D?rling / Deadly

no pronouns 🕊️ no dni ⚰️ acommunity, aplatonic, aromantic 💣 trauma-related coinings

[deadlydov3]

Deadly or D?rling. No pronouns, no DNI.

Boundaries — do not refer to the l?dy as they, it, she, he, or any pronouns at all. do not call the deadly dove bro, man, dude, or any adjacent term. do not call the rotting mourning by any terms of endearment, including “mootie” or “oomf”. do not ask the embalming to be mutuals. do not refer to the dread as part of any community, including the mogai community.

Disclaimers — I have no discourse stances publicly available. I have no DNI and if yours is hidden in a rentry, Carrd, or strawpage link, I won’t be reading it. If your DNI is on your blog but written in a font or colored text with no acesible option, I won’t be reading it. I have autism, an intellectual disability, and brain damage. I am an OEA survivor.

Titles — the deadly dove. the l?dy. the rotting. the rotting mourning. the wandering mourner. the embalming. the forgotten cage. the dread. no one is obligated to refer to me by these.

to-do list.

[statsillness]

stat sprites 🌐🎀 with love, STATSILLNESS. nmbm, f2u

[statsillness]

senpai slayer kuku decor 🔪🩸 with love, STATSILLNESS. mbm f2uwc dnr.

[thecloudservice]

No matter where you go, everyone is always connected.

╰┈➤ ⌞PRAGMAPLATONIC ⌝ ⓘ Pragmaplatonic is an aplatonic-spectrum label where one experiences a lack of platonic attraction, typically a total absence of it, with exception. Those exceptions cause the individual to experience a total, overwhelming feeling of platonic love, bordering on obsessive and can come off as a romantic or queerplatonic feeling, even though it is purely platonic in nature. ⓘ Coined for myself. ✉︎ Tagging @radiomogai , @goatgai

[lobotomized--doll]

999angelnumgender

A gender term for those whose gender is partially, wholly, or is best defined as the Angelic Number 999, which represents release, awakenings, and letting go.

(This term is not inherently religious, though that is up to the user.)

Symbols: Wings from Flaticon (link), Number from Flaticon (link)

Tagging for archival reason: @io-archival

(Hopefully) more sensory friendly flags here:

(If those are still too eye-strain-y, please let me know and I'll redo them!)

[deadlydov3]

Releasing a few things later this week. Please bare with my slow uploads, I don’t work with a queue.

[necrozmi]

⠀⠀Aemophys⠀⠀✦⠀⠀Experiencing physical attraction without any emotional attraction.

Alternatively: 'Aemotional—Allophysical'.

Taglist : @poppiesong, @snugmutt, @byte-bank, @baikalsealic, @fleurvoidteacollective, @the-novalunosis-hoard, @hiyocutie, @goldengender, @zpl1nt3r3d-b0n3-zhardz, @mooniiecake 🤍

Here are versions colourpicked from the Aemotional && Pysical attraction flags ↓

[deadlydov3]

anyone may make flags for these; Deadly has no inspiration.

ecceridspec, official coining.

hello, I am Deadly or D?rling. I am a label hoarder who likes making terms. I wasn’t able to find something this specific, so I hope my coining it is fine.

I’ve been workshopping the name for a while, and finally landed on eccerid(x). The prefix can be combined with any existing suffix like (x)romantic/sexual. I had originally planned to make flags for ecceridromantic, ecceridsexul, ecceridfamilial, ecceridplatonic, and ecceridcommunal, but the only idea I had looked too similar to the apothi- flags.

The prefix is inspired by the Latin word ecce, which according to my sources loosely means behold, and the English word rid, which means to make a person free of something (usually unpleasant).

The defintion is as follows.

“A label in which one may feel a type of attraction, but as soon as one realizes what one feels, is overcome by disgust, rage, horror, or any other strong, averse emotion. One is repulsed by the feelings one may have, and desires to be permanently free of them. One may avoid relationships of a/an [x] type because of this feeling. Additionally, one experiences a negative averse emotion to seeing [x] relationships amongst other individuals, as well. This label falls under aspec.”

[veraqoins]

Fibaith

When the song "Rule #4 - Fish in a Birdcage" by Fish in a Birdcage is simply a fact of one's existence or identity. It may feel that, without the song "Rule #4 - Fish in a Birdcage" there would be no you.

Vivaith coined by user @/necrozmi. Made for 🕊.

Tagging 　⨾　 @radiomogai @io-archival @indeacy

[radiomogai]

[PT: Fibaith. End PT]

[risk-repeater]

this job market is a fucking nightmare

[necrozmi]

⠀⠀Reamosir⠀⠀✦⠀⠀An aromatic spectrum term for wanting to be loved by someone, rather than loving someone

This is not limited to romantic love && can apply to any attraction.

Taglist : @poppiesong, @snugmutt, @byte-bank, @baikalsealic, @fleurvoidteacollective, @the-novalunosis-hoard, @hiyocutie, @goldengender, @zpl1nt3r3d-b0n3-zhardz, @mooniiecake 🤍

[deadlydov3]

to coin list.

below cut.

deadove gender system

deadove boy, girl, enby, boygirl, xip

deadove man, woman, enben, manwoman, xenan

possibly girlboy & womanman.

symbol terms

girlbomb, boybomb, enbybomb, etc

womanbomb, boybomb, enbybomb, etc

dovebomb, kittenbomb

muliumbomb

all of the above with [x]coffin && [x]bone as well.

orientations

acommunal sapphic & achillean

apothicommunal aplatonic combo flag

ecceridsexual, ecceridromantic, ecceridplatonic, ecceridcommunal, ecceridfamilal, ecceridtertiary

genders

mulium boy & masc & man

femintypic, mascuintypic — genders connected to things stereotyped as feminine and things stereotyped as masculine.

xenogenders connected to the tv shows law & order SVU, criminal minds, bones, and the rookie.

xenogenders connected to escapism (many, many plans for this)

squitten (squidkitten) genders & squppy (squidpuppy) genders

many many genders connected to trauma. prepare.

mental & physical health

RAMCOA system flag, RAMCOA survivor flag*

OEA system flag, OEA survivor flag

forearm crutches user flag (still need to double check if this already exists)

PNES flag (still need to double check if this already exists)

OCD & paraphilic disorder combo flag (still need to double check if this already exists)

intersexuality

ovotestes flag (still need to double check if this already exists)

ovotestes & IGM survivor combo flag

* I am aware these already exist, but they are inaccessible to me and I would like to have a version I can use comfortably.

[deadlydov3]

ticking timebomb — a term for those with any mental illnesses who reclaims the phrase “ticking timebomb”. made for those with schizospec disorders, personality disorders, or emotional outbursts in mind, but not exclusive.

helpless victim — a term for those who have been victimized by anything, at any time of life, who reclaims the phrase “helpless victim”. made with those with victim complexes due to trauma in mind, but not exclusive.

broken record* — a term for those who have speech, processing, or hearing issues of any sort who reclaim the phrase “broken record”.

* broken record stems from the phrase “like a broken record” in context to one repeating oneself a lot. /context

[necrozmi]

⠀⠀Escural⠀⠀✦⠀⠀A structure＊ that has a completely different function, split pattern, ETC, to the rest of the system.

＊ Layer, subsystem, group, && so on.

Taglist : @poppiesong, @snugmutt, @byte-bank, @baikalsealic, @fleurvoidteacollective, @the-novalunosis-hoard, @hiyocutie, @goldengender, @zpl1nt3r3d-b0n3-zhardz, @mooniiecake 🤍

Here's a version with a shadow. I didn't know which one I liked more ↓

[deadlydov3]

⚰️[x] / coffin[x] — when one connects to [x] in a deceased, eternal, embalmed, and tranquil way.

💣[x] / bomb[x] — when one connects to [x] in an explosive, desperate, and violent way.

🦴[x] / bone[x] — when one connects to [x] in a fragile, broken, and gorey way.

[woodbyne]

   ＠ Flower Petal.

A term for those who are delicate, over - sensitive, etc. This is intended for mentally ill individuals, or generally "emotional" people.

Coined for a headmate ^_^

[Plain text start: Flower petal. A term for those who are delicate, over-sensitive, etc. This is intended for mentally ill individuals, or generally "emotional" people. May be changed to better fit oneself. Coined for a headmate .Plain text end]

[carolsturka]