Graham Coxon Allegations Masterpost
LINKS TO EVERYTHING ARE BELOW
This is a masterpost of the accusations around Graham and how they came to be. In late Oct/November of 2021 an account with the handle @/britpopabuse showed up on Instagram. The account posted screenshots from a gossip message board about celebrities and several mentioned Graham Coxon as someone they had known as publicly cheating on his wife and kid. Another user claimed that she had been in a relationship with him at one point. Another claim posted separately by coxonexpose, that is less verified, alleged that SA happened between her and Graham.
In each part are videos, images, that were shared with the Blur fandom by whistleblowers (blurhatesme and Britpopabuse), and any relevant information/context. For legal reasons I will be referring to everything as "allegations."
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Part 1 - DMs between one of G's young victims (a fan) and him, in his forties at the time.
Part 2 - Bonebagg aka Scarlett & Mirja, the fans who cover for him. The events that likely led up the move to London and separation. **NOTE: Part two was flagged by tumblr - so reposted**
Part 3 - The Asian fanbase speaking to an uncomfortable moment with Graham and a fan during TMW tour.
Part 4 - Previous Graham abuse whistleblowers of the past years and their context.
Part 5 - Suzy Norman - Graham's response to telling Suzy to "get fucked up the arse" on his forum.
Part 6 - The selfies he sent a lot of young fans
Part 7 - Posts from his wife Essy
Part 7.5 - Post from Essy on being a IPV (intimate partner violence) and Financial Abuse survivor
Part 8 - Graham's stance on John*y Dep*/A*ber Hea*d trial and female DV abuse
Part 9 - The band's response to Graham Coxon's allegations
- The rape allegation (unverified)
- Coxonexpose's post (multiple victims)
- More testimonies from victims
*unverified defined as testimony posted, then poster deleted or went dark after backlash.
**verified defined as there was ongoing communication around testimony.
// BEHAVIOR, INTERVIEWS, SOC. MEDIA //
- Rape joke on Loveline in 1996
- Miki Berenyi claiming Graham threw her down the stairs
- Dr. Dot tiktok talking about Blur's behavior in early 90's toward fans
- Graham's support of transphobe and misogynist Jordan Peterson and Greg Ellis
- Example of Blur's enablement and cover-up when it comes to Graham's behavior
- More screenshots of G's twitter interactions with Blur fans and parasocial grooming definition
- Graham and Parental Alienation Syndrome, Mens’ Rights Activism
// FANDOM REACTION & BACKLASH //
- Reaction from the Blur fandom
- Emails to Eleven Management about allegations that were ignored by Eleven
- Dave Rowntree blocking tweets calling out the band and Eleven Management for not addressing the allegations
/ / RESPONSE TO ALLEGATIONS BEING FAKE / /
- Response/context to Britpopabuse posting that the allegations weren't real on twitter.
As I find more things, I will add them here and mark them in the changelog below.
(Edit:) Fixed some typos/formatting. Added Jordan Peterson support, coxonexpose allegations, and fandom reaction.
(18/12/22): Added part 8, Gra's twitter likes inferring he is a victim of female DV abuse
(27/12/22): Added rape joke on Loveline in 1996
(17/3/23): Added emails sent to Eleven Management about the allegations that received no response
(17/4/23): Fixed some critical broken links to Parts & Testimonies - broken due to Tumblr update and Miki Berenyi claiming Graham threw her down the stairs.
(1/5/23): Added Essy's bio claiming she is an IPV and FA survivor in part 7.5
(4/7/23): Added Dave blocking tweets tagging him about the allegations
(19/7/23): Cleaned up post on rape allegation and added to top.
(10/9/24): Added Dr. Dot's tiktok talking about Blur's behavior toward fans in the early 90's under Behavior/Interviews.
(1/28/25) Added Part 9: the band's response to Graham's allegations
(3/30/25) Added response to Britpopabuse saying allegations were not real. Fixed some format issues.
(9/26/25) Part two was flagged by tumblr so reposted original post. Also added a "who we are" post.
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