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[ruptorune]

Please don’t fucking log off tumblr on the 17th as a protest. All that’s going to do is give tumblr more reason to shut this place down because of revenue loss.

[waywardsignns-a]

Please don’t fucking log off tumblr on the 17th as a protest. All that’s going to do is give tumblr more reason to shut this place down because of revenue loss.

[sandersstudies]

This is blatantly untrue

Companies do not experience one day of revenue loss and pull the plug, destroying years of work and firing dozens if not hundreds of employees.

Companies which experience loss in revenue and consumer interest make investments and changes in order to regain their users/customers. That’s why organized protests and boycotts WORK. Tumblr will NOT go down after one bad day or week, but they might be willing to listen to its userbase if we put up an organized protest. (If you don’t believe me, think about how long sites like MySpace and Google+ hang around with fractions of their previous user base, often for years.)

Yahoo paid over one billion dollars for Tumblr, and the website will not go offline because of a one-day event, so in conclusion,

DO log off on December 17th to show Tumblr that you disapprove of its recent content ban and clumsy execution of censorship.

Please reblog this version of the post to stop the spread of misinformation.

[support]

Updates to Tumblr’s Community Guidelines

Today we announced some big updates to our Community Guidelines and what kind of content is permitted on Tumblr. Adult content will no longer be allowed here. While we do not judge anyone for their desire to post, engage with, or view this stuff, it is time for us to change our relationship with it.

We expect you may have some questions on how this will affect you, and we’re here to make sure those questions get answered.

When does the new policy take effect?

Our new Community Guidelines will go into effect on December 17, 2018.

Newly uploaded content flagged as adult will no longer be allowed on Tumblr. We’ll also begin flagging and removing existing adult content with the ultimate goal of removing as much of it as we can.

What is considered adult content?

Adult content primarily includes photos, videos, or GIFs that show real-life human genitals or female-presenting nipples, and any content—including photos, videos, GIFs and illustrations—that depicts sex acts.

What is still permitted?

Examples of exceptions that are still permitted are exposed female-presenting nipples in connection with breastfeeding, birth or after-birth moments, and health-related situations, such as post-mastectomy or gender confirmation surgery. Written content such as erotica, nudity related to political or newsworthy speech, and nudity found in art, such as sculptures and illustrations, are also stuff that can be freely posted on Tumblr.

Keep reading

[sinners-key-blog]

Fek.

[deadmainblog11]

@support Lick my furry cunt 🔪

[gaytotodile]

okay y’all real talk

what social media platform are we all collectively moving to

[buglordsupreme]

hell

[gaytotodile]

great!!!! see you there my dude

[deadmainblog11]

Mastodon!!! Kinkyelephant.com is amazing pls reblog to let everyone know holy fuck

[deadmainblog11]

I wanna play pokemon and cuddle with you!

Pokemon and cuddles are always good hehe

[deadmainblog11]

Your blog is getting me so wet hehe please can you DM me?

I'm happy to hear that! I'd be happy to chat if you message me :)

[latenightcornerstore]

DEAR TEENAGERS AND YOUNG ADULTS BECOMING SEXUALLY ACTIVE FOR THE FIRST TIME:

1. DEMAND condom use 2. Hold your partners accountable for what happens in the bedroom. None of this “baby I can’t control myself around you” or “I just wanted you so bad” bullshit. 3. Coercion is real and it’s very scary and hard to identify in the moment. Establish a dialogue with your partner. Be clear on what you both want. Be clear on what you don’t want. Your boundaries should ALWAYS be respected. 4. Sex can be really emotionally and physically over-stimulating the first few times; don’t be afraid or ashamed to ask your partner to slow down, take a break, or even stop. 5. Focus less on pleasing your partner and more on exploring your partner. Everyone’s body is different and there are no “tricks” to better sex. Chances are, if you psych yourself out worrying over how well you’re “performing” then nobody’s going to have a good time. 6. Ask questions, offer suggestions. Despite what porn has probably taught you, talking during sex isn’t weird or taboo. Your partner isn’t a mind reader. They don’t know what feels good to you. [Pro-tip, a looot of people without clitorises aren’t fully aware of just HOW sensitive a clitoris is. They can be a little rough with them. Tell them to chill!!!!] 7. Your sex life is YOUR business. Don’t ever feel ashamed of how many or how few sexual partners/experiences you’re having. Do what you want, touch the people who want to touch you back, forget the rest. 8. DON’T FAKE YOUR ORGASMS!! Don’t fake your orgasms!! DON’TFAKEYOURORGAMS!! If your partner isn’t getting you there, let them know! Tell them how!! 9. There is more to sex than orgasms. Sex is a really cool way to establish intimacy and trust, to have a fun time, to relieve stress, to explore a person’s body and bring them pleasure. Don’t get me wrong, orgasms are really cool and good, but your sex life is going to be a lot better if it doesn’t revolve around them. 10. LEARN ABOUT YOUR BODY!! This goes for everyone, but ESPECIALLY if you are a person in possession of a vulva, you have been discouraged and even actively kept from vital knowledge about your anatomy! Do some google searches, buy a human sexuality textbook, masturbate. 11. Virginity is a useless concept. It’s completely okay if your virginity is something important to you and I’m not trying to belittle that idea. Just, for the record, in the grand scheme of things it’s not a big deal. Literally nothing about you changes just because you bumped uglies with someone else.

This has been a public service announcement from your friendly internet poet.

[flameysaur]

Talking about sex when not being sexy is the best first step to having sex. Don’t talk about it to turn on your partner, just discuss it casual. Talk about your thoughts and feelings, what you think you want, what scares you, what interests you, etc. Like anything you can think of. It makes the act easier and can help you establish boundaries before the act starts. Try doing it on a phone or over text so you know sex won’t start. Sometimes the distance helps you be honest.

[psychonaut-lisa-frankenstein]

i like how positive this post is and how it isn’t gender specific <3 <3 <3

[callmeithaca]

“Are you sure you’re dominant?”

Had that asked once. 

It was a sub. I wasn’t actively telling them what to do/automatically making the first move, and they just… asked it. “You sure you’re dominant?” It took me aback. 

Yes, I am dominant. 

But I’m also shy, and full of doubt. How do I know the other person really wants this? What if they want to back out? How can I order someone around - I don’t even really want to just tell someone to “sit down, shut up, and jerk off,” you know? That’s not my style. That’s not me. 

I am vulnerable. I need the sub to make themself more appealing than retreating into my shyness is. I need to be tempted into dominance. I need to have the sub want me enough that I can’t doubt it. I need them to know I don’t want a sub who remains silent - I want active participation, I want them talking and talking and talking. I want a partner, a friend, before I want a sub. 

Yes, I’m sure I’m dominant. But I’m not sure I’m the dominant for you. 

[miss-allie-cat]

👏👏 this is me

[masterr29-deactivated20200229]

More Dominents should read this i think

[callmeithaca]

I’m going to disagree on this. I aimed this at submissives. I’m glad doms can relate, but I’m tired of the viewpoint that subs can/should/are supposed to lay back and let the dom do all the work. That’s not how I operate. It’s not sexy to me. I thrive off of back-and-forth communication of fantasies turned into actual practice, not “this is what we’re going to do because I said so.”

[gentleboop]

Yeah, I totally saw this as communication with subs, to be honest. And I totally agree with the viewpoint that dominants shouldn’t be doing everything. Like, as a sub, thinking about a partner? Let me pleasure you, allow me to initiate! Let me kiss you softly and sweetly, let me show you enough passion that it coaxes out the domme inside you, making you want until you -take-. That’s fucking hot!

[dommestic]

I feel at my most dominant when he is at his most submissive.  In the end, we feed off each other’s energy.  You really need both parts to have a mind-blowing experience.  It’s very yin and yang. 

Granted, it makes it hard sometimes to START the proceedings, because it’s a chicken and the egg situation.  Do I need to be dominant first?  Does he need to be submissive?  It usually begins a little awkwardly until we get the ball rolling!

[soundshypnotic]

Absolutely this. It is power exchange, and the people who are the most attractive are the ones who give me something to work with. Who actively offer themselves–not demand or do with now an expectation. Offer.

I have a sub who actively practices what he calls subduction. Trying to develop the skills to coyly seduce dominance out of me. Worse comes to worse, I just appreciate my pretty object and he feels actively submissive in making himself mindful on being pleasing to me.

Be active in your submission friends.

[convoluted-moonscape]

+100 for active bottoms. As has been said, power exchange is a two way street. Don’t demand or expect that someone should act a certain way towards you. Or always initiate play. It’s a two sided game.

I’m working on offering myself more. Though I try to do what I can and make sure that we’re both having fun and getting our needs fulfilled.

Each side offers what they can, and like @dommestic said above, each side feeds on the energy, offerings, and reactions of the other.

[gentleboop]

Subduction is now one of my favourite portmanteaus. And I’m a FAN of portmanteaus.

[deadmainblog11]

Agreed from both perspectives. As a switch, I need the other party (or parties) to be active with me. If I'm being a brat, I'm trying to push you into a more dominant headspace. If I pull you close by your collar and say "do that again, I dare you", I'm trying to make you want to submit. But that gets difficult when the other party just passively accepts it. Idk I'm probably just rambling at this point.