Diary of Plus Size Woman

[diaryofplussizewoman]

𝓑𝓮𝓪𝓾𝓽𝔂 𝓢𝓽𝓪𝓷𝓭𝓪𝓻𝓭𝓼 : ᴅᴏ ᴡᴇ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴏɴᴇ ᴏꜰ ᴛʜᴇᴍ?

In a fast moving world, where a lot of people set standards, do we really have to set ourselves to fit in?

A lot of people were criticized and shamed because of this certain Beauty Standard wherein a man or woman should be handsome, beautiful, has nice eyes, perfect nails, cute smile, and so on.

But in reality, all of us has flaws, we have our own fair share of flaws.

Some don't have nice eyes but helped an old lady at the market when she tripped.

Some aren't handsome or beautiful but gave up their seat for a pregnant woman who rode the bus.

Some don't have cute smile but managed to become a doctor.

So you see, not everything in this world is set to follow that Beauty Standard. Not everything in this world needs to have standard as we are flawed fairly and that makes us unique and who we are.

It is good to have certain standards, but if it will change you in a bad way just to be like them, it's not healthy. If that standard changes your heart, its not something that is nice.

A beautiful heart is more attractive than a pretty face.

[diaryofplussizewoman]

Wearing make up makes you beautiful. 💄

Having clear skin makes you beautiful. 💆

Having a curvy firgure makes you beautiful. 🏋️

But having a good heart is really what makes you beautiful. 💖

[littlerewilding]

This 100%

☾✯☮circlingindizziness☮✯☽

[missharpersworld]

[cookie---bear-deactivated202306]

I am so proud of myself. This is my first digital art piece!!! :DDDDD 

[stephaniethewildflower]

[bodylovecakesandfeminsim-deacti]

So Fatphobia is not real? Trigger Warning.

We are the fat couple that got banned from the All-You-Can-Eat restaurant. The owner said we may put the restaurant out of business 

I am the fat little boy who got stuck in the swing. Everybody laughed at me.

I am the fat teen girl who wants a boyfriend. Why can’t I find a boy who appreciates fat girls?

I am the fat man who had to buy two seats on an airplane. I felt discriminated against because everybody could buy one seat while I had to buy two.

I am the fat teen boy who cries everyday at home because of all the name calling and bullying I get at school.

I am the fat girl who got told by a boy he did not want to be friends with a fat girl like me. What did I do wrong?

I am the fat girl who cuts herself to lose the fat out my body.

I am the fat girl who starves herself to be skinny because everybody makes fun of me for being fat.

I am the fat boy who is made fun of in the street by bullies.

I am the fat man who got rejected a job for being too fat.

I am the fat teen boy who wants a girlfriend. Can’t girls not appreciate a fat boy?

I am the fat man who got surgery rejected because I am too fat. What’s my size got to do with saving my life?

I am the mother who slapped her 10 year old son in public for pointing at and making fun of a fat lady. Her size is nobody else’s business but her own.

I am the fat woman who got made fun of for eating a meal in a restaurant by other people. I also got watched and my picture taken by creepy people. Can’t I enjoy a meal in peace like everybody else?

I am the fat woman who got told she can’t have kids due to her size. This broke my heart.

And you’re telling me there is no such thing as fatphobia?

[the-middle-eastern-feminist]

Body positivity matters. Inclusion matters. Non interference in people’s health and body choices matters.

[femestella]

Art: @artbymoga

[lockscreenhis]

girl power

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[the-middle-eastern-feminist]

Body positivity matters. Inclusion matters. Non interference in people’s health and body choices matters.

[diaryofplussizewoman]

#STAYCONFIDENT

Every girl has a different story on why they are different to other girls.

Believe me or not, staying confident is NEVER an easy thing for me.

I often get compared.

I often get asked what happen to me.

I often get those stares whenever I go out.

When I was on my Elementary - High School Days, I tried to lose weight.

I ate healthy stuff.

I tried to cut down my food intake.

I tried not eating anything.

I tried going to gym.

I tried taking weight loss pills.

But from the moment I started doing those, I knew they were not for me and that made me feel really bad.

I mostly wear clothes that hide my body from everyone.

Long and dark colored pants and baggy shirts.

And I lost my self confidence around that time.

Then, I entered College. I was exposed to alot of people.

Different shapes.

Different colors.

Different personality.

Different beliefs.

People with different opinions.

From there, I asked myself, what is my opinion? What is my stand on this matter? What am I believing in?

And there, I knew this girl hiding from long and dark colored pants should no longer be hiding.

She should be seen.

She should be heard.

She should be someone who would give hope to other girls out there who feels bad about themselves.

I started to be confident about myself.

I wore shorts, I wore one piece swimming gear, I wore two pieace swimming gear.

I wear anything I want.

And now, it is something that I want to share with other girls out there who is still hiding on those pants and baggy shirts.

Don't be afraid to wear what you want.

Don't be afraid of what other people may say because it's normal, people will criticize you but that shouldn't stop you there.

Don't be afraid to express yourself.

Stay confident.

[pastelpiggyprincess]

Don’t body shame! My body isn’t yours to judge it’s mine and mine alone

[museofstars]

Αν δεν αλλάξουμε οι ίδιοι την νοοτροπία μας δεν θα καταφέρουμε ποτέ να αλλάξουμε την νοοτροπία του κόσμου για μας.

[femestella]

[femestella]

[luunaxrose]

Follow me on snapchat : itskodaok

Stop body shaming! Everyone is different no matter the size

[diaryofplussizewoman]

YAAAAAAAS!