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Guys guys wouldn't it be so GREAT and so awesome to be held and to be messed with and allow yourself to feel vulnerable in the most wholesome way while someone tickles you and you giggle your head off?? But you can't do it because you have nobody to spend time with so you're just sitting there like a lost puppy?? Haha. Ha. Crazy thoughts guys. Merely hypothetical. Yeah...
being a sex-repulsed aroace who likes tickles is so hard to explain. yes I really like tickles and actively have a desire for them 😞 no i do not want sex to be apart of it at all 😞 no i dont get turned on by it 😞😞😞 yes I get viscerally uncomfortable when sex gets brought up 😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞
I can't watch tickling that isn't animated or from some kind of cartoon
rant and explanation below
Because if I search for it online, it's either pron, or it feels too 'personal' to be watching, if that makes sense?
Like even if it is SFW, and it's cuddly, soft, or playful, it feels like it's a moment shared between those people that shouldn't be online for me to see, so I just don't/ can't watch it
But if it's animated and fictional, that somehow makes it so much fluffier and more comfortable to watch.
I think maybe it's because I view tickling as a form of intimacy, not sexual or inherently romantic, but just like- It's intimate, there's got to be a bond or some sort of trust there (for me anyway). That's why I would never let my family tickle me, but I would let close friends.
I've had family try to tickle me and it's like, not only am I mentally uncomfortable with it, but my body straight up is just not ticklish around family. But if it's a close, trusted friend, I just let them because I'm way more comfortable with friends
Just to be clear (again) 'intimate' to me, does not equal 'romantic,' I believe you can be intimate in a platonic way. I know I'm over-explaining but I'm so scared of being misunderstood
But back to my main point, it's so close and personal and trusting that I can't watch other people do it, unless those people are fictional or close to me, because it almost feels like I'm intruding on someone else's moment 💀
I figured I wasn't the only one, but it's so nice to hear it articulated so clearly
The worst part about being in this community for me is by FAR the internalized sort of shame and almost... self-enforced puritanicalism?? Like, this sort of almost obsessive, intrusive-thought esque worry that it makes me "unclean" or weird, so I think that honestly contributes to issues like this a lot, but sometimes it really is just for a small and awkward reason
I think animated mediums just feel less... voyeuristic, sort of? Real media makes me kind of feel like I'm watching someone through a window, but the deliberateness and INTENTION of drawn or animated content makes it feel like it was MADE for my eyes, I'm not just an outside observer. That's why looking at art and content from people IN the community is by far the most comfortable, at least for me personally. I know I'm not overstepping, and there's this almost subconscious bond I feel, knowing that this content is made by someone who likes to make it, and likes when other people enjoy and find value in it.
Sorry for the little bit of a rant, but oh my god it's a perfect intersection of the things I love most (relating to someone else, and getting to make wild psychological assumptions about random phenomena with absolutely no professional knowledge of anything ever)
I LOVE talking about tickle concepts on this website, cuz it's like a middle school sleepover where we're all sitting crosslegged on the floor in pjs and we're all giggly and hiding our faces in pillows but instead of talking about crushes it's tickles
you ever get those insatiable tickle moods where you just HHFGSGVXF€HE726DGSgsgyI$)64:AFDGHSG;;2):)y?>)<(;/(6fwh7ygEJEIUHGhgvjdkGVDfv(:((3)3?2&2&;76,(2?28299:);!gFac!?/7i6fav8(,6@djevyaGvsJDGSYYZV75;2GVEBY(%tckHSVJEKEY5cui?hADHFENSGFxGDBAH?/??/??????!/?/?/?!
need ppl to stop making wiggly finger gestures while explaining things bc I will immediately get distracted and stop processing whatever it is they’re saying
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