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quiyst said: So, speaking from the “dumb male” perspective, guys who never bothered to learn this stuff roughly equivocate DDs to a medium-large cantaloupe melon. 95% of men don’t understand the cup/band size ratios at all or even know of it to be a thing.

hahaha well that’s a good insight. I don’t think we can blame people who don’t wear bras on not knowing how they work though since most people that do wear them don’t even know. No one gets taught this stuff and that’s why I’m hear to try and help :)

Hiya! You've done a bra-fitting guide, but could you do a bottoms fitting guide also? Pretty please!

Hi Hi!

I will definitely try, I might start of with a style guide first though. Bottoms aren’t really my area of expertise but I’m sure I can pull something together.

genderfuckfemme said: people just don’t understand that bra/breast size is more variable than the cup size. properly fitted, i wear an F cup bra but if someone looks at me they’d guess a C or maybe D cup.

I feel this so much, most people doubt my bra size when they learn it because in the grand scheme of bra sizes I am one the smaller side but I wear a FF. People don’t realize it’s just because I have a tiny back. :)

tallulahdreaming said: As I understand it, cup size goes up as chest size goes down. In other words, 34DD is 2 cup sizes bigger than a 30DD. I know this because I am fairly small chested, but wear DD, which seems to surprise people. I hope that is what you were asking?!

Hahaha yeah, I get that, I work in a full bust specialty store and people in say 30-36 bands wearing H cups is a pretty average size for me to fit and that also makes dd cups generally one of the smallest sizes we stock. I was meaning more along the lines of do people who don’t understand how band sizes work with cup sizes just think every full busted person wears a dd cup?

I would like to know exactly how big people think someones breasts are when they say “dd’s” or “dds are huge” or something along the lines of that because it really confuses me.