PDA in Japan vs. America
For my last blog post in the series of discovering and discussing the traditional practices between Japanese and American cultures, I bring you the ideology of PDA (Public Display of Affection) in public between Japan and American cultures.
Though Japan has no real rules not allowing physical intimacy in public like some other countries do, they still frown upon the sight of it. You will most likely not see couples share long hugs, cuddling, or kissing in public. They do not do these things because it can make other people very uncomfortable. Hand holding is seen between friends and sometimes young couples. So instead of there being laws against public affection, Japanese culture relies on people giving unapproving looks in hopes the people get the hint and stop what they are doing. Showing affection in public in Japan is seen as distasteful. These unsaid laws go for travelers and tourists as well, they are not immune from the glares people will send their way if caught showing public affection.
In America, the scene is quite different. It is very normal to see people embracing each other deeply, couples holding hands while walking, or even people kissing while in public. According to a study done in 2014, Americans do not feel comfortable with all forms of public affection, however, they are definitely more likely to be okay with most, such as the three examples given prior.
As I have learned in my Cross Cultural Psychology class, the United States is seen as independent people and those of Asian countries, and in this case Japan, are more interdependent. Leaning more independent means those people seen themselves being unique, free, individual, and equal. To be interdependent, those people seen themselves as relational, similar, rooted, and ranked. These characteristics come up in both Japanese and American cultures and as well as the topic for this blog post, Public Displays of Affection. Since Americans feel as though they are mostly free and individual spirits or people there is nothing stopping them from acting as they see fit in public areas. They want to standout and choose their own path, so listening to societal norms such as those that Japan has, is not in their wheelhouse. In opposition, people in Japan want to fit in, follow the right or societal way to do things, as well as keeping calm. It makes sense for Japanese culture to condemn public displays of affection simply because it can make other people uncomfortable, and it is not the way things are done in Japan. People would rather follow the rules than potentially offend someone or cause a disruption in their culture.
Neither the Americans or Japan are right or wrong in this incident. They have two very different cultures, and it makes sense that they would have differing views upon the topic of public affection.
https://today.yougov.com/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2014/01/10/no-petting-please-were-american
https://www.mybucketlistevents.com/cultural-differences-between-us-and-japan/









