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Bisexual Essays by Eliel Cruz
Here’s a list of my favorite essays/pieces on bisexuality across various platforms. “13 Lies To Stop Saying About Bisexuals” on misconceptions for Mic. ”I Don’t Need Science To Tell Me I’m Bisexual” responding to a NYTimes article for Mic. ”Anna Paquin’s Masterful Explanation of Bisexuality Should Be Required Viewing” when Anna slayed an interview with Larry King for Mic. ”Bisexual YouTube Star Sets the Record Straight on Sexual Orientation in Epic Rant” when @rj4gui4r slayed in his bisexual rant for Mic. ”Here’s the One Simple Reason Why We Need More Openly Bisexual Characters on Television” on bisexual representation in media for Mic. “Are You Full Blown Gay Yet?” on bisexuality as a stepping stone for The Advocate “Why ‘Bi’ Is So Hard To Say” on biphobia in gay spaces for The Advocate “Vagina Cooties & Dating Bi Guys” on dating as a bisexual guy for The Advocate “Here’s What’s Like To Be A Bisexual Man In The Dating World” on dating as a bisexual guy for @micdotcom “4 Facts That Put The Biggest Myths About Dating Bisexuals To Bed” on biphobic myths for Mic. “7 Tips To Be Inclusive Of Bisexuals In Christian Spaces” on religion and bisexuality “Here’s Why I Claim Bisexuality” on why I choose bisexual over queer/pan/fluid for The Advocate. “The Dumbest Stereotypes That Almost Stopped Bisexual People From Coming Out” on biphobic stereotypes for Mic. “Here’s What Happens When A Bisexual Man Changes His Gender On Tinder To Female” a Tinder experiment I did for Mic. “10 Empowering Bisexual Confessions Highlight the Benefits of Finally Coming Out” on bisexuals coming out for Mic. “Why Saying ‘Bisexual’ Is More Important Than Ever” on the importance of being counted for Rolling Stone. “the real life impact of calling bisexuality a phase” connecting the dots from misconceptions to disparities for @i-donline “Being ‘Feminine’ Can Be a Double-Edged Sword for Bisexual Men” on femininity in bi guys for Slate. “#27BiStories: When Did You Come Out? What Was The Response Like?” on coming out for The Advocate “#27BiStories: Why a Bisexual’s Sexual Orientation Is Still Important Even If They’re in a Relationship” on Visibility for The Advocate” “#27BiStories: Tell Us Something We Don’t Know” giving space to bisexual experiences for the Advocate “#27BiStories: Appearing Straight, Appearing Gay, and Other Misconceptions Bi People Face” on erasure and misconceptions for The Advocate. “Confession: I’m Not “50/50″ Bisexual” on not dissecting my identity for monosexism for @bidotorg “5 Reasons Celebrities Should Embrace the ‘B’ Word” on bisexuality in celebrities for Bi.org. “Ex-gay stories flourish when bisexuality is ignored” on bi esure fueling ex-gay narratives for Religion News Service.
These are certainly not all I’ve written and i’m sure i’m missing a few of my favs but here’s a start! (And they’re in no particular order) Follow my Twitter, Facebook, and YouTube for more bi content.
Hey, I’m feeling fucked up because of the Orlando shooting and making posts that Might Be Helpful to others makes me feel better. So here’s some positive stuff. I’m mostly linking to masterposts. If you have any suggestions for additions, please message me and I’ll add things. This is a hard time for LGBT people and I hope everyone can feel well soon.
Happy LGBT Movie Recommendations
LGBT 8track playlists
Comfort Food Recipes
Mind-Numbing, Distracting Activities
LGBT Book Recommendations
LGBTWebcomics
QueerGraffiti
I’m From Driftwood, The LGBTQ Story Archive
I also realize that this can be a really hard time for a lot of people. Here are some LGBT friendly hotlines:
(For ages 13-24) The Trevor Project: 1-866-4-U-TREVOR or online at www.thetrevorproject.com
THE GLBT National Help Center
Hotline: 1-888-THE-GLNH
Youth Talkline: 1-800-246-PRIDE
GLCCB has a good masterpost, but some of them are not national, so pay attention to locality
Additionally, here’s a list of 146 things you can do instead of self-harming, because I know that things like this can be extremely upsetting.
Stay safe everyone!
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Doesn't the bible forbid witchcraft and magic?
Hello everyone!
In this post I’m going to address the bible and what it says about magic and witchcraft, what is allowed and what isn’t.
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Wow - great research and very thorough!
Witchcraft & Depression: You are still magical.
So as I come down off a very long very low period of my depression, I realize this is a topic I’ve seen, but not covered in a way that gives you any consolation or usefulness when you’re depressed. I see “little rituals” and “how to do more with less energy” but rarely addressed is the “how to do anything with nothing” that comes with real, deep depression.
So when you’re in your depression, with offerings rotting in your ceremony bowls, candles burned down to nubs, your tarot deck missing, your supplies in disarray and decay, I want to tell you, you’re still magical.
Magic comes from different sources, the world around you, the deities you follow and deep within you. When you’re in a depression the magic within you often feels like it is deep beneath the bottom of dried up well, it may seem like your gods have forsaken you and you just can’t feel the hum of magic in the world around you. But do not worry, it has not gone away. The sun might shine just right one day, or you’ll feel an easing in your soul after a good cry, or one little thing goes just right, your gods might give you a sign. You are still magical, like a dry river bed before a week of rain, full of potential. It might take a long time, and you might ache in your soul for your magic to return; it will, in due time. Magic likes to rest, and gods may go to sleep, even the natural world lies dormant once in a while.
Your magic is not gone. Your gods will not abandon you. Magic has not left this world. Even when you cannot do anything but exist, You Are Still Magical.
Thank you. I needed to see this.
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Just got a reading from Kitten!
I recently purchased a reading from Kitten of Kitten’s Emporium, and I just have to sing her praises!
Firstly, Kitten is an absolute joy to deal with: her energy is fantastic, she’s a great communicator, and she is a truly great card reader.
I pretty much gave her nothing to work with, and she gave me my exact situation and the forces at work. Events since the reading have further confirmed her accuracy. She’s really amazing.
If you’re looking for a true tarot card reader and an all-around great person, I highly recommend going to Kitten’s Emporium and purchasing a reading.
Disclaimer: I am not associated with Kitten in any way (except as a customer), and this review is completely unsolicited. I have not received any payment in any form. I am just providing an honest review here because I was so impressed with this reading.
Potter’s Deck Mod Supplies
Here’s another video! I briefly show off the SPN tarot, then talk about the things I use to modify decks.
I mention this video: How to Edge Tarot Cards
If you have any questions, feel free to ask!
Thoughts on keeping a magical book or ‘book of shadows’
I will just call it a ‘book’ for simplicity :)
Here are some of my thoughts on creating and keeping a book. YMMV
Ask yourself what your book is actually for
My book is a tool in my practice. It is meant to inspire me and help me grow. I include things I want to learn or understand better. I add sigils and spelled pages so the book itself is magical and can provide for me when I need it. I write about ethics and morality, and what I believe is important. I also write tips and tricks that seem useful but that I am unlikely to remember. I do not include anything I already know well, because I don’t see the point in writing down information I already know that I will never look up.
Everyone keeps a magical book for different reasons. Ask yourself what yours is for, and use that as the core of your book.
Don’t write your book for other people
Don’t think of your book as being an heirloom that will one day be used to train other witches or be passed down to your children. Think of it more like a school notebook that will help you get to the next level. Very likely by the time you become a mentor or have wee little witchlet babies, your opinions or beliefs will have significantly changed and nothing you are writing down now will be important. Think of your magical book as field notes, not the finished memoirs of your magical journey.
What is the point in stressing over the exact placement of your color correspondences, and spending four hours decorating the pages with utmost care, when three months from now you may discard colors as being unimportant, and six months from now your journal will be full and you’ll need to get a new one anyway? When you are fifty or sixty and have a lifetime of information to share, then such pains would be worthwhile. For now, is the information you copy off the Internet or out of other books really so worthy of all that care and attention?
Don’t rewrite books that already exist
It is a romantic notion to have a tome that explains magic, details how to cast spells, reviews every plant you’ll ever encounter, and has an encyclopedia of spirits and rituals to boot. But creation of such a thing would take months, if not years, of full time work. The good news is that such books already exist, and you do not need to rewrite them. I admire the patience of those who decide to rewrite field guides of plants around the world, drawing their own pictures to boot, but I would much rather pick up a copy of Medicinal Plants and Herbs on Amazon for $6, and save myself months of labor.
To create accurate entries in your book, you will need resources such as these anyway. I understand that not everybody has the resources to collect books, or the privacy to download PDFs of books, or swing by the library whenever they need something on plants or mythology or what have you. But if you do have access to such resources, just buy the book somebody else wrote and save yourself the trouble of trying to replicate professional publications.
I’m not saying that including information from other books in your special book is bad. I am saying that if you intend on writing a full-length publication on plants or animals or magic or whatever, it may be a lot more convenient and helpful to just see if one already exists and buy it.
Things you could include:
Use your book not only as a tool of information, but also as a tool of inspiration. Draw or paint images or symbols that inspire you. Write quotes or passages that instantly take you to that witchy headspace. Try including some of your favorite witchy tasks or actions that always make you feel great.
The steps to take in case of certain emergencies - such as attack from another witch, danger from spirits, different mundane disasters, and so on. During times of panic or stress it can be difficult to remember exactly what can be done to relieve the situation.
Lists of the magical items you have on hand. I create enchanted items like a hen lays eggs and it is difficult for me to remember what I already have. Consider how useful (and satisfying) it would be to have a list of all the enchanted items you have on hand - it would also be easier to think of new things to make or experiment with.
Your current protections, how they were made and what powers them, etc. It is not good to create protections and forget about them. It is also easier to create safe spaces and protect those you love when you can easily see what has already been done.
Self-love magic, or steps to take in case of mental upset. When I am depressed or anxious it can be difficult for me to remember the helpful magical actions I can take to manage my emotions. A page in my book called “Read me if you’re depressed” is infinitely helpful to get back on track.
Mixtures and recipes you are likely to use but unlikely to remember, especially helpful magical baths, cleansers, incenses, teas, or charm bags.
A quick list of the medical dangers of the magical ingredients you own, so you can run through and double-check before you start any magical action. For example, noting that you shouldn’t throw angelite in water and then drink it, or that Valerian root may negatively interact with depression medication, or not to rub cinnamon oil on your skin.
The steps to anything you are trying to learn - such as the steps to enter trance or complete a certain ritual.
Magical actions that will probably be useful to have around or that you would like to try later, such as breathing or gazing exercises, energy work techniques, and alternate forms of things you already do (such as a new way to ground or shield).
Meditations or mental rituals that you can do anywhere, and your experiences with them.
The names and preferences of spirits you have encountered so you can help foster relations with them in the future.
Spells you really enjoy that you are likely to use over and over again in the future, or spells that were really cool that you don’t want to forget.
Writings about your beliefs and paradigms, what you believe magic is all about, and what you believe your place in it is.
Sources. Where did this information come from?
Your opinions. Don’t just include information - include what you think about it. Write about why you like it or don’t like it. Question the information itself. Ask how it fits in to your paradigm and how it could be improved.
Ways to organize your book:
Use an existing method of journaling such as the bullet journal method as inspiration to create and organize your book.
Use a binder so you can rearrange pages to your liking
Don’t use sections at all. If your book has five sections (Plants, Spells, Rituals, Correspondences, Crystals) then I will bet you $10 that you are going to spend a lot of time trying to figure out where to put anything that doesn’t fit neatly in to a predetermined category - and that it will happen a lot. Even worse you may be tempted to disregard or throw away information that doesn’t fit neatly in to your book, simply because adding another section would ruin the ‘aesthetic’.
Try writing in chronological order. In a few months it will be exciting to look back on your progress and see the changes as you flip through the days. If you use an index, you are also not likely to ‘lose’ any information. And there is no need to ever reorganize or worry about where to put what.
Create a clear system of labeling so that when you go to each page you immediately understand what is on it. Sigil is an obvious header. Essay or Musings may be a good way to start off blocks of writing. Numbering each page and adding dates may be very helpful to you as well.
Don’t worry about skipping pages or not having enough room. It is easy enough to write (cont. page 47) and carry on a few pages later. If you have pages left blank, fill them with artwork, pressed flowers, quotes you like… whatever suits your fancy.
No page needs to be totally filled. It is okay to waste space. It is okay to start a page and add to it for weeks, and it is okay to start a page that never gets finished because you don’t need it any more.
It is okay to cross things out, have scribbles, etc. Perfection is not necessary.
Decoration
No book has to be decorated. That’s up to you.
Do what makes you happy. Your pages do not have to be perfectly matched like a team of horses. Some of my pages are written in pencil, others in ink. Others have fancy calligraphy, others are painted. I use cursive or block letters to write depending on how I am feeling.
Write when you feel like writing, and decorate when you feel like decorating. I am usually in one mood or the other. I have pages and pages of undecorated content that I add when I am feeling studious, and when I am feeling creative I go back and add drawings or color.
Getting fancy
Use whatever works for you, but it is good to plan ahead:
Do you want to carry your book around with you? If so, use something that will fit in your bag or purse. A two inch binder is mighty useful but not mighty portable.
If you will be using ink, do some testing to make sure that the pens you have will not bleed or smear on your paper.
If you plan to decorate your pages with paint or watercolor, get an artist’s book or papers that can handle it.
If you plan to be very artsy with your book, decide if lined paper will drive you crazy or not. If you want your pages to be highly organized, grid paper may be the best for you.
My book often acts as a coaster or sits with the art supplies. There isn’t much room in my room for sacred objects. I bought a $3 journal for my book because I didn’t want to deal with the fuss of taking care of a beautiful $50 leather bound Etsy journal. I also didn’t want to worry about ‘ruining’ such a beautiful object with my writing or art. Buy or prepare a book that suits your needs so you do not become a servant to it.
How do Crystals Actually Work?
AKA: The basic science behind crystal-related metaphysics / Information about these semi-precious minerals!
Hello there ~! As a witch and a constant crystal user, I have come across my fair share of skeptics. These people may have even presented themselves to you at one time; claiming that ‘crystal magick’ or ‘crystal healing’ methods are not at all effective or real, and giving you a bit of grief for your crystal usage and beliefs. Well, I’m here to give you a nice long post on the physics and properties of metaphysical stones! I also figured it would be nice to have an explanation post going around for all those who work with stones and crystals, yet have never considered the science behind their energies. Enjoy!
Disclaimer: I feel that this is the type of post that will collect a few comments in my ask, so please be sure to handle any comments/questions you may have with patience, and I will gladly chat with you about the contents of this post! On the other hand, aggressive and/or rude messages will be deleted, if they should reach my message box ~ Thank you
Energy Explaination ◊
Crystals and stones have been treasured and sought after for hundreds of years and used in nearly every culture of the world. Not only are they beautiful, collectable, and make wonderful jewelry or trinkets; but crystals are very powerful subjects for energy movement and manipulation! These precious minerals use a type of energy called
* Piezoelectricity *
Which is a huge factor in why many crystals are commonly used to transmit energy in technology and devices, such as the computer or phone you may be reading this from. Along with the ability to transmit, they can also take in, enhance, or ‘mingle’ with the natural energies from your own body or with the energies of another organism/object to produce a desired outcome!
The chemical makeup of each type of stone determines what exactly it’s own energy will do when combined with a persons’ natural energy, and because everyone has a different energy, this is also the reason why we all have different responses to the energies of varying stones.
For example, although Rose Quartz and Smokey Quartz may both be in the same family of stone, their differences in formation and make-up will act in different ways.
Here are some interesting informational posts that go deeper into crystal energies and makeup:
Pizeoelectricity: What is it?
Scientific Build of a Crystal
Quartz Crystal in Technology
The Natural Forming Process of Crystals - Smithsonian
How Shape Effects Energy ◊
Crystals, not only those used for jewelry, are often cut into specific shapes and sizes for personal use. Among the most common types are spherical/tumbled, pointed, and obilisk ~ And although you might not have considered the shape while thinking about crystal healing, meditation, or magick, it still plays an relatively important role! Here are a list of shapes and their best uses, as known by myself and collected from various sources:
(Cut) Pointed: Best used when energy is meant to be concentrated and strongly ‘pointed’ in only one specific direction. If a stone has more than one point, the energy will also tend to shoot in those multiple directions. (The second portion of this definition also fits for a crystal cluster piece, though those points are naturally formed rather than cut)
Raw/Natural: (Can included naturally pointed) Much like a crystal’s natural and seemingly random shape of growth, the energy of a raw stone will come out in a ‘blotted’ manner, and will most likely be emitted in different directions and frequencies from different areas of the stone, determined by the formation.
Spherical: The energies of a crystal sphere, much like those used for crystal ball scrying and divination, come out in a round and even manner; the smoother and more even the spherical shape of the ball, the smoother the energy will emit. Because it is completely round, energy will emit from all areas of the ball in even amounts.
Tumbled: (Similar to spherical) Crystals and stones that have been ‘tumbled’, or smoothed out - yet not into a sphere, will behave similar to the shape above. Although, because they are not completely round (just ‘soft-edged’) the energy will slightly differ in means of even-ness to that of a sphere.
Obilisk: A stronger version of the (cut) pointed stone, as the bottom of an obilisk-shaped crystal is solidly flat, and allowing for a more ‘grounded’ directional energy. Because these are meant to be displaced standing and pointing upwards, they are best used when energy is needed to be pointed up.
Now that I know these things, what could I do with crystals? ◊
Meditate with them
Create “Crystal Grids” ~ Tutorial post here
Aline and balance your bodys’ natural energy points with crystals (Also known as ‘Chakras’, first introduced in Hindu texts)
Use stones and crystals to create a desired effect or feeling (They can be used for love, physical & mental healing, focus, grounding, balancing, communication, emotional subjects, strengthening mental/metaphysical abilities, cleansing, etc.) ~ List of Crystal Properties (by name)
Create amulets from stones/crystals
Craft them into keychains/pocket keepsakes to carry with you for everyday use (Be sure to take gentle care of softer stones that scratch easily!)
Mixing up a gem elixer (see tips below; some stones are toxic to water)
And many more! While I could not list everything you could possibly do with these treasured pieces of earth, there are likely more options that I have never even explored myself
Extra Crystal Tips ◊
Some stones are toxic to water, and/or may ruin or dissolve when come in contact with it! Click HERE for a list of crystals that do not enjoy water, along with the materials that make them this way
In metaphysics, crystal magick, and technology, quartz is the universal substitute for all stones. Quartz can be physically and technologically programmed with an extremely high amount of data, and can also be programmed with intent for personal, healing, and magickal use. Think of quartz as the ‘empty jar’ of crystals: filled with possibility
When buying stones and crystals online, make absolute sure that you order from someone who a.) has positive and over 10+ reviews, and b.) will be willing to tell you the EXACT measurements and dimensions of the product. Too many online stores will trick you into buying a stone that is smaller than you were led to think upon purchase! I also recommend buying from someone who will provide insurance over fragile crystals possibly broken during shipping
When cleansing them, be sure to choose a method that is best for each type of stone. Some may fade in sunlight, dissolve or ruin in water, react badly with salt, etc. Do your research!
If the chemical makeup of a lab-produced crystal is the exact same to the makeup of a naturally-formed one, the only things that will differ between the stones are the frequency rates of energy they emit (a lab-produced stone would not be as powerful as a naturally formed one), and the energies they contain. Contained energies aren’t so important as the frequencies, as stones and crystals can be “cleansed” (cleared out / turned into a ‘blank-slate’) by multiple methods.
If you are wondering whether or not you have any crystal/mineral stores near you, try searching google maps with the terms “crystal”, “mineral”, or “metaphysical” - as these will usually yield the best results!
After acquiring a stone, it is best to cleanse out the energies that may have been transferred into it by the formation process or by other people handling it
If you feel fatigued, sick, head/body pain, or any sort of discomfort while using a stone for metaphysical purposes (on more than one occasion) give it a good cleanse before further use
Thank you for reading!
I hope everyone learned a thing or two from this gathering of information, and as always, feel free to send me any questions or comments you may have! I’m sure I will think of a few more things to add to this post, so similar to my Witch Types post, I may post updated versions as needed.
Hope you’re all having a lovely day! ◊ Rainy
I would be chaotic neutral…
Neutral Good? How boring is that?
Your soul has fallen to bits and pieces. Good. Rearrange them to suit yourself.
Hermann Hesse, Steppenwolf (via wordsnquotes)