Sam's Friendship
~A spell to aid a friend who is too stubborn to ask for help~
What you’ll need
an item of your friend’s, a picture of them, or having your friend present
Two candles, one for you, one for your friend lavender, patchouli, and vanilla incense (partnership, communication and strength)
a memento to remind them they aren’t alone (a picture of the two of you, a matching two piece necklace, a token of some kind.)
(For this one, I used one of those cheesy matching pieces necklaces and gave one half to my friend after we performed the spell)
* Ideally you should ask your friend if it is okay to send them this energy and do this spell for/ with/ on them, though if they’re stubborn enough to not ask for help, that point is moot in itself*
What to do
Prepare yourself and your friend (if they are present), Meditate, shower, ground and center.
Prepare your space, set all the items in place in the work space.
Light your candle, leaving your friend’s unlit for now, light the incense and say “In dark times for others, let my light shine”
Light your friend’s candle with your own and say “And from my flame may yours be lit.”
Set each candle on one side or the other of the memento and say “And let this token stay in your mind, that I am your friend for all of time.” If your friend is present with you, hold hands, both touch the memento and channel your energy, your strength, your wisdom, whatever attribute it is they need, into them. If they are not there with you, do the same but with the token you are going to give them.
Once you feel or you both feel that you have given enough energy or sent them what they need, it is done.
Clean up. Afterwards, celebrate your friendship. Get drinks, get dinner, cook, get coffee, dance, listen to music, just hang out, whatever you like to do that is a positive part of your friendship.
Happy Casting Witches! And best of luck with your friendships!
M.G.
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The Hazel Druid
