare up shirt that they where for a while in a flare up. However also give them a hoodie they like bc trust me they're gonna wear a specific hoodie when there's a flare up
If you're going to have a random character point it out or ask questions, it's completely logical for your character to be annoyed about it. I know other people are just curious but when a bunch of people bombard you for something you would obviously know is there it's very tiring
Have them change clothes when they get home. It helps and I do it and so do other people. Don't want to being things from the outside into the household.
They aren't going to put on perfume for a fancy evening and chances are their friends won't either because that stuff irritates it so much even if we aren't the ones wearing it
It's okay to say that the skin was red and patchy. It's okay to say it cleared up
Don't say that the character looks like they have spots or scales or looks like a tomato or stuff like that. It's really rude and the amount of times I've been made fun of and told I have lizard skin is horrifying
It can look anything from a little bit of red and pink to being full on scabs and blood and puss all over ones arm or body part.
Let them itch and then have someone tell them stop itching. It's annoying but realistic. Points if your character immediately stops but tries to find some way to still itch or glares at the other person or says some remark back. Their parents are going to be the number one people to tell them to stop itching
Eczema is uncomfortable. Have them be uncomfortable sometimes because of it
You don't have to make the whole story about it but include little things like them itching or before bed putting on a bunch of lotion. Have them have a favorite outfit bc it feels best on their skin
Use words like: red, patchy, dry, burning, itchy, stiff, and swollen
Avoid things like: spots (for hyper pigmentation), any animal like description, comparison jokes to things like "oh they're as red as that sweater". Stop comparing our skin to objects and animals. It's not funny. This may be a personal thing but it's a huge let peeve if mine and one of the reasons I've always been self conscious about it
Please don't have people make rude comments about it or have random people ask a lot of questions I'm seriously begging you. If you do at least have then give some sort of come back or have the other character asking questions approach it in a more polite and sympathetic way. It's so annoying how many times people will walk up to me and point at my eczema and go "what happened to you?" Or even worse there have been people who think they're going to catch some disease from me. I've dropped my pencil and the person by it kicked it over to me instead of handing it to me bc they took one look at my skin and made a disgusted face. So as realistic as it is so have those things I'm really fucking annoyed by those types of comments and don't want them in my books unless there's a good comeback please and thank you
People are very mean about it and it's the source for the self consciousness so do your best to avoid that bc while I get the person saying it is going to be framed as mean or rude it's still :/
Drawing:
put down your base skin tone
Pick a red tone off of the base
Pick a lighter tone of of the base
Do the same with your shadow and highlight colors
Now you have your skin tone color palette
Draw on white patches and red patches to the proper base tones you used
Don't blend them out. They're distinctive
Just put them on the inside of arms or on fingers and face and neck and legs and wrists at random in blots of all shapes and sizes
Don't draw it as a pattern
Don't use a splatter brush
Feel free to draw on scabs and dark spots here and there
You don't need to draw it like scales or show how dry and flaky it can be if you're a really realistic or more detailed with your art style
Use references
Boom. Done.
It's literally just dry and red skin. We've all had that before. The only difference is it's wide spread. If you can draw skin then you can draw eczema on it
It's not hard.
As always do research! Ask questions! Just be nice and have fun with it! Eczema isn't a big deal but I can't tell you how much it would mean to me to see a character with eczema!
the kala, thailand
I need someone to applaud me everytime I shower
Showering with eczema is a pain
I drew this to distract myself from itching but now I feel shitty too
not to sound ungrateful or anything but …… must be nice …. living without eczema
I Wish
I know this doesn’t fit in with the theme of my blog but i wrote this and its basically a poem about skin disorders and idk how to explain it but it was on my mind and i wrote it coz i had like a really bad flare up and shit. Okay im gonna stop and here you guys go :)
I wish
I wish,
I could wake up and not be
In pain.
To go to bed knowing I won’t
tear at my own skin.
And maybe,
For once,
Just sleep.
I may not be asking for much,
But, in my world, my body,
This request is insane.
“There is no cure”
For this bleeding heart, bleeding mind,
Bleeding skin,
Falling apart.
I wish,
I could let the tears flow freely,
Without leaving scars across my
Face.
Stitches won’t help with the
Healing.
It may not be cancer,
I have no disability,
But the pain I am in
No one can understand.
“Just get over it,”
“There’s worse,”
Is what they say, handing me
Pills and chemicals
To get through,
Maybe just a
Day.
I wish,
That I could just breathe!
They say that self-harm is wrong,
To hurt yourself is deemed insane,
But I’ve been doing it for 15 years,
Without a blade.
These scabs, wounds and scars,
Don’t,
Won’t,
Get a chance to heal
Because,
“There is no cure”
“I should get over it,”
“There’s worse”
Than living a life,
Where,
Your skin is the curse.
That hope that my eczema may be cured is so overwhelming. I literally can’t believe this, this is making my day, fuck, MONTH. I can finally get rid of this horrible underestimated thing. God so many people are uneducated about it and assume its a silly rash when oh god its not.. As someone who has a severe case of chronic eczema and type 2 eczema, it hurts me so much that people don’t realize how horrible it is. Ive been needing to make a post about it for awhile now.
Eczema makes you lose sleep, confidence, self esteem, and a whole lot more. My hands are the worst part of my eczema and the skin has literally thickened over the years. Yes, its nice to have pain tolerance in your hands but its also saddening. I could jab a mechanical pencil into my hand and not feel it. It makes me feel numb and sick.
Not to mention what you gain from eczema. Social anxiety, stinging sensations literally every concious moment, constant scratching, dopamine addiction, dermatillomania, other skin related manias, infections, unability to control yourself, a put down everytime you finally scratch it, and of course steroid addiction.
Yes. That can happen. The only truly working lotion/cream is Steriod cream. But it doesn’t just stop you from itching, it does a bit more. When I was young my hair began falling out in the handfulls, I still have a weird hairline, but worst of all you get addicted. This is Atopical Steroid Addiction, and many many people suffer from it. People here have blogs that are logs of them getting out of it, how many days they’ve been steroid free. Its horrible.
The sad fact is, is that eczema is CONSTANTLY looked over by people, even positivity posts and such. Let me tell you, I’ve only seen two positivity posts that mentioned eczema and I bawled. I don’t know why people avoid it but they do. An ex friend of mine once said “well its because people have a fear of holes.”
ANYONE with eczema knows thats bullshit, acne is more related to holes and yet its on every body positivity post. I’m not sure why people like to undermine eczema, maybe because its ugly. Who knows. But it’s extremely hurtful and I would love to see it around more.
Anyways, I’m very excited for the recent discovery of Filaggrin. If they found the protein responsible for the eczema reaction than they can find a cure. What it is, is that we lack Filaggrin, and that does some crazy stuff to the skin. So what I predict is that now they will try to make a supplementary cream with Filaggrin.
Idk
Body: now for something completely different!
Me:?
Body: eczema flare up
Me: that's not-
Body: EVERYWHERE
Body: including ARMPITS
Me: shit
Let's normalize "bad" skin. Not as in, don't see a doctor, but as in, almost everyone has some type of flaw in their skin. Let's stop shaming people who don't cover up skin problems. Like my eczema means I really can't afford/don't want to hide my skin disorder. And yeah, other people have it worse with their eczema or whatever else they have. But that's part of my point. I have gotten some public shaming about my eczema and it's not even considered severe. Like, on a good day, my skin doesn't hurt/itch. It still looks different 99% of the time. Normalize leaving people, especially strangers, alone about their skin. Like, unless someone asks, don't randomly tell them they "have old people hands" or "your face is really looking bad" or "wow, that sure is a rash" (I was actually blushing at the time but when my skin turns red, it sometimes looks like a rash no matter why it turned red.) Even random questions about how contagious someone's skin would be is pretty rude in most contexts! Maybe it's just my experience, but most people with contagious skin disorders are careful about not spreading it! Plus not all visible skin issues are contagious! Like my skin can be such an issue, but you won't catch eczema. Like one 'teacher' has seriously graded me worse for my presentation because of my skin being "distracting" and something I'm supposed to "take care of" as if I don't already spend more money on lotions and body washes than most people spend on water every month. BTW, I mentioned the eczema and the grade was changed but I shouldn't have had to do that. It was also like 2 or 5 points, not a huge amount and it didn't change my letter grade, but it's the principle of the matter. I've had at least 2 job interviews go south because of my eczema! And, again, depending on the day you first meet me, you might not realize I have eczema because it fluctuates.
