dear solipsist

I’d rather be a forest 🌳

[rxmxa]

ASTRO NOTES: MANIFESTING YOUR DREAMS & GOALS THROUGH THE 11th HOUSE

“In the 11th house, there is the desire to transcend or move beyond existing images and models of ourselves. Therefore, this area of the chart has been labeled the house of hopes, goals, wishes and objectives. In the 11th, we discover our relatedness not to just our family, friends, country or loved ones, but to the whole human race.” -Howard Sasportas. 🦋💙

11h in Aries = Manifesting on Tuesdays, wearing the color red or purple, using red markers for your vision board, or red items, putting on music that hypes you up while you write down your goals and plans. Buying red stones to have on ur alter. Manifesting while you’re cutting something (like cooking) or creating something (art that involves the use of sharp tools). Manifesting while doing physical activity, like running on the treadmill and thinking of ur dream house, ur dream body!!! Using candles when manifesting or thinking about your dreams as u get a relaxing head massage lol. Also saying affirmation directly in front of your mirror in a clear and confident voice, hyping yourself, giving yourself a good ass speech!! Don’t be shy! ❤️✨🔥☄️

11h in Taurus= Manifesting on Fridays, making your vision boards as pretty and aesthetically pleasing as possible. You should wear orange or green or buy green money candles. Can also manifest or say affirmations during your beauty routine. Manifesting while out on a walk, while sitting on the ground in nature. Finding a beautiful object to represent what you desire in your manifesting process. Printing out blank checks and writing down the amount of money you wish to bring into your life!! being really specific though as to how you want that money though ( lmfaooo one time I did this but I got the EXACT amount I wrote back in the form of loans.. So something like, “may this $ come to me in an honest way with no ill intentions, where it’s genuinely mine with no loopholes” or something like that you know what i’m saying?) 💚🌈✨💸

11h in Gemini= Manifesting on Wednesdays. Wearing a variation of colors and being creative/ versatile about it. Highlighting certain words or sentences that really/ inspires you in books, writing down your dreams and goals in a journal and in detail (or typing them in the form of a letter). Manifesting or putting on affirmations while you’re in a car or the bus. Manifesting while you’re taking deep breaths. Manifesting after coming back from short trips (this also means going directly to the place, like if you want a new home, go see ur dream houses in person, drive down the streets and imagine yourself driving home to yours <3). Making a super creative poster of your dreams and printing it out and putting it on ur wall. While you’re studying, write down on a sticky note why you’re doing it, what’s motivating you to continue your studies and graduating. Writing down a word or phrase on ur hand or wrist that motivates you through the day (although if ur not cool with writing on ur hand its not necessary haha).📚🚗🏠

11h in Cancer= Manifesting on Mondays, wearing the color gray, making sure you’re in a comfy space when manifesting. Manifesting or saying your affirmations while in the shower or taking a bath. Instead of focusing on just writing down your goals, maybe focus on the feelings you associate with your dreams too. (ex: writing, “being financially secure means feeling secure, a sense of relief, responsible.”) Manifesting while you drink water, imagine that you are nourishing yourself with what you want as you drink it, (for ex: I am nourishing my body with confidence, with dedication etc). Telling the women in your life your aspirations and dreams. Manifesting or thinking of your dreams as you bake something yummy. Thinking of your dreams and writing them down when surrounded by family or near a body of water like the beach or a lake. 🌊🌗🛁💕

11h in Leo= Manifesting on Sundays. Wearing the color yellow or gold. Manifesting while you’re in high places (like the highest floor of an apartment building or on a balcony). Manifesting through creative activities or when doing activities that involve your inner child (like being at your childhood playground). Manifesting while playing a creative or fun game (or making a game of ur goals like “accomplishing xyz will get me 10 points” or something like that, you get the gist). Manifest while wearing a crown and looking in the mirror hehe. Using gold jewelry or gold/ yellow objects when making a vision board or altar. Manifesting and writing down your goals while you’re outside on a warm sunny day, feeling the warmth on your skin. Manifesting and speaking positivity in your life when you are being generous and giving to others. Thinking of your dreams as you get a relaxing back massage. 👑💅💍🎯

11 in Virgo= Manifesting on Wednesdays. Wearing very neutral and earth toned colors. Manifesting while you’re taking care of your body and health (for example: thinking about your dream body as u make ur food for the day or take ur vitamins haha). Bc of the mercury rulership, another good sign to write in specific detail what it is exactly what you want in life. Manifesting or speaking/ listening to affirmations while you walk your dogs or play with your pets in general (i always tell my dog im working hard so i can get a big house with a big yard for her lol don’t judge me). Thinking about your dreams while ur at work or while you clean, just imagining how you want your future spaces and routines to look like. Being in tune with your life throughout your daily routines and taking note of it so you know what you want to keep as you grow and change, and what other habits are just no longer of use to you. 🐕🧚🏽‍♀️🌴💚

11in Libra= Manifesting on Fridays. Should use variations of the color pink, can incorporate libra ruled objects or items (such as artwork, flowers, fruits, jewelry) if creating an altar or vision board. Putting your list of goals on your dresser or on your mirror where you can see it and yourself everyday, making your goals into a poem and sharing with a close friend or partner. Playing romantic or classical music while you think of your dreams and write down your goals. Manifesting while playing a musical instrument in general. Doodling flowers on your lists of goals or manifesting through art work you’re creating. Manifesting or speaking affirmations while you’re spraying perfume or cologne on. 🌸💋🍭🍬

11h in Scorpio= Manifesting on Tuesdays, wearing the color black or dark purple or a really dark red. Manifesting during s*x or while you take some you time *wink wink* LMAOO (just thinking about everything you desire and want during it). Making vision boards or setting goals after intense experiences where you’re really reflecting on life. Having aesthetically pleases knives or sharp edged objects on ur alter or wearing them (like a cute sword necklace, ya know?). Manifesting while you’re gardening and trying to nurture something to life. Manifesting near flames like a fireplace. Sometimes just really reflecting on where you truly want to go in life after the death of a loved one or a period of transformation in life. 🥺🖤🕯🔮

11h in Sagittarius= Manifesting on Thursdays. While wearing burgundy or maroon colors. Putting the people you look up to or role models on your vision board. Playing religious or cultural music while you speak your affirmations or set your goals (whatever that music may be to you <3). Setting goals while visiting foreign countries. Incorporating your religion, prayer or faith in your manifestation (again this also includes spirituality if there is not one set religion you wish to identify with). Listening to motivational speakers/ lectures online or in person. Manifesting when exploring somewhere new and exciting. Lighting and burning incense while you are creating your vision board, saying your affirmations, etc. Tying your goals to certain philosophies in life or having quotes from certain philosophers on your vision board. Having purple quartz with you when you manifest. ⛪️🧎‍♀️💜🦄

11h in Capricorn= Manifesting on Saturdays. Wearing the color gray or brown (dont hate on brown, it’s a beautiful color). Manifesting or thinking about your dreams in churches or in older, sacred spaces. Or just manifesting in places that are hard to reach for others where you can just have your own privacy. Thinking about your life plans and brainstorming late at night or in dim rooms (like making your room comfy and dimming the lights or something like that). Focusing on your goals through times of emotional distress, being firm with yourself but also extending yourself patience and grace when it’s time to pick yourself back up. Networking with people older than you, seeking advice from people older than you or those that you see as very wise. Not limiting or censoring your language when you manifest. DON’T make yourself small, always remind yourself your dreams can be bigger. Manifesting through burning something in order to create ashes (ik some people write their goals on bay leaves & burn them but do your own research pls). Buying and wearing turquoise stones. Manifesting under old and beautiful trees. Finding vintage items and taking good care of them or repairing them as you think of what you want to accomplish, maybe putting it on your altar. Oop, also thinking of your dreams and goals while you brush your teeth. 🪐🐉👩‍💻🖤

11h in Aquarius = Manifesting on Saturdays. Wearing the color neon. Thinking of your dreams and desires while youre with your community, friends or school clubs, other organizations etc. Manifesting or writing down your goals while youre on an airplane or through the use of tech (like a virtual vision board and making it your wallpaper). Manifesting through photographs and taking pictures of what you want, focusing more on the visual aspect of it all. Doing research on what it is that you want, educating yourself on what scares you. Manifesting while listening to underrated artists or underground music. Writing down your goals while you sit on the steps or stairways. Write down all your new and random ideas as soon as they occur to you, even if it doesnt make much sense or isnt properly formulated just jot it down. Educating yourself on different faiths and on healers and taking note of what lessons to learn from them. ✈️🎆🎶💟

11h in Pisces = Manifesting on Thursdays. Wearing tie dye colors or pastel colors when you manifest. Wearing comfy and loose clothing when you’re creating your vision board. Thinking of your goals and plans as you get a foot massage or are relaxing and getting your toes done. Thinking about your dreams and goals while visiting museums or after doing some form of charity/ relief work. Reading poetry that inspires you, making that poem that leaves you in awe as your phone wallpaper or just having a screenshot of it. Thinking of the life you wish to live before you drift off to sleep, putting your list of goals under your pillow. Manifesting while swimming in water like the beach or ocean. Manifesting as you nurture your creativity and spirituality even if it doesn’t make sense to anyone else. Manifesting as you meditate. 🧘🏽‍♀️🦋🍀✨

do not plagiarize my writing or post on any other forms of social media under any circumstances. 🧿

[mournfulroses]

Albert Camus, from a letter to María Casares featured in Correspondance, 1944-1959

[archers-and-arrows]

THE SIGNS AS….

| n a r c i s s i s t : tactics |

AQUARIUS ghosting

Abruptly cutting off all communication without explanation, leaving the target confused and abandoned.

PISCES victim-playing

Portraying themselves as the wronged party to gain sympathy and manipulate others.

ARIES emotional blackmail

Using guilt, fear, or obligation to coerce compliance

TAURUS stonewalling

Refusing to engage in conversation, responding with silence, or shutting down emotionally during conflict to punish the other person, evade accountability, and maintain power in the relationship, often leaving the target feeling dismissed and desperate for resolution.

GEMINI triangulation

Involving a third party to create jealousy, competition, or division in a relationship.

CANCER emotional baiting

Provoking an intense emotional reaction, such as anger, guilt, or sadness, through deliberate taunts, insults, or manipulations, only to then use the victim’s response against them—portraying them as irrational, unstable, or overly sensitive—to deflect blame, maintain control, and reinforce the narcissist’s superiority.

LEO love-bombing

Overwhelming someone with excessive affection and attention early on to create dependency

VIRGO smear campaign

A deliberate strategy where the narcissist spreads false accusations, rumors, or distorted truths about the target to discredit them, often enlisting “flying monkeys” (enablers or mutual contacts) to amplify the narrative and isolate the victim socially or professionally, typically triggered by a perceived slight or abandonment.

LIBRA hoovering

Attempting to suck someone back into a toxic relationship after a breakup with promises or nostalgia.

SCORPIO gaslighting

Making someone question their own reality, memory, or sanity by denying facts or twisting events

SAGITTARIUS bread-crumbing

Offering sporadic, minimal attention or affection to maintain interest without genuine commitment.

CAPRICORN deflection

Avoiding accountability by changing the subject, redirecting blame, or dismissing concerns to protect their ego and maintain control.

[aokayo]

For whatever unknown reason, to me at least, Aries selfishness is more tolerable than Leo selfishness.

[72ys-deactivated20230613]

12:16pm

[mournfulroses]

Albert Camus, from a letter to María Casares featured in Correspondance, 1944-1959

[kabaeebaee]

Lilith in the 1st — too real to filter.

3rd house Mars ,Pluto, Lilith , Asteroid Lust — unhinged mouth-to-thought ratio. Maybe even Mercury square Uranus , Sagittarius Mercury — say-it-first, think-later syndrome.

Aries Moon men trying to flirt but end up making you uncomfortable — like you wanna laugh but also… blink twice , Especially with Virgo Placements , confident, corny, and chaotic in the same breath.

And Lilith in the 2nd… please. That’s “I’ll do anything to please you” energy. The voice, the indulgence, the temptation. It’s giving pleasure as power, and it fits a little too perfectly 🫣

everybody’s scared of clowns until it’s this one -Kabaeebaee 🎈

[the-cosmic-cauldron]

Pluto is a frightening planet. It’s the one most people try to run from, avoiding it as much as possible. They don’t feel their Pluto fully, they don’t unpack it, and they rarely transform it. Instead, that energy lingers—stuck in the gut, buried beneath the surface, hidden in the subconscious, in the very belly of who they are. Today, we’re going to explore how that energy, though intangible, can still intimidate and unsettle the people around them—house by house.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 1𝖘𝖙 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

People freeze up before approaching you.

Your resting face alone makes others nervous.

Strangers tell you, “You’re intense,” even when silent.

Anger from you feels like a physical threat.

Pluto sitting in the seat of your soul—right at the core of who you are—means you can’t escape its energy. Wherever you go, Pluto walks with you. Intense, sharp, gut-wrenching, dark, and uneasy, you wear it like an accessory, as if it were jewelry stitched into your aura. Most people are intimidated by the energy you carry. Even your blank facial expression, when you’re not smiling or speaking, unsettles others. They hesitate, afraid to say the wrong thing or even approach you. You move through life as both a mystery and a sharp edge—people don’t know whether to touch or retreat. Pluto in the First House makes someone naturally intimidating. No matter their height, features, or demeanor, their presence forces a pause before interaction. And when anger replaces even the faintest hint of joy, their energy becomes utterly frightening.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 2𝖓𝖉 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

You bounce back from losses while others crumble.

People whisper about your “invincibility.”

Your resilience reminds them of their fragility.

Survivorship energy makes people tread lightly.

Pluto in the house of resources makes you someone who feels life with sharp edges in everyday existence. You walk like a survivor. You carry the aura of someone who has been through war—battle-scarred but still standing. People sense your resilience, your unbreakable strength. They’re intimidated because they know no matter what happens, you’ll rise again. Your power unsettles them because it reveals their own fragility. Even when life knocks you down, you never stay down for long, and that invincibility terrifies people.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 3𝖗𝖉 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

One comment from you silences an entire room.

Your blunt truths stick with people for years.

Conversations feel like being x-rayed.

Even your silence feels like judgment.

Pluto in the Third House sits on your tongue. Your words are edged with sharpness, truth, and power. When you speak, people feel pierced. You don’t hold back, and your bluntness can leave others shaken long after the conversation ends. Your presence in dialogue is intimidating because your words are like daggers—unfiltered, unforgettable. Even your silence speaks; your eyes alone reveal truths about people they’ve never dared to uncover. Conversations with you can feel like an x-ray scan of the soul, and people often retreat because they sense you’ll see straight through them. Your tongue is your power, and when you speak, people know you mean every word.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 4𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

People feel like crying around you without knowing why.

Strangers sense your scars even if you say nothing.

You radiate both softness and impenetrable armor.

Being near you stirs hidden emotions in others.

Pluto in the Fourth House marks a soul that endured darkness early on. Many faced trauma, neglect, or emotional brutality at home, forced to survive battles most people only encounter outside. Your scariness began young, shaped by an inner war fought within your own family. That survival hardened you. People are intimidated because they sense what you’ve been through, even if you never say it. You carry both a soft underbelly and a ferocious shell of protection. You don’t let people pierce your defenses easily, and vulnerability is something you offer rarely—if at all. Being around you stirs raw emotions; people feel unsettled, unsure whether the intensity they sense is yours or theirs. With you, the veil between feelings is thin, and that makes people feel vulnerable, exposed, and afraid.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 5𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

Your laughter feels magnetic, almost dangerous.

People find you thrilling but intimidating to love.

Even playfulness has depth and gravity.

You turn fun into something unforgettable—and unsettling.

Pluto in the Fifth House ignites courage and intensity in creativity, pleasure, and expression. You live boldly, chasing thrills others shy away from. You command attention, stepping into the spotlight with a raw, primal energy that is both captivating and intimidating. People are drawn to you, sometimes with desire, sometimes with fear, always with intrigue. There’s something about you that feels ancient, like you’ve lived many lifetimes and came back simply to laugh, play, and burn brightly. Yet even in joy, Pluto lingers. Beneath the surface of your fun and laughter lies a deep, serious energy. People feel both enchanted and unsettled in your presence, unable to decide whether to recoil, desire, or surrender to your gravity.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 6𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

Coworkers feel lazy compared to your discipline.

Your consistency exposes others’ lack of drive.

People complain that you “take things too seriously.”

Your reliability makes them feel unreliable.

Pluto in the Sixth House makes people uneasy because of your no-nonsense approach to life. You’re not here to waste time—you’re responsible, disciplined, and serious about what you do. You live with intention, and when you say you’ll do something, you mean it. That kind of consistency and integrity scares people who are all talk and no action. You care deeply, and that care often overwhelms others because it’s real, and it comes with weight. You’re not idle. You’re a doer, and in your doing, others feel exposed for their lack of drive. Your presence reminds them of what they could be accomplishing—and that’s intimidating.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 7𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

You call out lies instantly—without proof.

People squirm because they feel “seen.”

Even in casual chats, you expose hidden motives.

Others confess secrets to you without meaning to.

With Pluto in the Seventh House, you see through people in a way that unnerves them. Lies don’t work on you; you catch them instantly. Subtle hostility, fake smiles, hidden motives—you spot them all with chilling accuracy. To others, you feel almost psychic, like you’re peeling back their masks. That makes people deeply uncomfortable because you mirror back their shadows, their flaws, the parts they try to bury. In your presence, people often feel shaken, like something inside them is being stirred awake. They either want to confess, heal, or run. You’re a mirror of the subconscious—and that mirror scares people who aren’t ready to face themselves.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 8𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

You enter a room and everyone feels it.

People instinctively decide not to cross you.

Your eyes alone make others uneasy.

When you share your past, people are speechless.

Pluto in the Eighth House is raw, primal intensity. Think blood, darkness, black oceans, and hidden corners of the night—that’s the aura you carry. You walk into a room and people feel it in their bones. Your energy is penetrating, magnetic, and impossible to ignore. You look and feel like a survivor, someone who’s gone through hell and clawed their way back. There’s a savage strength about you—both physical and internal—that demands respect. People instinctively move carefully around you, afraid to cross boundaries, because they know your edges cut deep. You’ve lived lifetimes within one, and when you do open up, your stories shock people into silence. Pluto in the Eighth House people are mysteries wrapped in iron, intimidating without even trying.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 9𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

Casual talks with you turn into soul-level debates.

People laugh nervously when you dive into taboo truths.

Your fearlessness highlights their fears.

Your worldview shakes people’s comfort zones.

Pluto in the Ninth House fuels an unquenchable thirst for truth, and that intensity intimidates people. You’re restless, always moving, traveling, exploring, searching for deeper meaning. You don’t settle for surface-level answers—you dig for raw, unfiltered truth. Spirituality, religion, philosophy—whatever path you choose, you dive into it with ferocity, not as a casual reader but as someone who must experience it. Fear doesn’t stop you; you’ll tread where others wouldn’t dare. People find this frightening because your fearlessness highlights their own fears. Conversations with you don’t stay lighthearted for long—you demand depth, intensity, and honesty. Your drive to live life fully, without hesitation, shakes those who cling to comfort zones.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 10𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

Old enemies are terrified of your transformation.

People watch you rise and feel threatened.

Your ambition makes others cautious.

Success feels more like a warning than inspiration.

Pluto in the Tenth House carries the aura of someone unforgettable. These are the underdogs, the ones who rise from ashes, who transform their public image in ways that leave people stunned. Rags to riches, bullied to powerful, overlooked to unstoppable—you embody reinvention. Your presence intimidates because people have watched you fall and rise, and they know you’ll do it again if needed. You never forget those who doubted or cut you down at the bottom, and that sharp memory keeps people cautious. Your ambition is relentless; you hunger for success and won’t stop until you’ve carved your place at the top. That ferocity, that cutthroat determination, unsettles people because they sense you’ll climb no matter what stands in your way.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 11𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

You stand apart in groups, never blending in.

Friends say you’re “too deep” for casual bonds.

You psychoanalyze crowds with eerie accuracy.

Your presence transforms friendships into tests.

Pluto in the Eleventh House makes you intimidating because you read crowds better than anyone else. You’re naturally distant from the group, never drifting with trends or following the herd. You do your own thing, and people sense the depth and precision of your psychological insight. Friendships don’t come easily to you—your sharpness is apparent the moment someone speaks with you. You’re not easily digestible, and you don’t tolerate superficiality. Deep, intense connections are everything to you; surface-level “let’s hang out” bonds mean nothing. This unsettles people because they are used to relationships being light and effortless, but with you, everything is profound, challenging, and transformative. You analyze, psychoanalyze, and reflect their deepest layers back to them, pushing them to confront parts of themselves they usually ignore. People may expect a friend to make life happier, but you are the friend who transforms life—uncomfortably, deeply, and powerfully. That intensity intimidates most people.

𝕻𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖔 𝖎𝖓 𝕿𝖍𝖊 12𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊

Strangers confess they feel “haunted” by you.

People dream of you after meeting you once.

You know things you shouldn’t logically know.

Your presence feels otherworldly, almost ghostlike.

Pluto in the Twelfth House marks an extraordinary psychic presence. You possess layers so deep even you sometimes cannot fully see them, but you feel them. You sense ghosts, darkness, hidden energies, and whispers of the unseen. You speak in riddles at times, intuitively touching truths you cannot yet rationalize. Your capacity to read auras, spirits, and the hidden depths of people can be overwhelming—to you and to others. People feel an uncanny unease around you because your energy scans them completely; nothing escapes your perception. You intuitively know truths, lies, and the hidden stories of a person’s life, connecting with them on a level that feels beyond human. Encounters with you feel spiritual, almost otherworldly, and many respond with a mix of awe, envy, and fear because you carry knowledge and insight far beyond what is spoken. People sense it, even if they can’t articulate it, and that’s what makes Pluto in the Twelfth House so profoundly intimidating.

[idllytarott]

manifesting this energy

[lilithlounge]

Pluto in the 4th house🐈‍⬛🏠🐦‍⬛

Pluto in the 4th house is basically being the designated ghost hunter of your own family tree. Most people go home to relax but for you...... going home is like doing psychic detective work in a house that definitely has a pulse, it's alive. You grew up feeling like you were starring in a psychological thriller while your neighbors were living in a basic sitcom. There's this heavy unspoken weight in your private life that you can't just turn off with a candle and a face mask. You've got that "I know what you did last summer" regarding your ancestors and honestly, it's a lot to carry......give yourself a pat on the back 🌻🐥.

Let's talk about the family dynamic because it's usually where things get unhinged. Your parents were powerful intense figures who probably tried to run the household like a small emotional dictatorship. One of them likely had this boss energy that filled the entire room, making you learn how to read vibes before you could even read books. You became a pro at spotting a mood shift from three rooms away because your survival depended on it. You just don't do family dinners because it's never normal. While everyone else is talking about the weather, you're sitting there wondering who is going to finally mention the massive elephant in the room that's been there since 1099. You are the official generational trauma breaker, which sounds like a cool title on Tumblr but in real life, it just means you're the one paying for the therapy to fix things your great grandma refused to acknowledge.

Your private space is a literal fortress and you're the dragon guarding the gate. If someone gets an invite to your actual house or even just your inner thoughts, they have basically been vetted more thoroughly than a secret service agent. You are obsessed with privacy because, for you, information is currency and power. If people know your vulnerabilities, they can use them, and Pluto is absolutely not about to let that happen. You need a place where you can just sit in peace and decompress from the world because you absorb everyone else's baggage like a human sponge and that stuff needs to be bleached out of your system in total isolation.

But here is the unfiltered tea: You are unshakeable. Because you have already crawled through the emotional basement of the human psyche, nothing out there actually scares you. While other people are having a meltdown over a minor inconvenience, you're over here like "bitch, I survived my upbringing, I can handle a bad breakup and a flat tire at the same time." You have this insane phoenix from the ashes superpower. If your life completely falls apart, you sit in the ruins, find a cool rock, and start building a better, stronger version of yourself from scratch. You're the anchor in every storm because you've seen the dark, you've lived in it, and you've figured out how to make it look expensive.

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[itsaastrologyworld]

Icks you’re likely to have based on your Venus Sign

Aries Venus: Likely to be icked out by people who quite literally don’t do anything. No hobbies, no career ambitions, just staying home and working a regular 9-5 job without any passion and drive can truly ick an Aries Venus out.

Taurus Venus: Likely to be icked out by someone who is quite literally underwhelming. Getting the ick whenever someone is very much behind other people their age, which in itself isn’t bad but not trying to move out, get a job or get your license when you’re in your mid 20s can turn a taurus venus off.

Gemini Venus: Likely to be icked out by someone who doesn’t care about learning and exploring. Now, that doesn’t mean they expect a crazy career or something but someone who isn’t curious and doesn’t care to understand things they haven’t grasped yet can turn a Gemini Venus off.

Cancer Venus: Likely to be icked out by nonchalant people who think it’s cool to not put in any effort. This goes both for family and friends, but you won’t get yourself a Cancer Venus if you don’t care about your “loved ones“ and always let other people reach out to you first.

Leo Venus: Likely to be icked out by people who treat others poorly. This goes for family and friends but you can also lose a leo venus by being disrespectful to a server at a restaurant or offending people who work hard but don’t earn much.

Virgo Venus: Likely to be icked out by people who don’t care about their health and body. That doesn’t mean they seek out body builders but if you don’t (want to) take care of yourself, a Virgo Venus can’t see how you could take care of them, a relationship or a potential own family.

Libra Venus: Likely to be icked out by ignorance and arrogance. Absolutely not caring about other people’s needs and maybe even intentionally hurting others to make yourself feel better is how you lose a Libra Venus.

Scorpio Venus: Likely to be icked out by surface level and following the mainstream. If someone truly doesn’t have a personality and just copies whatever it is they see online, a Scorpio Venus won’t be impressed.

Sagittarius Venus: Likely to be icked out by people who are blind and ignorant towards other cultures, religions and customs. Especially if that involves degrading others for where they come from and what their unique background is. Essentially having no multidimensional understanding for human nature.

Capricorn Venus: Likely to be icked out by lack of critical thinking. Especially nowadays if someone falls for the most obvious AI generated images and articles without ever thinking about researching the weirdest and most illogical things they see online.

Aquarius Venus: Likey to be icked out by someone who absolutely doesn’t care to listen. Listening is truly an art that only few people have mastered and you can easily lose an Aquarius Venus if you don’t care to listen or just have an attention span of 17 seconds.

Pisces Venus: Likely to be icked out by someone who doesn’t respect spirituality and religions. That doesn’t mean that all Pisces Venuses are spiritual or religious but they usually understand how that can be an escape and safe place for people so they don’t judge or care why someone believes in what they believe in as long as nobody else is hurt.

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Venus in Solar Return Charts

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⟢⋆.˚ Rising in Solar Returns I ⟢⋆.˚ Uranus in Solar Return (example of Uranus in 7H) ⟢⋆.˚ Part of Fortune in Solar Return (Houses) ⟢⋆.˚ Groom/ Briede Asteroids in Solar Return ⟢⋆.˚

⟢⋆.˚ Romance Indicators in Solar Return ⟢⋆.˚ Cheating Indicators in Solar Return ⟢⋆.˚ Long Distance Relationship Indicators in Solar Return ⟢⋆.˚ Traveling Indicators in Solar Return ⟢⋆.˚ Being Fired Indicators in Solar Return ⟢⋆.˚ Pregnancies & Having Children in Solar Return ⟢⋆.˚ Sudden/ Unexpected Pregnancy in Solar Return ⟢⋆.˚ Success & Fame Indicators in Solar Return ⟢⋆.˚

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Those Observations are based on my personal experiences. So you'll find placements I only had in the past.

⟢ Venus in the Solar Return can often tell us well about our romance life, where we can find love, how will it be like this year, but also who will we have feelings for.

⟢ Of course, Venus in certain houses can tell us more about different part of our life. For example, Venus in the 2H can mean we can spend more money this year, perhaps into make up, fashion, or anything related to beauty. Venus in the 6H can mean you'll spend more time taking care of your beauty, skincare, perhaps also feminine reproductive system but also your diet. Etc.

⟢ Venus will also tell us more in the SRC with its aspects to others planets in the chart, but also where it falls in our Natal Chart. I'll explain that in another post later.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 1H ໒꒱

ᰔ Good year for a glow up. You could somehow find yourself more pretty, good looking, handsome, but you could also be seen this way. The 1H is how we present ourselves to the world, so if you find yourself more attractive, people will see it too.

ᰔ A year where you can change your hair style, male up style, fashion. You can change your appearance into something more flattering.

ᰔ Amazing year to take the best pictures of yours.

ᰔ You'll look more feminine this year. You could add more pink tones to your make up or outfits.

ᰔ Often times, this makes you very good looking, and you could attract suitors this year who also share this idea.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 2H ໒꒱

ᰔ This could be a year where you could spend a lot of money on things you love. For example, a lot of shopping, a lot of spending money on hobbies, concerts, anything related to having and fun and anything you love.

ᰔ Romance can be secure this year, chill and soft. You could have romantic encounters and it feels pretty safe. Nothing too big.

ᰔ If you are into someone or if you are in a relationship, things could develop slowly, but you could also want to take your time to know if what you feel is real.

ᰔ You could also feel quite stable on your own, perhaps not so worried about the future.

ᰔ When it comes to your relationship, you could spend money on them, perhaps loving to spoil your partner. You could feel quite stable in your relationship, you could feel quite safe and happy this year. But routine could be significant this year.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 3H ໒꒱

ᰔ Venus in this House can often say you'll be more vocal about romance, perhaps a year where you'll think a lot about romance in general, you can even consume romance as reading/ listening/ watching romance contents.

ᰔ You can be more romantic with your words, perhaps writing about romance, writing love letters, you can even find the right words this year to express your feelings for someone. A year where you'll want to tell people you love them, and if you are in love with someone, you'll tell them.

ᰔ You can fall in love with someone you can meet on social media, someone you can text/call for example. You can also post on social medias a lot of selfies, or beautiful pictures.

ᰔ There can be some distance happening between you and your person, or a possible romantic connection as well.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 4H ໒꒱

ᰔ The romance you can experience this year can be quite soulmate like, perhaps it will feel very personal, you can have romance that feels like no one will understand what you experience.

ᰔ You can encounter a romance with someone who will be part of your daily life, someone you talk to everyday, a childhood friend, a close friend, or even someone who knows your family. You can also share a deep and very personal connection with this person.

ᰔ It can be a love that feels like home, but it can also be a secret love, you can want to keep this connection private.

ᰔ Otherwise, this could also mean having a codependency relationship, you can have a romance with someone you'll share such a deep connection with that it is hard to let go, and you could even realize being appart is extremely hard.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 5H ໒꒱

ᰔ A year with a lot of different crushes! You can find yourself having a crush for the whole solar return, or perhaps more than one.

ᰔ While this placement can work for a serious relationship if you have other placements, this often indicate more flirting, crushes, nothing as serious as Venus in the 7H.

ᰔ Yet, Venus in this house can say you have a desire to have romance in your life. You could daydream a lot about romance, perhaps wishing to be in a relationship.

ᰔ Romantic events could happen. You can also have a lot of people crushing on you this year.

ᰔ A year where romance could potentially inspire you a lot, you could have a lot of ideas related to romance or relationships. Children as well.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 6H ໒꒱

ᰔ Could indicate a a year where you want to take care of your health, and yourself. You could also desire to have a stability in your life. You can do sports related to yoga, pilates, dancing, etc.

ᰔ You could find a job you love, or related to arts or a job with a woman-related theme. You could get along well with your colleagues, and you can also get popular at work, have a lot of compliments for your work.

ᰔ Romance can happen at work, with a colleague too. You could have a healthy relationship this year, and stable too. This can also indicate dating someone who is part of your daily life, someone who can also take things slow with you. You can also romanticize daily life.

ᰔ Yet, this could indicate a boring love life, perhaps nothing happening much. The person who you'll date will be simple, and it can seem very boring over all. You can also have a feeling that romance is boring or too slow in your life.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 7H ໒꒱

ᰔ As expected, this placement often suggests a year where you are in love. You could feel very in love with your partner, or fall in love this year.

ᰔ This isn't any type of love though, this is usually a placement that indicates catching feelings for someone you'll love for a while.

ᰔ The year I had this placement, I fell in love with a classmate/ childhood friend of mine. It was the first time it happened to me. The love came slow, and it happened during the whole solar return.

ᰔ Often, this placement is a much more serious romantic affair. Yet this can also mean you can have someone else reciprocate your feelings. Not just a one sided crush.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 8H ໒꒱

ᰔ Venus in this House will often tell us a year where you'll reflect a lot about love, and romantic connections. You can have times during the year where you'll feel like hitting therapy because of romantic connections.

ᰔ Often, you can find yourself in connections with someone that needs therapy or healing, and it can often tell us that this connection can be healing, or very toxic.

ᰔ You could keep your connections and romantic ones mostly quite private, you could not want to talk about what is happening there.

ᰔ S3x can be very important in those connections, but there could also be some emotional connections, to a quite deep level.

ᰔ Def a year where love will test your boundaries, so this is a year where you'll need to def see how far you are willing to let someone affect you. This is a placement to recall the idea of self protection, and self-boundaries, but also self-love.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 9H ໒꒱

ᰔ Venus in this House often can be seen as more spiritual. You can perhaps look at love in a more spiritual or wise way, you can become more mature when it comes to love.

ᰔ You can have a long distance relationship during this time, but often, this can also indicate dating someone you are studying with, being at school with, but it can also be just having a crush on them as well.

ᰔ You could experience a soulmate like love this year, or with someone you have a lot of distance with, or even someone who is quite more older than you.

ᰔ You can look at love in a more mature way, you can even perhaps thinks a lot about relationships, and look at those in a different eye.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 10H ໒꒱

ᰔ This placement suggests a romantic life that is public, therefore this can be a time where your feelings are being seen, or at least, a romantic partner is also being shown to you.

ᰔ Someone who have a crush on you can tell you their feelings this year, or you'll be the one declaring your love to someone.

ᰔ This year, you can also enter a romantic relationship (if Venus has favorable aspects) but also you can have a quite stable and serious romantic life (if you are with someone already).

ᰔ You can see romance in a more serious way, a year where you'll want a stable and a faithful love, you'll want stability, you'll think longterm commitment.

ᰔ Otherwise, this also includes meeting someone at work, or because of your work, or because a coworker, and even because of your father.

ᰔ You can also find out the truth about a romantic connection.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 11H ໒꒱

ᰔ This is a year where you can meet someone online, or someone who are related to your friends. Indeed, you can fall for someone who you met on Social Medias, but this can even indicate falling for a friend.

ᰔ This placement is also a good indicator of sharing a strong friendship with someone you love, you can even experience unconditional love for someone: loving them so much, yet not necessarily dating them.

ᰔ You can meet your dream partner this year (11H often represents the dreams), and it can also feel very soulmate vibe, someone you will share a deep connection with, bounding on real connection than just physical attraction.

ᰔ The 11H is also ruled by Aquarius naturally, therefore there are chances you can fall for someone who you'll not expect, you could totally think you do not want anything serious, but still fall for someone quite hard.

ᰔ Yet this could indicate desiring freedom, and not being in a relationship. You could have a year where you'll refuse to enter a romantic relationship with anyone.

꒰ঌ Venus in the 12H ໒꒱

ᰔ This is usually seen as a loveless year by a lot of people, but I don't agree. I had this placement the year I met my first boyfriend, who was probably one of the most soulmate-like connection I had in my life.

ᰔ Indeed, you can encounter a soulmate, a destined love. You can fall in love with someone, and it can seem like a fairytale, you can truly have a very romantic and sweet romance.

ᰔ Indeed, for some people (because of Venus' aspects) this was more a year where you'll wish to put love aside. You'll probably want love to be away from you, taking a break from romance.

ᰔ Yet, love can also drains you this year, you can feel like it drains your energy, there can be some toxicity to relationships, perhaps you can deal with codependency, and a partner who can be too dependent on you.

ᰔ This can also be a year where you'll feel rejected by love, but also a year where you'll want your feelings to be a secret.

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Red flags in womans chart too pls

RED FLAGS IN WOMEN 🚩

red flags in mens chart

Venus Aspecting Neptune: She knows exactly what you want and will play along with all your fantasies as long as she gets what she wants. You love football? Well now she loves football too(she doesnt). You will wake up and realize you married a woman you dont even know. She wont show her real personality until shes made sure you are stuck.

Mars Square Jupiter/Juno: She has two ideal men in her mind. Mars = her sexual ideal and Jupiter/Juno = the husband ideal. She will never view you as man enough.

Medusa(149) conjunct personal planets: The female rage asteroid. Just like in the myth of medusa she will turn men into stone. She will punish you for wanting her because she knows the danger of mens lust.

Chiron in the 1st house: She is insecure and wants to be surrounded by those she consider less than her to feel better about herself, chances are that you are one of them. She wants to be a big fish in a small pond.

Mars aspecting Jupiter: She has a huge appetite for men. She will naturally attract a LOT of attention from men and she will want to respond to the attention. Every man is unique to her and she wants to keep them all like a collection.

Venus Square Ascendant: The life she wants doesnt match with who she is. She might want a rich husband and a mansion but doesnt want to take care of herself and behave in a way that it attracts a man like that. She hates herself for not being able to live up to her own standards and she will hate you for not being the man she wish she could be with.

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You never know how signing up for a new class, getting a haircut, attending a party you are too lazy to go to, or applying to a job you think you have no chance at can really shift timelines. You are probably one decision away from catapulting into a new timeline.

[holycalf]

when fiona apple asked “how can i ask anyone to love me when all i do is beg to be left alone”. well i have not found an answer but if anyone else has lmk