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My list of F/Os — As I am generally nonsharing, checking this list before following is advised.
I enjoy darker content — what I like in fiction isn’t indicative of My real life morals. I tag all darkship content as “#darker dates” so You may filter as necessary.
I am an adult who sometimes enjoys adult content. The tag for any posts that fall under this is “#under the covers” … this tag does not apply to SFW posts about My F/Os from 18+ media.
Due to my concerns about orientalism and the like, please do not refer to me as a “yumeshipper.” Some posts I could find related to this topic — 01. 02.
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Please refer to Me as 月花 (romanized as Yuehua), and use They/Them pronouns on me. I am an adult, as can be gathered above. Only use neutral terms on Me unless directed otherwise. If it is important to note, I am Chinese.
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I am staunchly against harrassment for any reason and censorship. Regardless of my personal opinions on a ship or trope, I fully support everyone’s right to enjoy what they wish in fiction. As long as you utilize proper tagging and understand what is and isn’t okay in the real world, do as you wish. Curate your own experience.
While the topic is unlikely to come up here, I am pro-para. Paraphile is not synonymous with predator, and a paraphilia does not make one “evil” or “doomed to cause harm.” These statements are inclusive of all paraphilias. I would also like to note that I am anti-contact.
I do not consider Myself part of any selfship community, and I will usually keep to Myself. You are free to interact if you wish, of course, but I will make it clear that I typically have reclusive tendencies.
I am an alter in a system. My headmates are unlikely to ever speak on this blog, but I will avoid interacting with and block those who share F/Os that they are uncomfortable with sharing, for their comfort. I will not share their F/O lists for their privacy — if you do not know why you are blocked, this may be why.
I do not follow from this blog, but my main is kept private.
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My catch-all tag for dark content is “#darker dates” & my catch-all tag for sexual content is “#under the covers.” The latter does not get added to sfw posts about F/Os from 18+ media, but it will be added to content that is “merely” suggestive. I generally tag things as [thing] cw.
I tag fictional depictions of incest as “shipcest” — I highly doubt I will ever speak about real world incest on here, but if I do, I will tag it as #incest cw. Adult x Minor ships will be tagged as “ad x mn.”
If I ever reblog or make discourse-y posts, they will be tagged as #lunarcourse.
If you have AUs where your f/o(s) are a yandere or just are one straight up; What are your favorite tropes for them? Are they a soft or harsh yandere? Are you a sucker for following a specific yandere genre for most of them?
I adore yandere F/O imagines! Though I can sometimes be a bit picky, I will admit…
I tend to, first and foremost, enjoy softer yandere content. I’ve tried to read harsher content, and while I think it is well written, it tends not to do much for me, at least in terms of my F/Os. I can enjoy a good story, yes, but my F/O thoughts are almost entirely self-indulgent!
I tend to enjoy captor x captive yandere stories. However, again, they are very much on the softer side. I can’t handle the idea of being hurt too much, if at all, physically or mentally, and I tend to be a squeamish person. A very little bit of sadism can be fun, but it’s very delicate for me, for lack of a better word.
I sometimes wonder if I am somehow a “fake” yandere enjoyer, but I’ve always been like this. I’ve also been more drawn to the obsessive & “I will always protect you” side of things than the “If you leave me, I will kill you” side when it comes to my thoughts.
Imagine them collecting all your merch, commissioning art of the two of you, making a shrine to you in their house. Maybe you’re popular and they have a huge selection of merchandise to obsess over, or maybe you’re niche and they have to diy or commission all of it. Maybe they’re dirt poor and their beloved cardboard cutout of you is all they got. Or maybe they’re super rich and can afford all your figures, apparel, and anything else you have.
They’d probably get so giddy whenever you show up in your source. Even if they might not show it, seeing you makes their entire day! They’ll replay your scenes, reread your lines, replay your routes, whatever it is, they just love feeling so close to you!
Perhaps they even talk about you to their loved ones, and everyone around them knows how much they love you. Or maybe they’re more secretive, and your love is private and intimate to them. Maybe they have an account dedicated to you and your love!
the paramisia in the proselfship community is exhausting to see, as someone who has one of the big 3 (+ is vehemently anti-contact for it). i thought we were the people who said thought crimes aren’t real? now we’re acting like they are??? okay sure… yeah no, screw off (directed at paramisics)
like i’m not hurting people for thoughts i cannot control in my own brain, that i would never ever act on with a non-consenting party (specified because fiction & consensual roleplay exists), but you’re sure hurting people when you act like paraphile is synonymous with predator! (again, directed at paramisics).
Imagine your F/O trying to help you count when you have to count a large quantity of items, only to also fail. You may be suffering, but at least you are suffering together ♡
I didn’t understand hypersharing much at first (not in a judgemental sense; I’m just very non-sharing, and even with my OK sharing F/Os, it’s more a sense of being able to tolerate other ships with them), but Rentarou kind of makes Me understand. I may be hypersharing with him specifically (which makes sense given his source’s premise). He needs all the love in the world.
To selfshippers who are paraphiles: Your F/O loves you! They recognize that your paraphilia does not make you evil, and they know that thoughts aren’t equivalent to actions. Your F/O does not believe you are evil, doomed to harm anyone or awful. Regardless of what your subject of attraction is or if your paraphilia is disordered or not, your F/O would never judge you!
If you are a disordered paraphile, your F/O would help you find ways to cope with your paraphilia. They would help you with self-acceptance and decreasing the distress you feel about/from your paraphilia, however that looks for you.
If you are proud to be a paraphile, your F/O would be happy for you!! They’re happy that you’re able to feel so comfortable with yourself, and they’ll always support you!!
If you are ashamed of your paraphilia, your F/O understands. They understand why you would feel shame, especially given how stigmatized paraphilia is. But they will still always support & love you dearly. They are willing to help you become more comfortable with yourself in whatever way they can.
This post is inclusive of all paraphilias. If you wish to learn more, I would like to direct you to this masterpost and this masterpost.
imagine doing the little things with your f/o, especially if you're living with them. whether that's making a cup of coffee for them, brushing your teeth together, or something else, your f/o loves spending that time with you. even in the ordinary moments, they feel at ease just knowing they're spending this time with you.
Trans S/i who definitely should report the person who stalk them-F/o to the police but never actually done it cause F/o is the only who support their transition and plus gender reaffirming stalker on call? I mean, If it works... Go on?
Stalker F/O who leaves a little something for S/I to find as a sort of calling card to let you know they're there. A lock of hair, a little trinket, something you swore you lost, a sneaked photo of you, stolen undergarments...
they just simply can't hold back, you look too pretty in this state. their hands violate your most intimate parts, and when you eventually wake up, struggling and asking them to stop, they just keep on going - because clearly, your body's reaction tells othervise.
