S1 gang shopping for a movie night.
I just cant stop thinking about those gay little men
(little deitail) theyre wearing those hoodies that have their gi on them.
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S1 gang shopping for a movie night.
I just cant stop thinking about those gay little men
(little deitail) theyre wearing those hoodies that have their gi on them.
One mans trash is another mans treasure
Now, now, Batter. More careful with your add-ons!
fiddauthor rough doodles
What is the difference between a “chosen person” and an “equal person”?
The terms chosen person and equal person refer to the special people a pwNPD have in their life. People with Cluster B disorders may have a “special person” in their life that can mark a difference in the way they have relationships with others. So, much like how pwBPD have their favorite person (FP, for short), pwNPD can have an equal person (EP) or a chosen person (CHP).
But what is the difference?
From what I have seen from other people with NPD, as well as my own experiences, both terms can be chalked up to as this:
Equal person is the person that is equally as important to the narcissist. The EP may be on the same level or close to as the narcissist, hence the name. This is a person that the narcissist cares for, who’s emotions and feelings are acknowledged.
Chosen person is the person that the narcissist values above everybody else. In other words, they are someone worthy of the narcissist’s time. Chosen people may be chosen because they hold a trait or have charcteristics that may interest the narcissist.
Why are these special bonds formed for pwNPD?
Simply put, the traits of our personality disorder may cause us to have rocky relationships with other people. It causes us not to care about other people, see them as inferior/useless, and become distant from some.
Empathy is a struggle for pwNPD, we don’t really have much of it. That is why EPs are special—they are a person the narcissist cares about, and sees close to or on their level.
Some pwNPD may not be all about socialization or having close friends. That is why CHPs are special—the narcissist likes this person a lot, and considers them worthy.
A chosen person can be an equal person, and vice versa. But they are not the same thing.
An equal person can just be an equal person. The narcissist may not have any relationship with them, or consider them a CHP. They are just a person the narcissist sees on their or close to their level.
A chosen person can just be a chosen person. The narcissist may not see their CHP as an equal—they are just someone the narcissist picked.
However, from what I’ve heard and my own personal experience, some pwNPD have CHPs or EPs that are also EPs or CHPs! Whatever they decide to use to describe their person, depends on the narcissist. Some use equal person, others chosen person.
I haven’t seen any posts about the topic, so I decided to make a post to spread the word. I hope this might help clear some things up for non-NPD and for my fellow narcissists!
What is the difference between a “chosen person” and an “equal person”?
The terms chosen person and equal person refer to the special people a pwNPD have in their life. People with Cluster B disorders may have a “special person” in their life that can mark a difference in the way they have relationships with others. So, much like how pwBPD have their favorite person (FP, for short), pwNPD can have an equal person (EP) or a chosen person (CHP).
But what is the difference?
From what I have seen from other people with NPD, as well as my own experiences, both terms can be chalked up to as this:
Equal person is the person that is equally as important to the narcissist. The EP may be on the same level or close to as the narcissist, hence the name. This is a person that the narcissist cares for, who’s emotions and feelings are acknowledged.
Chosen person is the person that the narcissist values above everybody else. In other words, they are someone worthy of the narcissist’s time. Chosen people may be chosen because they hold a trait or have charcteristics that may interest the narcissist.
Why are these special bonds formed for pwNPD?
Simply put, the traits of our personality disorder may cause us to have rocky relationships with other people. It causes us not to care about other people, see them as inferior/useless, and become distant from some.
Empathy is a struggle for pwNPD, we don’t really have much of it. That is why EPs are special—they are a person the narcissist cares about, and sees close to or on their level.
Some pwNPD may not be all about socialization or having close friends. That is why CHPs are special—the narcissist likes this person a lot, and considers them worthy.
A chosen person can be an equal person, and vice versa. But they are not the same thing.
An equal person can just be an equal person. The narcissist may not have any relationship with them, or consider them a CHP. They are just a person the narcissist sees on their or close to their level.
A chosen person can just be a chosen person. The narcissist may not see their CHP as an equal—they are just someone the narcissist picked.
However, from what I’ve heard and my own personal experience, some pwNPD have CHPs or EPs that are also EPs or CHPs! Whatever they decide to use to describe their person, depends on the narcissist. Some use equal person, others chosen person.
I haven’t seen any posts about the topic, so I decided to make a post to spread the word. I hope this might help clear some things up for non-NPD and for my fellow narcissists!
happy birthday my daughter ilysm
hey. don't cry. how the gentle wind beckons through the leaves as autumn colors fall. okay?
fishing podcast
v2 doodles
Pilots-season 1 design yippee
sleepover
just woke up from a dream where i died horribly in a car crash but Its okay because i turned into Morro somehow
quick palmer (ninjago oc) art
+ vera, a venomari, is a good friend of palmer's. maybe I'll draw her in the future
ninjago oc ⏳️ introducing Palmer . . . Salos ? i made up that last name sorry . (edit i lied her last name is Fai)
(repost bc it glitched . )
(he/she) Palmer, aka the Master of Foresight, can see the future !
+ he's not trained in his abilities, so he's limited to only seeing flashes of immediate danger as well as dreams of dangerous or significant events
+ maybe if she was trained, she'd be able to peer into the future on command . . .
expect to see more of him (also this art is OLD apologies . . .)
small doodle of jay in the hospital after an ... eye injury of some sort ? i drew him with a pirate patch because . skybound . Ok
(i'm blind in my right eye and love projecting my eye issues onto others...... dont worry about it)
kai and his disdain for water . . .
^ b4 and after being splashed with water
do NOT come for me for those Frickass hands i had nothing to do with em i SWEAR
+ we dont bother with anatomy here Shhhh
ninjago kai smith art, CW for sh (portrayed in a light manner)
YES i am projecting NO you cant do anything about it
and no those scars on his arms are not necessarily from sh
is this a weird first post ? maybe ...💔